GITRMM: Ambivalence

Episode Notes:Title: Love Takes Flight: How Cindy, a Pilot, Soared to Happiness at 57Hosted by: Lisa ShieldGuest: Cindy Weichert (she/her) Synopsis:In this episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul, I’m thrilled to welcome the amazing Cindy Weichert, who has an incredibly inspiring love story to share. Imagine finding the love of your life in your mid-50s—well, Cindy did just that! After overcoming her own doubts and taking a fresh approach to dating, she met and married Tom at 57. Cindy’s journey is a beautiful testament to what’s possible when you embrace structured dating, lean on a supportive community, and stay open to love. Her story is full of hope, transformation, and a few surprises along the way—you won’t want to miss it!Key Highlights:1. Cindy's Background:  - Divorced in 2014, Cindy was initially distrustful of men and focused on self-healing.  - Encountered Lisa Shield on YouTube, inspiring a major shift in perspective towards dating and openness.2. Transformation Through Coaching:  - Undertook a comprehensive dating program that included relationship inventory, learning online dating strategies, and community engagement.  - Cindy overcame her fear and financial concerns to commit fully to the process, resulting in a transformative personal journey.3. Importance of Community and Support:  - Valued the network of like-minded women and the camaraderie fostered through the dating course.  - Emphasized the significance of structured plans and guidance to achieve major life changes.4. Dating Journey:  - Created a specific online dating profile, refined with expert advice, to attract a compatible partner.  - Re-entered the dating scene post-breakup, leading to a meaningful connection with Tom through Elite Singles.  - Developed a long-distance relationship with Tom, who was still in the army, solidifying their bond before meeting in person.5. Successful Relationship:  - Cindy appreciated the practical dating tips such as choosing a photographer, dressing for dates, and enjoying the process.  - The program helped her realize that not all dating failures were her fault and encouraged her to keep multiple options open.  - Credits the dating course for her successful marriage and personal growth, which she believes would not have been achieved alone.6. Wedding Details:  - Cindy's wedding was a meaningful ceremony combined with Tom's retirement from the military, held at the National Infantry Museum's WWII chapel.  - This unique and perfect event signified the culmination of her journey towards finding her soulmate.7. **Final Thoughts:**  - Cindy emphasizes the value of full commitment to personal development and the direct, forward-looking nature of coaching over traditional therapy.  - Lisa and Cindy conclude with gratitude and personal greetings, highlighting Cindy’s happiness and alignment with Tom.This episode is a testament to the power of persistence, structured guidance, and the willingness to embrace change in the pursuit of love and fulfillment. Tune in to hear Cindy's inspiring journey and the profound impact of finding the Guardian of her Soul. **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Don’t miss this inspiring episode with Cindy Weichert and learn how you can find the Guardian of your Soul! Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

Introduction:Welcome to another enlightening episode of Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, hosted by Lisa Shield and Benjamin Shield. Today, we dive deep into the emotional quagmire of breadcrumbing in relationships—a toxic dynamic where one person gives minimal effort, keeping the other clinging to the hope of something more meaningful. In this episode titled "Why We Breadcrumb and How It’s Holding You Back from Real Love," Lisa and Benjamin explore the intricate power imbalances and emotional manipulation inherent in breadcrumbing, highlighting its damaging effects on both individuals involved.We'll discuss the pervasive patterns of mixed signals, avoidance of deep conversations, and last-minute plans, which often leave the breadcrumbed individual feeling undervalued and frustrated. Through personal anecdotes, client stories, and psychological insights, our hosts emphasize the critical importance of self-love, self-compassion, and the courage to walk away from unhealthy relational patterns.Tune in as Lisa and Benjamin guide you through recognizing these harmful behaviors, breaking the addictive cycle of false hope, and embarking on a journey toward genuine connections. Remember to visit lisashield.com for more resources and to share this episode with anyone who might benefit from this crucial conversation. This is your chance to learn, heal, and find the true guardian of your soul. Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

🎙️ Exciting Episode Alert! 🌟I had the pleasure of sitting down with Kristina Dedekian for the latest episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul ®" titled Dedekian. This episode is packed with insightful reflections and transformative experiences from Kristina's journey in the emotionally naked dating program.Discover how Kristina leveraged lessons from the program to overcome past relationship challenges and navigate towards a more fulfilling, supportive partnership with her current boyfriend, Jesse. It's a heartwarming story of personal growth and the quest for extraordinary love. 💖Key Takeaways:Group Support & Diversity:Kristina found immense value in the collective support and diverse perspectives of the women she met through the course, which helped her feel uplifted and understood.Profile Refinement:Professional photography and thoughtful profile responses played critical roles in attracting higher caliber men, teaching Kristina the importance of first impressions.Perspective Shift & Personal Growth:Understanding that some partners won't change allowed Kristina to embrace those who would offer genuine affection and support. This shift, coupled with coaching insights, helped her critically evaluate potential partners and her own dating patterns.Tune into this inspiring episode to learn how investing in self-growth can pave the way to finding and appreciating true love. 🌟❤️#Podcast #DatingAdvice #PersonalGrowth #FindingLove #Relationships #SelfDevelopment #WomenSupportWomen #FindingTheGuardianOfYourSoul Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

We'll discuss how personal development and emotional maturity play pivotal roles in creating fulfilling partnerships and why it's important to let go of past baggage to experience genuine, unconditional love. Lisa will also introduce her transformative program, Emotionally Naked Dating, designed to help you find a lasting, meaningful connection.Adding a twist to traditional views, we'll delve into the joy of keeping a relationship playful and fun, rather than seeing it as constant work. With anecdotes from their own lives, Lisa and Benjamin emphasize loving actions, conscious choices, and the profound connection that comes from truly seeing each other's souls. Plus, stay tuned till the end for an opportunity to book a call with Lisa’s team and learn more about her insightful course.We’re grateful to have you with us today and eager to share insights that can transform your approach to love and relationships. Don’t forget to submit your ideas for future topics at [email protected]. Let's begin! Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

Join us as Lisa shares transformative insights from her six-month emotionally naked dating course, and hear real-life stories, including a woman who found love by embodying these principles on her first date. Discover how playfulness, humor, and deep conversations without excessive seriousness can strengthen bonds, and learn why supporting each other's dreams is critical—even those that might seem unreachable.Benjamin opens up about the importance of giving men space to decompress and how women and men process stress differently. We also tackle common pitfalls like emotional volatility and the fine line between being supportive and overly independent, which can lead to feelings of resentment in a relationship.Stay tuned as we offer a deeper understanding of the male mind and what men truly seek in a future partner. With practical advice and heartwarming personal anecdotes, this episode promises to provide valuable tools to enrich and elevate your relationships. Don't miss out, and remember to visit lisashield.com for more resources and to book a call with Lisa’s team for personalized guidance. Let’s dive in! Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

Listen in as Benjamin defines ambivalence and explains how it leads to overthinking, resistance to new relationships, and dismissing well-suited matches based on a rigid checklist. Lisa opens up about the challenges faced by high-achieving women in their program, including fears related to personal imbalances and complex life circumstances, from medical conditions to navigating parental roles.Today on 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa and Benjamin Shield delve into the complex world of ambivalence in romantic relationships. In this episode, titled "Ambivalence.MP3," Lisa and Benjamin explore the simultaneous positive and negative emotions that can halt women seeking love in their tracks.Listen in as Benjamin defines ambivalence and explains how it leads to overthinking, resistance to new relationships, and dismissing well-suited matches based on a rigid checklist. Lisa opens up about the challenges faced by high-achieving women in their program, including fears related to personal imbalances and complex life circumstances, from medical conditions to navigating parental roles.Discover how the Shields emphasize creating a vivid vision of an ideal relationship to combat worst-case scenarios, with unique examples like living apart or maintaining separate households. Moreover, learn why they believe successful relationships require work and the importance of vulnerability and seeing one's partner's internal beauty.Lisa shares personal insights and exercises, like "a day in the life" visualization or vision boards, to help you manifest your ideal partner. She also encourages listeners to seek connection and inspiration through programs like theirs. Tune in for this heartfelt episode filled with real success stories, practical advice, and an invitation to reimagine your love life. Visit lisashield.com for a free 45-minute presentation and schedule your breakthrough call today. Join us as we navigate the highs and lows of love and explore the true path to finding your guardian of the soul. Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

Welcome to another enlightening episode of *Finding the Guardian of Your Soul ®*! Join hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield as they dive into the heart of relationship dynamics in this episode, titled "Bridging the Communication Divide." Today, we’ll unravel the complexities of how men and women communicate differently. While women seek verbal validation and expressions of feelings, men often demonstrate love through actions rather than words.Lisa and Benjamin will discuss how societal expectations and a lack of role models make it challenging for men to express their emotions. You’ll learn practical tips on how to better understand each other’s communication styles and meet in the middle for a more harmonious relationship. From the need for women to communicate their needs without shaming men, to appreciating the value men place on silence and companionship over constant conversation, this episode offers a roadmap to deepen your connection.We’ll also explore how men appreciate direct, concise communication and how women can offer feedback in a non-shaming manner. Plus, stay tuned as Lisa and Benjamin share insights into their own positive and grateful relationship, and don’t forget to hear about their special six-month emotionally naked dating course. For more details, visit lisashield.com. So, get ready to bridge the communication divide and strengthen your relationship, right here on Finding the Guardian of Your Soul. Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul." I'm Lisa Shield, joined by my wonderful co-host, Benjamin Shield. Today, we tackle a critical issue that often plagues even the most successful and intelligent women: self-sabotage in relationships. We'll explore why smart women, despite being ready and eager to find their soulmates, often unintentionally put up walls and push away potential partners. We'll dive into the deep-seated fears, ambivalence, and past baggage that contribute to this self-sabotaging behavior and discuss practical strategies to overcome it. Join us as we unravel the complexities of the frenemy mind and share insights to help you embrace vulnerability and open up to love. If you're ready to stop the cycle of self-sabotage and find the guardian of your soul, this episode is a must-listen. Let's get started!From misunderstanding simple gestures to resurrecting baggage from past relationships, Lisa and Benjamin dissect the self-protective mechanisms that can hinder meaningful connections. They share compelling stories from their transformative Emotionally Naked Dating course, including clients who nearly missed out on incredible partners due to self-doubt and misguided assumptions.Discover practical strategies to identify and overcome self-sabotage, the importance of seeking grounded advice, and how honest communication can transform budding relationships. Hear how many of their clients, initially on the brink of giving up on good matches, found lasting love through guided introspection and vulnerability. Don't miss this invaluable episode for any woman seeking to unlock the path to her soul's guardian. Tune in to learn how to stop your frenemy mind and start embracing the love you truly deserve. Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul." Today, your hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield dive into the topic of what a quality man looks for in a life partner. In this episode, we explore the essential ingredients of a relationship from the male perspective. Benjamin shares insightful details about the desires for kindness, playfulness, and a genuine connection. He stresses the importance of not just being nice, but being kind—highlighting how this creates a nurturing environment for both partners.Lisa discusses the power of supporting a partner's dreams and how essential it is for creating a deep bond. She underscores the significance of making a man feel appreciated and valued, pointing out that independence in a relationship should be balanced with interdependence to avoid making the man feel unnecessary.We'll also hear personal anecdotes from the hosts and a success story from their mastermind program, emphasizing the benefits of kindness, compassion, and emotional support from early dating experiences to more established relationships.Join Lisa and Benjamin as they unravel the curiosities of masculine desires and preferences, offering guidance and insights designed to help you build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. And don't forget, Lisa invites all listeners to learn more about her emotionally naked dating course available at lisashield.com. Stay tuned for a heartfelt discussion on how to be the partner a quality man seeks. Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]

In today's thought-provoking episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' we unravel the provocative wonders behind the age-old belief: Do men really crave the pursuit of love? Our host, Lisa Shield, embarks on a deeply introspective quest to dissect the "chase" and its place in modern romance. To spark this illuminating discussion, Lisa taps into her wisdom derived from guiding a mastermind group of 15 women steadfast in their mission to discover lasting love.Lisa dismantles common dating myths that cloud the path to true connection, by embracing authenticity over game-playing. She provides an enlightening commentary on the nuanced personalities of men, the complexities of communication between sexes, and the magnetic power of women taking the feminine lead. Learn why Lisa argues that a concoction of clarity, genuine interest, and a dash of patience are the true elixirs for a soulmate bond.In the absence of a special guest, Lisa takes center stage and shares a personal narrative reflecting on her husband's inclinations, revealing that even in the sanctuary of marriage, learning the art of togetherness remains key. Embark on this journey with Lisa as she dissects the dynamics of the chase, explores the proactive roles women can assume in kindling romance, and provides an antidote to the pitfalls of manipulative dating strategies. This episode holds up a mirror to the quest for companionship, urging listeners to foster connections that are organically grown and mutually nourished. Tune in for a session brimming with impactful stories, vital revelations, and Lisa's trademark debunking of relationship myths—all leading to the elusive guardian of your soul. Want more content like this?  Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: [email protected]