Unpacking the Black Friend with Frederick Joseph

In this episode of "Now No Opportunity Wasted," we delve into a raw and honest conversation with Jerome Trammell, a talented producer known for his work with Fox Soul and various prominent figures in the entertainment industry. This episode is part of my ongoing journey to share previously unreleased conversations that challenge me and push the boundaries of comfort, particularly around topics that are often deemed too messy or controversial. We kick off the episode with a thought-provoking quote from Daisaku Ikeda's "Day by Day Wisdom for a Modern Life," emphasizing the importance of living a full and rewarding life rather than merely existing. This theme resonates throughout our discussion as we explore the complexities of representation, social media dynamics, and the intricacies of identity within our community. Before diving into our main conversation, I address some pressing social issues, including the recent arrest of Palestinian activist Mamoud Khalil by ICE, which raises concerns about the targeting of pro-Palestinian activists under both Republican and Democratic administrations. I stress the need for accountability across party lines and highlight the ongoing attacks on marginalized communities, particularly trans rights. As we transition into the "Make It Make Sense" segment, I welcome my friend Renita Shannon to break down the latest political foolery, including the alarming trend of federal workers being fired indiscriminately under the Trump administration. We discuss the implications of these actions on essential services and the broader impact on our society, particularly regarding the treatment of trans individuals in the military. Returning to my conversation with Jerome, we explore his journey from a passionate educator to a prominent voice in television production. Jerome shares his experiences navigating the challenges of being a flamboyant Black man in education and how he transitioned into the world of social media commentary, ultimately leading to his success in the entertainment industry. Throughout our discussion, we touch on the complexities of interracial relationships within the Black community, particularly in the context of dating preferences and societal influences. Jerome and I engage in a candid dialogue about the importance of understanding the dynamics at play and the need for radical love and acceptance within our community. We also dissect the recent HBO Max show featuring Jerrod Carmichael, examining the nuances of representation and the potential pitfalls of portraying personal experiences without acknowledging the broader community context. Our conversation highlights the importance of authenticity and the responsibility that comes with sharing one's narrative in a public space. This episode is a rich tapestry of insights, humor, and heartfelt discussions, reminding us that while we may face challenges, it is essential to embrace our truths and continue pushing for meaningful conversations that foster understanding and growth. Join us as we navigate these complex topics and celebrate the beauty of living authentically. 00:00:00 - Introduction and ContextWelcome back to the podcast, where Angelica Ross discusses her journey of sharing previously hesitant episodes, featuring Jerome Trammell. 00:02:11 - Buddhist WisdomAngelica shares a quote from Daisaku Ikeda about living a full and rewarding life, emphasizing quality over quantity. 00:03:19 - Current Events and ActivismDiscussion on the arrest of Palestinian activist Mamoud Khalil and the implications of recent executive orders targeting pro-Palestinian activists. 00:06:00 - Make It Make Sense SegmentAngelica introduces Renita Shannon to break down recent political events, including federal worker firings under the Trump administration. 00:10:33 - 

