Your Nervous System Knows with Kathryn Spears

What if burnout isn't a mindset problem — it's a design flaw? And what if the systems you've been performing inside were literally built without your biology in mind?That's not a theory. It's neuroscience. And it changes everything.Kathryn Spears is a neuro somatic practitioner, applied neurology specialist, and international speaker working at the intersection of neuroscience, women's leadership, and organizational performance. In this episode, she joins Erica to break down why the female nervous system is wired differently — and why ignoring that difference is quietly costing women their health, their clarity, and their climb.Inside the Episode:The Hormone Nobody's Talking About: Why the female nervous system runs on oxytocin — not dopamine — and how our hustle culture is actively depleting the one thing women need most to regulate and performThe Design Flaw: How corporate systems, stress responses, and even societal expectations are neurobiologically working against women — and why that's not a personal failureThe Authenticity Tightrope: The subconscious battle between self-expression and connection that keeps women shrinking, people-pleasing, and second-guessing — and how the nervous system is quietly running that whole showThe Mindset Myth: Why meditation, journaling, and positive thinking alone won't break the cycle — and what actually interrupts a stress response at the physiological levelThe 95% Problem: The stat that will make every woman in a meeting quietly nod — and why most leaders think they're self-aware but aren'tState Before Strategy: Why a dysregulated nervous system creates blind spots that no amount of hustle, talent, or ambition can overcome — and what companies are missing by ignoring thisThe Mix Tape Upgrade: Why imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and your inner critic aren't personality traits — they're outdated nervous system patterns playing a 1992 mix tape in 2026Resources & Links:Beyond Your Mindset — Kathryn's website: beyondyourmindset.comKathryn Spears on LinkedInHer Collective — DM Erica for a guest invite to a live session BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if the system you've been navigating was never designed to include you — and now the technology being built on top of it is about to make that permanent?That's not a hypothetical. It's happening right now. And Erica Rooney isn't just naming it — she's doing something about it.This is a solo episode and a bit of a manifesto. Erica pulls back the curtain on why Glass Ceilings and Sticky Floors is evolving — not abandoning its roots, but expanding them. From surviving corporate to influencing what gets built next, this episode marks the moment the conversation gets bigger, bolder, and a lot more urgent.Inside the Episode:The Quiet Shift: Why the biggest evolutions don't announce themselves — they just change how you think, what you tolerate, and which rooms you're willing to walk intoThe AI Gap: Why the leadership gap, the pay gap, and the opportunity gap now have a dangerous new sibling — and why it matters right nowHistory Is the Training Data: The chilling reality of what gets amplified when AI learns from a system that already wasn't built for usFrom Ceilings to Gaps: How Erica's mission is expanding from helping women navigate what exists to influencing what gets built nextThe Her Collective Play: Why the work was never meant to happen alone — and how AI is becoming a practical tool (not a gimmick) inside this communityThe One-Decision Rule: No overhauls. No waiting until you're ready. Just one pivot that compounds into the person you were always supposed to beResources & Links:Her Collective — Erica's private coaching community where strategy meets support. DM Erica directly for a guest invite to a live sessionGlass Ceilings and Sticky Floors (the book) — Erica's foundational framework for understanding the barriers women face in corporateGlass Ceilings and Sticky Floors Podcast — Follow, rate, and review to keep these conversations goingBUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if the "niceness" you were taught as a child is the very thing holding you back from a billion-dollar seat at the table?In this episode of Glass Ceilings and Sticky Floors, Erica Rooney talks with Tracy Nolan, a Fortune 100 executive and Senior Vice President at Humana. Tracy’s journey is a masterclass in breaking barriers—from being one of the few women at an elite engineering school to leading 12,000 people through the historic Sprint/T-Mobile merger. She reveals the subtle "sticky floors" that high-achieving women often miss, like the habit of "hosting" meetings instead of leading them.Join them as they discuss how to stop "man-spreading" your notebooks, the power of being the "only" in the room, and why being called "intimidating" is often just a code word for being effective.Inside the Episode:The Hostess Trap: Tracy shares a pivotal moment at Verizon where she was praised for "setting up the room" rather than her billion-dollar results, and how she learned to stop volunteering for the "office housework."Commanding the Space: Practical tips for shifting your physical presence—from how you carry your notebook to literally "spreading out" at the conference table to claim your right to be there.The "Caring" Competitive Advantage: How Tracy defied medical advice to "stop caring so much" and discovered that leading with heart and vulnerability actually accelerated her climb to the C-suite.The "Only" in the Room: Navigating the pressure to be the smartest person in the room of 21 men, and why over-preparing can actually make you appear less confident.Bitchy vs. Effective: A candid conversation on the double standards of female leadership and why it isn't your responsibility to regulate the insecurities of others who find you "intimidating."Vulnerability as a Tool: Why showing your team your human side—even taking a "mental health break"—creates a safe space for them to do their best work.The Motherly Mantra: A touching look at the universal advice both Tracy and Erica received from their mothers: "This too shall pass."🔗 Resources:Learn more about Tracy’s work with Dress for Success.Connect with Erica Rooney on LinkedIn. BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What happens when the "pinnacle" of your career suddenly disappears?In this powerhouse episode of Glass Ceilings and Sticky Floors, Erica Rooney connects with Dr. Cynthia Bentzen-Mercer, a former Chief People Officer and author of the groundbreaking book Now Near Next. Cynthia reveals the "quiet but costly" mistake high-achieving women make: doing excellent work today without a clear plan for tomorrow.They discuss the "restlessness" that plagues mid-career women and how Cynthia’s own "encore career" was fast-tracked when her C-suite position was eliminated—proving that even at the top, the floor can shift.Inside the Episode:The Restless Reality: Why mid-career women (from ages 28 to 60) often feel bored or stagnant despite their success, and why this is actually a call for self-actualization.The Serendipity Trap: Research shows women often attribute their success to "right place, right time" rather than intentional planning. Cynthia explains why we need to "steal a page from the men’s playbook" and advocate for our own human capital.The "Now Near Next" Framework: * Now: Energizing your self-agency today.Near: The "two-thirds" phase where you chip away at goals in the margins of a busy life.Next: The "one-third" accelerator phase where you hit the gas on your aspirational goals.The Seven-Minute Pivot: How spending just 7 minutes a day—a total of 2,555 minutes a year—on your future can build unstoppable momentum.The 4 P’s Loop: Cynthia’s "cousin" to Erica’s SNAP method for fighting internal barriers:Pause: Interrupt the negative spiral.Protest: Challenge the validity of your self-doubt.Pivot: Turn toward a positive, productive thought.Pray: Enlist your higher power for strength.Playing the Game vs. Being Played: A candid look at corporate politics and the necessity of being visible and vocal about your aspirations so people can "say your name in rooms you aren't in."Key Takeaways:Mid-Career is a Mindset: It’s not about age; it’s about the decades spent on the "hamster wheel" where life is busy and your own growth often takes a backseat.The "Roses" Danger: If your job is going perfectly, that is the exact time you need to be planning your next move. Disrupters are everywhere.Letting Go of the Anger: Cynthia shares a raw reflection on her exit from corporate life, advising her past self to let go of the "how" it happened to preserve energy for the "what’s next."🔗 Resources:Buy the Book: Now Near Next: Move from Professional Serendipity to Intentional Advancement on Amazon.Free Resource: Download Cynthia’s career blueprint at cynthiabentzenmercer.com.Listen More: Check out Cynthia’s podcast, Climbing the Corporate Ladder Without Breaking a Heel.Join the Community: Visit JoinHerCollective.com to connect with ambitious women shattering ceilings together. BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if the glass ceiling you just broke through leads to a room where you aren't even allowed to speak?In this episode of Glass Ceilings and Sticky Floors, Erica Rooney sits down with Elizabeth Webb, author of Made for Magic. Elizabeth shares her raw experience as the first female employee at an all-male company, where she realized that "staying on principle" was actually costing her soul. They dive into the "Pragmatic Goddess" approach to leaving toxic workplaces and how to reclaim a life of soul-satisfying joy.Join them as they discuss the epidemic of exhaustion, why "fun" is a radical act for high-achieving women, and how to stop "blabbing" (numbing out) and start actually resting.Inside the Episode:The Toxic Breakout: Elizabeth’s story of being the "only" woman in the room and the moment she realized her presence was being used as a shield for a culture that refused to change.The Pragmatic Goddess Strategy: A survival guide for the "onlys" who can't leave their jobs yet. Learn why you must put an end date in your calendar to calm your subconscious and stop the feeling that "this is forever."Toxic Toleration: How to recognize when your "righteousness" in staying at a hard job is actually just a mask for martyring your health and energy.Rest vs. Blabbing: Why binging two seasons of a show or doom-scrolling isn't rest—it's numbing—and how to identify activities that actually make you feel alive.Scheduling Joy as Sacred: Why your salsa class or art session should be held with the same "sacredness" as a high-stakes board meeting.The "Fun" Resolution: Following the leadership of a 7-year-old to rediscover the luxury of doing things just because you enjoy them, without turning them into a "productive" side hustle.Reclaiming Hope: How to restart your dreaming process even when you’re too exhausted to remember what makes you happy.If you’ve been "rattling the cage" of a career that doesn't feed your soul, this episode is your permission slip to stop surviving and start creating a life that feels like magic.