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Most negotiations fail not because of what’s said — but because no one is truly listening. In this Negotiation Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, we explore why listening is the most underrated — and most powerful — skill in high-stakes conversations. Drawing from crisis negotiation, law enforcement, and business leadership, this episode brings together elite experts who reveal how strategic listening uncovers hidden interests, exposes deception, defuses tension, and creates breakthroughs when talks feel stuck. You’ll discover why the best negotiators talk less, ask better questions, and use silence as a tool — not a weakness. From reading emotional cues to earning trust without giving up leverage, this masterclass shows how listening transforms conflict into clarity and pressure into progress. If you want better outcomes, stronger relationships, and more control in difficult conversations, this episode will change how you listen — and how you negotiate. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it.

What if the secret to winning negotiations, building a powerful brand, and creating lasting influence isn’t doing more — but getting clearer? In this Negotiation Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian brings together three expert perspectives to reveal how top performers win the long game through clarity, focus, and strategic cooperation — not complexity. You’ll hear how creative leaders turn alignment into leverage, how credibility and composure shape personal brand in high-stakes moments, and why the strongest brands (and careers) are built by choosing focus over noise. From negotiation tables to boardrooms and creative industries, this episode breaks down what actually creates long-term power. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why clarity beats cleverness in negotiation and branding How personal brand is forged under pressure The role of creative cooperation and strategic positioning Why saying no is often the fastest path to influence This isn’t about winning a single deal — it’s about building authority and trust that compound over time.

Why do intelligent, high-performing people freeze during tough conversations? In this powerful episode, Dr. Tracey Marks—renowned psychiatrist and YouTube creator—breaks down the neuroscience behind emotional regulation and explains how to stay grounded when it matters most. Want to master communication under pressure? This conversation is a must-watch if you’ve ever walked away from a high-stakes talk thinking, "Why didn’t I say that?" You'll learn exactly what’s happening in your brain when stress takes over—and how to take back control. Connect with Tracey Traceys Youtube Channel Tracey's Website: markspsychiatry.com

In this episode, Nick Glimsdahl, Director of Contact Center Solutions at VDS and Podcast Host of Press One For Nick, discusses overcoming suspicion using a unique framework. ⁠Request a Custom Workshop For Your Company⁠ ⁠Get Free Access to Over 15 Negotiation Guides⁠ ⁠Press 1 For Nick Podcast⁠ ⁠VDS: Contact Center and Customer Experience Solutions⁠ ⁠Follow Nick on LinkedIn⁠ ⁠Follow Kwame on LinkedIn⁠ Kwame Christian with Nick Glimsdahl Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything

Preparation isn’t optional — it’s the difference between hoping a negotiation works and knowing it will. In this special Negotiate Anything masterclass, Kwame Christian brings together three powerhouse perspectives to explore one deceptively simple skill that separates average negotiators from exceptional ones: preparation. From public speaking coach Mariana Swallow’s practical framework for audience-focused readiness, to real estate CEO Jody McLean’s high-stakes lessons from multimillion-dollar deals, to groundbreaking research proving that preparation measurably improves outcomes, this episode shows why “winging it” is the fastest way to lose leverage. You’ll discover: Why knowing your content is not the same as being prepared How audience recon and emotional readiness shape persuasion and trust What elite negotiators do before the conversation ever starts How preparation boosts confidence, ethics, and long-term results If you want to negotiate with clarity, confidence, and consistency — whether in the boardroom, on Zoom, or in everyday conversations — this episode is your blueprint. Preparation doesn’t just improve negotiations. It transforms them. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything

Your biggest negotiation obstacle isn’t the other person — it’s the voice in your head telling you to play small. In this Negotiation Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, we tackle one of the most invisible yet destructive forces in high-stakes conversations: self-doubt. Through powerful stories and perspectives from leaders across industries, this episode reveals how hesitation, fear of failure, and internal criticism quietly sabotage confidence, decision-making, and outcomes. You’ll learn how top performers push forward even when confidence is shaky, why emotional setbacks don’t mean you’re failing, and how resilience — not certainty — is the real advantage in negotiation and life. From rebuilding momentum after a loss to trusting your instincts under pressure, this masterclass reframes self-doubt as a signal — not a stop sign. If you’ve ever held back, second-guessed yourself, or wondered whether you’re truly ready for the next big opportunity, this episode will give you the mindset shift you need to move forward anyway.

Winning in real estate has less to do with price — and everything to do with how you negotiate. In this Negotiation Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian brings together three real estate experts from vastly different markets to reveal how elite negotiators win when competition is fierce and the stakes are real. You’ll hear how top residential agents win bidding wars by setting expectations early, building trust fast, and positioning offers so effectively they beat higher prices. You’ll learn how luxury brokers use pricing psychology and instant credibility to create leverage in cutthroat markets—and how commercial negotiators play the long game, where emotional discipline and reputation drive success over decades, not just deals. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why trust and authenticity outperform tactics How pricing is negotiation strategy How to manage emotions in high-stakes deals When walking away strengthens your position How elite negotiators build reputations that compound over time Whether you’re in real estate, sales, or leadership, this masterclass will change how you negotiate when pressure is high and competition is relentless.

What do you do when the person across the table isn’t just tough—but openly hostile? In this episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian welcomes back attorney and negotiation expert Jamie Lieberman, Esq. for a practical deep dive into managing hostile negotiators and navigating high-conflict conversations without losing your composure — or your leverage. Jamie breaks down why difficult negotiators trigger such strong emotional reactions, how to prepare for those moments before they happen, and the mindset shifts that allow you to stay calm while others escalate. Together, Kwame and Jamie explore how to build rapport when the other side seems unwilling, how to gather and use information strategically when facts alone aren’t enough, and how to change the dynamic from adversarial to collaborative — even when the other party is interrupting, bullying, or refusing to engage productively. Packed with real-world legal examples and actionable tactics, this episode equips you to protect your interests, reclaim control, and negotiate with confidence under pressure. If you’ve ever dreaded a conversation because you knew the other person would be aggressive, dismissive, or impossible to deal with, this episode will change how you approach tough negotiations for good.

What if the hardest conversations you’ll ever have are the ones that define your leadership? In this powerful episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian sits down with real estate investor and entrepreneur Liam Leonard for a raw, unfiltered conversation about delivering bad news with empathy — and making decisions that hurt in the short term but serve everyone in the long run. As market volatility forces Liam to shut down an entire business division, he walks us through the mindset shifts, board-level conversations, and emotionally charged employee discussions that tested him as a leader. You’ll hear how confidence can become a liability, why being persuadable is a leadership superpower, and how grounding tough decisions in the best interest of others transforms painful conversations into purposeful ones. This episode is a masterclass in navigating change, embracing failure, and leading with clarity when there’s no easy way out. If you’re facing layoffs, restructuring, or any high-stakes conversation where emotions run high and the right answer isn’t comfortable, this is an episode you can’t afford to miss.

Negotiations don’t fall apart because of bad tactics — they fall apart when emotions go unmanaged. In this Negotiation Masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian explores why emotional intelligence is the real difference-maker in high-stakes conversations. Through three expert perspectives, you’ll see how self-awareness, emotional control, and empathy shape outcomes long before strategy ever comes into play. You’ll learn how to regulate your emotions under pressure, read others more accurately, build trust before conflict, and avoid the costly mistakes that come from emotional blind spots. This episode shows why the best negotiators aren’t just skilled communicators—they’re emotionally disciplined leaders. If you want to negotiate with clarity, composure, and long-term influence, this masterclass will change how you approach every difficult conversation.