Uncensored with MxTomie

Season 3 is here! We're in a session with Oksana Saville - a pro d*mme with a playful edge and big sister energy. From showing up which g*gs are her favorites to us treating her to her favorite aftercare meal, Oksana opens up about her play style and her journey into this world. Follow Mx Tomie For More Here - FULL UNCENSORED EPISODE ON PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/c/UncensoredwithMxTomie IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie

Hey Mx Tomie fans! Season 3 of Uncensored is FINALLY here! Get ready for a sexier, wilder, bolder, and kinkier Uncensored hosted by Mx Tomie. This season you're going to step into and experience a session with pro domme Mx Tomie. We're going to have some fun while getting know the real and raw lives of our guests. We'll get deep - and we mean deep - and personal, with a little cheeky play in the mix. So strap in, zip up, and behave, you're in for a season of unfiltered conversations, surprising confessions, and unforgettable sessions. Join our Patreon and watch NEW extra-spicy, UNCUT content we can’t air here: Patreon — / @uncensoredwithmxtomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — / @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok — / @uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — / @UncensoredWithMxTomie YouTube — / @uncensoredwithmxtomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — / @mx.tomie.digital TikTok — / @mx.tomie Executive Producer: Bei Wang DP (NYC): Ryan Bender DP (LA): Homero Salinas Cam Op (NYC): William Bishop Cam Op (LA): Gabriel Ovalle, Josh Kuzo Editor: William Bishop Sound (NYC): Seamus Davey-Fitzpatrick Sound (LA): Jesse Lopez Associate Producer: Leyah Rose Production Assistant: Mick Van Seenus

Private parties, rope burns, and a life most people don’t talk about. In this episode of Uncensored with Mx Tomie, Faerie Bruises (Kitten) shares her journey from a conventional path to becoming a traveling model, dominatrix, and artist immersed in NYC’s underground scene. From the moment everything shifted, to navigating community, identity, and what happens when family finds out — nothing is off limits. They dive into polyamory, psychological power, rope, creativity, and the reality behind a lifestyle people often misunderstand. 🎙️ A raw, honest conversation about choosing your path — and owning it. Channels 0:00 – 0:44 — Cold Open & Rope, Pain, and Mom 0:44 – 1:18 — Welcome & Guest Introduction 1:18 – 2:04 — How They Met: The Most Organic Orgy 2:04 – 3:08 — Entering the Poly & Kink Scenes 3:08 – 4:20 — What People Get Wrong About Polyamory 4:20 – 5:11 — Conflict Skills, NVC & Group Chat Chaos 5:11 – 5:55 — Best Group Chat Name: “Spontaneous Bangs” 5:55 – 7:08 — Why ‘Faerie Bruises’? Why ‘Kitten’? 7:08 – 8:28 — From Business School to Going Pro in Sex Work 8:28 – 9:26 — Growing Up in Conservative Oklahoma 9:26 – 12:03 — Being Outed to Her Parents 12:03 – 12:55 — Consent, OnlyFans & Mom Subscribes 12:55 – 14:10 — Advice for Talking to Family About Sex Work & Kink 14:10 – 14:52 — Explaining Masochism: Rope vs Marathons & Spicy Food 14:52 – 15:21 — Hope for Difficult Family Conversations 15:21 – 16:39 — Who She Was Before Kink 16:39 – 17:31 — Petite Powerhouse: Size, Power & Psychological Domination 17:31 – 19:07 — Creating Psychological Panic in Submissives 19:07 – 19:44 — Why Psychological Play Is So Accessible 19:44 – 21:05 — Early Fetishes: Dita Von Teese & Damsels in Distress 21:05 – 22:06 — What Makes a Great Creative Collaboration 22:06 – 23:06 — Rethinking Rope Photography & Private Film at Play Parties 23:06 – 24:13 — What She Loves About Rope: Perversion, Intensity, Play 24:13 – 25:28 — Asia Rope Tour Plans 25:28 – 26:06 — Tomie’s Asia Travel & Kink Curiosity 26:06 – 27:21 — Prompt to Describe a Favorite Rope Scene (Ad Break Intro) 26:21 – 27:20 — Sponsor Segment: