5552 The Truth About Codependency

In this episode, I explore a caller's struggles with relationships and intimacy rooted in their upbringing in an evangelical Christian household. We delve into their challenges seeking therapy for dating anxiety and discuss the importance of pursuing meaningful connections and developing a clear dating strategy. Emphasizing self-confidence and self-value, we navigate the impact of childhood experiences on dating behaviors and the significance of self-reflection in building successful relationships. Addressing parenting styles and familial dynamics, we examine the effects of fear-based teachings and emphasize the need for open conversations to foster honesty and personal growth. Encouraging the caller to confront past issues with parents and prioritize well-being, we highlight the importance of embracing honesty for future relationships.Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

In this discussion, I explore a woman's belief regarding what successful men seek in a partner, emphasizing the importance of understanding men's innate desire for a suitable mother for their children. Instead of seeking a simplistic partner, men aim to find someone who can effectively nurture and raise their offspring. Choosing a life partner involves complementarity rather than identical traits, with men valuing a partner who prioritizes family and shares similar values for successful child-rearing. The focus is on passing down values and virtues to the next generation, creating a meaningful legacy through dedicated and intentional parenting.Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

In this introspective exploration, we delve into the intricate dynamics of codependency with a philosophical lens, shedding light on the blurred lines between love, pity, and responsibility in relationships. The conversation unfolds with personal anecdotes and reflections, decoding the signs and implications of codependency while emphasizing the importance of establishing boundaries and practicing sincerity in interactions. The host navigates through the roots of codependency, examining how childhood experiences and societal influences shape individuals' tendencies towards seeking validation through others. They underscore the significance of honesty, reciprocity, and communication in fostering authentic connections and challenge conventional perceptions of codependency as a survival mechanism deeply ingrained in human behavior.Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

Friday Night Live 28 June 2024In this episode, I cover a range of topics from relationships to societal issues. I share a comical story about missing ducks and discuss privacy during political incidents. Reflecting on a political debate, I explore cognitive decline and media influence.Responding to listener questions on trauma and relationships, I stress self-awareness and decision-making. I discuss societal challenges like dependence on government aid and the importance of personal responsibility.I also touch on project funding and book publishing, highlighting the need for respectful interactions and thoughtful advice.Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

In this episode, we discussed a caller's concerns about accountability and communication within their marriage, particularly during challenging family events like a funeral. We explored specific instances of arguments and interactions, offering guidance on addressing these issues and modeling positive behavior for their children. The conversation also touched on the impact of parenting styles on family dynamics, focusing on the caller's struggles with anger and yelling. Reflecting on childhood experiences, we delved into the influence of past behaviors on current parenting practices, emphasizing the importance of breaking harmful cycles for healthier family relationships.Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

A question I missed answering 26 Jun 2024..."Hi Stef. wondering if you can give me some advice on how to deal with a situation. My younger brother is about to marry (next April) a giant red flag. 3 months into the relationship, my other siblings and I warned him to get out before it was too late. He didn’t, they moved in together and now have 3 dogs. Now my husband and I are trying to figure out how to tell him we won’t be attending the wedding and do not want to raise our kids around her, and therefore him by association."It will kill my mother with family functions etc."Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

Wednesday Night Live 26 June 2024Stef what are some tips to determine if a company is a good place to work for? did you ever have crappy jobs?any advice for someone who is beginning to take philosophy seriously, and you once described it as walking across the dessert alone. Any advice for such an individual who now finds himself losing relationships?Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022"I'm diagnosed with depression and neurasthenia and it's been like that for at least 10 years. 4 years with official diagnosis. I feel tired most of the time and I'm afraid of doing things because my energy recovers extremely slowly and I need that energy to function in my everyday life."I don't work and I feel like 8h workdays would make my life so miserable that I wouldn't see a point in living anymore because I'm so tired. I have had moments in my life where I'm just so tired that I think "I don't want to live anymore" but I also don't want to die."It's been a little better in the recent months but it's not gone. The doctors haven't been much help so I'm turning to you with my problem. How can I get rid on my neurasthenia and function like everybody else?"

Sunday Morning Live 24 June 2024Fingers crossed I'll be able to join my philosophy family today....quick question for ya Stefan.....Do selfish people even realize when they are being selfish? Do they see the plain truth when it's pointed out to them? why are people so clueless to their selfish acts and how it causes a cascade of events that otherwise could have been avoided....example maybe volunteering their time to help elderly parents out when they are doing nothing..but others have to step in bc they won't volunteer 🤔Stef, I haven’t found a dedicated show or summation on disassociation. Was disassociation/self distraction something you have dealt with? Is it the same as procrastination, which of course you do have a classic solo show on! ThanksHow do you know when people are lying to you?I'm doing a a volunteer work for people who are addicts.How do I sniff out lies and manipulations from addicts to get the medication they want? How do I distinguish between a genuine request or an untruthful one?Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

Friday Night Live Chat 21 June 2024In this episode, I discuss the closure of Toronto's Science Center, criticizing government negligence on infrastructure maintenance and urging a focus on upkeep over new construction. Conversations with callers delve into confronting family alcoholism, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-care. We explore behavioral patterns, emotional honesty, and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in relationships and decision-making.Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022