Swapping Secrets

Is ethical non-monogamy just cheating with better PR? Apparently, some people think so! In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are tackling the assumptions people love making about ethical non-monogamy (ENM), open relationships and swinging. We've all heard them. If your partner satisfies you, why would you want anyone else? If you get jealous, surely you're not cut out for an open relationship? And isn't the whole lifestyle just one big orgy? Well, we've got some thoughts. Visit our Patreon for extra spicy content 🔥 https://ap1.hubs.ly/H015Cmd0

Get your Halloween tickets 🎃 (Want both nights? Have 20% off!) Night 1: https://ap1.hubs.ly/H01rw9z0 Night 2: https://ap1.hubs.ly/H01rwc_0 Bloody messes, bedroom injuries, terrible threesomes and possibly a haunted swingers club. Happy Halloween, you filthy animals! This week on Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are getting into their Horny Horror Stories, sharing personal disasters, reading your anonymous confessions and reacting to some of the most ridiculous dating and sex stories from Reddit. Some stories are hilarious. Some are horrifying. And some really make you question people's decision-making. Got a horny horror story of your own? We want to hear it! Send it through to our Instagram or Reddit, and you might feature in a future episode. Visit our Patreon for extra spicy content 🔥 https://ap1.hubs.ly/H015Cmd0

Get your Halloween tickets 🎃 (Want both nights? Have 20% off!) Night 1: https://ap1.hubs.ly/H01rw9z0 Night 2: https://ap1.hubs.ly/H01rwc_0 Jess and Lawrence play Two Truths and a Lie with OSS staff Anna, Conny and Ilona. Everyone’s brought a few stories, someone’s lying, and there are water guns waiting for the wrong answer. Anna has some after-hours office antics to explain, Conny drops a former NRL player into the conversation, and Ilona tells us about inviting two dates to the same venue. Jess and Lawrence ask plenty of questions. Whether that actually helps them is another matter. Get to know Anna, one of our managers and educators; Conny, our concierge and drag performer; and Ilona, who also hosts trivia and singles events. These are some of the people you’ll meet at Our Secret Spot, Sydney’s adult play party venue in Annandale. Apparently, there’s quite a bit we didn’t know about them. Play along and pick your answers before the reveals. Surely you can do better than our hosts. Visit our Patreon for extra spicy content 🔥 https://ap1.hubs.ly/H015Cmd0

See all the show notes: https://oursecretspot.com.au/sexiest-moments-of-the-year-part-2/ The Sexiest Moments of the Year aren't done yet. Part 2 digs back into another year of Swapping Secrets with Jess, Lawrence and some familiar guests for the conversations, stories and complete derailments that were too good not to hear again. We're talking dating red flags, open relationships, relationship stigma, consent, safer sex, boundaries, three-way encounters, fantasies, attraction and what happens when being horny gets in the way of better judgement. You'll also hear highlights featuring Kim Cums, Miranda Cheng, and Bradford & Angela from By the Bi Podcast, alongside listener stories and some classic Jess and Lawrence moments that probably made a lot more sense at the time. If Part 1 wasn't enough, here's another reminder of just how much happened on Swapping Secrets this year.

Swapping Secrets is officially one year old, and apparently the best way to celebrate is to drag some of our funniest, filthiest, smartest and most chaotic moments back into the light. Jess and Lawrence revisit the clips they still can’t forget, alongside some brilliant moments from the guests and community members who’ve joined them over the past year. We’re talking open relationships, swinging, consent, communication, first-time nerves, bisexuality, sexual health, stage fright, relationship agreements, awkward confessions, questionable Google searches and plenty of things that probably sounded like a better idea before somebody turned the microphones on. There’s been a lot of sex, obviously. But there’s also been a year of learning how people communicate, explore relationships, navigate boundaries, laugh at themselves and find their place in this wonderfully weird community. Thanks for coming along for the ride. And if you’re new here? This is one hell of a place to start. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15)  “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post 1 Year of Swapping Secrets: Our Best, Wildest & Funniest Moments (PART 1) appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Lawrence sits down with adult entertainer and content creator Kim Cums to find out what life behind OnlyFans and the adult entertainment industry actually looks like. Kim’s path into the industry wasn’t exactly conventional. After studying archaeology and environmental science, an online relationship, kink exploration and early webcam modelling gradually led her into escorting, adult content creation and eventually building her own platform, KimCums.com. But what audiences see online is only a small part of the job. It’s a conversation about OnlyFans, adult entertainment, sex work, stigma, relationships, censorship, identity and what really happens behind the camera. Check Kim out here! Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15)  “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Behind the Fantasy of OnlyFans with Kim Cums appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Reddit has questions about bisexuality… and some of them are MESSY. With Jess away on maternity leave, Lawrence is joined by returning guests Bradford and Angela from By the Bi to tackle Reddit’s wildest bisexual dilemmas. From women refusing to date bisexual men and the double standards surrounding bi relationships, to discovering same-sex attraction later in life, the trio unpack where personal preference ends and biphobia begins — and why bisexuality still gets tangled up with assumptions about cheating, masculinity, monogamy and commitment. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Bradford & Angela’s Links Website Instagram Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15)  “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Reddit’s Wildest Bisexual Dilemmas (with By the Bi) appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

What if better intimacy had less to do with technique and more to do with understanding your body? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Miranda Cheng, founder of We The Femme and a practitioner in pelvic care and holistic sexuality. Together, they explore how the pelvic floor, nervous system, stress and breath can influence desire, arousal and pleasure. Although many people focus on what they should do during sex, Miranda explains why noticing what is already happening in the body can be just as important. Find Miranda and We The Femme: Website Instagram Use SECRETS10 for 10% off We The Femme packages or SECRETS15 for 15% off a single session. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15)  “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Body Hacks for Better Sex with Miranda Cheng appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess, Lawrence and producer Gabe revisit the movies, television shows and characters that quietly shaped how they understood queerness, gender, relationships and acceptance. They discuss the difference between meaningful representation and tokenism, why some of the strongest queer characters are simply allowed to exist without their identity becoming the entire storyline, and how children’s television can normalise different relationships without turning them into a lesson. The conversation also examines masculine stereotypes, gender expression, family attitudes and the impact of seeing people live outside traditional expectations on screen. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15)  “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Movies & TV Shows That Were Queer Before Their Time appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley. From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+ relationships, this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. Daniel shares what thousands of conversations with gay men have taught him about love, loneliness, dating, commitment, and why many people are still searching for genuine connection despite having more options than ever before. We also explore what heterosexual couples could learn from the way many queer relationships approach communication, boundaries, relationship structures, and emotional honesty. Whether you’re queer, straight, monogamous, non-monogamous, dating, partnered, or simply curious about modern relationships, this episode offers fresh perspectives on what meaningful connection really looks like today. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15)  “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Queer Relationships Beyond the Stereotypes w/ Daniel Cooley appeared first on Our Secret Spot.