We Were Fighting Before This

Toast teaches us questionable dating tactics, Yvonne gets way too excited about Worlds, and somehow we end up debating men vs. women. Just another day of arguing about absolutely everything. Sign up for your free trial at ⁠https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 Intro00:34 What We've Been Watching03:00 Love Is Blind04:40 Dating Strategies & Love Bombing10:27 Blind Dates & Family Setups12:50 Yvonne's Worlds Experience15:46 Favorite Teams at Worlds18:42 How DSG Started20:48 Toast's Thoughts on Worlds22:44 Esports Player Salaries24:22 The State of Esports26:48 Cheating in Esports30:04 Women in Gaming36:00 Going to Worlds Finals40:00 What Makes a High-Value Man?42:00 Dating Standards45:12 Are Men or Women More Sensitive?47:04 Loneliness & Emotional Support51:06 Bachelor & Bachelorette Parties53:30 Wedding Experiences57:08 Who Should Pay for Weddings?59:07 The Cost of Being in a Wedding01:02:00 Yvonne's Dating Life01:04:00 Finding Yvonne a Boyfriend01:07:09 Romantic Movies01:10:03 Games We've Been Playing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

 Boo! Halloween is here and we have internet drama to address... Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:04 H3h3 DRAMA  7:25 Ned Fulmer tweet  8:55  Content creator come back from cheating?  10:50 Ludwig and QT wedding drama  13:43 Women getting hate farmed  16:10 The Uber situation  17:10 Yvonne’s thoughts on Leslie  20:15 Toast’s thoughts on speaking up 23:08 If Yvonne was late to Toast’s wedding 25:31 The Scarra situation  28:21 H3h3 podcast staff environment  30:04 Halloween episode! Scary or Haunted?  53:00 Halloween costumes  55:13 Sexy Halloween costumes 56:30 Chelsea’s situation w/ costumes  59:26 Forced to watch the Starwars  1:01:02 Yvonne’s experience with Starwars  1:06:10 Toast likes Chelsea’s fiance  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Pickleball recap, dealing with haters, and should you let friends borrow money?  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:30 Pickleball video thoughts  15:35 Dealing w/ online stalkers  20:21 Being hyper aware as a woman  22:24 Getting pepper sprayed 24:30 Riding in Ubers by yourself  26:11 Yvonne’s Ultrasound appointment  29:25 Seeing yourself in the mirror  31:16 Asking a friend for money  32:10 Toast lending a friend money  36:54 Why Toast pays in group settings 39:11 Why Toast is pissed at his friends 41:20 The Vegas dinner re-explained  45:46 Toast getting upset with an employee 47:35 Calgary trip  49:50 What would happen if Toast did nothing  51:55 Chelsea’s Miami trip  53:57 Toast’s autistic comments  55:32 Women paying for men  1:02:10 Toast’s dating experience with $  1:07:03 High value man? High value woman?  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The big 6 7 episode is here...  Timestamps:  00:00 EPISODE 6 7  1:01 Yvonne’s bday!  3:50 Happier in your 30’s or 20’s?  4:55 Yvonne’s bday present prank  8:10 Scarra’s bday present for Yvonne  10:05 Congrats to DSG!  11:44 Getting affected by comments  13:15 Life of esports player  16:45 Yvonne’s NFL trip  19:40 Reflecting on the bro podcast 21:27 Thoughts on Nate 22:50 Chelsea calls out Nate  24:03 Dissecting Chelsea  28:55 Who’s the biggest ragebaiter in OTV  30:20 How Yvonne feels deals with Toast 32:10 Did Scarra cross the line?  35:01 Crossing the line with friends 37:45 Toast judges Chelsea 40:21 WWFBT book club?  43:35 Raw dogging activities  46:01 Taking business vs first class  49:10 Pickleball video coming soon!  53:16 Blind dating for Yvonne!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The boys take over! A full episode of Toast and Scarra and Nate chatting about life and it's changes and challenges.  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:35 Male friendships  6:01 Men and sports  8:28 DSG wins in Riftbound!  12:01 Toast and Scarra’s thoughts about events 15:12 Scarra’s favorite thing about Chelsea 16:40 Toast “celebrates” Chelsea  21:03 The boys thoughts on Yvonne….  21:22 Why is Chelsea stressed  23:43 Reading mean comments  24:45 Toast’s thoughts on being alone  25:55 Growing up as a man  27:30 Living alone and being ok being alone 32:45 Benefits of being dragged out  34:15 It’s hard to ask for help  37:45 Leaving the door open for others 39:00 Scarra doesn’t ask Toast to hangout  42:44 Being thankful for hangouts  44:47 Trauma dumping on strangers 49:42 You can tell when your friends are struggling  51:00 The Knicks game breakup  54:02 Validating someone’s feelings  56:30 Are men jealous of other men 58:45 Yvonne’s friends that she invites  1:00:35 Toast recognizes he’s hard on Yvonne  1:06:39 Toast wants to be alone but he still cares 1:09:22 Is Leslie and Nate extroverted?  1:12:30 The art of putting together a content friend group 1:17:00 Finding the right balance between friends  1:19:45 Would Chelsea and Toast be friends on the outside?  1:20:10 Chelsea and her brother  1:21:45 Pickleball video coming up!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

 Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on...  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:01 Toast is back in town  4:36 Is life different without Toast?  9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy  10:10 Is Yvonne family?  11:47 Yvonne questions Toast…  13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him  15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast  17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men? 22:02 How many times have we hooked up  24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects  25:30 Has Yvonne ever helped out Toast  29:25 Setting boundaries with fans  32:05 How can Yvonne celebrate Toast more  33:21 AAPI months thoughts 36:00 Toast can’t make it to Yvonne’s BDAY  38:20 Why do asians go to raves?  43:12 Toast and Scarra have the same bday  45:32 Introvert vs Extrovert personalities  46:45 Eating alone at a restaurant  49:50 Chelsea’s alone alot  51:16 Toast likes to sleep on the floor ALONE  54:50 Sleeping in separate rooms  56:34 Who has the higher social battery?  1:01:00 Toast hasn't made a new friend 1:03:21 Chelsea has a friend for Toast 1:05:51 Yvonne’s first date ettiequte  1:08:34 Google-ing Yvonne on the first date  1:10:41 How much $ would it take to be a stay at home mom/dad 1:17:55 Leaving mean comments online  1:20:13 Who’s ragebaiting who??  1:22:30 Playing your attractive cards  1:23:27 Flexing your car  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned... Thanks to our Sponsors: Sign up for your free trial at ⁠https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 intro  1:13 The podcast lives on  3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it 4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne?  5:50 Guys going for the same girl… 8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals  11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10 12:01 Rewatching older clips  13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased  16:35 Fighting women on a public platform  19:22 Fighting men on a public platform  21:42 Yvonne’s rude date  25:02 Creators feeling privileged  27:11 Being direct  30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend 31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member  37:40 What Toast is consuming these days 38:52 Peak OTV days  40:20 Creative rut  44:45 Predicting life  45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball  48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight  53:10 Yvonne’s been working out!  55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball… 57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball…  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes... Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia?8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”?10:38 Does Toast need more backup?12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting??21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong34:25 Team Toast vs Team Yvonne in Singapore36:28 Pickleball + badminton in Singapore37:37 Traveling with Toast’s mom38:58 What relationships have taught us50:21 Dating app openers 51:48 Our upcoming blind dating episode…53:44 Has the podcast affected our relationships?57:02 Outro  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

 Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers.  Sign up for your $1 per month trial at https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again… 2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now? 3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis  5:32 Chelsea on the courts…  7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again 16:04 Being a tennis influencer… 18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life  20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight 21:45 Female allies  25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra?  29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend!  32:27 Are streamers socially awkward?  34:15 Scarra loves pickleball  37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman 49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer  53:12 Intelligent dream woman?  54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh  55:10 Having a close family  1:01:25 Complimenting a guy  1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra  1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship  1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra  1:21:20 Fakefans is back!  1:24:20 The don and the diva…  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other.  Timestamps:  00:00 Intro  1:20 the Fu Siblings!  1:55 Who is Nate Fu 4:54 Toast is being squished… 8:10  Does Toast needs backup?  10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast  11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days  14:35 Nate’s streaming POV  16:25 Being a female streamer  20:40 OTV parties  24:34  Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence  26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii  29:54 The Canceled HyperX Commercial  32:08 Leslie and Nate Discover Similarities  37:49 Leslie and Nate’s 30-Year Estrangement 40:13 Lost Hamster Story  41:46 How Leslie and Nate Reconnect  48:54 Leslie on Being Vulnerable Online  52:04 Yvonne's 4D Movie Date  1:03:56 Nate’s First Time Going Live  1:08:50 Nate Makes Aluminum Trophies  1:12:53 Icing Toast in Calgary Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices