How To Love Yourself More (From Self-Care To Self-Love) - Ep. 290

Transform Your Intentions Into Reality (In 3 Easy Steps). Hello and welcome to the "In The Moment" podcast with me, Alex Manzi. I'm a coach who has transformed his life from depression to fulfillment and today I explore a powerful framework to transform your intentions into reality using three simple steps. This approach has been a game-changer for me and many others I've coached, including the attendees to my recent retreat in the south of France. Through identifying your intentions, turning them into commitments, and picking systems to get the result desired, you can actually turn an intention you've had forever into an actual reality in your life. But first, we need to understand what an intention is, what a commitment is, and the difference between a hard system and a soft system. Here's a few timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:25 What is an intention? 02:35 Step 1 03:07 Step 2 04:03 Step 3 04:19 What a system does 05:35 Hard systems 06:35 Soft systems 07:51 Example no. 1 09:15 Example no. 2 11:45 Example no. 3 12:35 Recap and conclusions 14:00 Join the community! Twitter /https://twitter.com/iamalexmanzi Instagram /https://instagram.com/iamalexmanzi TikTok /https://tiktok.com/@iamalexmanzi   

The Self Improvement Paradox: When Growth Makes You Feel Worse. Hello and welcome to the "In The Moment" podcast with me, Alex Manzi. I'm a coach who has transformed his life from depression to fulfillment and today I'm going to talk about one of my favorite topics...  the paradox of self-improvement. How can you feel worse if you started your growth journey, and if you're actually making the changes that you need in order to change your life? This is more common than it seems and... yes, it happened to myself as well. That's why we talked about this in depth at my recent retreat "Free Your Mind" in France, with my clients there. And from that discussion here's my reflection for the podcast and all of you here. I'm talking about the "when-then" mindset (e.g., "When I have more money, then I'll be happier"), and the frustration that goes along with it. I talk about settling into a phase where they you may feel complete. While this brings contentment, it can also lead to complacency and a lack of further progress. In general, I've found there are 3 main stages of this process to overcome the self-improvement paradox. Here's some timestamps for you. 00:00 Intro 01.40 Stage 1 - Are you falling into this trap? 04:35 Stage 2 - Where most people settle 07:32 Stage 3 - Overcoming the Paradox 10:39 Join the community! Twitter /https://twitter.com/iamalexmanzi Instagram /https://instagram.com/iamalexmanzi  TikTok /https://tiktok.com/@iamalexmanzi   

Rick Rubin 6 Key Secrets To Unlock Your Creativity. Hello and welcome, I'm Alex Manzi, coach and podcaster, and in this episode of the "In The Moment" podcast I'm going deep into the 6 key lessons on creativity inspired by the legendary music producer Rick Rubin.  Drawing from Rick Rubin’s recent interviews and his book "The Creative Act: A Way of Being," I'm going to share with you my insights to help you unleash your creative potential... and make your work and life better.  I'm going to talk about embrace new experiences, the audience's expectations, the pressure of external validation. And then also: learning and grow from errors, and the trap of the external achievements.  00:00 Intro 01:13 Secret no. 1 - Do you have a creative block? 04:34 Secret no. 2 - The audiences' expectations 07:01 Secret no. 3 - What to do with uncertainty 09:37 Secret no. 4 - The key step to learning 12:49 Secret no. 5 - The question you should ask yourself 15:30 Secret no. 6 - The truth about success By understanding these 6 key secrets, you can unlock and nurture, take care of your own creativity and joy, while living a fulfilling and positive life. Twitter /https://twitter.com/iamalexmanzi Instagram /https://instagram.com/iamalexmanzi   TikTok /https://tiktok.com/@iamalexmanzi   

Transform Your Self-Image: 4 Proven Steps To Change Your Life. One of the things my clients tell me more often is this: "I don't like myself". Or: "I don't like who I've become". In this episode I will take you through a transformative journey to improve your self-image. If you've ever felt stuck with a negative self-view, this video will give you the perfect actionable steps to shift that perspective to one of positivity and self-love. Through my years of depression - and then getting my dream job at the BBC and then working for Spotify... and then leaving everything behind to build my coaching practice to help other people in their lives - I've found what I think are the Key Steps to Improve Your Self-Image. Here's some timestamps for you: 00:00 Intro 03:24 Who do I want to be? 05:53 2nd step to change your self-image 09:02 3rd step to change your self-image 12:11 4th step to change your self-image 17:22 When you take the action you change 19:39 Conclusions and Recap By following these steps, you can transform your self-image from one that holds you back to one that empowers you to live a fulfilling and positive life. Twitter /https://twitter.com/iamalexmanzi Instagram /https://instagram.com/iamalexmanzi  TikTok /https://tiktok.com/@iamalexmanzi    

Mindset Of Elite Athletes: Patrick Mahomes, Kirk Cousins, Marcus Mariota | Quarterback Documentary. Hello and welcome to the "In The Moment" podcast, with me Alex Manzi, your coach, podcaster, and friendly neighborhood mind sherpa!  In this episode I'm going to explore with you the inspiring stories of NFL quarterbacks Patrick Mahomes (Kansas City Chiefs), Kirk Cousins (Minnesota Vikings), and Marcus Mariota (Atlanta Falcons). This is a deep dive of the Netflix Documentary series "Quarterback" tells the inspiring stories about these 3 elite American athletes in their 2022/2023 season.  In particular, I've identified 5 key lessons he learned from these elite athletes, focusing on their mindset, motivation, and practices - not just for football but especially for life, career, relationships, and performance. In this deep dive I will talk about the value of staying focused on the present, focusing on 1% gains, the concept of being anti-fragile, prioritizing what's important, and being part of something bigger than yourself. 00:00 Intro 01:22 A Quarterback's Focus  04:14 The 1% Rule 09:14 Understanding What Makes You Stronger 13:18 What Do You Prioritize? 16:17 Being Part Of Something Bigger Than Yourself Watch the full video to see how you can apply these powerful lessons to enhance your own life and achieve greater fulfillment. My next retreat "Free Your Mind" is on the 3-8 of June in Menton, France. Contact me if you want to know more👇 Twitter /https://twitter.com/iamalexmanzi Instagram /https://instagram.com/iamalexmanzi   TikTok /https://tiktok.com/@iamalexmanzi    