Popstar Labs (Volume & Taste Supplement) 27:21 – 30:06 — One of Her Most Emotional Rope Scenes 30:06 – 31:32 — Goodbye Spaces, Closing Dungeons & Ephemeral Moments 31:32 – 32:51 — Intimacy on Camera & Honoring Boundaries 32:51 – 34:09 — Performing vs. Being Real When Cameras Are On 34:09 – 35:01 — Small Cameras, POV, and Trust at Events 35:01 – 36:31 — Misconceptions About Fetish & Kink Modeling 36:31 – 39:04 — Travel Modes: New York Kitten vs. Vacation vs. Adventure 39:04 – 40:30 — Deprogramming the NYC Grind While Traveling 40:30 – 41:24 — Social Battery, Rest Days & Co‑Working with Sex Workers 41:24 – 42:15 — Dom vs Escort: Different Jobs, Overlapping Energies 42:15 – 42:54 — Why She Stopped Pro Subbing 42:54 – 43:50 — Open Call for Pro Subs & Dungeon Overview 43:50 – 45:02 — The Unseen Labor of Running a Dungeon 45:02 – 46:06 — Safety, Supplies & Why Tomie Left a Previous Dungeon 46:06 – 47:03 — The Case of the Missing Foot (Art Theft & Return) 47:03 – 48:08 — Cleanliness, Maintenance & Why This Dungeon Stands Out 48:08 – 48:26 — Transition to Quick‑Fire Round 48:26 – 49:05 — Quick‑Fire: Current Kinks, Size, Shoots, Turn‑Ons & Fears 49:05 – 49:36 — Quick‑Fire: One Word for Her Art & Safe Words 49:36 – 50:13 — What ‘Uncensored’ Means to Her 50:13 – 50:26 — Sponsor Reminder: Popstar Labs (Performance & Volume) 50:26 – 51:13 — Patreon: Where the Truly Uncensored Content Lives 51:13 – 52:02 — Outro & Where to Follow Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/faeriebruises/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, www.popstarlabs.com/mxtomie Use code MXTOMIE with your listeners to get 20% off their first order. 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 53: In this episode of Uncensored with Mx Tomie, we sit down with Dia Dynasty — dominatrix and founder of Femdom Farm — to explore her journey from strip clubs to building a radically different life rooted in power, community, and intention. From mentorship and holistic femdom to rethinking success, land ownership, and alternative living, Dia shares how she’s creating a new model for dominance beyond the dungeon. A bold, thought-provoking conversation on power, identity, and building your own world. Watch the full episode — and head to Patreon for the extended cut. Chapters: 0:00 – 1:02 Intro • Who is Dia Dynasty? 1:03 – 4:41Asian Femdom Lineage, Mentorship & Sisterhood 4:42 – 8:09 From Strip Clubs to Dungeon Life 8:10 – 10:59 First Week as a Domme & the “Point of No Return” Session 11:00 – 13:17Evolving Dominance & Everyday Power Tweaks 13:18 – 20:34 Female Supremacy, Matriarchy & Critique of Patriarchy 20:35 – 26:48 Aligning Dom Craft with Values • Holistic Femdom 26:49 – 35:37An Authentic Scene: Organic DS, Sissy Aesthetics & the Fuck Machine 35:38 – 40:13 Why Femdom Farm? Pandemic, Burnout & Rethinking “Success” 40:14 – 43:22 Finding & Funding the Land • The Vision for Femdom Farm 43:23 – 50:11Amish Neighbors, Gifting Economies & Learning to Give 50:12 – 51:18Pervertible Farmhouse: Hidden Hardpoints & Stealth Kink 51:19 – 56:30 Architecture of Play: Showers, Jails, Asylums & Woods Shacks 56:31 – 57:38 Access, Gatekeeping & How to Visit Femdom Farm 57:39 – 59:05 Quick-Fire Round: Fast Takes with Dia 59:06 – 1:01:35 Outro, Patreon, & Sponsor Plugs Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/dia__dynasty/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, www.popstarlabs.com/mxtomie Use code MXTOMIE with your listeners to get 20% off their first order. 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

