A Thin Line Between Hurt and Homicide: The Murder of Officer Tony Hayes

In this episode, host Steph examines two deeply unsettling true-crime cases that reveal how pressure, secrecy, and fractured relationships can shape devastating outcomes. We begin with the disappearance of Harmahn Smith in 2005, a case that unraveled into a web of complex relationships, community pressures, and the vulnerabilities that young people often carry silently.From there, Steph turns to the world of pageantry and perfection, unpacking the story of Aria Armstead and her boyfriend Nathan Ortiz—a couple whose lives spiraled into darkness, ultimately leading to the murder of Matthew Collins. Through Matthew’s tragic death, we see how competition, identity, and emotional instability can become combustible when amplified by outside expectations and internal turmoil.Together, these intertwined narratives raise critical questions about justice, the roots of violence, and the cultural forces that quietly influence young lives long before tragedy strikes.-----------------------------------------------------------------Congratulations to our giveaway winners!🖤 @kamariadowns3926🖤 @TamTam-z8i-n5x🖤 @lisaberry8443------------------------------------------------------------------

In this episode, Steph explores a real-life case that feels eerily similar to A Thin Line Between Love and Hate — except this story ends in tragedy, not movie credits.When Memphis police officer Tony Hayes goes missing after Labor Day 2006, his family immediately senses something is wrong. Their search leads detectives straight to his girlfriend, Monique Johnson, a corrections officer whose jealousy, heartbreak, and long history of turbulent relationships spiral into violence.As the investigation unfolds, the truth behind Tony and Monique’s relationship comes to light — the red flags, the manipulation, the rage, and the series of choices that ended with Tony’s body found in the trunk of his own car.This episode also revisits Monique’s 2023 attempted murder charges, nearly 20 years later, showing that some patterns don’t disappear with time.----------------------------------------------------------------------🔍 In This EpisodeTony’s disappearance and the frantic search to find himThe toxic relationship between Tony and MoniqueConflicting stories and the evidence that revealed the truthWhy the jury convicted her of reckless homicide instead of murderThe disturbing 2023 arrest involving a new boyfriendHow unhealed trauma can turn dangerous----------------------------------------------------------------📌 Need Help?If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, contact:1-800-799-SAFE | thehotline.org🎄 Season 8 AnnouncementsGiveaway winners announced December 11Holiday hiatus with rebroadcastsNew episodes for subscribers continueFinal episode of the year drops December 19Giveaway winners announced December 11

In this deeply moving episode, we explore the life, loss, and legacy of Ben “Benji” Wilson—the nation’s #1 high school basketball player in 1984 and the pride of Chicago’s South Side.What began as a typical school day spiraled into tragedy when Benji was shot just steps from Simeon High School. We walk you through the events leading up to the shooting, the emotional weight carried by his family and community, and the tense courtroom battle that followed.Beyond the headlines, this episode shines a light on something even more heartbreaking: the systemic failures that played a devastating role in Benji’s death. The outdated EMS policy that sent him to a hospital unequipped to save him became a turning point for the city.We also honor the resilience of his mother, Mary Wilson, whose advocacy helped change Chicago’s trauma response system—and whose strength ensured that Benji’s story would continue to shape futures long after his life was cut short.Benji’s legacy lives on in Chicago gyms, in the #25 jersey worn proudly by generations of players, and in the policy reforms sparked by his tragedy. This story is a powerful reminder of what gun violence steals from families, communities, and the dreams of young Black men full of promise.------------------------------------------------------------------- KeywordsBenji Wilson, Chicago, Simeon High School, basketball, gun violence, emergency response, EMS policy, systemic failure, trial, community grief, Mary Wilson, legacy, youth athletes, Chicago history-----------------------------------------------------------------Key TakeawaysBenji Wilson was a gifted basketball star whose talent and leadership made him a beacon of hope in Chicago.His fatal shooting in 1984 sent shockwaves through the city and became one of the most painful chapters in Chicago sports history.The trial of Billy Moore and Omar Dixon highlighted two competing narratives—and exposed how emotion and public pressure shaped the courtroom.A critical emergency response failure contributed to Benji’s death when he was transported to a non–trauma-equipped hospital.Benji’s tragedy directly influenced Chicago’s EMS reforms, ensuring gunshot victims are now taken to trauma centers.His mother, Mary Wilson, transformed her grief into advocacy, championing policy reform and youth safety.Benji’s legacy continues to inspire Chicago athletes, including NBA stars like Derrick Rose and Jabari Parker.His story remains a powerful reminder of the long-lasting impact of gun violence on families, communities, and generational dreams.Chicago still honors Benji’s influence on basketball culture—and his life continues to shape conversations about safety, justice, and hope.

