89. Quiet Conversations

Do you just feel like you are the problem in every scenario? I did. For years, I felt like I was just broken. In this episode, I share a very personal reflection on motherhood and what healing that belief actually looked like for me. You can read the blog post here: https://cortney.mykajabi.com/.../whyiloveplayingthehiding... You can sign up for a coaching consultation here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039 and you can join the fb group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/

If all the habit advice out there is true and helpful, why can't you just stick to the habits you want? Because you're missing the piece that actually makes habit change last. In this episode I explain what you need to do first before any other habit hacks and how you can start seeing results today. Ready to finally do what you say you're doing to do? In three months you will have the ability to set goals and achieve them, a framework to center yourself around so you always know what to do, and more confidence in yourself than ever before. Sign up today for a coaching consultation: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039 Ask questions and get feedback in the podcast community Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/?ref=share_group_link

If you are waiting for the other shoe to drop and get anxious when you start to feel happy this episode is for you. You don't have to choose between being a good caregiver and being happy. In this episode I share how being intentional about practicing positive emotions will help you be more present and stop setting yourself up to doubt your happiness. Schedule a coaching consult today: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039 Website: cortney.mykajabi.com Have questions about today's episode? Join the Facebook group and share your thoughts. https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/?ref=share_group_link

Self compassion is the key to growth, long term change, and overall confidence. Practicing self compassion is self care. In this episode I will show you how to do it. I also break down what self-compassion is, what skills are involved in putting it into practice and realistic examples of how you can apply it to your life today. Want to stop feeling overwhelmed with motherhood? if you're ready to step into the confident version of yourself you know exists, but don't know how to get there, I've got you. Schedule a coaching consultation and we will map out what steps and skills you need to achieve your goals and stop feeling stuck. Schedule your coaching consult today: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039 Want to learn more about me? cortney.mykajabi.com  Join the podcast Facebook group for mindset support and how to apply the podcast to your life. Check out the 'Guide' section of the group for a guide that includes ten mindset tools to help you right now. https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/?ref=share_group_link

Do you want to increase your confidence? Change a habit? Feel less dread before an upcoming doctor's appointment? This episode will teach how to do just that. I share two tools how to build your belief in yourself and how to shift your mindset in simple, doable, realistic ways. It's national donate life month register to be an organ donor here:https://donatelife.net Coaching is the best investment you can make. Sign up for a free coaching consult: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039 If you have questions, need support, or want to share how you're applying the podcast to your life, join the Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/?ref=share_group_link

If you have a medical anniversary come up, often times it can be difficult to know what to do with them. In this episode I outline the three things you can do to help yourself work through difficult emotions that arise and what you should know about medical anniversaries. Share with a fellow medial mom that would enjoy this episode. Got questions? Come ask them In our podcast community facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/?ref=share_group_link Ready to take the podcast tools to the next level? Schedule a coaching consult to see how coaching can help you make peace with medical motherhood: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039

In this episode I share about what prevents you from recognizing meeting your needs and practical ways to change how you think of meeting your needs. We dive into how perfectionism is a big hurdle of meeting your needs and how to begin meeting your needs.

In this episode I walk you through the actions I took and the mindset changes that I made to lose twenty pounds. Spoiler alert, the mindset changes were the biggest piece of the weight loss puzzle. Listen in to hear all of the beliefs I had to let go of and the new ones I had to learn. Got questions? Ask in the Facebook group and I'll answer them! https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/?ref=share_group_link Want to know get started on your own weightless journey? Sign up for a coaching consultation and I'll help you: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039

The quiet conversations that you have with yourself are the building blocks to self love. In this episode you'll learn how to engage with your negative self talk and criticism in a simple, easy to implement way. You'll hear multiple examples of how this might show up in your life and how to engage with yourself so that you are building up your self confidence instead of reinforcing negative beliefs. Ready to take the podcast to the next level? Schedule a coaching consult with me for 1-1 coaching services: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039 Check out my website to learn more about me and my services: cortney.mykajabi.com And come join the Facebook group community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/?ref=share_group_link

"Logically, I understand it's not my fault, but I still feel so guilty." If you struggle with feeling guilt, shame, and responsibility for your chid's health condition this episode will be the one for you. In this episode I share why you feel this way, what stops you from feeling better, how to feel better, and where to start. It's packed with amazing information to help you feel less guilty and more confident as a medical mom. If you have any questions don't hesitate to reach out. You can ask anonymous questions in our FB group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/649738829380936/?ref=share_group_link And if you're ready for one on one support so that you can create a relationship with your child's condition that will serve you and benefit both you and your child, come chat with me in a coaching consultation. You don't have to navigate this alone. You don't have to work through these feelings alone. Get the right kind of support and tools to handle medical motherhood. There is no better time than right now. Schedule a consult today: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=24265400&appointmentType=27123039