Hello and welcome to the "In The Moment" podcast, with me Alex Manzi, your coach podcaster, and your friendly neighborhood mind sherpa! In this episode I want to explore the difference between self-care and self-love. This is something that comes directly from my journey from depression to finding inner peace and fulfillment, working with athletes, artists, creatives, and entrepreneurs along the way.  What i realized is... self-care is about doing things that make you feel good, like going to the gym, going to the Spa, or to the cinema. While self-love is a deeper mindset of accepting and loving yourself, even through challenging times. It's something I am, more than something I do.  If this sounds interesting, see how you can move from self-care to self-love and how embracing a state of self-love can transform your life and relationships. I'm going to do what I do for my coaching clients: dig into some practical advice on incorporating self-love into your daily routine, and start living a more fulfilling life. 00:00 Intro 00:56 The distinction between Self Care and Self Love 01:24 What is Self Care 03:02 What is Self Love 05:58 The big difference  09:03 There's an overlap 10:04 Conclusions My next retreat "Free Your Mind" is on the 3-8 of June in Menton, France. Contact me if you want to know more👇 Facebook /https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100074152328027 Instagram /@iamalexmanzi   TikTok /@iamalexmanzi    

I've Spent $50K On Self Development... WAS IT WORTH IT? Welcome back to "In The Moment"with Alex Manzi... and yes, as you've read in the title I have in fact spent about 50.000 pounds (about 60.000 in US dollars) in self development in the last 3 years, and in this episode I'm going to tell you all about it. There's a lot of wrong information and misconceptions out about coaches and self development... my experience has been truly life changing. I've started with one coach, the I aded others, and groups and mentors and retreats, to transform my financial situation, but then also my relationship goals, my mental wellbeing, my emotional status. 3 years later... I'm happy to say that I'm exactly where I hoped I would be, I'm living a dream. And I started my own coaching career. So, let me tell you how it works.  00:00 Intro 00:40 I've spent $50K on self development. 03:13 What if they told you... 04:42 Identifying goals. 06:15 What are you lacking? 07:33 Spectating VS Participating. 10:35 Where are you at in life? 11:28 Level of commitment. 13:45 When I started with my 1st coach... 15:14 I've become more... me. 17:07 before all this, I was hiding. 19:19 Conclusions. What do you think? Let me know, DM me at @iamalexmanzi and come join the community

What I Learned From Interviewing 100+ Artists. Welcome to In The Moment with me, Alex Manzi, your friendly neighborhood mind sherpa. This is a special episode of the podcast for me. We're closing soon on 300 episode and I wanted to reflect an all the interviews that I made from 2017 until now. I've interviewed for this pod (that was initially called "The Dreamers' Disease") 100+ artists and creatives and I learned a lot from it. I've had known musicians like Wretch 32, Gabrielle Aplin, Sinead Harnett, Tom Grennan, Sam Tompkins. We've talked about depression, adhd, mindfulness routines, what we pass on to our sons. I've talked to the famous podcaster Dr. Rangan Chatterjee and he remembered the pain of losing his father and how that changed his life. I've even had the pleasure to speak even to Jerome Flynn, which famously portrayed Bronn in the TV show Game Of Thrones, and with him we had a deep chat about acting, art and the struggle of many people living in today's world.  I feel grateful to have had all these amazing interviews here. In this episode I try to recap everything I learned from it.  00:00 Intro 00:49 I started in 2017. 02:33 Everyone has a story.  05:46 Experience of pain. 10:04 Everyone wants the same thing.  14:07 We can bring our dreams to reality.  17:34 People give up. 18:56 Recap and DM me! What do you think? Let me know, DM me at @iamalexmanzi and come join the community

The TRUTH Behind Extraordinary Results. Hello dear listeners, welcome to another episode of In The Moment with Alex Manzi! I'm your friendly neighborhood mind sherpa. I was thinking recently that... most people see some extraordinary results, achievements, and think that they're something supernatural. Out of this world. In fact, extraordinary. I had the same feeling with a friend of mine that recently ran a marathon. To me it seemed impossible. But... is it true? Because I've found out... these extraordinary results are often a result of... very ordinary actions, repeated consistently. Let me explain.  00:00 Intro  00:55 Extraordinary results 01:47 Example no. 1 (marathon) 02:35 Example no. 2 (famous coaches) 04:12 Example no. 3 (clothing business) 05:00 Example no. 4 (relationships) 06:06 Example no. 5 (health) 07:10 My book. "The Search For Clarity" 09:03 ten actions every day What do you think? Let me know, DM me at @iamalexmanzi and come join the community

WAITING VS CREATING: How Embracing Action Has Changed My Life. There's a substantial difference between living while waiting and living with creating. I spent many years of my life waiting. Waiting for something to happen, for my business to grow, for myself to change in someone better. And I was frustrated. Then I understood how creating, action, that is the key to actually changing your life. In this video I'll address different real life examples of what I mean by that.  00:00 Intro 00:55 Waiting Vs Creating 02:08 I spent years waiting 06:29 My business grew from nothing 07:05 The line between waiting and creating 08:20 Frustration Vs Excitement What do you think? Let me know, DM me at @iamalexmanzi and come join the community #selfdevelopment #mentalhealthawareness #lifecoach