A burlesque show breaks out at Shabbat. Paul McCartney needs a private chef. A crypto bro orders body sushi at a private dinner and ends up getting yelled at by a naked woman. Mx Tomie sits down with Chef Tova - the New York private chef behind Sinners Shabbat - after attending Tova’s “Red Scare” kink event. They talk about what happens when food, kink culture, sex work, and sacred Jewish rituals collide. From celebrity clients to chaotic dinner parties, this conversation gets personal, outrageous, and very funny. Subscribe to Uncensored with Mx Tomie - new episodes every Wednesday. Chapters 00:00 – 00:42 Cold Open & Teasers 00:42 – 02:06 Intro: Who Is Chef Tova? 02:06 – 03:26 From Buttered Pasta to Private Chef 03:26 – 04:15 Paul McCartney & Celebrity Clients 04:15 – 05:29 Growing Up Modern Orthodox 05:29 – 06:06 Converts, Race & Leaving the Neighborhood 06:06 – 07:25 Jewish Culture as Vibe & Passover Clarified 07:25 – 10:08 Why She Created Sinner Shabbat 10:08 – 11:14 The First Sinner Shabbat vs Now 11:14 – 13:39 Why Burlesque & Kink? 13:39 – 16:04 Entering Kink Through Private Chef Work 16:04 – 18:01 Sex Workers as Patrons & Art Supporters 18:01 – 21:32 Body Sushi, Crypto Guy & Birth of a Domme 21:32 – 23:30 Modeling vs Sex Work & Fantasy Dinner Game Intro 23:30 – 24:37 Designing a Dinner for Dommes 24:37 – 26:45 Backlash, Politics & Hate Comments 26:45 – 28:40 Who Leaves Hate Comments? 28:40 – 31:00 Responding With Love & Realizing They’re Just Sad 31:00 – 32:05 Hentai Origins: Library Manga Awakening 32:05 – 33:00 Erotica, Manga & What Actually Turns Them On 33:00 – 33:41 Learning to Fantasize About Yourself as Sexy 33:41 – 33:59 Filming vs Presence 33:59 – 35:51 Feral Restraint Kink & Shibari Scene at Sinner Shabbat 35:51 – 37:08 Submissive at Heart, Situational Dom 37:08 – 38:15 Autistic Subs, Clear Instructions & Puppy Play Misfire 38:15 – 39:44 Different Partners, Different Kinks 39:44 – 40:31 Food & Sex: Separate Realms 40:31 – 42:18 Quick-Fire Round 42:18 – 44:26 Patreon, Ads & Outro Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/cheftova/?hl=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, www.visitpopstarlabs.com/mxtomie Use code MXTOMIE with your listeners to get 20% off their first order. 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 51: In this episode, Alex from Bottom’s Digest breaks down the real power of the bottom, sharing practical advice on relaxation, preparation, and communication. From beginner mistakes to myths created by porn, this candid conversation explores pleasure, power dynamics, and how to approach intimacy with confidence and knowledge. Chapters: 0:00 – 2:15 • Intro, Vibes & Meeting Story 2:15 – 3:22 • What Is the Power of a Bottom? 3:22 – 5:40 • Tomie’s Personal Journey With Bottoming 5:40 – 7:56 • First Times, Hemorrhoids & Why Bottoming Shouldn’t Hurt 7:56 – 12:30 • Pegging, Relaxation & Why Butt Plugs Don’t Stretch You 12:30 – 15:06 • Dilators, Lube & Why Silicone Wins 15:06 – 17:46 • Porn Fantasies vs. Reality 17:46 – 20:21 • Dealing With Mess & Choosing Better Partners 20:21 – 23:28 • Why This Work Exists & Calling Out Bad Advice 23:28 – 25:25 • Mid-Roll Ad: Popstar Labs 25:25 – 27:31 • Should Porn Show Prep? 27:31 – 30:03 • Bottoming, Gender, Masculinity & Pegging 30:03 – 32:23 • What Is a Real Power Bottom? 32:23 – 35:33 • Common New-Bottom Mistakes & a Steak-Dinner Horror Story 35:33 – 39:03 • Wild DMs, Shower Enemas & Bent Penises 39:03 – 40:44 • The #1 Question: Douching, Always Douching 40:44 – 42:31 • Prostate 101 & Pleasure Without One 42:31 – 44:20 • Too Small? Curves, Positions & Finger Techniques 44:20 – 45:25 • Biggest Red Flag: Pain 45:25 – 46:12 • Quick-Fire Round 46:12 – 46:50 • Final Advice for New Bottoms & Pegging Subs 46:50 – 48:08 • Closing Ads & Patreon Pitch 48:08 – 48:57 • Outro & Follow Links Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/bottomsdigest/?hl=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 50: We have the legendary Brittany Andrews on Uncensored with Mx Tomie. In this episode, Brittany opens up about what’s allowed her to thrive in the adult film industry for over 30 years — from setting firm boundaries to building real