Single, Not DEAD

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when your ex’s new girl reaches out to you for answers, you decide to help her, and somehow YOU end up getting betrayed? Yeah, we need to talk. 👀On this episode of Joty Kay Uncut, I'm spilling the tea on a situation I knew was coming. From toxic relationships and love bombing to the same patterns repeating with different women, we're getting into ALL of it.I never wanted to be involved in my ex's new relationship, but part of me remembered wishing someone had warned me about what I was getting myself into. So I decided to do what I thought was right. Let's just say that didn't go exactly as planned.We're talking about girl code, betrayal, manipulation, relationship red flags, and learning when to mind your own damn business.Because sometimes the biggest lesson isn't about your ex. It's about knowing when to stop saving people from lessons they need to learn themselves.Unfiltered stories. Uncomfortable truths. Zero regrets.🎙️ Joty Kay UncutFollow @JotyKay for more conversations, chaos, and unapologetic honesty.Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan Mailin this episode of Joty Kay Uncut, I'm stepping away from my usual personal stories to have a conversation that our communities desperately need.From the tragic killing of Punjabi LGBTQ creator Mad Sandhu to the Cornell 7 sexual assault allegations, we're discussing religious extremism, cultural hypocrisy, victim blaming, consent, and the disturbing way social media has normalized cruelty.As a proud Punjabi Sikh woman, I also share something deeply personal: how my mother taught me to love my religion through compassion, shabads, storytelling, and trips to the gurdwara. And why it breaks my heart to see some people use religion to judge, intimidate, and divide instead of bringing people together.This week's lesson: Just because you have the right to say something doesn't mean you have to say it. And just because someone lives differently from you doesn't mean they're living incorrectly.Listen, reflect, and join the conversation.Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when a wedding weekend turns into an unexpected lesson on love, acceptance, money, and apparently... hygiene? 😂After disappearing for a week, Joty is back with STORIES. From the beautiful chaos of a Punjabi wedding and watching her gay Sikh friend prepare for judgment only to be met with love, to somehow ending up on a spontaneous date with the groom’s brother that went VERY differently than expected.Let’s just say money can buy flights, hotels, and a lot of nice things... but it cannot buy class, chemistry, or basic hygiene. 😭And underneath all the chaos, Joty gets real about why birthdays have always been difficult for her, missing her dad, feeling like a burden, and realizing that sometimes the hardest thing isn’t finding people who love you. It’s learning how to actually receive that love.Come for the wedding tea. Stay for the plot twist. Leave with the lesson. 🎙️Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when “I’ll deal with it later” becomes the way you deal with everything?This week on Joty Kay Uncut, I’m getting into something I’ve recently had to admit about myself: I’m an avoider. When something feels overwhelming, uncomfortable, or gives me anxiety, my first instinct is sometimes to put it off and hope tomorrow’s version of me will magically want to deal with it.But the older I get, the more I realize that the things we avoid don’t disappear. They usually get bigger.I’m talking about where avoidance can come from, how childhood coping mechanisms can follow us into adulthood, and why understanding where a behavior came from doesn’t mean we get to keep doing it forever.Sometimes healing isn’t another motivational quote. Sometimes it’s opening the email, making the call, having the conversation, and finally dealing with the thing you’ve been avoiding.Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan MailThis week on Joty Kay Uncut, I’m talking about what happens when you’ve built a life you’re proud of but still find yourself questioning where you’re going next.After traveling, spending time alone, and watching life happen around me, I started thinking about relationships, friendships, my career, and whether anyone truly understands the life I’ve chosen. I also get real about feeling overlooked in an industry I’ve given so much to and wondering whether I keep fighting for my place or simply stop caring and live my life.I may not know exactly what comes next, but I know one thing: I didn’t come this far to come this far.Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan MailNobody is coming to save you. And maybe that’s exactly what you need to hear.This week on Joty Kay Uncut, I’m talking about taking your power back and realizing that at some point, you have to stop waiting. Waiting for the opportunity, the relationship, the motivation, the apology, or someone else to come along and change your life.I get into starting over, feeling stuck, learning to trust yourself again, and why you don’t have to feel completely ready before you make your next move.If you’ve been feeling behind, lost, unmotivated, or like you KNOW you need to get your shit together but haven’t figured out where to start, this one’s for you.Sometimes the person you’ve been waiting for is you.Love,Joty ❤️Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan MailWhy does society act like a woman’s life is over if she reaches her thirties without the perfect marriage, children, house, and career?In this episode, I talk about how brown society treats marriage like the ultimate achievement and being single like a personal failure. I also share what it feels like to change direction, explore new careers, rebuild your identity, and realize that one chapter ending does not mean your entire life is over.You are still allowed to fall in love, build a career, start over, change your mind, and create a life that actually feels like yours. You are single, not dead.Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan MailMaybe I’m not losing steam. Maybe I’m just tired.After two weeks away, I’m back with a real life update. I’m talking about why trying to be friends with my ex did not work, realizing that public personas are not always what they seem, and the strange reality of going viral while feeling like your career is falling apart.I also get honest about ADHD burnout, doing almost everything alone, trying to build a team, and feeling like nobody understands the vision in my head. Sometimes we convince ourselves that we are lazy, inconsistent, or failing when the truth is that we are completely exhausted.Maybe I do not need to prove that I can do everything alone. I already proved that.Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan MailEveryone wants to be an influencer until they realize it's a business.In this episode of Joty Kay Uncut, I'm pulling back the curtain on what it's really like to build a career online. We talk about the myths of social media, why going viral doesn't guarantee success, the pressure to constantly create, comparing yourself to other creators, and why I'm focusing on building multiple income streams beyond content creation.If you've ever thought becoming an influencer was easy, or if you're building something of your own, this conversation is for you.In this episode: Why followers don't automatically equal money  The reality behind brand deals  The pressure of staying relevant  Going viral vs. building a real career  Why creators need multiple income streams  Advice I wish someone gave me when I started If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who's chasing a dream of their own. ❤️Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.

Send us Fan MailI woke up to a completely fake rumor that spread across social media, and somehow it ended up changing everything. In this episode, I break down what actually happened, how quickly people believed a made up story, and why social media has become so comfortable treating rumors as facts.I also talk about how this unexpected situation led me to reconnect with my ex, gave me a different perspective on our relationship, and reminded me that not everything online deserves your energy. We get into internet culture, outrage, double standards, and why some of the biggest plot twists in life come from the situations you never saw coming.Sometimes the rumor is fake. The lesson isn't.🎙️ Follow the podcast for new episodes every week.Support the show🎙️ Follow Joty Kay:Instagram: @jotykayTikTok: @jotykaySnapchat: @jotykay💌 Join the Joty Kay Insider newsletter for behind the scenes stories, life updates, and exclusive content.🎧 Enjoying the podcast? Be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps more than you know.New episodes every Friday.