Seeds For Your Marriage

What happens when your spouse shuts down, withdraws, or avoids a difficult conversation? Silence can feel like rejection, anger, or a lack of caring—but sometimes there’s much more happening beneath the surface. Trisha and Thomas unpack the pattern of protective withdrawal, sharing honestly from their own marriage about unspoken expectations, past hurts, poor timing, assumptions, and fear that can create distance between spouses. In this episode of Seeds for Your Marriage, they explore a healthier path back to connection through clarity, vulnerability, accountability, patience, grace, and forgiveness. They discuss why it can be healthy to pause a difficult conversation—as long as you commit to returning to it—and how creating safe boundaries can help both spouses communicate what they are actually thinking, feeling, and needing.  Most importantly, Trisha and Thomas remind couples that unhealthy patterns don't have to define their marriage. When we stop trying to control or change our spouse and invite the Holy Spirit to work in us, there is hope for greater intimacy, understanding, and connection.   Resources: https://trishaandthomas.com/ James 1:19–20 Exodus 34:6 Romans 12:18   Connect with Seeds For Your Marriage: Website:  https://trishaandthomas.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeedsForYourMarriage YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TrishaAndThomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seedsforyourmarriage TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seedsforyourmarriage

Money may be one of the most common sources of conflict in marriage, but the argument usually isn't just about the money. In this episode of Seeds for Your Marriage, Trisha and Thomas go beneath the surface of financial disagreements to explore the beliefs, fears, values, family patterns, and expectations that shape the way each spouse approaches money. Whether one spouse is a saver and the other a spender—or one wants to talk about finances while the other would rather avoid them—those differences don't have to divide a marriage. Trisha and Thomas share openly about their own financial journey, including a season when they faced roughly $700,000 in debt and wondered whether bankruptcy might be necessary. They explain how seeking biblical wisdom, changing the way they communicated, taking responsibility for their individual patterns, and choosing to operate as a team began transforming both their finances and their marriage. Resources:  Financial Peace by Dave Ramsey: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/22094974-financial-peace Relationship Patterns Assessment: https://trishaandthomas.com/ Connect with Seeds For Your Marriage: Website:  https://trishaandthomas.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeedsForYourMarriage YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TrishaAndThomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seedsforyourmarriage TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seedsforyourmarriage

Why do the smallest conversations sometimes become the biggest arguments? In this episode, Thomas and Trisha pull back the curtain on one of the most difficult seasons in their own marriage and share how repeated disagreements about finances revealed a much deeper issue: unhealthy communication patterns. Rather than offering quick fixes, they walk through the practical and spiritual lessons that helped transform recurring conflict into healthier conversations built on trust, vulnerability, and teamwork. You'll learn why communication breakdowns are normal, how to recognize when you're heading down the "low road," and practical ways to reconnect before conflict creates lasting distance. Resources: Relationship Patterns Assessment: https://trishaandthomas.com/ Dave Ramsey Financial Peace: https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ Connect with Seeds For Your Marriage: Website:  https://trishaandthomas.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeedsForYourMarriage YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TrishaAndThomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seedsforyourmarriage TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seedsforyourmarriage

Why do couples keep having the same arguments over and over again?   In this episode of Seeds for Your Marriage, Trisha and Thomas Walker unpack the deeper relationship patterns that often exist underneath recurring conflict. From parenting disagreements to emotional triggers and communication breakdowns, they share practical wisdom, personal stories from their own 30-year marriage, and biblical encouragement for couples who feel stuck in unhealthy cycles.   Your marriage isn’t broken. Many recurring conflicts are not really about the surface issue itself, but about unmet expectations, emotional disconnection, unresolved tension, or communication patterns that have quietly developed over time.   Trisha and Thomas walk through several common relationship patterns couples experience, including “caring but stuck,” “stable but distant,” and “trying without tools.” They explain how awareness, emotional regulation, healthy communication, and Christ-centered connection can begin to transform the way couples navigate conflict.   Resources: Take the free, 3-minute Relationship Patterns Assessment: https://trishaandthomas.com/   Connect with Seeds For Your Marriage: Website:  https://trishaandthomas.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeedsForYourMarriage YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TrishaAndThomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seedsforyourmarriage TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seedsforyourmarriage