infrastructure behind her brand. She breaks down the business side of longevity, ownership, and why treating yourself like a company is the key to survival. We also discuss today’s creator economy, the millions being made on OnlyFans, and why the adult industry has been ahead of mainstream tech trends for decades. This is a powerful, insight-packed conversation filled with insider knowledge, resilience, and business strategy that applies far beyond one industry. For the extended, uncensored conversation and exclusive content, be sure to subscribe on Patreon. Follow our guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/djbritstar/?hl=en Chapters: 0:00– Opening Advice for s3x workers, resilience 01:11 – Show Intro & Brittany Andrews Legacy 01:50 – How they met 02:27 – From Climbing the Ladder to Lifting Others 04:06 – Longevity 101: Treating yourself as a startup 05:32 – Teams, Systems & Not ‘Trusting People’ 06:32 – The Adult Ecosystem: So Many Ways to Make Money 07:28 – Breaking Down Her Business Branches 08:26 – Content as Long‑Term Asset & Retirement Plan 09:14 – Teaser: Taxes, Audits & The IRS 09:59 – Early Legacy Mindset & The First Dungeon 11:02 – Becoming a Legend by Accident 11:55 – Pre‑MILF Era: Planning for Retirement When Porn ‘Ends at 30’ 12:20 – When Porn Was $70 a Tape & No One Saw ‘Free Porn’ Coming 13:29 – The Sex Worker Survival Pattern: Burn, Rebuild, Repeat 14:36 – Tech Waves: From VHS to AI & Digital Doubles 15:25 – Why Many Sex Workers Struggle to Pivot 15:43 – Spiritual Tool: ‘I Am Willing to Change’ 16:58 – NFTs & Staying Ahead as an ‘Old Bitch’ 17:22 – Teen Hustle: Beauty Supply Job & Early Ambition 18:51 – Self‑Education, Shortcuts & Fake Diplomas 19:10 – Meeting Jenna Jameson in Jamaica (1995) 20:11 – Telling Mom ‘I Want to Do Porn’ 20:38 – Moving in With Jenna & Nikki Tyler 21:24 – The Wild West Era & Whisper Networks for Safety 21:53 – Concrete Safety Advice: ‘Don’t Shoot With Max Hardcore’ 23:09 – Ten‑Year Retirement & The Condom‑Only Era 23:47 – STD, Safety, and Testing Standards 24:53 – Proudly Condoms‑Only for 20 Years 25:21 – Turning Down a Bigger Contract Than Jenna’s 25:49 – Ownership vs. Studio Work: What She Knew Early 26:46 – Managing Other Stars & Discovering They Own Nothing 27:29 – Spreadsheets, 2257s & Treating Content Like Inventory 28:01 – Mocking the ‘Where’s My Test Paper?’ Era 28:38 – From Failed Hollywood Dreams to Intentional Porn Careers 28:54 – Are Today’s Performers Smarter? Absolutely. 30:22 – Starting Today Is Overwhelming 30:26 – From Competing With Porn Stars to Competing With the World 31:16 – Producing vs. Performing: Why Producing Wins 31:40 – Film School: Two Years Producing, One Year Directing 32:18 – Dominatrix Energy in Production 33:11 – ‘Crumble’ & Mainstream Awards vs. Porn Awards 33:59 – Shooting in the Light: From Hiding Sets to Closing Streets 35:16 – Artist or Businesswoman? 35:54 – Being Politically Active in a Punitive Industry 36:13 – You Can’t Please Everyone & Still Have Integrity 37:00 – Boundaries, Mental Health & Long‑Term Survival 38:02 – Standing Your Ground Under Pressure 39:33 – Only You Know What’s Right for You 39:37 – Studio System vs. Independent Millionaires 40:11 – Jewish & Italian Mafia Roots of Porn Money 41:07 – When Women Control the Money 41:52 – Matriarchy, Charity & Men Ruining the Planet 42:20 – Why the Sex Industry Should Be Female/Queer‑Led 42:37 – Porn’s MeToo: From Weinstein to Ron Jeremy 43:13 – If She Could Redesign Porn: Fix the Politics First 43:28 – Why She Loves the Trans Awards (T Awards) 44:23 – Awards, Validation & Mental Health 45:03 – Quick‑Fire Round Begins 50:41 – Episode Wrap & Patreon Teaser Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 49: This week on Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with NYC-based pro dom Amalia Valentine for a wild, smart, and surprisingly funny deep dive into power, Catholic guilt, and kink lineage. From playground dominance and early internet taboos to formal mentorship and building an intentional BDSM practice, Amalia unpacks how religion, psychology, and archival care shape her work today. They talk dom ego (“domitis”), dungeon hygiene realities, censorship moral panics, and why repression never actually kills desire. The conversation also explores the feminist sex wars, kink history, and sex work decriminalization in NYC — plus why BDSM is basically “theater kid sex” at its best. Humor, power, politics, and absurdity collide in this one. For the full uncensored cut, head to Patreon. Chapters: 00:00 – 00:55 • Cold Open: Catholic Camp & Kink Vibes 00:55 – 01:31 • Intro: Who Is Amalia Valentine? 01:31 – 05:53 Origin Story: From Tomboy Terror to Pro Dom 05:53 – 10:00 Mentorship vs. Dungeon: How She Was Trained 10:00 – 13:39 Childhood Power Plays & Early Dominance 13:39 – 18:35 Growing Up Catholic: Guilt, Masochism & Kink 18:35 – 22:56 God Complex, Domitis & Staying Grounded 22:56 – 27:05 Hygiene, Dungeon Rugs & Behind-the-Scenes Labor 27:05 – 32:33 Early Internet Porn, Disgust/Desire & Taboo 32:33 – 41:39 Censorship, Kids, & Moral Panics 41:39 – 45:25 Archiving Kink: Feminist Sex Wars & Lineage 45:25 – 50:04 DecrimNY & Sex Work Decriminalization in NYC 50:04 – 53:10 Humor in BDSM: Theater Kid Sex & Play 53:10 – 55:44 Looney Tunes Kink: The Anal Birth Birthday Scene 55:44 – 57:37 Funniest Session Stories: Bananas, Fisting & Improv 57:37 – 01:00:03 Quickfire Round 01:00:03 – 01:01:27 What “Uncensored” Really Means + Patreon Pitch 01:01:27 – 01:01:45 Outro & Socials Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/amalia.valentine/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 48: In this episode of Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with Kim of the Internet—who exited Omsom for reportedly millions, a Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, Adweek Young Influential, and one of the internet’s sharpest voices on kink, power, and visibility. Kim opens up about her unconventional upbringing, building a venture-backed CPG brand while coming into kink as a Mommy Dom, and navigating visibility, stigma, and success as a public founder. She reflects on exiting Omsom, solo travel, and why she became an online BDSM educator to counter widespread misinformation. The conversation dives into dominance, emotional labor, boundaries, attachment styles, entitlement, and how BDSM becomes a framework for communication, leadership, and self-knowledge—far beyond the bedroom. 👉 Watch the full uncensored version on Patreon. Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/kimoftheinternet/?hl=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

EP 47: In this episode of Uncensored, we interview Louisa Ferre, a professional dominatrix based in San Francisco and Los Angeles, to talk about BDSM, femdom, dominant girlfriend experience, and the real business of professional domination. Louisa shares how her background in classical music and corporate work informs her sessions, her experience with dungeon mentorships, and how she navigated the transition into online sex work during the pandemic. We discuss common myths about dominance, red flags in dom mentorship programs, emotional labor in BDSM, and how power dynamics extend beyond the dungeon into travel, lifestyle, and long-term dynamics. Chapters: 00:00 – 00:01:00 Setting the Scene 00:01:01 – 00:02:05 Welcome & Guest Introduction 00:02:05 – 00:03:12 Multiple Lives, One Throughline 00:03:12 – 00:05:08 Origin Story: From Music & Corporate to OnlyFans 00:05:08 – 00:06:00 Moving to the Bay & Dungeon Mentorship 00:06:01 – 00:08:28 Tumblr Era: BL, Femdom & “Love of the Game” 00:08:29 – 00:10:24 Early Kink Influences & Queer Theater Community 00:10:25 – 00:12:01 Classical Training: Discipline, Breath & Timing