044. Festive Anxiety: A Survival Toolkit for Christmas (Without Losing Your Mind) | The Johnny Lawrence Podcast

In this engaging conversation, Johnny Lawrence speaks with Jon Prince, a former professional poker player turned mindset coach, about personal development, the role of children as teachers, and the importance of authenticity. They explore the challenges of perfectionism, the significance of vulnerability, and the journey of self-discovery. Jon shares his transformation from poker to coaching, emphasising the power of choice and responsibility. The discussion also delves into the nuances of intuition versus fear, the acceptance of life's uncertainties, and the value of support in personal growth. The episode concludes with practical advice for listeners on embracing their journey and trusting themselves.Takeaways👉 Children reveal where we are not free.👉 Personal development tools can help overcome internal barriers.👉 Authenticity is about being the author of your life.👉 Emotions are messages, not demands.👉 You can learn from every experience, good or bad.👉 Taking small steps can lead to significant growth.👉 Support from others can provide valuable insights.👉 Intuition is spontaneous, while fear is a pattern.👉 Life's challenges can lead to unexpected opportunities.Jon’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theperceptioncoach/?hl=en-gb Jon’s Websitehttps://www.theperceptioncoach.com/ Jon’s Bookhttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Before-Youre-Ready-Procrastinating/dp/1837823375/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2H6TUUW28LOEM&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ci5fajPXXzpIoyK6zLXmYCV_7BYPJ1ZT_wjLdXHHHYGFBVycs80x7hVBuEIIN7Yu6ip1aWVSI1OjRQcHAq8d5ZYZmOCz1rv_Bx6qE8zYewcQMTeEDj61nGwcvWAddySDcBMv6pE6WklP_rkJSQAWAKpO7EVQW1Q2qmR9ieUPdOcrxJdF-rCTu6Ugcn7ZBlz8yz8tYyd9wNh1in7dxQL6BOgqdVIEpN8tI7s_a_daOng.qKk8WzwpcNTb8LP2lsiuhs4yxd6X0OTwNIKxgnDoOGk&dib_tag=se&keywords=jon+prince&qid=1767128859&sprefix=jon+prince%2Caps%2C163&sr=8-1 Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit 

In this podcast episode, Johnny Lawrence discusses the emotional challenges many face during the Christmas season. He provides a survival toolkit to help listeners navigate family dynamics, manage triggering questions, and maintain their mental health. The conversation emphasises the importance of self-care, mindfulness, and finding joy amidst the chaos of holiday gatherings. Johnny encourages listeners to set boundaries, let go of resentments, and reach out for support, ultimately reminding them that taking care of oneself is paramount during this time.Takeaways👉 Christmas can be magical for some and hell for others.👉 Family dynamics can reopen old wounds during the holidays.👉 Prepare answers to triggering questions in advance.👉 Letting go of resentment is a form of emotional maturity.👉 Mindfulness helps keep you grounded during overwhelming moments.👉 Having something to look forward to can provide motivation.👉 Connection with understanding friends can ease stress.👉 Joy is essential and should be prioritised during the holidays.👉 You don't have to engage in every family argument.👉 Taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can do.Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit 

In this powerful episode of The Johnny Lawrence Podcast, Johnny opens up about his transformative experience at a “Healing the Father Wound” workshop facilitated by renowned teacher Donna Lancaster. He explores how unresolved childhood trauma, the parent wound, and unmet emotional needs shape our adult behaviour, relationships, and sense of self-worth.Johnny dives deep into the impact of the father wound on personal development, the importance of grieving lost childhood experiences, and how suppressing early pain can influence our identity and life choices. Through honest reflection, he highlights why compassion for our inner child is essential for emotional healing, self-leadership, and breaking generational patterns.This episode is a powerful guide for anyone navigating childhood trauma, seeking inner healing, or looking to reclaim their future with courage, truth, and self-awareness. Whether you're on a journey of emotional growth or supporting others through theirs, this conversation offers insights that can help you reconnect, release, and rebuild.Takeaways👉 I never grieved the loss of a childhood.👉 The parent wound is created when a child doesn't receive something they needed.👉 Healing the parent wound isn't about fixing the past, it's about freeing the future.👉 Healing can change your relationships and self-talk.👉 I became addicted to escape from my emotions.👉 The child inside us doesn't grow up, we just become adults.👉 Healing the parent wound is the most courageous work a person can do.👉 Compassion towards oneself is essential for healing.👉 We must take care of the child inside us. Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit 

