Hating Yourself Doesn't Work

All good things come to an end…This was a hard one to record. I wanted to overthink my decision. I have been trying to force something that I knew in my heart wasn’t what was best for me. I wanted someone to tell me what to do and how to do it. I definitely tried to overthink what to say, but ultimately, I knew that if I didn’t do what I knew I needed to do and just get it out there, I would not be serving you to the fullest.If you want to stay connected, be sure to join my email list: https://theboldlogic.com/dailydeciderLAST CHANCE! Get on a call with me before the end of the year! https://theboldlogic.com/clarity-call-4560

In the decision lab right now, I have women who are tackling a whole host of things…Parental relationships.Posting on social media.What to wear.Feeling unworthy of love.Hating ourselves to be better.Spoiler alert… Hate and judgment of yourself are never going to get you anywhere!!All of these things impact our lives and, therefore, directly impact our decision-making patterns.They compile. They add up. They influence every part of our life. So what do we do about it?Get on the waitlist for the next round of The Decision Lab.https://nextbestdecision.com/waitingSchedule a free call to gain clarity on your decision-making patterns today. https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/healingcall

I am guessing most of you know, or assume you know, who I voted for. We all feel passionately about who we voted for and why.  At this point, everyone has big feelings, so let's be kind.Now that the election is over, I have several concerns, the most immediate being that we take a minute to make decisions that are in alignment with who we are and not made in haste driven by anger, joy, rage, excitement, pain, or entitlement.What we saw happen last election season with the white house being stormed was unacceptable, and I really hope we find it within us to be examples of taking the higher ground. This doesn’t mean we don’t have a voice. It means that we show up in ways that prove who we really are and what we stand for.We do this by not suppressing whatever feelings we are currently having, but by acknowledging those feelings in safe places.But how do we do that?!  Where do we start?!Schedule a free call with Jessica here! (https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/healingcall)If you want to commit to clarity and movement forward now, claim a 1:1 coaching session now before they are gone! Click here to schedule! (https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/one-on-one-coaching-call-clone)

Know a decision needs to be made but not sure what decision to make? I got you boo.It feels like a lot when we know a shift needs to happen in your life but don’t know what exactly to do.  You may feel stuck, overwhelmed, and insecure. You may feel unworthy or undeserving of the thing that is calling to you. Whatever it is that you are feeling, this episode is going to help you see it, acknowledge it, and start moving forward.In today’s episode, I will be sharing 5 things to be aware of to get you the clarity you are looking for.Want more?! Let’s go!!!Schedule a free call with Jessica here!If you want to commit NOW and get things moving asap! Claim a 1:1 coaching session now before they are gone! Click here to schedule!Whatever option you picked above, click here to add on the BOLDology journal. It will help you track the five points talked about in this episode.

When the decision means releasing your identity and stepping into a new one, today I am sharing four things that feel scary about making a decision that feels like it is requiring us to release an identity we have been carrying.Join the BOLD Diggers Membership and get the Holiday Boundaries Class for FREE! https://nextbestdecision.com/bolddiggerGet on a free call with Jess! https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/healingcall

Here’s the truth about your procrastination and chronic fatigue…It isn’t because you are lazy.It isn’t because you lack motivation.It has nothing to do with you, your ability to make stuff happen, or your worth, (because you are a badass and nothing can take that away from you).But if you are wanting to understand why you are always feeling tired and constantly procrastinating, this episode is for you. Start 2025 off powerfully with me and a room full of people ready to leave old patterns of decision making behind to embrace a life that feels really freaking good by joining me at the Decision Lab Experience. Code: PODCAST for 25% off. (https://nextbestdecision.com/decisionlabboise) Let’s break down those decision making patterns NOW! Get on a call with me to see how you can. https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/connectioncall

Decision Overload, ie - anxiety, stress, sleepless night, overthinking, the ADHA spiral…  We have all been there and done that. But how did we get there? How can we tell we are in it? How do we pull ourselves out of it? Today I am sharing four ways to get yourself out of decision overload.Start 2025 off powerfully with me and a room full of people ready to leave old patterns of decision making behind to embrace a life that feels really freaking good by joining me at the Decision Lab Experience. Code: PODCAST for 25% off.Let’s break down those decision making patterns NOW! Get on a call with me to see how you can. https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/connectioncall

Your New Year's Resolutions are getting you nowhere because you are doing one or more of these four things. If you want to feel fulfilled and successful next year, start making these shifts now! Spoiler alert: the last one is the basis for all the rest and what is really holding you back.Get on a call with me. YOU DESERVE IT! https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/connectioncallGrab your ticket to The Decision Lab Experience today! https://nextbestdecision.com/decisionlabboise

Creating a life you don't want to leave.If you dread going home.If you are feeling unsafe to feel the feels.If you are powering through until _______.If everything feels overwhelming.Then this episode is for you!Schedule a call with me today, and let's see if a Decision Day or 1:1 Coaching is right for you. These spots won't be available for long, so make that decision and take action now! https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/connectioncallThe Decision Lab in real life will only be 50% off until October 6th! Don't wait another day to take action so you can learn how to make decisions with clarity, confidence, and concision. nextbestdecision.com/decisionlabboise

Do you relate to today's guest? Tamara Hawes Woods is the founder of Cȯcomadre, a career and personal development platform designed to help women who are STARs (skilled through alternative routes) and SEEkers (those who lack skills, education, and experience) to achieve their dreams. She created Cȯcomadre on the heels of a personal and catastrophic financial loss that left her with only $3.59 in her bank account. Tamara experienced firsthand how difficult it can be for a capable, unpaid caretaker who has been out of the workforce to find meaningful work. She created Cȯcomadre to support women who are seeking meaningful work. Most of Cocomadre’s population may have little paid experience that translates into resumed work and needs help to understand how the job market and industries have evolved, what roles are available, and where they would be a fit. Through Cȯcomadre, STARs and SEEkers can engage with the resources, training, and partners who can help facilitate meaningful work and purpose.Connect with Tamara and Cȯcomadre: https://www.cocomadre.com/https/classescocomadrecom/offers/iozc9kqlInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cocomadre.co/Feeling FoMo because you missed the very last BOLDly You Retreat?! Take the sting out of by signing up for the first ever in person Decision Lab. Get your ticket for 50% off for a limited time only. Claim your spot at nextbestdecision.com/decisionlabboiseWant support NOW?! Get on a call with me to see if you are a good fit for a Decision Day OR 1:1 coaching with me! Schedule your call here: https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/connectioncall