The Problem with ‘Soft Life’ in 2025

⭐️ Download your FREE Cringe to Confident Workbook here 👉 https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/ctc0:00 intro2:08 Being cringe is just being vulnerable7:05 The cost of other people10:13 Hyper aware of others and under aware of yourself12:42 Shame vs guilt15:19 Cringe is often just the starting point of authenticity

0:00 intro2:47 Victim Shaming8:27 Scarcity mindset vs Abundance Mindset13:46 We can’t predict what will make us happy19:05 You needing control💡 Sign up to my newsletter : https://christina-aaliyah.com/pages/newsletter📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/💭 join the famdiscord → https://discord.gg/WR9cj5zDfacebook group → www.facebook.com/groups/stopshrinkingstartliving/💬 1:1 coachingwork w/ me → https://calendly.com/christinaaaliyah1/christina-aaliyah-youtube-coaching-call-clone

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0:00 intro2:02 Fear of being average 5:21 Happiness is dependent on comparison12:01 30 as a ‘Finish Line’14:01 The Eternal Recurrence📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/💡 weekly newsletter https://christina-aaliyah.com/pages/newsletter

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0:00 intro1:19 Passion doesn’t fade over time but infatuation does4:25 Passion vs Infatuation8:37 Are you craving connection or craving tension?12:59 Relationship theory vs reality📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/💡 weekly newsletter https://christina-aaliyah.com/pages/newsletter

0:00 intro0:45 Don’t mistake validation for confidence2: 29 What you hide = Where you connect4:59 The Hidden Bridge8:15 The Asset Principle10:39 The value gap13:41 Boundaries are good📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/💡 weekly newsletter https://christina-aaliyah.com/pages/newsletter

0:00 intro02:06 self evaluation05:10 comparison shows you what your triggers are08:14 The Asset Principle13:57 envy is just admiration with an emotional wound💡 Sign up to my newsletter : https://christina-aaliyah.com/pages/newsletter📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/💭 join the famdiscord → https://discord.gg/WR9cj5zDfacebook group → www.facebook.com/groups/stopshrinkingstartliving/💬 1:1 coachingwork w/ me → https://calendly.com/christinaaaliyah1/christina-aaliyah-youtube-coaching-call-clone

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0:00 intro01:00 - What is soft life?02:01 - Vague Sense of self05:29 - Something Bigger Than You06:55 - Chasing External Rewards10:36 - The Price of Chasing11:38 - Dream Jobs Don’t Exist12:13 - Life Will Always Have Struggles14:11 - Building a Self Made Life📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/💡 weekly newsletter https://christina-aaliyah.com/pages/newsletter