Mommy Issues with Lucas Zelnick

This week, we're back to our regularly scheduled programming. A listener asks how to approach asking her dad for money which leads to me asking if I'm my dad's FinDom. But first, my mom argues that me and my siblings are hard on our parents for their involvement in our lives. I also talk about the best piece of advice my dad gave me about money, a valuable and 'stagnant' lesson I learned about renting an apartment and a pesky fly we just couldn't get out of the studio. Comment the most valuable lesson your parents taught you about money and dont forget to like and subscribe so you never miss an episode and more of my stand up comedy.TIMESTAMPS00:00 Who’s the FinDom?00:55 Wendy Feels like Zelnick Kids are Hard on Their Parents07:15 Pictures at Lucas’s Wedding12:35 Wendy Doesn’t Understand Social Media20:05 Listener Advice Segment - Getting Money From Dad 23:15 Lucas is Getting FinDommed, or FinDomming 28:15 Lucas’s First Apartment32:05 Lucas’s Budget in College 34:30 Important Financial Lesson Lucas LearnedTour Dates & City Requests: https://www.lucaszelnick.com/

I say it in the episode too, but the community of listeners here at Mommy Issues is one of my favorite parts of podcasting. And that’s why I saved my first reaction to the recent firestorm of criticism for a viral clip I put out for this episode specifically. I discuss why I thought it was important to publish the interaction at my show in San Francisco and what surprised me about the reaction from fans and people who didn’t see it my way. I hope to have a healthy discussion in the comments, even if you don’t agree with me or my mom. Thank You for listening and supporting me. TIMESTAMPS00:05 - Lucas Addresses the Backlash to Viral Clip02:45 - The Two Groups Lucas Heard From 06:20 - Why Lucas Ultimately Decided to Put Out the Clip08:00 - Lucas’s Feels Alienated By Members of His Community 11:45 - Wendy’s Emotional Reaction to Viral Clip23:17 - Wendy Responds to Lucas’s Critics25:15 - Podcast Criticizes Lucas33:10 - Lucas Opens Up About Feeling Rejected By His Community39:10 - Lucas’s first Traumatic Antisemitic Interaction

Getting back with an ex is something I know a little bit about. So I give advice to a listener who is contemplating doing exactly what I did. But first, my mom and I ask our producer how the advice we gave him a few episodes back (link below) is working for him and set him straight on a BIG misconception. We also delve into a nuanced take on the Cornell University case, forget how it came up and ultimately help out that listener with some advice on his ex situation. TIMESTAMPS00:45 Wendy Looks Skinny02:10 Christos Update on Relationship with Mom12:42 Insecurity19:27 Cornell Case Analysis28:25 Planning Lucas’s Wedding32:05 Get Back With Ex? LISTENER ADVICE33:42 Lucas Speaks Experience47:38 Everyone is Proud of Each Other

How much pressure should parents put on their kids to succeed? And when should they step back and let them find their own path? On today's episode, Lucas and Wendy discuss parenting, career expectations, and Lucas's decision to pursue stand-up comedy instead of a traditional corporate career. Wendy reflects on her husband's parenting style, while Lucas reveals how his fear of failure nearly kept him from following his passion. Things take a turn when Lucas revisits his disastrous early comedy performances, recalls a drunken night that ended with an ambulance, and uncovers a bizarre Facebook exchange from 2015 about cultural appropriation. Plus, an airport interrogation in Scandinavia and a few childhood confessions Wendy wishes she'd never heard. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Fajitas Madness 02:11 - Letting Your Children Find Their Way 10:43 - How Lucas's Dad Approached His Son's Grades 16:23 - How Do Parents Measure Success? 24:10 - Lucas's 'Bringer Shows' at Caroline's 27:28 - Start of Getting in Trouble in Norway Story 29:18 - Lucas's Club Story 36:55 - The Fajita Story 44:15 - End of Lucas's Norway Story Like, Subscribe and let us know how involved you think parents should be in the career choices of their children in the comments. #MommyIssues

Do men actually shower together? This week on Mommy Issues, Lucas and his mom Wendy tackle a college shower mystery, relationship boundaries, cheating, and whether it's better to know when someone is talking behind your back. Lucas battles the flu, recounts a bizarre wedding, and opens up about his thoughts on death, while Wendy shares her outrage over the news and her very strong opinions on job interview etiquette. Plus, the mother-son duo gives dating advice to a listener considering asking out a coworker, debates the Macklemore and Ed Sheeran controversy, and discusses Lucas's upcoming international comedy tour.  TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Do Men Shower Together? 01:18 - Lucas is Sick 04:08 - Bizarre Wedding 06:00 - Wendy Isn't at Liberty to Discuss Weekend 08:00 - Lucas Has Been Thinking about De*th 12:18 - The Meisner Technique 14:23 - Bring Iced Coffee to an Interview? 16:06 - Advice For a High School Sophomore 16:50 - Do Men Shower with Other Men 19:50 - The News Outrages Wendy 21:00 - Lucas's Weddings is Going to Be HUUUGE Event 24:00 - Do You Want to Know if You're Being Cheated On? 26:00 - Do You Want to Know if You're Being Talked About 28:36 - Should A Listener Ask out a Co-Worker? 31:40 - Sorry Syracuse 41:40 - Lucas's Five Statements on Macklemore Ed Sheeran 44:00 - Lucas's Tour Announcement   Tour Dates & City Requests: https://www.lucaszelnick.com/ Follow Lucas: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucaszelnick TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lucaszelnick Lucas Zelnick is a stand-up comedian who has been featured on Comedy Central, Don't Tell Comedy, and as a member of the 2026 Netflix Shortlist class. Lucas has appeared in feature films Regulars, Fade to Black, Offsite, and Hulu's Pizza Movie. As a touring comedian, he has sold over 100,000 tickets and accumulated over 2 million followers across social media. For no reason at all, he also holds an MBA from the Stanford Graduate School of Business.

Lucas and Wendy get personal in this episode of Mommy Issues, opening up about family, grief, Wendy's recent breast cancer diagnosis, and the very different ways they handle privacy. They also get into a heated debate about language, comedy, and "old woke vs. new woke," before revealing there's a Zelnick family secret they still can't share. Plus, Lucas and Wendy answer a listener's relationship dilemma: after 14 years together and two kids, how do you know when it's time to leave a relationship—or whether it's worth fighting for? TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Imminent Threat 02:00 - Sorting Bubby's Things 06:00 - Keep Lucas Safe 07:30 - Lucas's Prized Possession 08:50 - A Health Reveal 12:30 - A Controversial Word That Hits Home 25:19 - Old Woke vs. New Woke 29:50 - Wendy Pitches Lucas Bits? 32:20 - How Wendy Told Lucas About Her Diagnosis 37:40 - A Zelnick Family Secret May Be Revealed 39:00 - A Listener Comment Is Appreciated 41:52 - Should i Get Divorced? - Listener Advice Segment    Mommy Issues is a mother-son advice podcast where comedian Lucas Zelnick and his mom, Wendy, tackle relationships, family, culture, and the messy problems listeners bring their way. With two generations and very different perspectives, they mix candid advice, sharp humor, and personal stories to figure out who actually knows best.

Lucas is ENGAGED—and almost every surprise he planned for the proposal fell apart. This week on Mommy Issues, Lucas tells his mom how he popped the question, the meaning behind the ring, and why announcing his engagement cost him 2,000 Instagram followers. They also get into feeling ready for marriage, hitting one million followers, and a late-night food delivery that brought Lucas face-to-face with his biggest fear. Wendy keeps the vocabulary corrections coming, while listener updates take them from a heartfelt breakup follow-up to a very unexpected development with a listener seeing a man 25 years older than her. Plus: nipple piercings, tattoo debates, and conversations you probably wouldn't want to have with your mother. Subscribe for more Mommy Issues with Lucas and Wendy, and let us know in the comments: Did your proposal go according to plan? TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Listener Has Piercing Remorse  01:48 - Lucas is Engaged! How He Popped the Question 09:26 - Oscillate or Vasillate? 15:41 - Invoking or Evoking? 18:21 - Lucas Has Over 1 MILLION IG Followers 19:51 - Don't Leave Food in the Woods Story 26:04 - The Zelnick Family Hero 27:46 - Shoutout to the Listeners and a Few Old Friends 35:20 - We Will Take Your Advice Questions Seriously 36:09 - Should Listener Remove New Piercings? 43:27 - Have You Seen Cops? 49:20 - Wendy Reveals Something Very Important