In this episode of "Now, No Opportunity Wasted," I, Angelica Ross, return to the podcast after a long hiatus, bringing with me a wealth of experience and growth. I kick off the episode with an inspiring passage from Daisaku Ikeda's "Buddhism Day by Day," emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility and confronting challenges head-on. This theme resonates deeply with my own journey and the current state of the world. In a new segment titled "Now Make It Make Sense," I welcome former Georgia State Representative Renita Shannon to help dissect the political noise surrounding current events, particularly focusing on the ongoing Trump saga. We dive into the promises made by Trump during his campaign, particularly regarding inflation, and discuss the reality of his administration's failures. Renita and I analyze the disconnect between Trump's rhetoric and the lived experiences of everyday Americans, especially in light of rising prices for essentials like eggs and gas. We also tackle the implications of Trump's policies, including the controversial SAVE Act, which threatens to complicate voter registration processes and disproportionately affect marginalized communities, including trans individuals and married women. Renita highlights the dangers of erasing databases that track police misconduct, emphasizing the need for accountability in law enforcement. As the conversation unfolds, we reflect on the broader implications of these political maneuvers and the importance of community resilience. I express my commitment to fighting for our rights and the necessity of being prepared for the challenges ahead. In the latter part of the episode, I introduce my guest, Hope Giselle, a fellow activist and leader in the movement. We discuss the complexities of navigating public spaces as Black trans women, the challenges of being perceived through societal lenses, and the importance of mutual support and grace within our community. Hope shares her experiences of showing up authentically, even in spaces that may not always feel safe, and we explore the significance of accountability and growth in our interactions with one another. Throughout this episode, I aim to foster a sense of hope and empowerment, encouraging listeners to confront the realities of our political landscape while also nurturing our community bonds. Join us as we navigate these critical conversations and strive for a more inclusive future.

In this episode of "No Opportunity Wasted," I had the pleasure of speaking with Dr. Leo Moore, a remarkable physician whose journey is a testament to resilience, purpose, and the power of community support. We kicked off our conversation by checking in on Dr. Moore's well-being, and he shared how his busy day of patient care and administrative work had him looking forward to our discussion. The core theme of our podcast revolves around how individuals navigate challenges and seize opportunities throughout their lives. I expressed my belief that everyone faces obstacles, regardless of their background or appearance, and it is our responses to these challenges that define us. Dr. Moore's story exemplifies this notion, particularly as a Black man in the medical field. Dr. Moore reflected on the strong foundation he received from his family, particularly the influence of his mother, grandmother, and aunts, all of whom worked in healthcare. He shared that he is the first doctor in his family, and his family's unwavering support nurtured his dream of becoming a physician from a young age. This support was crucial, especially when he encountered the daunting realities of medical school, including the financial burdens and the rigorous academic demands. A pivotal moment in Dr. Moore's journey occurred when he met a Black emergency medicine physician during high school. This encounter crystallized his dream of becoming a doctor, as he finally saw someone who looked like him thriving in the profession. He emphasized the importance of representation and mentorship in shaping his aspirations. We also discussed the significance of programs like "Minority to Majority," which provided him with opportunities to learn and grow in a predominantly white environment. Dr. Moore expressed concern over the decline of such programs and the impact this has on future generations. As we delved deeper into his experiences, Dr. Moore candidly shared the challenges he faced as a Black physician navigating predominantly white institutions. He highlighted the importance of confidence in his training at a historically Black medical school, which equipped him to serve diverse communities effectively. Our conversation took a poignant turn when Dr. Moore recounted his recent experience with cardiac arrest during an elective procedure. He described the harrowing moments of being in cardiac arrest for over nine minutes and the subsequent journey of recovery. Dr. Moore's resilience and commitment to his health were evident as he shared how he quickly returned to his routine, emphasizing the importance of physical fitness and mental fortitude. We also touched on the broader implications of health disparities, particularly within the Black community, and the need for open conversations about health, trust, and misinformation. Dr. Moore passionately advocated for addressing stigma surrounding HIV and the importance of education in combating misinformation. Towards the end of our conversation, we explored Dr. Moore's personal life, including his journey of coming out as a Black gay man. He shared the challenges he faced in a religious household and the importance of self-acceptance and authenticity. His reflections on love, spirituality, and the qualities he seeks in a partner were both insightful and inspiring. This episode is a powerful reminder of the strength found in community, the importance of representation, and the resilience required to overcome life's challenges. Dr. Leo Moore's story is not just about his journey in medicine; it is a celebration of hope, purpose, and the unwavering belief that we can all make a difference in our lives and the lives of others.