🔗 Resources:Get the first chapter of Elizabeth’s book for free: madeformagicbook.com.Buy the book: Made for Magic: A Practical Guide from Survival Mode to Soul-Satisfying Joy.Connect with Erica Rooney on LinkedIn. BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if the very traits you’ve been told make you "too emotional" for the C-suite are actually the high-level brain functions required for elite leadership?In this episode of Glass Ceilings and Sticky Floors, Erica Rooney sits down with Melody Wilding, executive coach and author of Trust Yourself and Managing Up. Melody introduces the concept of the "Sensitive Striver"—high achievers who possess a more finely tuned nervous system. She argues that empathy and deep processing aren't weaknesses to be "toughed out," but biological advantages that, when managed with the right systems, lead to unparalleled strategic success.Join them as they discuss how to break the cycle of overthinking, the science of the "empathy neuron," and how to stop being the "single point of failure" by teaching people exactly how to treat you.Inside the Episode:The Biology of Sensitivity: Melody explains the MRI research behind high sensitivity, revealing increased activity in brain regions related to decision-making and the "mirror neurons" that allow us to process emotions more deeply.Deep Thinking vs. Overthinking: Learn the vital distinction between productive problem-solving and the "paralysis by analysis" that stems from trying to optimize for too many masters at once.The "Frustrated Crier" Reframe: A tactical guide for women who tear up at work. Learn how to shift from a reaction of shame and apology to a position of strength by crediting your emotions to high standards and dedication.The "Honor Roll Hangover": Why the "good girl" mentality—saying yes to everything and working harder to be noticed—actually makes you unpromotable in the eyes of senior leadership.Managing Up Strategically: Why influencing your boss isn't about "making them happy," but about reclaiming your own agency and autonomy so you can lead your career from the driver's seat.The High-Low-Hero Ritual: A simple end-of-day shutdown process to close the "mental tabs" in your brain and prevent work stress from leaking into your home life.Setting the Precedent: Melody’s "best advice" on why you must stop being the first to volunteer and instead start teaching people how to treat you by valuing your own time first.🔗 Resources:Get Melody’s free guide: Five Steps to Speak Like a Senior Leader.Buy the books: Trust Yourself and Managing Up.Connect with Erica Rooney on LinkedIn. BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if being "canceled" in the office isn't a career death sentence, but a credential that proves you’re finally playing at a higher level?In this solo episode, host Erica Rooney takes a deep dive into the cultural phenomenon of "girlbossing too close to the sun." Using Taylor Swift’s track Cassandra (and the viral discourse around it) as a backdrop, Erica breaks down the systemic way corporate America punishes assertive women. From the "Horn Effect" to microaggressions, this episode is a guide to navigating reputational bias and reclaiming your power when the system tries to dim your light.Erica shares her own story of how "visibility turned into vulnerability" and explains why your corporate scars are actually the connective tissue that will lead to your biggest breakthrough yet.Inside the Episode:Girlbossing Too Close to the Sun: Why a woman’s climb up the ladder often triggers office politics, shifting the narrative from "effective" to "intimidating" the moment she gains real influence.The 30% Abrasiveness Gap: A look at the Harvard Business Review data showing that assertive women are 30% more likely than men to be labeled as "abrasive" in performance reviews.Reputational Bias 101: Breaking down the Halo vs. Horn Effect—how a single negative perception can overshadow your results and lock you into a past narrative.The Slow Erosion: Why "cancel culture" at work isn't a loud public outcry, but a quiet exclusion from meetings and a 60% microaggression rate that calls women’s competence into question.Connection as Currency: Understanding why women’s job satisfaction drops 20% when they perceive disapproval from peers, and how to break the "sticky floor" of needing to be liked.Matching Scars: Exploring the concept of "common humanity"—the idea that your corporate struggles aren't proof of failure, but a shared experience that builds resilience and community.The Brave Bite Exercise: A challenge to look at your most "canceled" moment and identify the specific lesson that made you stronger.If you’ve ever been told you’re "too much" or been sidelined for the same behavior that gets men promoted, this episode is your battle cry to stop conforming and start leading louder.