SUMMARY:In today’s episode, Steph takes listeners deep into one of the most shocking workplace murders in recent history — the Lululemon case. This story follows the lives of Jayna Murray and Brittany Norwood, two women who started life on remarkably similar paths: athletic, ambitious, intelligent, and deeply loved. But as adulthood unfolded, their journeys diverged dramatically.Jayna lived a life full of adventure, discipline, and exploration — from her childhood in Australia to her graduate studies at Johns Hopkins. Brittany, once a standout soccer star with a promising future, quietly battled an impulse she never confronted: a cycle of compulsive stealing that grew more dangerous over time.On March 12, 2011, those two paths collided inside a Lululemon store in Bethesda, Maryland.Listeners will hear:Jayna’s international upbringing, athletic excellence, academic brilliance, and deep devotion to her familyBrittany’s competitive childhood, collegiate soccer career, and the long-standing pattern of theft that followed her into adulthoodA detailed breakdown of the crime scene and Brittany’s initial account of the attackThe investigation’s early focus on an unrelated suspect, Keith Lockett, and how detectives ultimately cleared himThe disturbing inconsistencies that led police to re-examine Brittany’s storyThe emotional second interview, including the pivotal moment Brittany’s brother confronted herThe psychological insight behind kleptomania—why the urge to steal can become an addictionThe truth about the altercation between Jayna and Brittany that nightHow Brittany staged the scene, lied, and ultimately confessedThe heartbreaking details of Jayna’s injuries and the trial that followedThis episode explores:How compulsive behaviors, when left untreated, can escalate into tragedyThe consequences of avoidance, secrecy, and escalating bad choicesThe systemic failure of Lululemon to address repeated employee misconductHow confrontation — especially over conduct long hidden — can trigger catastrophic outcomesThe bravery of Jayna Murray and the life she deserved to continue livingSteph closes the episode with a powerful discussion on how we often trivialize stealing as harmless or childish — when in reality, it can become its own addiction cycle. Brittany’s reluctance to get help or face consequences created a storm she could no longer outrun, and Jayna lost her life because of it. This tragedy stands as a reminder that ignoring patterns doesn’t erase them… it allows them to grow.-----------------------------------------------------------------Giveaway Instructions Subscribe to the Murder in the Black YouTube channel.Choose any video on our channel and leave a comment.That’s it — you’re entered!The giveaway closes November 30th, so don’t wait — jump in now!LINK BELOW⁠https://youtube.com/@murderintheblack?si=cr03m4ITJTzz01qX⁠Sources for This Episode:The Washington Post – In-depth reporting on the Lululemon murder, trial transcripts, and investigative findings.ABC News – Coverage of Brittany Norwood’s arrest, trial, and details surrounding theft allegations and motive.NBC Washington – Local reporting from 2011 including interviews, community statements, and crime-scene updates.The Baltimore Sun – Reporting on Brittany Norwood’s confession, trial proceedings, and sentencing.Montgomery County Court Records – Trial filings, witness statements, and verdict documentation from State of Maryland v. Brittany Norwood

The episode delves into the tragic double homicide of University of Miami linebacker Marlin Barnes and his friend Timwoknika Lumpkins in 1996. It explores the events leading up to the murders, the investigation, and the subsequent trial of LeBrant Dennis, who was eventually convicted. The narrative highlights the impact of the crime on the community and the families involved, as well as the legacy of the victims.--------------------------------------------------------------------00:00:00 Introduction to the Case00:00:00 Background of Marlin Barnes00:00:00 The Night of the Murders00:00:00 Investigation and Suspects00:00:00 Trial and Conviction00:00:00 Legacy and ImpactGiveaway : YouTube : ⁠https://youtube.com/@murderintheblack?si=fY2u5R62-FQkMeIs⁠SubscribeLeave a comment