In this episode, Johnny Lawrence sits down with integrative therapist and mental health advocate Francesca Rawlinson from Frankie’s therapy for a deep and honest exploration of attachment styles, emotional patterns, and the hidden forces shaping our relationships.Whether you struggle with toxic relationships, emotional triggers, or simply want to understand yourself better, this conversation offers powerful insights rooted in real experience, compassionate guidance, and psychological understanding.Takeaways👉 Early experiences shape your attachment style, and it influences your relationships today.👉 Awareness of emotional patterns helps you make healthier choices.👉 Understanding others’ perspectives leads to better communication and connection.👉 Parts work gives you a framework to recognise and regulate emotional responses.👉 Authentic storytelling (like Frankie’s) creates relatable and powerful mental health content.Frankie’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/frankiestherapy/?hl=en The Self Love Hubhttps://stan.store/frankiestherapy/p/come-join-my-community-i72ztxrk Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit 

In this episode of the Johnny Lawrence podcast, Johnny reflects on his recent experiences with grief and the importance of taking time to do nothing. He discusses the challenges of stillness in a productivity-driven culture and offers practical advice on embracing moments of intentional rest. The episode emphasises that doing nothing is not laziness but a form of self-leadership that allows for emotional clarity and creativity.Takeaways👉 Grief can impact us physically and mentally, often in unpredictable ways.👉 Doing nothing is a challenge in a productivity-driven culture.👉 Stillness is essential for clarity and emotional well-being.👉 We often confuse motion with progress, leading to burnout.👉 Intentional rest is a form of self-leadership.👉 Scheduling time for nothing can help prioritise rest.👉 Our best ideas often come when we are calm and still.👉 Observing thoughts without judgment can lead to greater self-awareness.👉 Creating pockets of peace is crucial for mental health.👉 10 minutes of doing nothing can significantly impact self-leadership.Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course 

In this powerful episode of The Johnny Lawrence Podcast, Johnny reflects on the three most significant insights he’s learned after five years of being alcohol-free. Sharing openly about his journey through sobriety, he reveals how choosing a life without alcohol has transformed his emotional clarity, relationships, and overall well-being.Johnny dives deep into the transformative power of authentic conversations, explaining how real, meaningful interactions can spark profound personal growth. He discusses how honest communication builds deeper connections, creates a sense of excitement and fulfilment, and supports long-term emotional resilience.Whether you're sober-curious, navigating your own recovery, or passionate about emotional development, this episode offers actionable wisdom, heartfelt reflections, and inspiring insights to support your journey.Takeaways👉 Authentic conversations can be more fulfilling than substance use.👉 Sobriety opens up new avenues for meaningful connections.👉 Real connections can evoke excitement and joy.👉 The quality of conversations can significantly impact emotional well-being.👉 Engaging in deep conversations fosters personal growth.👉 Sobriety allows for clearer and more genuine interactions.👉 Feeling connected in conversations can lead to lasting fulfillment.👉 The excitement from real conversations can be intoxicating.👉 Building connections in sobriety enhances life experiences.👉 Authentic interactions are essential for emotional intelligence.Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit 

In this conversation, Johnny Lawrence speaks with Dan Shrigley about his mission to promote mental health awareness and the importance of connection and purpose in life. Dan shares his personal journey of self-discovery, the values that guide him, and the significance of understanding oneself before building relationships. They discuss the challenges of navigating mental health struggles, the importance of regular connection, and practical steps for fostering deeper relationships among men. The conversation emphasises the need for vulnerability, the role of failure in personal growth, and the S.O.L.I.D. acronym as a framework for building connections.Takeaways👉 Dan's mission is to prevent mental health struggles like those faced by his father.👉 Self-discovery is a journey that evolves over time.👉 Values such as adventure, autonomy, and relationships are crucial for personal fulfilment.👉 Knowing yourself helps in building authentic relationships.👉 Men often struggle with vulnerability due to societal expectations.👉 Failure is a part of growth and should be embraced.👉 Connection is essential for mental health and well-being.👉 Regular check-ins with friends can prevent deeper mental health issues.👉 The S.O.L.I.D. acronym provides a framework for meaningful connections.👉 Daily-ish efforts in self-care and connection are sufficient. Dan’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/danshrigley/?hl=en Shoulder to Shoulderhttps://shouldertoshoulder.carrd.co/ Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit 

