Gaslighting in Infertility - The Diagnosis that Isn't Always

Welcome to Cry It Out Loud!, the podcast where we get real about infertility, baby loss, and the journey of navigating pregnancy after loss. I’m Bernice, and here at Chasing the Rainbows, we believe in holding space for the stories that often go unheard—the raw, the painful, and the deeply personal. Because when you’ve been through the unimaginable, you deserve a community that truly understands.Today, we’re cracking the silence on a topic that deeply affects so many in our community, yet often doesn’t receive the attention it truly deserves—a true infertility journey. March is a month dedicated to raising awareness around endometriosis, surrogacy, and cervical health. These crucial health issues are often overlooked, and we’re honored to have Dae with us on the podcast to discuss their personal battle with infertility and the emotional manipulation that many go through—gaslighting in the infertility process.Dae is a true survivor who faced years of infertility struggles, unanswered questions, and dismissive doctors with incredible strength and resilience. Despite emotional exhaustion and countless challenges, Dae never gave up on advocating for their health. Their story is one of courage, and by sharing it, they hope to empower others who feel isolated in their own journey.In this episode, we unpack how gaslighting manifests in the infertility process, the impact it has on mental health, and why it’s so crucial to speak out and seek support. Dae's journey is a powerful reminder that you are not alone, and it’s okay to challenge medical professionals and societal expectations when it comes to your health.Tune in as we dive deep into Dae's personal story, discuss the importance of advocating for your health, and shed light on how we can support each other through this painful, yet powerful, journey.#CryItOutLoud #InfertilityAwareness #Infertility #EndometriosisAwareness #SurrogacySupport #CervicalHealth #InfertilityJourney #BabyLossSupport #MentalHealthInFertility #FertilityAdvocacy #InfertilitySurvivor #ChasingTheRainbowsPodcast #FertilityWarrior #InfertilityCommunity #BreakTheSilence #EmpowerYourVoice #ReclaimYourHealth #PodcastForChange #SupportAfterLoss #podcast #chasingtherainbows #unitinglossparents

In this heartwarming episode of Cry it Out Loud!, we dive deep into the Bursting Bubble 5k Walk & Run—an event that is more than just a race. It’s a movement of healing, remembrance, and connection. Whether you’re in York, PA, Dallas, TX, Kenmore, WA, Ramsey, MN, or New York City, NY, or even participating virtually, this event is about supporting families who’ve experienced the loss of a child.Our guest today is Kelsi Hagimoto, our Washington State Ambassador, who has been an incredible volunteer for over a year, spreading our mission and helping to raise awareness across Washington state. We talk with Kelsi about her journey, how she got involved, and how you can make a difference by volunteering or becoming a personal or corporate sponsor.Key topics we’ll cover:🏃‍♀️ The Bursting Bubble 5k Event: From York, PA to Dallas, TX, Kenmore, WA, Ramsey, MN, and New York City, NY, plus the virtual option, discover how this race is bringing communities together in remembrance.💖 Repurposing Your Pain: Kelsi and other survivors share how they’ve turned grief into purposeful action, helping others who’ve experienced the loss of a child.🎯 How to Become a Sponsor: We talk about how both personal and corporate sponsors can help cover event costs and support this meaningful cause.🌍 Hosting Your Own Event: Interested in starting your own event or support service in honor of your baby lost? We’ll show you how you can make a difference, no matter where you are.🌐 Virtual 5k: No matter where you live, you can join us virtually! Learn how to participate and support the cause from anywhere.Timestamps:0:00 – Introduction to the Bursting Bubble 5k Event and Kelsi Hagimoto’s Journey5:00 – Volunteering and Sponsorships: How YOU can get involved10:30 – Repurposing Pain into Purpose: Kelsi’s Story and Survivor Testimonials15:00 – Starting Your Own Event in Honor of a Lost Baby20:00 – Virtual 5k Option: Join from Anywhere and Make an Impact25:00 – How to Register and Make a Donation🚨 Call to Action:💌 Become a Sponsor: Help support our mission by sponsoring this life-changing event.👟 Join the Race: Whether in-person or virtual, you can join us to walk or run for the cause.📩 Get Involved: Email us at [email protected] or visit www.runsignup.com/w/ChasingTheRainbows to learn more.#ChasingTheRainbows #BurstingBubble5k #RepurposeYourPain #SponsorForACause #VolunteerWithUs #HealingThroughAction #BabyLossAwareness #BereavedMothersDay #CommunitySupport #NonprofitSupport #Virtual5k #RunForACause #5krun #Cryitoutloud #UnitingLossParents #donationsneeded

