For Better Or For Chores

Who’s cooking dinner, who’s handling the finances, and who knows what time the kids need to be picked up? Roselyn Sánchez and Eric Winter are getting into who does what in a marriage — and how those expectations get set in the first place. In Episode 3 of Season 3 of He Said, Ella Dijo, Ros and Eric explore traditional gender roles and how they compare to the everyday reality of their relationship. From household responsibilities to planning trips and managing the kids’ schedules, they talk through what it means to share a life and everything that comes with it. Growing up in Puerto Rico and the U.S., what did each of them learn about being a husband or a wife? They reflect on the examples they grew up with, the traditions they wanted to keep, and the expectations they wanted to leave behind. The conversation also turns to what they thought would matter in a marriage versus what actually does. How do priorities shift when you become parents? What does fairness look like when both people have careers? And how do you make sure you’re supporting each other as your lives change? Want more of Ros and Eric? Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe so you never miss an episode of He Said, Ella Dijo — and send this one to the person who keeps changing the AC. Keep up with us on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube. He Said Ella Dijo is produced in partnership with SickBird Productions.