198. No Loss, Only Lessons: Redefining Success in Dance

In this episode of 'Passion for Dance,' host Dr. Chelsea explores the complexities of choosing a career in the performing arts. Joined by master certified life and career coach Cheryl Polk, they discuss holistic approaches to finding fulfilling careers, practical advice for overcoming limiting beliefs, and the importance of self-discovery and support systems. Cheryl offers insights into transitioning careers, setting life goals, and the unique challenges faced by those pursuing careers in the arts. Tune in for actionable strategies on discovering a career you love.   Share the Episode: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/204   Connect with Cheryl: https://excel-resumes.com https://www.instagram.com/usajobsearchcoach https://www.linkedin.com/in/careercoachcheryl   Episode Breakdown: 00:09 Choosing a Career in the Performing Arts 00:29 Meet Cheryl Polk: Life and Career Coach 02:14 Cheryl's Dance Journey 03:45 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs 04:45 The Role of a Career Coach 07:55 Finding a Career You Love 10:07 The Discovery Phase 15:23 Pursuing a Career in the Arts 25:03 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs in the Arts 28:08 Practical Advice for Aspiring Dancers 32:15 Midlife Career Transitions 35:00 Conclusion and Contact Information  

In this episode of Passion for Dance, host Dr. Chelsea explores the phrase "leave it at the door" in the dance industry and its relevance in 2025. Joined by guest expert Dr. Audrey Schnell, a psychologist and coach with over 40 years of experience, they discuss handling emotions, building resilience, self-sabotage, and the fine line between pushing oneself and taking necessary breaks.  Together, they offer valuable insights on teaching dancers to manage negative emotions without letting them interfere with performance and the importance of labeling and processing feelings. They also highlight the dual role of dance as both a source of joy and potential pain, emphasizing the need for self-love and guided encouragement in the pursuit of success.   Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/203 Connect with Dr Audrey: https://audreyschnell.com Episode Breakdown: 00:38 Meet Dr. Audrey Schnell: Expert in Personal Development 04:38 Handling Emotions in Dance 11:15 The Importance of Resilience 21:43 Overcoming Failure and Building Resilience 22:33 Understanding Adolescent Emotions 23:39 Self-Sabotage and Emotional Management 25:10 The Impact of Change and Fear of the Unknown 29:19 Labeling and Understanding Emotions 33:15 Perfectionism in Dancers 36:41 The Healing Power of Movement 41:20 Final Thoughts and Advice

In this episode, host Dr. Chelsea talks to distinguished dance educator Anabella Lenzu about the shifting focus in the dance community from artistic expression to technical perfection and competitive achievements. Anabella, originally from Argentina and now a teacher in New York City, shares her perspectives on dance education shaped by her multicultural experiences. They explore the importance of incorporating emotional connection in dance training, and how cultural adaptation influences teaching methodologies. Anabella delves into her teaching philosophy, stressing the significance of meaningful gestures over rote repetition and the holistic development of dancers. The conversation also touches on the impact of social media on dance and the essence of performing for live audiences and not just TikTok. Anabella introduces her book 'Teaching and Learning Dance Through Meaningful Gestures,' which merges pedagogical principles with both technical and artistic guidance, making it an invaluable resource for dancers and educators.   Get Anabella’s Book: Teaching and Learning Dance Through Meaningful Gestures Connect with Anabella:  https://instagram.com/AnabellaLenzu https://facebook.com/AnabellaLenzu https://youtube.com/AnabellaLenzu   Other Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/202   Episode Breakdown 00:41 Meet Anabella Lenzu 02:52 Anabella's Dance Journey and Teaching Philosophy 04:31 The Importance of Cultural Adaptation in Dance 08:03 Challenges in Dance Education Across Different Countries 11:13 Balancing Technical Skill and Artistic Expression 14:49 Practical Exercises for Emotional Connection 18:58 Promoting Dance as an Art Form 22:13 The Importance of Meaningful Gestures in Dance 25:12 Comprehensive Training for Performers 28:11 Visualization Techniques in Dance 31:30 Emotional Connection in Performance 40:23 The Role of Books in Dance Education  

In this episode of Passion for Dance, Dr. Chelsea addresses the growing pessimism among teenage competitive dancers. She emphasizes the importance of optimism for competitive success and mental resilience, differentiating it from toxic positivity. Dr. Chelsea shares practical strategies for cultivating optimism, including self-awareness, positive self-talk, visualization, and gratitude. She also discusses the impact of an optimistic mindset on performance and recovery from setbacks, using real-life examples from her work. The episode encourages dancers to maintain a positive outlook to enhance their training and competition results.   Be sure to follow the show and check out episode resources at https://passionfordancepodcast.com/follow https://passionfordancepodcast.com/201   Episode Breakdown 00:08 The Importance of Optimism in Dance 01:51 Defining Realistic Optimism 02:44 A Story of Resilience and Optimism 03:50 Strategies to Cultivate Optimism 11:23 The Role of Self-Compassion  

