5 Things Every Parent Should Know | Advice From a Catholic School Principal
What does a Catholic school principal wish every parent knew about raising their kids?After years of working with students, teachers, and families, Katie has seen the same parenting challenges come up again and again.In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we break down five things every parent should know about raising resilient, respectful, faith-filled children.These aren't just lessons for parents with children in Catholic school. They're practical lessons about Catholic parenting, Christian parenting, discipline, education, resilience, reading, faith, and forming children who know their identity isn't determined by their accomplishments.5 THINGS EVERY PARENT SHOULD KNOW1. Kids are supposed to push boundaries.Children testing boundaries doesn't automatically mean something has gone wrong. Part of growing up is discovering where the boundaries are.Our job isn't to continually move the boundary so our children never become upset. Kids need loving, consistent expectations.Eventually, the external boundaries Mom, Dad, and teachers provide should help children develop the internal boundaries, discipline, and virtue they'll need as adults.2. Grades do not determine your child's worth.We want our children to succeed, but sometimes our desire to protect them from failure prevents them from developing resilience.A bad grade isn't the end of the world.Sometimes struggling, failing, accepting consequences, learning, and trying again can form a child more than another easy A.Our children need to know:Your performance matters, but your performance does not determine your worth.3. Pay attention to how you talk about other people.Our kids are listening.How we talk about teachers, coaches, family members, friends, priests, other parents, and even people we disagree with teaches our children how they should treat those people.We can disagree with someone without disrespecting them.One of the biggest questions parents should ask is:Are our children learning how to disagree with people by watching how we disagree with people?4. Read to and with your kids, regardless of their age.Reading shouldn't disappear simply because our children learn how to read independently.Read together.Talk about books.Let your kids see you reading.Create a home where curiosity, learning, conversation, and books are normal parts of family life.5. The most important formation starts with YOUR relationship with Jesus.We can send our children to Catholic school.We can take them to Mass.We can put them in religious education.We can teach them prayers.But ultimately, our children need to see that Jesus actually matters to Mom and Dad.Let them see you pray.Let them see you go to Confession.Let them see you open Scripture.Let them see you struggle, repent, forgive, and begin again.Because the Catholic faith isn't simply something we teach our children.It's something we live in front of them.BOOKS MENTIONED📚 Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend📚 Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. DweckBoth books offer helpful insights into boundaries, personal responsibility, resilience, learning, failure, and developing a growth mindset.Ultimately, Catholic parenting isn't about raising perfect children.It's about helping form children who know they are loved by God, understand right from wrong, can struggle without falling apart, learn from failure, respect others, love learning, and ultimately develop their own relationship with Jesus Christ.👇 PARENTS: Which of these five is the hardest for you right now?Tell us in the comments.And if you know another Catholic mom or dad who needs this conversation, send them this episode.Subscribe to The Catholic Couple Podcast for conversations about Catholic marriage, parenting, family life, faith, and building a Catholic home centered on Jesus Christ.#CatholicParenting #CatholicParents #CatholicFamilyhttps://linktr.ee/bobbyfred85Purposelycatholic.com