Join us for an emotional yet empowering episode of Cry It Out Loud Podcast where we dive deep into the complex journey of pregnancy after loss. Maternal Fetal Medicine expert, Dr. Serena Wu, answers critical questions about infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, and the unspoken challenges of expecting after experiencing loss. 💔🤰🌸 Have questions about your pregnancy after loss journey? Don’t face it alone—write to us at cryitoutloudpodcast.com and get the support you deserve.🌈 For additional resources like free therapy, peer groups, mindful movement, and care packages, head to chasingtherainbows.org. You can even host a meaningful event to honor your lost baby, from a 5k to a gala or bingo night. We’re here to support you every step of the way.#Pregnancyafterloss #miscarriagesupport #infertilityjourney #birthtrauma #miscarriage #stillbirth #babyloss #surrogacyjourney #parentingafterloss #ChasingtheRainbows #lossandgrief #hopeandhealing #CryItOutLoudPodcast #supportforlossparents #stillbirth #infant loss #infertility #lossparents #babylosssupport #donate #donationsneeded #501c3 #npo #honoroutloud #hostafundraisingevent

In this emotional and powerful episode ofCry It Out Loud!, we sit down with the inspiring Lori Z., a mother who has experienced the unimaginable – from the pain of miscarriage to surviving birth trauma and navigating medical challenges. Lori shares her raw and courageous journey through loss, healing, and the unyielding hope she holds for her family’s future.As Lori’s family embarks on a surrogacy journey to fulfill their dream of a large family, her story of resilience, strength, and determination is a testament to the power of perseverance through grief. Whether you're walking the path of infertility, loss, or dreaming of expanding your family in unexpected ways, Lori's story will resonate deeply.We also want to highlight the life-changing support provided byChasing the Rainbows, a trauma-informed, peer-to-peer service dedicated to supporting loss parents. With free virtual and in-person support groups, therapy, peer mentors, mindful movement, community events, care packages, and more, Chasing the Rainbows offers a compassionate space for healing and connection.If you're navigating life after loss, please visit our website for a range of resources and support services designed to help you through this journey. We're expanding and bringing Chasing the Rainbows to a city or county near you! If you're interested in starting a Chasing the Rainbows chapter, hosting a memorial or birthday fundraiser, or creating a new support service to honor your baby, reach out to us through our website at ChasingtheRainbows.org.🔔Tune in now to hear Lori’s story, and don’t forget to subscribe to Cry It Out Loud! for more conversations on love, loss, and the real-life journey of parenting after loss.🔔 Submit your questions to our Maternal Fetal Medicine Doctor or be interviewed on our podcast about your loss#infertilityjourney #birthtrauma #miscarriage #stillbirth #babyloss #surrogacyjourney #parentingafterloss #ChasingtheRainbows #lossandgrief #hopeandhealing #CryItOutLoudPodcast #supportforlossparents

Welcome to Cry It Out Loud!, the podcast where we uncover the raw, real truths about living after fertility loss and baby loss. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the world of fertility—separating fact from fiction with an expert who’s dedicated her career to helping women on their reproductive journeys. Joining me today is Dr. Allison Groff, MD, FACOG, a board-certified OBGYN in Maryland. Dr. Groff is here to break down the most common and misunderstood fertility myths, giving you the facts you need whether you're navigating infertility or simply looking for clarity on reproductive health. Dr. Groff also hosts the HerHealthMD podcast, where she shares valuable insights on women’s health. Together, we’ll tackle the truths surrounding fertility, debunk common misconceptions, and provide you with the information you’ve been searching for. To check on our episode together "The Holidays: Walking through Grief from pregnancy and infant loss and infertility. If you’ve been questioning what’s true about fertility, this episode is for you. Tune in for a candid, informative conversation that’s all about supporting you on your journey. For daily free support services or get involved uniting fertility, pregnancy and infant loss survivors, please visit ChasingTheRainbows.org. #babylosssurvivor #infertility #fertilityloss #miscarriage #stillbirth #infantloss #pregnancyloss #babyloss #griefsupport #traumasupport #unitingbabylosssurvivors #grief #trauma #wearebabylosssurvivors #crackthesilence #honoroutloud

