With Joe Wehbe

Today we explore a powerful book that offers a rare, intimate look into what it truly feels like to live with dementia. Rather than looking solely at clinical definitions, we discuss the lived experience, the emotional journey, and the profound shift in perspective it offers to families, caregivers, and readers alike.You Must Remember This (2025) by Australian Author, Sean Wilson, follows the journey of Grace, going inside her mind as she struggles to process the world around her through a tender cognitive decline, while mirroring the struggles of the people close to her - present, past, and future.Seans' website: https://seanwilson.net.au/In this video, we discuss:• Key insights and reflections from the book• The human and emotional side of living with dementia• Practical takeaways and empathy for caregivers and loved ones0:00 - Introduction & Why This Book Matters02:15 - Background: Stepping Inside the Mind of Dementia06:30 - Core Insights & The Lived Experience11:45 - Key Lessons for Caregivers & Families15:50 - Final Reflections & TakeawaysIMPORTANT LINKS:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases:https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookInstagram & TikTok: @with_joewehbe

This episode was totally unplanned. My friend and I were mucking around recording a comedy bit, and after, we left the cameras recording while we talked.This is that conversation.In this episode, we explore the deep connection between philosophy, relationships, and human nature through the lens of Anthony DeMello’s teachings on love and attachment. Reflecting on themes from Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, we unpack the subtle societal pressures to settle for status, security, and conformity over genuine authenticity. Whether looking at modern relationships, career choices, or personal philosophies, this grounded conversation examines what it truly means to connect without attachment and live life with intentionality.00:00 - The Medium Is the Message & Everyday Philosophy02:12 - Pride and Prejudice & Why People Settle07:20 - Helping a Friend Through a Breakup & Anthony DeMello19:30 - Genuine Love vs. the “Picture Book” Expectation28:47 - Living from the Inside Out (Escaping the Facade)35:36 - Pain, Suffering & Breaking the Addiction Cycle53:40 - Becoming a Beacon: The Need to Give LoveIMPORTANT LINKS:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases:https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookInstagram & TikTok: @with_joewehbe

Why does The Shawshank Redemption continue to resonate so deeply decades after its release? Beyond a classic prison escape story, it is a masterclass in psychological resilience, the power of friendship, and human dignity.In this breakdown, looking at differences between the film and book, we answer fundamental questions about personal freedom: How do we keep our inner spirit intact when external circumstances feel hopeless? How can we overcome the psychological trap of institutionalisation? And what does Andy Dufresne’s journey teach us about patience, purpose, and reclaiming our lives?00:00 - Introduction & The Core Philosophy of Shawshank01:41 - Differences between the Book and Movie03:20 - Inner Freedom & The Last Stronghold a Person Has07:15 - The Debate on Resorting to Corruption vs. Aiming for Sainthood21:10 - Redemption, Friendship & Final TakeawaysIMPORTANT LINKS:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases:https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookInstagram & TikTok: @with_joewehbe

Why did Anakin Skywalker really fall to the Dark Side—and what does his tragic journey reveal about our own psychology? In this video, we dive deep into the emotional, psychological, and philosophical breakdown of Darth Vader’s origin.Key questions answered in this video:How did early childhood trauma and isolation shape Anakin’s destiny?What is the difference between genuine love and destructive attachment?How did the "Chosen One" ego trap fuel his need for control?What lessons can we apply to our own lives regarding grief, trauma, and letting go?00:00 - Introduction: A Psychological Look at Anakin04:50 - The "Chosen One" Complex & Ego06:16 - Grief, Loss, and the Seed of Vengeance11:40 - Love vs. Attachment & The Path to the Dark Side15:32 - Attachment to Life vs. Accepting Death18:40 - Control and the Flaws of the Jedi Order24:25 - Luke Skywalker: Confronting and Integrating the FatherIMPORTANT LINKS:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases:https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookInstagram & TikTok: @with_joewehbe

In this episode, we explore the hidden religious and psychological symbolism embedded within the Star Wars universe. How the Jedi reflect real-world Zen traditions, how the Force mirrors concepts like the Holy Spirit and flow state, and what Anakin Skywalker’s downfall teaches us about fear, control, and attachment.The discussion dives into the delicate balance between good and evil, the hidden flaws of the rigid Jedi Order, and why enforcing rules without compassion can lead to catastrophic failure.SUMMARY 00:00 - Introduction: Growing Up with Star Wars & Realizing "I Am a Jedi" 02:27 - The Jedi as Zen Figures: Power, Discipline, and Spiritual Orders 05:07 - The Force: Flow State, the Holy Spirit, and the Duality of Light and Dark 11:36 - Anakin’s Fall: Fear, Immortality, Control, and "The Deal with the Devil" 24:08 - The Flaws of the Jedi Order: Rigid Rules, Ego, and the Need for CompassionIMPORTANT LINKS:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases: https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookInstagram & TikTok: @with_joewehbe

Is The Mask (1994) secretly a masterclass in psychoanalysis?While it’s easy to dismiss Chuck Russell's 90s comedy as formulaic Hollywood entertainment, reading between the lines reveals a powerful framework for understanding human behaviour, hidden desires, and the psychological defense mechanisms that skew our daily realities.In this episode, we unpack the character of Stanley Ipkiss to explore how a seemingly mainstream movie perfectly visualizes complex psychological theories. We dive deep into Sigmund Freud’s concept of the Id, Carl Jung’s theory of the Shadow, and the modern crisis of the "Nice Guy" narrative.🔍 QUESTIONS EXPLORED IN THIS EPISODE:Is there a psychological meaning behind The Mask? We break down how the film acts as a literal lens for viewing repressed desires.How does Carl Jung’s "Shadow" concept apply to Stanley Ipkiss? We analyse how the mask serves as an untamed balloon of built-up tension and hidden impulses.What is the difference between Freud’s Id and Jung’s Shadow in film analysis? A look at the psychiatrist character Arthur Newman's on-screen explanations versus analytical psychology.Why do "Nice Guys" actually finish last? We challenge the "nice guy" trope, distinguishing genuine kindness from manipulative people-pleasing behaviors.Is the Mask a part of Stanley’s psyche or a foreign agent? An evaluation of how power and status symbols change an individual's underlying nature.TIMECODES:00:00 - Introduction to the Psyche and The Mask03:13 - Analysing Stanley Ipkiss and Masculine Tropes07:23 - The Discovery of the Mask and Freud’s Id15:43 - Carl Jung’s Shadow and the Personality of the Mask22:47 - Challenging the "Nice Guys Finish Last" Narrative29:03 - Upcoming Book Projects And Other ThingsIMPORTANT LINKS:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases:https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookInstagram & TikTok: @with_joewehbe

Is Superman actually a modern retelling of Jesus Christ? 🦸‍♂️✨Hi everyone! Joe here. Today we dive deep into a fascinating literary analysis of the world’s most iconic superhero. We explore the tragic real-life history of Superman's creators, Jerry Siegel and Joe Shuster—two young Jewish men from Ohio who sold the rights to the character for just $130 in 1938.But beyond the comic book history, there is a deep, unintentional spiritual parallel. From being sent from another world by his father to living among us under a humble guise, the similarities between the archetype of Superman and Jesus of Nazareth are uncanny. Why do human beings consistently look for a savior figure? What does our obsession with superhero myths reveal about the human soul?**Questions Answered in This Episode:**- Is the story of Superman based on Jesus?- Who wrote the original Superman and why did they sell it?- Why do humans need superhero myths?- How does the superhero archetype connect to spiritual figures?If you enjoyed this deep dive, make sure to like, subscribe, and check out the Substack article linked below for more expanded notes!Keep flying, and remember to always keep opening doors for others.#superman #SuperheroArchetype #popculturephilosophy #comicbookhistory #literaryanalysis TIMECODES:00:00 - The Archetypal Superhero03:03 - The Real-Life Origin of Superman06:44 - Why We Need Hero Figures10:12 - The Uncanny Link to Jesus Christ15:02 - Balancing the Human and DivineIMPORTANT LINKS:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases:https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookInstagram & TikTok: @with_joewehbe

How much choice do we have over toxic behaviour? What makes us more authentic, or inauthentic? Do some people just not have an internal mirror to see their own behaviour?In this episode, Luke and I explore transactional mindsets, when we take situations where people could be more collaborative, and instead engage in "us vs. them" dynamics... and explore why that is.This leads us into the Inclusive and Extractive Mindsets - fancy talk for 'Givers and Takers.' Let's see where we end up.JUMP TO WHAT INTERESTS YOU00:00 Mirrors and Reflecting on Difficult Behavior02:12 Reframing the Conversation: Difficult People vs. Difficult Behaviour10:59 The Role of Evolutionary Survival and "Lizard Brain" Triggers13:43 Potential Factors: Upbringing, Genetics, and Situational Narratives16:04 When Does Someone Become Responsible for Their Behaviour?24:53 Core Distinction: Inclusive vs. Extractive Energy Types44:35 Game Theory: Trust vs. Cynicism in Different Environments54:38 Applying Mindsets to Business: Building Trust with Contractors01:21:21 Resisting the "Virus" of Extractive LogicIMPORTANT LINKS:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases:https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookInstagram & TikTok: @with_joewehbe

Financial Anxiety. Is it a natural reaction to high cost of living and unaffordable housing, or is there more to it? Having often wondered about the relationship between these worries and deeper elements, I sit down for an exploration and draw on a few puzzling inconsistencies in the relationship between this type of worry, and personal circumstances. Why do certain rich people have high financial stress? How come many less fortunate people, don’t seem to be as overwhelmed or complain? How much of this stuff, is ego?If we haven’t crossed paths before, hi! I’m Joe Wehbe, an author, podcaster and something of an entrepreneur, who loves to have a bit of a think and exploration. I cross regularly between philosophical wonderings and humor.If you’d like to check out more about me, here’s some useful links:My website: https://withjoewehbe.com/My books: https://withjoewehbe.com/bookMy newsletter, for big updates and articles:See you soon, and keep opening Doors!SUMMARY00:00 The dilemma of financial anxiety02:22 Observations in differing demographics05:19 Questioning the correlation between income and anxiety09:03 Exploring potential roots of financial stress11:07 The phenomenon of rich people with financial anxiety15:48 "Bribing ourselves" to do unfulfilling work

Luke and Joe are back talking about anything but politics. Their latest episode on the podcast, an interesting, everything-on the table exploration of one of society's most perplexing elements.Alcohol.IN THIS EPISODE:00:00 The Ubiquity of Alcohol in Life and Major Milestones06:03 Early Experiences: High School and the Social Pressure to Drink15:49 Drinking and Partying as a Rite of Passage During Travel23:54 Alcohol as a Form of Escapism and a "Crutch" for Stress30:00 The Development of "Alcohol Alter Egos" and Personalities41:12 Balancing Professional Ambition with Social Drinking52:16 The Social Stigma of Not Drinking and Defensive Explanations01:02:40 Final Thoughts: Challenging Alcohol Culture in AustraliaMORE ON JOE:Short Stories, Importat Announcements and Book Releases:https://thedoorman.substack.com/Website: https://withjoewehbe.com/Joe’s Books: https://withjoewehbe.com/book