SummaryThis episode of Murder in the Black delves into the tragic story of Cherica Adams, a young woman whose life was cut short by violence and betrayal. The host, Steph, explores Cherica's early life, her relationship with NFL player Rae Carruth, and the events leading up to her untimely death. The conversation emphasizes the importance of remembering Cherica not just as a victim, but as a woman who fought for her life and the life of her unborn child. The episode also highlights the broader issues of violence and reproductive coercion faced by Black women, urging listeners to advocate for change and justice.Takeaways-------------Cherica Adams was a vibrant young woman with dreams.Rae Carruth's actions led to a tragic outcome.The importance of telling stories with intention.Cherica's legacy is one of courage and resilience. violence disproportionately affects Black women.Reproductive coercion is a form of violence.Cherica's 911 call was crucial evidence.The investigation revealed a conspiracy to commit murder.Cherica's story highlights the need for advocacy.Sandra Adams continues to honor her daughter's memory.--------------------------------------------------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction and Context of the Case01:39 The Life of Sherika Adams05:33 The Relationship with Ray Carruth10:05 The Night of the Shooting13:29 The Aftermath and Investigation14:50 Beginning of Investigation18:18 The Arrest and Trial of Ray Carruth22:32 The Sentencing and Legacy24:25 Chancellor Adams and Sandra's Advocacy25:49 Reflections27:30 trueCrime-outro-high-long.wav---------------------------------------------------------------------Giveaway : YouTube : https://youtube.com/@murderintheblack?si=fY2u5R62-FQkMeIsSubscribeLeave a comment Black and Missing Foundation:https://youtu.be/2Tok8hBJu24?si=E85BTwnpgSkWhlxGKeywordsCherica Adams, Rae Carruth, true crime, domestic violence, advocacy, Black women, reproductive coercion, legacy, justice, community engagement

This episode of Murder in the Black delves into the mysterious disappearance of Relisha Rudd, an eight-year-old girl who vanished from a homeless shelter in Washington, DC. The episode features interviews with Natalie Wilson, co-founder of the Black and Missing Foundation, and Antonio Wheeler, Relisha's stepfather, who share insights into the case and the systemic failures that contributed to her disappearance. The discussion highlights the vulnerability of children in unstable housing situations and the importance of community involvement in solving missing persons cases.----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------PART 1: The Vanishing of Relisha Rudd: A Cold Case Reexamined — Part Onehttps://youtu.be/2Tok8hBJu24?si=8zf3TGzYrDMkFr_pThe Vanishing of Relisha Rudd: A Cold Case Reexamined — Part Two https://youtu.be/uP5eQJDup5k?si=700TnmvO9Uj5NxSeInstagram: @blackandmissingfdn Instagram+1Facebook: @bamfiorg FacebookYouTube: @bamfiorg blackandmissinginc.comBlueSky: @blackandmissingfdn.bsky.social Instagram----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Relisha Rudd, missing children, Black and Missing Foundation, systemic failures, community involvementRelisha Rudd disappeared from a homeless shelter in DC.Her disappearance went unnoticed for 18 days.Khalil Malik Tatum was involved in her disappearance.The case highlights systemic failures in protecting vulnerable children.Community involvement is crucial in solving such cases.The Black and Missing Foundation plays a key role in raising awareness.Relisha's family continues to search for her.The case remains open and unsolved.The episode features raw emotional interviews with family members.The documentary aims to keep Relisha's story alive.-------------------------------------------------------------