This week on Mommy Issues, we help a listener struggling to talk to her dad about an abusive relationship. But first, we cover Lucas's upcoming tour and how he's handling his writer's block. Next, we get into nepo babies and the difference between Stella Lefty and Rebecca Black. Wendy gives us the scoop on Canadian tariffs, Lucas tells us about a corporate gig and ending up at a White Reggae concert. Lucas and Wendy return to their listener's situation with some honest mother-and-son advice. If you have a problem you'd like Lucas and Wendy to discuss, drop it in the comments or send a voice note to @lucaszelnick on IG TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Listener Asks for Advice 01:38 – Lucas Is Going on Tour 01:59 – The Inner Sanctum Unites in Hawaii  03:16 – Lucas Has Writer's Block 05:00 – RIP David Bell 07:30 – Wendy Has the Scoop on Canadian Tariffs 10:00 – Is Stella Lefty a Nepo Baby? 12:00 – Rebecca Black 16:20 – Lucas Admires Jordan Jensen 18:45 – Lucas's Corporate Gig—Shoutout to Intuit 19:35 – White Reggae Concert 20:45 – Bakersfield Stinks 22:35 – Lucas's Solo Dinner—Shoutout to Kam Patterson 24:00 – GTA VI Leaks 29:19 – Advice for the Listener #MommyIssues #LucasZelnick #RelationshipAdvice Tour Dates & City Requests: https://www.lucaszelnick.com/ Follow Lucas: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucaszelnick TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lucaszelnick Lucas Zelnick is a stand-up comedian who has been featured on Comedy Central, Don't Tell Comedy, and as a member of the 2026 Netflix Shortlist class. Lucas has appeared in feature films Regulars, Fade to Black, Offsite, and Hulu's Pizza Movie. As a touring comedian, he has sold over 100,000 tickets and accumulated over 2 million followers across social media. For no reason at all, he also holds an MBA from the Stanford Graduate School of Business.

Today's advice goes out to someone whose pain you can hear in her voice. We tell a listener how to go about being blindsided by the end of her 2+ year relationship. We also touch on topics like the worst way to pass, how I dealt with my first and worst heartache and whether men or women move on quicker after a relationship ends. Oh yeah, my sister calls in at the end too, so stick around for it. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Two Year Relationship Ends  01:42 - Is Drowning the Worst Way To Go? 05:40 - What Wendy Has Learned About Lucas 07:00 - What is Ego Death? 11:35 - Advice Question: Broken Heart 13:20 - Wendy's Verdict 15:00 - Lucas's Informed Take 20:30 - Barstool Smokeshows 24:10 - Light at End of the Breakup Tunnel 28:25 - Final Advice for Breakups 34:00 - Do Men or Women Move On Quicker? 35:30 - Never Getting Over Your First Love 39:55 - Lucas's Sister Calls in

Today, we run the gamut on Mommy Issues. It's a marathon recording today because we're going on vacation! Mom is going on safari so we talk about the conflict in Rwanda, whether zoos are bad and if direwolves are real. We give advice to a listener who is seeing a man 25 years older than her so we had to follow-up with her and IT GETS WILD! Tune in to this one until the end. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Hilarious Caller 01:25 - Wendy's Going on Safari 02:45 - Hotel Rwanda 04:50 - Are Zoos Bad? 06:30 - Are Coyotes a Pack Animal? 11:00 - Lucas Appreciates His Fans 13:10 - Listener Advice: Can a 25 Year Age Gap Work? 15:40 - Wendy's Verdict 20:27 - Will the Listener Respond to Lucas's Follow-Up? 26:07 - Is There Such a Thing as A Soulmate? 28:20 - Lucas is Getting Married? 34:10 - 89 Year-Old Asks for Divorce 35:25 - Eye-Opening Experience 37:27 - Only Reason to Get Married 47:58 - First Ever Listener Follow-Up and it's a Doozy