3845: What's The First Big Step Toward Loving Yourself? by Irene Elias of Self Love Junkie on Cultivating Self-Love

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3845: Irene Elias gently guides readers through the process of silencing their inner critic by transforming self-talk, not through resistance but through awareness, compassion, and spiritual alignment. With practical tools and mindset shifts, she shows how embracing your negative thoughts with l Read along with the original article(s) here: https://selflovejunkie.com/whats-the-first-big-step-toward-loving-yourself/ Quotes to ponder: "Your mind was designed to help you move forward and work in your favor." "You can be positive and still have negative thoughts floating around in your mind, however, you get to choose which ones you're going to dance with." "Part of loving yourself is allowing your inner critic to come to the surface and marinating it with love." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3844: Steve Pavlina reveals how willpower, often dismissed as unreliable, is actually a powerful catalyst for change, when used correctly. Rather than relying on it endlessly, he explains how to use brief bursts of willpower to reshape your environment, build momentum, and create habits that sustain long-term progress with less Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2005/06/self-discipline-willpower/ Quotes to ponder: "Willpower is your ability to set a course of action and say, 'Engage!'" "The best way to use willpower is to establish a beachhead, such that further progress can be made with far less effort than is required of the initial thrust." "Don’t use willpower to attack your biggest problem directly. Use willpower to attack the environmental and social obstacles that perpetuate the problem." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3843: Courtney Carver shares practical solutions to the most common struggles people face when starting a capsule wardrobe, from perfectionism to body changes to weather challenges. Her compassionate advice helps you embrace simplicity, let go of limiting beliefs, and find clarity in your closet without sacrificing personal style. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/solution/ Quotes to ponder: "Starting something new makes starting the next thing even easier." "You need time away from choosing so you can discover what you really want." "Less perfection equals more happiness, more risk-taking, and better relationships." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3842: Greg Audino challenges the glorified pursuit of achievement by revealing the darker side of potential, how it can lead to burnout, unfulfilling lives, and missed opportunities for authentic happiness. He urges us to prioritize personal joy over societal validation, and to recognize that walking away from a talent can be just as wise as pursuing it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/invisible-illness/the-horrifying-potential-of-potential-ddecfc3c2822 Quotes to ponder: "Just because you can do something doesn’t mean that you should." "Look first at the person, not the talent." "Laziness is the low road that anyone can take, and effort, often regardless of the outcome, is the high road that requires people to give themselves an extra push before setting foot." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3841: Kristine Klussman urges us to reevaluate our relationship with digital devices, revealing how unconscious screen use chips away at our presence, connection, and well-being. She offers five practical tools to help you shift from mindless tech habits to intentional, life-enhancing digital engagement that fosters deeper self-awareness and more meaningful human connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.kristineklussman.com/change-your-use-of-technology-connected-life/ Quotes to ponder: "Even a small amount of self-observation makes it easy to see the price you pay for engaging in unintentional, unregulated low-quality screen engagement: disconnection from yourself and others." "Technology is here to stay, and barring some kind of apocalyptic destruction of the world, it’s going to be a permanent part of our lives." "The irony of technology is that we are often the most disconnected from time, our true priorities, other people, our environment and a conscious life when we are digitally 'connected.'" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3840: Allison Carmen invites us to shift from rigid expectations to the liberating mindset of Maybe, where uncertainty becomes a source of hope instead of fear. Through personal struggles and everyday dilemmas, she shows how letting go of the need for immediate answers, whether “yes” or “no,” can create space for creativity, resilience, and unexpected solutions. Embracing Maybe opens the door to a life filled with possibility, even when plans fall apart. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/slipping-out-of-maybe/  &  http://www.allisoncarmen.com/the-yes-and-no-paradigm-2/ Quotes to ponder: "Maybe allows us to contemplate the possibilities of life unfolding in many different ways without feeling the need for action the very minute a problem confronts us." "Let Maybe allow you the room to breathe and stretch and open up to all that is possible." "Sometimes, however, the impulse to immediately decide 'yes' or 'no' to the everyday problems and situations that we face is more about playing it safe and clinging to certainty than it is about living life to the fullest." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3839: Cylon George unpacks the uncomfortable truth that suffering isn’t just unavoidable, it’s vital for building resilience, clarity, and inner strength. With insights from his own journey and reflections on how we often avoid necessary discomfort, he reveals how embracing pain can actually reduce our overall suffering and lead to deep personal growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.spirituallivingforbusypeople.com/why-we-need-suffering Quotes to ponder: "We flee from necessary suffering only to increase our unnecessary suffering." "Once you can get beyond blaming your suffering on others, God, or the universe, you’ll begin to gain the resources to deal with what’s in front of you." "Embrace your pain. Lean into discomfort. And you’ll discover a spiritual strength you never thought possible." Episode references: Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/080701429X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3838: Shirley shares a powerful 6-step framework for turning yearly goals into reality by combining clarity, structure, and consistency. Her method helps you stay focused, break down overwhelming ambitions into actionable tasks, and follow through with intention all year long. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://daringliving.com/how-to-plan-goal-receive-results/ Quotes to ponder: "You must be willing to make the extra effort and commit to do the things that most people are not willing to do." “The key is to list out every single task, even the small and tedious ones, so that you don’t even have to think about what you need to do to accomplish that project/ assignment.” “Make sure your goal is: Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Time-Bound, Reward.” Episode references: Google Calendar: https://calendar.google.com/ Asana: https://asana.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3837: Brendan Kane shares how he transformed his mindset and elevated his happiness by using everyday technology like his iPhone and iPad. Through simple, intentional habits, thinking big, practicing daily gratitude, and visualizing his dreams, he reprogrammed his perspective and created a more fulfilling life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/2013/10/5-ways-to-use-your-tech-habits-for-good.html Quotes to ponder: "Gratitude is the single most important ingredient to living a successful and fulfilled life." "We all have the power to change our lives and find happiness." "Everything around you that you call life was made up by people that were no smarter than you." Episode references: The Success Principles by Jack Canfield: https://www.amazon.com/Success-Principles-TM-Where-Are/dp/0062364286 Mindset: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3836: Leo Babauta invites us to rethink the chaos of the holiday season with five powerful questions that uncover what truly matters. By examining our attachments, limits, and priorities, we can trade stress and overcommitment for clarity, calm, and deeper connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/simple-holidays Quotes to ponder: "What are you striving for right now? You can tell what it is by what’s stressing you out, what’s been occupying your mind, what fills your life with things to do." "What if you only limited your plate to five things? You’d have more space, more focus, more enjoyment." "Spending time with friends and loved ones is the best way to use your holiday time." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices