Unattainable Podcast Show

Special thanks to Cathy for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show Cathy shares how moving to the US alone at 15 shaped her drive, her identity, and the choices she makes now. We talk through addiction, therapy, OnlyFans, family pressure, and why modern dating and modern morality feel so conflicted. • Moving from China to the US at 15, learning English through total immersion, dealing with culture shock and isolation • Building genuine friendships as an adult through self-work, passion, and business focus • Short relationships, the one-year cutoff rule, and choosing solitude to protect progress • A situationship that normalized cocaine and ketamine, manipulation and isolation, choosing sobriety by cutting off the whole circle • Hitting a scary low, pulling back from the edge, and what controlled use looks like years later • A late-night gun story that clarified the cost of chasing “successful” crowds • USC, creative burnout in corporate life, and pivoting to content creation for autonomy • Starting OnlyFans to pay off student loans, invest, and fund entrepreneurship, plus the taboo and shame that can linger • Family conflict, being disowned, reconnecting, and letting go for peace after years of therapy • Debating religion and morality, questioning whether ethics require God or come from culture and upbringing • Confidence as a skill, posting daily for years, and treating social media as marketing • Dating standards, ambition, compatibility, and the tradeoff between time, money, and relationships • Monogamy in the age of social media, unrealistic comparison, validation, and AI partners And so please hit that subscribe button. PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to Molly & Maggie for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We sit down with Maggie and Molly for a candid talk about modern dating, trust issues, jealousy, and the pressure to find “the one” while you’re still figuring yourself out. We dig into what keeps the honeymoon phase alive, why texting can trigger spirals, and how honesty and emotional safety change everything. • Maggie’s “very single” reset after a toxic relationship and abandoning herself • Molly’s dating history, breakup fallout, and the trust issues that follow • Jealousy as insecurity and the harder work of removing the source • Why the honeymoon phase ends when people perform early on • Building a relationship around truth without punishment or defensiveness • Setting early boundaries, including filtering for emotional commitment • Texting expectations, anxious attachment, and why obsession is a trap • Fear of rejection, mixed signals, and the chase dynamic • Dating influencers, long distance stress, and no-closure endings • Body count standards, monogamy assumptions, and emotional vs physical cheating • Strip club money stories, disputed payments, and a surprise Bitcoin tip • Being roofied, consent risks, and how quickly a night can turn • Bullying, homeschooling, and rebuilding confidencePLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to  Jacqueline for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We sit down with Jackie, a 21-year-old creator from Houston, to talk through what it’s really like to date, build a brand, and protect your boundaries while working on OnlyFans. The conversation goes from messy management and long distance trust to online backlash, financial pressure, and the hard-earned lessons that come from a toxic relationship. • starting OnlyFans at 18 and how the opportunity showed up through social media • a manager dating multiple girls and why power dynamics get dangerous fast • what makes a DM feel like a date and how catfishing and AI change online dating • meeting a German boyfriend in Miami and deciding whether long distance can work • setting content boundaries and why she draws a hard line on what she will post • what it would take to quit OnlyFans, plus engagement, marriage, and family plans • dating with money young and how it can attract the wrong kind of partner • a traumatic ex, cheating, public abuse, and the regret of not calling police • growing a TikTok audience, getting “canceled,” and dealing with doxxing and threats • adulthood expectations, moving out, and cultural differences in Europe and the US • how she thinks about sex, intimacy, and what “counts” Please hit that subscribe button PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to  Krystal & Tori for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We talk with Crystal and Tori, two Australian OnlyFans creators, about why they choose singleness, how they set hard boundaries, and what freedom looks like when you stop performing relationships for other people. They share domestic violence experiences, how therapy changed their pattern recognition, and why honesty about needs matters more than any dating label. • how Crystal and Tori meet at a content house and build a friendship • choosing to stay single for peace, money, sleep, and freedom • redefining love as friendship, soulmates, and self-trust • domestic violence escalation, coercive control, and isolation • why leaving abusive partners can be dangerous and complicated • police responses, proof, and how reporting can backfire • monogamy versus nonmonogamy, desire, and acting on it • BPD, personal responsibility, and learning new relationship patterns • travel stories as boundary tests, risk, and judgment calls • red flags, emotional unavailability, and saying the quiet part out loud And if so, please hit that subscribe button.PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to Caitlyn, Ava &  Michelle for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We talk through modern dating standards, age gaps, and the messy line between blunt honesty and blatant disrespect. We also get real about consent, trauma, and what boundaries actually look like when you stop laughing things off and start protecting your peace. • dating older partners and how intention changes the vibe • “icks” and standards as protection or avoidance • blunt questions versus emotional intelligence and basic tact • sex on the first date versus waiting and what each choice signals • pattern recognition in who we pick and why cycles repeat • sexual trauma, delayed processing, and reclaiming boundaries • what counts as cheating including emotional energy and hidden behavior • wild dating stories that reveal bigger safety lessons So please hit that subscribe button. PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to Shelby for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We sit down with Shelby Hunstead to unpack the red flags she ignored in a five-year relationship and the standards she refuses to negotiate now. Along the way, we debate monogamy, social media temptation, and how acting and networking complicate the lines between harmless and disrespectful. • meeting Shelby and why this season of life feels like her best • leaving a long relationship when compatibility and ambition stop matching • saved Instagram photos, phone checking, and what “respect” looks like in practice • fear of a lustful partner and how social media changes monogamy • acting intimacy scenes, jealousy, and the stories people tell themselves to justify behavior • dating a country singer with a big ego and the DM receipts that ended it fast • moving from Nashville to Los Angeles after getting replaced and using it as fuel • getting discovered by a legitimate manager at a coffee shop and what happens next • “lover girl” patterns, learning self-worth, and cutting things off sooner • a high school cheating trap story and what Shelby counts as cheating vs flirting And if so, please hit that subscribe button. PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to Christine for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We talk with Christine about how reality TV chaos, living out of her car, and a major confidence shift reshape what she wants from dating and life in Los Angeles. We get honest about cheating patterns, communication habits, and the line between having standards and protecting your peace. • what “Love Overboard” is like and how the timing upends her housing and job • living in a car in Florida, the freedom of no routine, and the hidden stress • why LA feels more creative and merit-based than New York or Miami • repeat cheating stories and what toxic on-and-off cycles do to confidence • the moment her self-image changes and her standards tighten • modern dating hot takes, loneliness, and refusing to settle for comfort • social media misconceptions, being underestimated, and choosing attention with purpose • music as a lifelong goal, writing songs since childhood, and the role of illness • personal red flags, texting avoidance, and why making plans can trigger anxiety • worst first dates, influencer behavior, and manipulation tactics that work too well • monogamy goals, dominance dynamics, and what “fit into my life” really means • phone privacy, trust after cheating, and sexual safety debates around condoms and porn And if so, please hit that subscribe button PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to Wase for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We talk with Wase about Native identity, dating in Los Angeles, and how patterns in attraction can quietly steer us toward the wrong partners. The conversation gets candid about domestic violence, rebuilding trust, and choosing boundaries that protect your future.• Native American identity in LA and tribal benefits• The Black Hills treaty dispute and why money is not “closure”• A relationship turning violent after a background check reveals prior abuse• Planning a safe exit, restraining orders, and post-breakup stalking• Why dating apps reward curated profiles over real character• Early red flags like jealousy, pressure, and boundary pushing• Loud confidence versus quiet confidence and how “delusion” shows up• Personal red flags around communication, reassurance, and emotional detachment• Career focus after giving up opportunities for past partners• Love languages, fear of opening up, and commitment anxiety• Marriage doubts, financial boundaries, and prenup talkThanks so much for watching. We'll see you later.PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to Kyla for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We talk with Kyla, a professional political debater, about building a happy marriage with real differences, including politics, faith, and attraction, without turning every disagreement into a power struggle. We dig into separation, trauma, jealousy, and self-loathing, then land on what it takes to choose each other on purpose for years. • dating and marriage across political differences by naming core values and irreducible priorities • the three relationships in a marriage and what broke during a seven-month separation • how shame flips conflict into comfort and why men’s emotions get minimized • consent, clear communication, and why “make no’s easy” prevents disaster • growing up fundamentalist Christian, losing faith, and rebuilding it after family conflict • attraction, “icks”, Tinder reality checks, and why height can be a mindset • monogamy boundaries, flirting, open relationships, and defining cheating as sexual intimacy • self-loathing, criticism, and the slow buildup of resentment that kills relationships please hit that subscribe button PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show

Special thanks to Yuna for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show We sit down with NYC creator Yuna B for a blunt, funny conversation about building womanhood on your own terms and dating with clear rules. We argue through chivalry, money, jealousy, online hate, and trust until the real question shows up: how much of love is truth and how much is performance?• her ideal relationship dynamic, traditional in public and more submissive at home • why she steps back from dating to travel and enrich her life • growing up trans, starting hormones after high school, and letting family “see” the transition • how she thinks about “fully transitioning,” surgeries, and pressure to pass • handling surprise reactions in content spaces and being comfortable being visibly trans • the 50-50 relationship debate, shared finances, and why chivalry still matters to her • why she doesn’t fight hate comments and what viral transphobia looks like online • an awkward closet story while dating and what it taught her about safety and honesty • being stalked by a boss through fake dating profiles and what the legal system did • jealousy boundaries, what counts as cheating, and why trust is non-negotiable • “unconscious dishonesty,” defining words, and communicating without endless arguments • first date preferences, love languages, values, and the traits she knows can be toxic • “please hit that subscribe button.” PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKEStay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before. Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming ServiceApple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAppleSpotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotifyGoogle: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazonAND MANY MORE Follow /Subscribe on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshwTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShowYoutube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                        Thank you for watching :)Support the show