Join Angelica Ross in a compelling conversation with Shea Couleé as they explore her journey from a crafty queen to a Marvel star. In this insightful interview, Shea discusses her personal growth and the importance of navigating the entertainment industry while championing the LGBTQ+ community. Dive into stories about Shea's early days in Chicago, the challenges faced by Black queens, and her ascent to polished stardom. The video highlights the significance of voting, embracing identity, and challenging social issues to create a more peaceful and just world. Angelica's deep understanding of social dynamics and her background as founder of TransTech adds depth to their discussion, touching on the intersection of personal empowerment and community advocacy. With expert storytelling, they address the need for authentic representation in media and the impact of Shea's work on broader societal change. Engage with the video by sharing your thoughts in the comments, subscribing for more empowering discussions, and spreading the message of inclusivity and resilience.

Join us for a conversation with Dominic Lim, the author of "Karaoke Queen," a queer rom-com that explores themes of identity, love, and the complexities of being a queer person of color. Dominic shares his journey as a writer, the challenges he faced in the publishing industry, and the importance of representation in literature. We discuss his experiences growing up Filipino and queer, the acceptance he found within his family, and the supportive community that helped him thrive. Dominic also highlights the significance of visibility for marginalized communities and the role of storytelling in fostering understanding and connection. We touch on the importance of mental health, the realities behind social media portrayals, and the need for solidarity within the LGBTQ+ community. As we wrap up, I reflect on the teachings of Buddhism, encouraging listeners to focus on the present moment and make choices that liberate themselves and others. I invite everyone to find opportunities for positive action in their lives, reminding them that every moment counts. 00:00:00 - Introduction and Buddhist WisdomWelcome back to Now, No Opportunity Wasted. Angelica Ross shares a Buddhist quote about individual responsibility and self-discipline. 00:01:05 - Political Climate and ResponsibilityDiscussion on the upcoming election, online discourse, and the importance of taking responsibility for societal issues. 00:02:10 - Boycotting for ChangeAngelica talks about boycotting companies that support war and human rights violations, emphasizing the BDS movement. 00:03:39 - Sustainability in Fashion and TechA call for transparency in business practices, particularly in tech companies and their environmental impact. 00:04:49 - Introduction to Dominic LimAngelica introduces Dominic Lim, author of "Karaoke Queen," and discusses his excitement about the conversation. 00:05:12 - Dominic's Inspiration for WritingDominic shares his inspiration for "Karaoke Queen" and the exploration of queer identity within the context of drag. 00:07:47 - The Desire for AdaptationsDiscussion on the potential for Dominic's stories to be adapted into movies and the challenges authors face in the industry. 00:09:51 - Challenges for Authors of ColorDominic discusses the difficulties faced by authors of color in the publishing industry and the importance of supportive allies. 00:11:07 - Growing Up Filipino and QueerDominic reflects on his upbringing, family acceptance, and the dynamics of coming out within his family. 00:13:03 - The Role of Music in WritingDominic talks about his background in music and how it influences his writing, particularly in his books. 00:17:19 - Navigating the Legal FieldDiscussion on Dominic's experience in the legal industry and how it informs his writing. 00:18:57 - Writing from Personal ExperienceDominic emphasizes the importance of writing from personal experience and the need for diverse representation in literature. 00:19:56 - Personal Life and MarriageDominic shares about his marriage and the importance of love in his life. 00:20:10 - Concerns for LGBTQ+ RightsDiscussion on the current political climate and fears regarding the future of LGBTQ+ rights. 00:22:09 - Visibility and RepresentationThe importance of visibility for marginalized communities and the role of artists in promoting diverse stories. 00:25:30 - Creating Inclusive NarrativesDominic discusses the need for inclusive narratives in media and the importance of recognizing diverse experiences...