SummaryThis episode explores the tragic case of Nailah Franklin, a young woman whose life was cut short by the manipulative and controlling actions of her ex-boyfriend, Reginald Potts. The narrative delves into the choices that led to her disappearance, the investigation that followed, and the eventual trial that sought justice for her untimely death. It highlights the themes of emotional abuse, the impact of truth, and the societal response to missing persons, particularly within marginalized communities.-------------------------------------------------------------------TakeawaysEvery choice we make writes a line in our story.Some choices lead to peace, purpose, and love.Nyla's success became the weapon used against her.Leah leveraged her media contacts to get the story out.Nyla's relationship became a cycle of emotional abuse.Nyla chose the harder path, the courageous one.Truth sets you free, but it can also be deadly.Reginald thought he could control the narrative.The ugliness of Reginald Potts is forever in the open.TakeawaysEvery choice we make writes a line in our story.Some choices lead to peace, purpose, and love.Nyla's success became the weapon used against her.Leah leveraged her media contacts to get the story out.Nyla's relationship became a cycle of emotional abuse.Nyla chose the harder path, the courageous one.Truth sets you free, but it can also be deadly.Reginald thought he could control the narrative.The ugliness of Reginald Potts is forever in the open.Nyla's story is a reminder of the dangers of manipulation.TakeawaysEvery choice we make writes a line in our story.Some choices lead to peace, purpose, and love.Nyla's success became the weapon used against her.Leah leveraged her media contacts to get the story out.Nyla's relationship became a cycle of emotional abuse.Nyla chose the harder path, the courageous one.Truth sets you free, but it can also be deadly.Reginald thought he could control the narrative.The ugliness of Reginald Potts is forever in the open.Nailah's story is a reminder of the dangers of manipulation.True Crime In Current Event :Discussion of Sanya Massey Case and Verdict

In this gripping episode, Steph, explores the tragic story of Keisha Jones — a devoted mother of four whose life took a fatal turn in a single heated moment. What began as a night out in South Philadelphia with her husband Tyrone Taylor, ended in murder, heartbreak, and a life sentence. Through emotional narration and legal analysis, we unpack how one split-second choice devastated two families and left four children without both parents.This episode dives into:Keisha’s early life and identity as a caregiver and motherHer relationship with Tyrone Taylor and the blended family dynamicThe events leading to the fatal incident on November 27, 2011Evidence, surveillance footage, and trial revelationsThe emotional impact of the verdict and the appeals processA powerful reflection on choices, anger, and irreversible consequencesTakeawaysLife is about choices, some small and some life-altering.Keisha Jones was a nurturing mother before tragedy struck.Her upbringing shaped her into a responsible caretaker.The night of the incident was marked by a heated argument.Witness accounts and video footage played crucial roles in the investigation.Keisha's intoxication complicated her defense in court.The trial revealed deep emotional conflicts and family dynamics.The jury's verdict highlighted the fine line between accident and intent.Keisha's story reflects the impact of temporary emotions on life decisions.The case encourages reflection on our own responses to anger and betrayal.Sound Bites"It was a choice, a deliberate act of rage.""Keisha wasn't a career criminal.""We often think tragedies began with evil."

SummaryIn this episode of Murder in the Black, host Steph delves into the chilling true crime case of Brittany Rojas and Nikki Silas, two young women whose dreams were violently cut short in their Harlem apartment. The episode explores the investigation, the suspects, and the emotional impact on the victims' families, while also reflecting on the importance of human connections and the dangers of isolation, as highlighted by the haunting story of Joyce Carol Vincent.true crime, Brittany Rojas, Nikki Silas, Harlem murder, human connection, isolation, Joyce Carol VincentTakeaways:Hold your loved ones close and never miss a chance to tell them you love them.The holiday season can be a time of joy or heartbreak.A landlord's investigation into a leak led to a gruesome discovery.Two young women, both murdered, in a brutal and intimate crime.Nikki Silas was a promising dancer, described as the Black Marilyn Monroe.Brittany Rojas and Nikki Silas were chasing dreams in New York City.Detectives promised the families they would find the killer.Isolation can kill us; connections are essential.Joyce Carol Vincent's story is a tragedy of modern isolation.Speak out against injustice; silence can be complicit.Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Holiday Reflections00:00:00 The Discovery in Harlem00:00:00 Victims' Backgrounds and Investigation00:00:00 Suspects and Theories00:00:01 The Haunting Story of Joyce Carol Vincent00:00:01 Reflections on Connection and Justice