What happens when we stop striving, quiet the noise, and simply learn to be with God? In Part Two of the Seeds For Your Marriage podcast, Trisha and Thomas sit down with author and counselor Mark Cowper-Smith to explore contemplative prayer, stillness, and the transformational power of intimacy with God. Drawing from his book Up Close and Personal, Mark shares how true spiritual growth doesn’t happen through performance or behavior modification, but through allowing God to change us from the inside out. Together, they discuss how a deeper relationship with God impacts every relationship in our lives, especially marriage. Through honest conversation, practical wisdom, and guided prayer exercises, this episode invites couples to slow down, release expectations, and experience the Father’s love in a more personal way.  Guest Bio: Mark Cowper-Smith is an author, speaker, counselor, and ministry leader passionate about helping people move beyond performance-driven religion into an authentic relationship with God. Alongside his wife Shell, Mark has spent years teaching on contemplative prayer, intimacy with God, emotional healing, leadership, and spiritual transformation. Together, Mark and Shell co-authored Up Close and Personal: Relational Prayer, Being with God, a practical and theological guide designed to help believers experience deeper connection with the Father through stillness and relational prayer. Mark is also the author of Is God Religious? If Not, Why Are We?, Reluctantly Supernatural in an Age of Reason, and The Boss is Dead. Through counseling, teaching, and writing, Mark encourages believers to discover the freedom, healing, and transformation that come through simply being with God.   Resources: - Up Close and Personal: Relational Prayer, Being with God by Mark & Shell Cowper-Smith - Is God Religious? If Not, Why Are We? by Mark Cowper-Smith - Reluctantly Supernatural in an Age of Reason by Mark Cowper-Smith - The Boss is Dead by Mark Cowper-Smith   Connect with Seeds For Your Marriage: Website:  https://trishaandthomas.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeedsForYourMarriage YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TrishaAndThomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seedsforyourmarriage TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seedsforyourmarriage

What if one of the greatest gifts you could give your marriage is learning how to slow down and simply be with God? In this episode of Seeds for Your Marriage, Trisha and Thomas sit down with Mark and Shell Cowper-Smith, authors of Up Close and Personal: Relational Prayer, Being with God, for a rich conversation on contemplative prayer, stillness, and the difference between knowing about God and truly experiencing His presence. Together, they explore how a life of constant motion, striving, and performance can leave both our souls and our marriages exhausted—and how God invites us into something deeper. Mark shares his powerful story of moving from a works-based faith into a relational walk with God through the practice of stillness, while Shell opens up about burnout, pain, performance, and the healing she found in learning to be held by God rather than constantly trying to prove her worth. Along the way, this conversation reveals how abiding in God’s presence changes the way we pray, the way we listen, and the way we love our spouse. If your marriage has felt rushed, burdened, reactive, or spiritually dry, this episode is a beautiful invitation to return to peace—not just to pray for peace, but to live and love from peace.   Guest Bio: Mark and Shell Cowper-Smith are authors, teachers, and passionate guides in helping people move from performance-based spirituality into a deeper, more relational experience with God. Together, they co-authored Up Close and Personal: Relational Prayer, Being with God, a devotional workbook designed to help believers grow in stillness, prayer, and intimacy with the Lord. Through their own stories of burnout, healing, grace, and transformation, Mark and Shell encourage others to discover the peace and freedom that come from abiding in God’s presence.  Resources: Up Close and Personal: Relational Prayer, Being with God by Mark and Shell Cowper-Smith The devotional/workbook and prayer material created by Mark and Shell Reference to Sister Nora and her teaching on stillness and being with God Biblical reference to Jesus asking His disciples to watch and pray with Him for one hour The idea of the “five P’s of prayer” from their workbook Reference to Psalm 46:10 theme: “Be still and know that I am God” Discussion of praying from peace, not for peace   Connect with Seeds For Your Marriage: Website:  https://trishaandthomas.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeedsForYourMarriage YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TrishaAndThomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seedsforyourmarriage TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seedsforyourmarriage

What if parenting doesn’t end at 18, but actually transforms? In this episode, Trisha sits down with author, speaker, and certified master life coach Felicia Murrell to explore what it looks like to parent adult children with love, wisdom, and trust. So many parents feel unprepared for this stage, when control is no longer an option, and the relationship must shift. Felicia shares how she and her husband learned to move from a “power over” dynamic to a “power with” relationship, one rooted in love, choice, and connection. Together, they unpack the importance of inner healing, boundaries, and learning to trust God with your children’s journey, even when it’s hard. You’ll hear practical ways to stay connected, navigate mental health challenges, and create a relationship your children choose to be part of.   Guest Bio: Felicia Murrell is a certified master life coach, speaker, and author passionate about helping people experience deeper emotional and spiritual wholeness. With over 20 years of ministry and leadership experience, she brings a unique blend of faith, inner healing, and practical wisdom to her work. Felicia is the author of Truth Encounters and And: The Restorative Power of Love in an Either-Or World, where she invites readers into a transformative journey of identity, love, and restoration. Known for her compassionate presence and insightful perspective, she helps individuals and families move toward healthier, more connected relationships rooted in God’s love. Resources: Felicia Murrell’s website: https://feliciamurrell.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hellofelicia_murrell/ Publishing Website Shop The Word: https://www.shoptheword.com/ Truth Encounters – by Felicia Murrell: https://a.co/d/0f3Z8xkq And: The Restorative Power of Love in an Either-Or World – by Felicia Murrell: https://a.co/d/0e6Gmub1 Love and Logic (Dr. Charles Fay & Foster Cline): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/season-3-episode-69-using-love-and-logic-with-our/id1560380199?i=1000646610208 Loving Our Kids on Purpose – Danny Silk: https://a.co/d/08b00vbO   Connect with Seeds For Your Marriage: Website:  https://trishaandthomas.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeedsForYourMarriage YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TrishaAndThomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seedsforyourmarriage TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seedsforyourmarriage

What if your marriage could grow stronger, no matter the season you’re in? After nearly 30 years of marriage, Trisha and Thomas know that healthy relationships don’t happen by accident. They’re built with intention, rooted in faith, and strengthened over time. On Seeds For Your Marriage, you’ll find biblical wisdom and practical strategies to help you communicate more clearly, connect more deeply, and grow together through every stage of life. Whether you’re facing challenges or simply want to invest in a thriving relationship, this podcast is here to encourage and equip you. Because when you build your marriage God’s way… it changes everything.   🎙️ Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts. 🔔 Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! 🌱 Visit Trisha and Thomas for more tools and resources to strengthen your marriage.   Connect with Seeds For Your Marriage: Website:  https://trishaandthomas.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeedsForYourMarriage YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TrishaAndThomas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seedsforyourmarriage TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seedsforyourmarriage

Message us. We'd Love To Hear From You. Need a mindset reset to push past fear, reframe failure, and persist through uncertainty? What if the challenges you're facing—layoffs, life pivots, burnout—aren’t setbacks, but setups for your next breakthrough? In this episode of SkillSharp The Podcast, media executive and relationship strategist Thomas Walker reveals how to rewire your thinking, rediscover your purpose, and build the unstoppable mindset needed to thrive—no matter what life throws your way. You’ll learn: How to spot and overcome the mindset blocks holding you back Why purpose—not just passion—is key to lasting success The role of resilience in career, relationships, and uncertainty How to realign your life, income, and identity with your values Whether you’re bouncing back or breaking through, this episode delivers clear, actionable tools to get unstuck—and become truly unstoppable. We are Trisha and Thomas Walker, licensed ministers, relationship coaches, & prayer counselors where we teach couples how to deepen their relationship with each other and with God. This is the Seeds For Your Marriage podcast where we share biblical wisdom and practical advice on building a strong, healthy, and fulfilling marriage rooted in faith. These marriage stories are to inspire you and give you a deeper understanding of God's design for marriage and steps to having a Christ-centered and thriving family. For more visit: https://trishaandthomas.com/podcast/ Learn about Trisha and Thomas Walker and their ministry, LGLP Ministries, Inc, visit: https://trishaandthomas.com/

Message us. We'd Love To Hear From You. Emotional and Spiritual Health in Marriage: A Journey of Love and Growth Guest: Henry Calcagno In this episode of Seeds for Your Marriage, host Trisha Walker and special guest Henry Calcagno discuss the importance of emotional and spiritual health in parenting and marriage. They touch on how children learn from witnessing their parents grow through challenges together, the power of gratefulness, the significance of being authentic with teenagers, and the journey of grief after losing a loved one. Henry shares his personal experiences of supporting his wife Teresa through cancer and finding new love with Casey, emphasizing the importance of self-control and building a foundation on Christ. They also highlight the need for community support and learning from others' experiences to strengthen relationships. We are Trisha and Thomas Walker, licensed ministers, relationship coaches, & prayer counselors where we teach couples how to deepen their relationship with each other and with God. This is the Seeds For Your Marriage podcast where we share biblical wisdom and practical advice on building a strong, healthy, and fulfilling marriage rooted in faith. These marriage stories are to inspire you and give you a deeper understanding of God's design for marriage and steps to having a Christ-centered and thriving family. For more visit: https://trishaandthomas.com/podcast/ Learn about Trisha and Thomas Walker and their ministry, LGLP Ministries, Inc, visit: https://trishaandthomas.com/