🔗 Resources:Reclaim your energy and join a community of women who "have been through some shit": DM Erica for a link to Her Collective.Connect with Erica Rooney on LinkedIn.BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if the only thing standing between you and your biggest dream was a decades-old "software update" for your brain? Imagine moving across the world or pivoting your career not because you aren't afraid, but because you finally know how to handle the voice telling you to stay small.In this episode, executive coach and Opposite of Small Talk co-host Danielle McCombs joins Erica Rooney to discuss her upcoming move to London and the science of overcoming mental roadblocks. You’ll learn how to identify your "Saboteurs" through the Positive Intelligence framework and gain practical tools to stay present, even when life feels like a "colossal" undertaking.Inside the EpisodeThe Power of the "Evidence Log": How Danielle’s move from New York to San Francisco 10 years ago provided the "proof of concept" for her leap to London.Updating Your Internal Software: Why our coping mechanisms from childhood (Saboteurs) often become the "sticky floors" of our adult professional lives.The Positive Intelligence (PQ) Framework: An introduction to the work of Shirzad Chamine and how to identify the "Judge" living inside your head.Common Saboteurs for Ambitious Women: A deep dive into the Hyper-Achiever, the Stickler (Perfectionist), and the Avoider.The "Dirt Road" vs. The "Autobahn": Why choosing a new mental pathway feels difficult at first—and how neuroplasticity makes it easier over time.The Toothbrush Challenge: A simple, 2-minute daily habit to build your mindfulness muscle and increase your PQ.The "Mile High" Wedding: A wild, true story of what happens when you take your headphones out and actually stay present in the world.ResourcesTake the Free Assessment: PositiveIntelligence.comConnect with Danielle: DanielleMcCombs.comListen to Danielle’s Podcast: The Opposite of Small Talk BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if the only thing standing between your current role and the C-suite isn't your resume, but your own internal "Good Girl" script? Imagine walking into a high-stakes meeting not hoping to be liked, but fully grounded in the power of your own perspective.SummaryIn this episode, acclaimed executive coach Sara Anderson joins Erica Rooney to bridge the gap between competence and confidence for high-performing women. They dive deep into dismantling the "Good Girl" conditioning and mastering the inner game required to transition into top-tier leadership roles.Inside the EpisodeThe Competence-Confidence Trap: Why hitting your goals often makes you feel like more of a "fake" rather than more secure.The "Want What You Want" Framework: How to reconnect with your own desires to break the cycle of people-pleasing and over-functioning.Dismantling the Good Girl Script: Why the behaviors that made you a great operator are exactly what’s holding you back from becoming a great executive.Option C Thinking: Moving beyond binary choices to find creative solutions for work-life integration.Exposure vs. Exposed: Navigating the biological fear of "getting kicked out of the tribe" when you start taking up space.The Nightmare Scenario Drill: A practical tool to deconstruct the fears that stop you from building your personal brand on platforms like LinkedIn.The Leadership Training Ground: How to view a toxic or "stuck" environment as a masterclass in boundary setting before you make your next move.ResourcesGuest: Sara Anderson, Executive Coach & Leadership ConsultantHost: Erica Rooney, HR Executive & Keynote SpeakerMentioned: The Her Collective Group Coaching BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!

What if you could stop shape-shifting just to fit into a boardroom? Imagine leading with your full cultural identity, history, and brilliance without the crushing weight of burnout or the "invisible wound" of fragmentation. Dr. Christine Coleman joins Erica Rooney to bridge clinical psychology with strategic equity, offering a roadmap for diverse leaders to integrate their whole selves. This episode explores the "Socio-Relational Healing Theory" and provides actionable strategies for moving from survival mode to authentic thriving.Inside the Episode:The Inverted Triangle: A breakdown of Dr. Coleman’s Socio-Relational Healing Theory, which places the relationship with "Self" as the essential foundation for navigating systemic and workplace pressures.The Fragmentation Paradox: Exploring how "code-switching" and minimizing cultural identity functions as a "sticky floor" that leads to burnout and psychological exhaustion for diverse leaders.The "I Will/I Will Not" Framework: A practical boundary-setting exercise designed to help women move from "survival mode" to reclaimed agency by identifying exactly what they are willing to give—and what they are not.ResourcesDr Christine Coleman: https://www.drchristinecoleman.com BUY THE BOOK - Glass Ceilings and Sticky FloorsConnect with me on LinkedInBe a Book Launch Insider!!!My FREE 5x5 Starter Kit for LinkedInFREE WEEKLY SUCCESS PLANNERJoin our Facebook Group! Find me on InstagramCheck out our PINS on PinterestAnd YES - I'm on TikTok!