In this milestone episode, host Dr. Chelsea reflects on 200 episodes of the Passion for Dance podcast, sharing key insights and lessons from the four pillars of the show: mindset, motivation, resilience, and community. She emphasizes the need for emotional regulation, the importance of balancing discipline with empathy, training resilience, and fostering a supportive dance community.  Join in to learn actionable strategies for building happier, more successful dancers.   Be a guest on the show! https://passionfordancepodcast.com/voicemail or email Dr Chelsea at [email protected] Take the Podcast Quiz: https://chelseapierotti.com/podcastquiz   Episode Breakdown 01:14 Celebrating 200 Episodes 01:41 The Four Pillars of the Podcast 04:48 Mindset: Emotional Intelligence and Confidence 07:02 Motivation: Leadership and Communication 08:54 Resilience: Building Mental Toughness 10:44 Community: The Power of Supportive Networks 11:49 Looking Forward: Connecting and Growing Together 13:16 Conclusion and Call to Action  

In this episode of Passion for Dance, host Dr. Chelsea is joined by professional dancer Nia Lonette. The two dive into Nia's journey from Maryland to becoming an acclaimed dancer in LA, featuring her work with prominent artists and appearances at major events like the Grammys. Nia shares valuable tips on handling nerves, staying present in auditions, managing negative thoughts in class, and preparing for a move to LA. They also discuss elements from Nia's new book, 'Industry Survival Guide,' which offers practical advice on creating resumes, taking headshots, and finding community in the dance world. This conversation provides both aspiring and seasoned dancers with actionable strategies to thrive in their careers while emphasizing the importance of mental resilience and continuous self-improvement.   Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/199   Connect with Nia Lonette: https://www.nialonette.com https://www.instagram.com/nialonette   Episode Breakdown 01:29 Meet Nia Lonette 02:37 Transitioning to the Professional Dance World in LA 04:57 Building Confidence and Overcoming Nerves 06:53 Early Lessons and Mentorship 13:13 Handling Nerves in Class and Auditions 23:02 The Importance of Being in the Moment 26:26 Resilience in the Professional Dance World 31:26 Insights from the Industry Survival Guide 34:54 A Day in the Life of a Professional Dancer 39:39 The Power of Emotions in Dance 41:55 Conclusion and Final Thoughts  

Dr. Chelsea tackles the challenges dancers face during the intense competition season including losing and offers valuable insights into three aspects worse than losing: regret, blame, and lack of improvement. Dr. Chelsea shares personal stories and actionable strategies to help dancers and educators focus on growth, accountability, and effort, redefining success beyond competitive outcomes.  Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/198 NEW TO THE SHOW?! Check out this New Listener Resource to dive into building mental toughness as a dancer.   Episode Breakdown: 00:37 The Reality of Losing 01:27 Three Things Worse Than Losing 03:30 Regret: The Worst Feeling 06:41 Blame: The Destructive Force 10:11 Growth: The Ultimate Goal 11:48 Redefining Success  

In this episode of Passion for Dance, Dr. Chelsea speaks with Jared Redick, a third-generation professional ballet dancer and current Dean at the University of North Carolina School of the Arts. Mr Redick shares his extensive dance journey and expertise as a leader in the dance community offering valuable insights on the balance between hard work and discipline. He also shares his approach to leadership in dance education, emphasizing empathy, communication, and individualized goal setting to build more resilient and successful dancers.  Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/197 Episode Breakdown 00:19 Meet Jared Redick: A Journey in Dance 09:55 The Importance of Mentorship and Kindness 17:39 Balancing Discipline and Compassion in Dance Education 24:31 Effective Communication Strategies 26:30 Goal Setting and Motivation 28:53 Leadership and Empathy in Teaching 31:04 Practical Classroom Techniques 35:37 Balancing Dance and Life 40:44 Connecting with the Dance Community 42:01 Conclusion and Resources   Connect with Jared Redick https://www.instagram.com/jared_redick/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jared-redick/  

In the third installment of 'Emotional Intelligence for Dancers,' Dr. Chelsea delves into coping strategies for managing emotions over the long term, helping dancers recover from disappointment and frustration. She emphasizes the importance of reflection, after-action reviews, and maintaining a balance outside of dance. Practical tips include journaling, non-screen relaxation routines, and ensuring physical wellness. Dr. Chelsea advocates for the integration of these practices to foster resilience and emotional stability, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling dance experience.   Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/196   NEW TO THE SHOW?! Check out this New Listener Resource to dive into building mental toughness as a dancer.   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Intelligence for Dancers 00:45 Coping Strategies for Long-Term Emotional Management 02:22 Reflection and After Action Reviews 05:38 Journaling for Emotional Growth 07:54 Post-Performance Relaxation Routine 09:00 Maintaining Balance Outside of Dance 11:20 Physical Wellness and Long-Term Care 12:31 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this episode of Passion for Dance, Dr. Chelsea continues her series on emotional intelligence for dancers, focusing on strategies for managing negative emotions. She provides five proactive techniques including mindfulness, building a support system, practicing gratitude and self-affirmations, simulating high-pressure situations, and developing a pre-performance routine. Additionally, Dr. Chelsea offers in-the-moment tips for dealing with negative emotions during performances and stresses the importance of consistent practice for long-term emotional resilience and regulation. Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/195   NEW TO THE SHOW?! Check out this New Listener Resource to dive into building mental toughness as a dancer.   Other Episodes Referenced: Episode 192: Dance in the Moment: Harnessing Mindfulness for Performance Excellence Episode 181: How Dancers Can Be More Focused and Successful in Class Episode 41: Developing a Pre-Performance Routine for Confidence   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Intelligence for Dancers 00:23 Proactive Strategies for Managing Emotions 08:10 In-the-Moment Techniques for Negative Emotions 10:42 Consistency and Long-Term Benefits 11:37 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement