Raw Bar with Goddess Cecilia

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about sexual assault and survivorship that may be triggering for some listeners. Hi, everyone! This is Goddess Cecilia, and welcome to Raw Bar where we talk about sex positivity, pleasure, and education. This is where we break taboos and stereotypes imposed by our cultural norms and society’s perceptions and standards. We’re down to our last episode for the season, and what way to end it than by sitting down with my fellow speakers from the Boston Area Rape Crisis Center (BARCC) Speakers Bureau, Corey and Jocely. We won’t talk about our personal experiences here. Instead, we will give you a glimpse of what survivorship feels and looks like and how we are helping support other members of the community with education, advocacy, and prevention initiatives. I hope you take the time to join us in this intense but necessary discussion. In the meantime, remember to love yourself and show yourself some compassion. Stream the episode and subscribe to my podcast for more engaging, stimulating sex-related discussions. In This Episode Our long journey to healing, social change, and advocacy What peer support really means and why it matters in survivorship Workshops and events that leave good (or bad) impressions and feelings Common misconceptions and challenges in survivorship What is self-care in survivorship? Find my guests here: Cory: @mrnohate Jocelyn: @transformingtrauma Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

We’re almost nearing the end, but we are definitely not ending this season with a juicy, yummy episode with none other than Sydney Rae Chin, a queer, non-monogamous sex educator and creative from Philly!  And we’ve got so much to unpack here. We explore the ins and outs of polyamory, which is something not many people completely understand. In particular, what are the challenges of explaining it to traditional Asian families?  And is it normal (and acceptable) to feel jealous when you are in a non-monogamous relationship? What happens when one of the partnerships ends?  But wait, there’s more. We’ll enjoy some great talk about food and how it can bring people together and teach us a thing (or a lot) about our identities.  Come and celebrate Sydney’s birthday with me in this stimulating, insightful episode. And don’t forget to check out her IG called Sexy Soup Dumpings, a safe space for non-monogamous people of color. In This Episode From the movies to reiki and survivorship work for non-monogamous people What people don’t get about polyamory Why conversations, and the tools to communicate, are essential in polyamory Violence in the Asian sex-ed community Learning and storytelling through food Connect with them here: @sexysoupdumplings And send birthday coins here: Venmo: @ sexy_soupdumplings CashApp: $ sexysoupdumplings Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

Welcome to the latest episode of the Raw Bar podcast, hosted by the one and only Goddess Cecilia! Today, we are joined by the amazing Aida Mundaley, a Latinx organizer, trauma-focused therapist, and sexuality educator who loves to sport some big earrings. As we sip on delicious mezcal drinks and indulge in juicy blackberries, we dive into a range of stimulating topics. Aida shares their insights on how everything in life is interconnected, and how defining our values and goals can help us stay accountable to ourselves and those around us. But we don’t stop there! We also delve into how we can find community in the things we love, exploring the ways that shared interests and passions can bring us closer to one another. And, of course, Aida shares their tips and tricks for breaking taboos and embracing our sexuality in a fun and fulfilling way. So if you’re looking for an episode packed full of laughter, engaging conversation, and a little bit of spice, look no further than the Raw Bar podcast. Subscribe today and download or stream this episode to discover how you can live your best life! In This Episode How colonization affects our ideas (and realities) about family dynamics The connection between social justice and sexuality Why parents should avoid mom groups on Facebook How going slow can help give more value on humanity, less on capitalism Sex educators do not need to have answers to all questions Find Adia at: @aidamanduley Twitter: @ Neuronbomb www.aidamanduley.com Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

Ready to spice things up? This week’s episode is all about living life to the fullest. And our guest Talia Coccia Kingston knows a thing or two about embracing her sexuality and hitting the open road in style. From her cozy skoolie to her fearless attitude toward life, Talia is an inspiration to anyone looking to break free from the norm and create their own adventure. Join us for a scintillating conversation about sex, love, and the pursuit of happiness as we explore the joys of being sex-positive and living your best life. Whether you’re a seasoned traveler or just looking to explore new horizons, Talia’s story will leave you feeling empowered and inspired. So what are you waiting for? Grab a glass of wine, slip into something comfortable, and get ready to be swept away by the raw, unbridled energy of this episode. Stream it now, and let’s ignite our passions together! Don’t forget to subscribe to Raw Bar for more empowering and alluring conversations about sexuality and self-discovery. In This Episode The serendipitous meeting with a condom-tote-bag-wearing human How Talia got sex education from almost everyone The biggest lessons about life and relationships when on the road What is relationship anarchy? The definition of unapologetically authentic Find Talia here: @bicoastalbus @shoplovelights Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