In this insightful episode of "No Opportunity Wasted," Angelica Ross sits down with Andre M. Perry, author of "Know Your Price," to delve into the art of unlocking hidden value and transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and social empowerment. The conversation explores the intersection of personal experiences and societal structures, emphasizing the importance of valuing Black lives, property, and communities. Angelica and Andre discuss the power of resilience, the significance of recognizing personal and community assets, and the role of Buddhism in creating a more peaceful and just world. They also highlight the challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community and the need for ownership and economic empowerment within Black neighborhoods. With a focus on shared economics and entrepreneurship, this episode offers a narrative on how to navigate and overcome systemic obstacles. Join the conversation by sharing your thoughts in the comments, subscribing for more inspiring discussions, and spreading awareness to empower others.

In this episode of the NOW podcast, I had the pleasure of hosting Jordan and Dr. John Paul from the Black Fat Femme Podcast. We kicked off the conversation with a warm reunion vibe, reflecting on our shared history and the journey we've all been on in the media landscape. Both guests expressed their excitement about being on the show and shared how they feel validated in their work, particularly in creating a platform that centers Black, fat, and femme voices. We delved into the challenges they faced while developing their podcast over the past three years, emphasizing the importance of collaboration and trust in their partnership. Jordan and Dr. John Paul highlighted how their friendship and shared vision have been crucial in navigating the complexities of podcasting, especially in a space that often overlooks marginalized voices. As we discussed the intersectionality of their work, they shared insights on maintaining mental health in an environment that can be anti-Black, anti-fat, and anti-femme. They emphasized the need for empathy and the importance of curating their online spaces to protect their peace. Both guests acknowledged the challenges of celebrity culture and the pressure to perform, while also recognizing the value of authenticity in their interactions. Throughout the episode, we explored themes of community, support, and the significance of standing firm in one's identity and beliefs. Jordan and Dr. John Paul reminded us that while social media can be a double-edged sword, it is essential to engage with it mindfully and prioritize mental well-being. This conversation was not only enlightening but also a celebration of the resilience and creativity within our communities.

Angelica and Miss Janetta Louise Johnson discuss their experiences as Black trans women and the challenges they have faced. They talk about the heyday of South Florida for trans women, the differences between then and now, and the importance of visibility and opportunities for the trans community. Miss Janetta shares her journey of transitioning out of sex work and incarceration and finding support from Miss Major. They also discuss the need for Black trans ownership and the work of the Transgender Gender Variant Intersex Justice Project (TGIJP) in providing services and opportunities for the community. Miss Janetta shares her work with the Transgender Gender-Variant & Intersex Justice Project (TGIJP) and their efforts to create safer spaces and provide reentry case management services. They also discuss the importance of self-care, family, and finding joy outside of the work. The conversation ends with a discussion about their future goals and the impact they want to make in their respective communities. TGI Justice Project  

In this conversation, Angelica and Frederick Joseph author of "We Alive Beloved", "Patriarchy Blues", "The Black Friend" and more, discuss the progress and setbacks across various social justice movements and explore the intersectionality of different advocacy work and the challenges faced by marginalized communities. They also examine the pyramid of privilege, where white women and black men often align with systems of power to gain their own benefits. They highlight the importance of dismantling these systems and creating true equality for all. The conversation also touches on the role of capitalism, the impact of social media, and the need for accountability in progressive spaces.  explores the themes of activism, fear, and the role of art in social change.  In this conversation, Frederick Joseph and Angelica Ross discuss the impact of Frederick's book 'The Black Friend' and the importance of having conversations about race and identity.    Watch video on Youtube.com/@missross

Angelica Ross interviews Renita Shannon, a former House Representative and advocate for equality. They discuss the importance of the upcoming election and the need for voters to make their voices heard. They also talk about the role of elected officials and the importance of holding them accountable. Renita emphasizes the need for authentic leadership and encourages individuals to use their voices to make their demands known. They also discuss the impact of social media and the importance of community engagement in creating change. Chapters 00:00 Introduction01:26 The Importance of the Upcoming Election04:00 Holding Elected Officials Accountable09:17 The Power of Authentic Leadership16:13 The Role of Community Engagement