In this powerful and thought-provoking episode, Johnny Lawrence explores the true meaning of self-worth and the dangers of constantly seeking validation from others. He breaks down how the opinions and judgments of people who disrespect us often stem from their own insecurities, fears, and emotional wounds, not from our truth or value.Johnny encourages listeners to shift their focus inward, prioritising personal growth, self-healing, and emotional independence over external approval. By learning to validate ourselves and recognise our own worth, we can break free from the cycle of people-pleasing, self-doubt, and low confidence, and instead live with authenticity and inner peace.This episode is perfect for anyone on a self-development, mental health, or emotional empowerment journey who wants to build confidence, strengthen self-belief, and find freedom from external validation through self-leadership.Takeaways👉 You don't need the approval of anyone who disrespects you.👉 Their opinion of you reflects their own insecurity.👉 The people who see your worth will never make you fight for it.👉 Let them underestimate you; focus on your own growth.👉 Healing and building a life doesn't require validation.👉 One day you'll realise you were never beneath them.👉 Stop kneeling to those who don't recognise your worth.👉 Your self-worth is not defined by others' opinions.👉 Focus on doing the real work of self-improvement.👉 Recognise your value and embrace it without seeking approval. Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit 

In this episode, Johnny Lawrence dives deep into the psychology of procrastination, exploring why we delay action even when we know what we want. He breaks down the emotional and mental barriers that keep us stuck — such as fear of failure, perfectionism, and self-doubt — and shares practical strategies to take that crucial first step toward progress.Johnny highlights the power of starting small, showing how lowering your expectations and focusing on small, consistent actions can help you build momentum, motivation, and self-confidence over time. This episode is packed with insights for anyone wanting to stop procrastinating, improve productivity, and take control of their life through simple, sustainable change.Whether you’re working on personal growth, self-development, or trying to overcome mental blocks, this episode will help you shift your mindset and lead yourself with clarity and purpose.Takeaways👉 If you are genuinely struggling with something and you're procrastinating.👉 Let's lower the bar a little bit.👉 Be strategic about how we're going to deal with this specific problem.👉 You don't have to do the whole thing.👉 Just do the first thing.👉 Your only job is to start.👉 Momentum creates motivation.👉 Start small to build confidence.👉 Overcoming procrastination requires a shift in mindset.👉 Taking the first step is crucial for progress.Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit 

In this episode, Johnny Lawrence speaks with Liz Ellery, a former fashion designer who has transitioned into web design and education. They discuss Liz's journey into web design, the importance of authenticity in branding, and how to connect with audiences through personal storytelling. Liz shares her unique approach to web design, emphasising intuition and emotional connection, and offers insights on how to present oneself online effectively. The conversation also addresses the challenges of pricing services and the importance of establishing trust through consistent branding.Takeaways👉 Liz Ellery transitioned from fashion design to web design, focusing on helping clients establish a strong online presence.👉 Authenticity is crucial in branding; it helps create a genuine connection with the audience.👉 Intuition plays a significant role in Liz's web design process, allowing her to capture clients' energy and personality.👉 Crafting a website involves understanding the client's goals and values to create an authentic representation of their brand.👉 Personal branding should reflect one's true self, not just a polished image.👉 Storytelling is essential in branding; sharing personal experiences can help build trust with potential clients.👉 Pricing services can be challenging, but it's important to charge what you're worth based on the value you provide.👉 Consistency in branding across all platforms builds trust and credibility with the audience.👉 Clients often struggle to articulate their value; working with a designer can help clarify their messaging.👉 Liz's course, 'Designer Life You Love,' focuses on aligning business goals with personal values for authentic success.Liz’s Websitehttps://www.elizabethellery.com/ Liz’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/elizabeth_ellery/ Websitewww.johnnylawrence.co.ukJohnny’s Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/theselfdevelopmentcoach/?hl=en-gb The Slavey of Addiction Documentaryhttps://youtu.be/8j3Nq_lcFlY?si=6I0kXppX9prFFoin The Self M.A.D.E. Coursehttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/course The Self M.A.D.E. Life Audithttps://www.johnnylawrence.co.uk/self-made-lifeaudit