Episode 12 of Raw Bar is here, and we couldn’t be more excited! Hunter Riley—an amazing sex educator, a smut creator, a stripper named Anne Moore, and a consistent partner of organizations like Planned Parenthood—joins me, Goddess Cecilia, to discuss the fascinating world of sex retail over the past six years.  For example, how did COVID shift Riley’s mindset, considering her vast experience in sex ed? I guarantee this episode will make you rethink what it means to find pleasure in surprise. Plus, we talk about how exploring the unknown can be an educational experience that can fulfill your basic needs. And what about that one question that respects boundaries while you’re having fun?  There is definitely a lot to unload, so what are you waiting for? Stream the episode now, and don’t forget to tell me what you think about it.  In This Episode Riley’s incredible journey from the University of New Mexico to self-serve toys The state of sex retail during and after COVID-19 pandemic What is sex ed? (hint: it’s not to turn you on) A pivotal question that opens consent-based conversations Virtual vs. in-person strip work Find Hunter here: @huntergathererx Twitter and OF: HornyHuntress www.selfservetoys.com Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

Celebrating my 40th birthday with you here at the Raw Bar original from Instagram live and now reproduced in this podcast is such an honor.On this very special and short episode of Raw Bar, Goddess Cecilia gives you a peek inside the Mermaid Museum in Berlin, MD!  Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

Get ready to indulge in another delicious episode of the Raw Bar! This week, we have the pleasure of hosting the inspiring Nicole Mazzeo, the founder of Pleasure Pie. Our mouths are already watering at the thought of all the juicy topics we’ll be discussing. One of the things we love most about Nicole is her ability to make zines that resonate with so many people. It’s not a surprise that her unique voice has given her countless opportunities to host events about sex that aren't just about trying to get laid. We can all learn a lot from her approach to open conversation! But wait, there’s more! We're also discussing the importance of period sex in our quest to achieve world peace. Believe it or not, period sex can be a powerful way to revolutionize our perceptions surrounding getting sexual pleasure even during menstruation. At the Raw Bar, we believe that pleasure is an essential ingredient to a fulfilling life. And who better to help us explore this than Nicole Mazzeo? So join us as we dive into everything—from zines to period sex—in pursuit of our pleasure! In This Episode: Her roller-coaster ride toward sex-positive education How her zines are stimulating vital conversations about sexual pleasure and education The origins of pleasure pie  Deep discussions about period sex (why should we talk about it?) What really happened behind the making-out event Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

Welcome to the Raw Bar with Goddess Cecilia, where we don’t just talk about sex—we make it sizzle! This week, we’ve got a treat for you, an electrifying episode featuring the sensational sex educator and business badass, Goody Howard. Goody is a wizard when it comes to sex ed. And we want you to know why! We'll show you how her Ask Goody platform, which originated in the conservative South, is making waves in the sexuality field. And, of course, we’ll explore all the juicy details on how her business background helps her and her students work smarter, not harder when it comes to sex education. But let’s not forget why we’re here: sex! Goody will reveal the accessibility of education and certification in our field, which makes a huge impact on how good we are in bed. And who doesn’t want to be the best their partners ever had? So get those headphones in because Goddess Cecilia and Goody Howard have so much to teach you about sex. You won’t regret tuning in to this sexy, educational experience. Meet us at the Raw Bar, get your drink, and let’s get into it! In This Episode: How the “freaky friend” began and grew to become Ask Goody Elevation of professional sex development education Sexual and gender minority (GSM) vs LGBTQA+ How to make sexual pleasure and education accessible and reachable  The role of accountability and responsibility in improving sex pleasure Find Goody at @askgoody www.askgoody.com Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

Dirty Lola and Goddess Cecilia bring a unique perspective to the innovative Raw Bar podcast this week. On episode 8, we discuss Netflix’s “The Principles of Pleasure” docuseries, offering viewers an insight into topics like pleasure as well as critiques for the show. In particular, we explore how “The Principles of Pleasure” encourages viewers to think critically about their own views on sexual identity and gender roles. We also delve into subjects like consent and communication that are often overlooked when it comes to discussing sex-education topics. Tune in each week to hear more about the revolutionary new show and more – all while making sure to leave room for some fun! In This Episode: The massive effect of the Principles of Pleasure—and why we need more episodes and discussions Biggest misconceptions people have about the sexual pleasure and health industry The birth of Sex Ed A Go Go Why we should update dated or archaic sex information How a sex toy triggers intense conversations about sexual-pleasure accessibility and truths Find Dirty Lola at: @dirtylola on IG and Twitter www.dirtylola.co Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022

Ready to learn more about one of the kinkiest professions in the world? Then tune into this Raw Bar episode! Goddess Cecilia and Leilah Feinstein of A Stripper’s Guide deliver an informative discussion revolving around topics such as hypersexualization, sex work as a labor rights issue, and many more nuances you may not know about. Leilah brings her passion and expertise to the conversation, making for an engaging back-and-forth that will have you listening from start to finish. Not only do their words offer an informative dive into sex work, but they also present perspectives that can help ensure everyone involved is treated with respect. Plus, it’s entertaining too! Don’t miss out on this lively chat. You’ll walk away with new knowledge about one of humanity’s most ancient professions. So grab your favorite beverage and join us for this insightful edition of Raw Bar. In This Episode: Leilah’s origin story that included “stripping” her biases about the industry Why recalibration is important when facing a wall that hurts The hypocrisy and the permeation of white supremacy in the dancing and sex-work industry How being sexualized by the viewers puts sex workers at a disadvantage Hypersexualization effects in different races and ethnicities Find Leilah at: @astrippersguide www.astrippersguide.com Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022