The first hours, days, and weeks after experiencing a fertility loss can be the loneliest, most isolating time of all. Where do you even begin to pick up the pieces? Join Cardiovascular Technologist and Professor Breanna Gruver as she courageously shares her personal journey through the raw, heart-wrenching moments following 6 babies lost: 4 miscarriages and 2 stillbirths over 5 years. This show is a safe haven for loss survivors who want to stay connected, find hope, and be supported by a community that truly understands. Don’t miss next week’s episode, featuring our “Ask a Maternal Fetal Medicine Doctor” segment—your questions answered by a compassionate specialist. Find more details at CryItOutLoudPodcast.com.For daily free support services or get involved uniting fertility, pregnancy and infant loss survivors, please visit ChasingTheRainbows.org.#babylosssurvivor #infertility #fertilityloss #miscarriage #stillbirth #infantloss #pregnancyloss #babyloss #unitingbabylosssurvivors #grief #trauma #wearebabylosssurvivors #crackthesilence #honoroutloud

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Jennifer Canvasser, founder of the NEC Society, who shares her heart-wrenching journey through infant loss and how she transformed her pain into a beacon of hope for others. Join us as Jennifer opens up about her experiences, the mission behind her nonprofit, and the vital work being done to support families facing similar tragedies. This is not just a story of loss—it's a story of resilience, advocacy, and the profound strength found in community. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that will touch your heart and ignite your spirit. Let’s turn grief into action together. 💖 Don't miss this impactful episode—subscribe now and share with those who need to hear this vital message! For daily free support services or get involved uniting fertility, pregnancy and infant loss survivors, please visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ChasingTheRainbows.org⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠ To reach or get involved with the NEC Society, please reach out on their website https://necsociety.org/ #babylosssurvivor #infertility #fertilityloss #miscarriage #stillbirth #infantloss #pregnancyloss #babyloss #unitingbabylosssurvivors #grief #trauma #wearebabylosssurvivors #crackthesilence #honoroutloud

Sharing our infertility, pregnancy loss, and infant loss stories is a crucial step towards honoring all we have lost and supporting fellow survivors. Social media influencer, India Batson, bravely shares her own story on various platforms and National News channels to empower those who have experienced similar losses. Her voice is not only being heard but is also helping crack the silence surrounding these traumatic experiences. Despite the pain and devastation, we stand united in this community, offering support and solidarity to those who will come after us.For daily free support services, please visit ChasingTheRainbows.org. #babylosssurvivor #infertility #fertilityloss #miscarriage #stillbirth #infantloss #pregnancyloss #babyloss #unitingbabylosssurvivors #grief #trauma #wearebabylosssurvivors #crackthesilence #honoroutloud #babylossawarenessweek #pregnancyandinfantlossawarenessmonth

Infertility, Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant Losses are all traumatic. This is the 2nd part of our series because there is a lot of emotions and thoughts behind these feelings. The fuel for our traumas, PTSD, and grief after our losses can be guilt, shame and blame which are completely normal. Survivors are speaking out about our deepest thoughts that arose after our losses with these feelings that aren't talked about in our society or need to be kept quiet. Please tune in, follow and subscribe so we can continue to reach as many survivors as possible. For daily free support services or get involved uniting fertility, pregnancy and infant loss survivors, please visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠ChasingTheRainbows.org.⁠⁠⁠⁠ In honor of October Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month, we are hosting our 3rd Honor Out Loud! candle lighting ceremony on October 15th at 7pm EST on Zoom. Register on our website. #babylosssurvivor #infertility #fertilityloss #miscarriage #stillbirth #infantloss #pregnancyloss #babyloss #unitingbabylosssurvivors #grief #trauma #wearebabylosssurvivors #crackthesilence #honoringoutloud #pregnancyandinfantlossawarenessmonth

In this episode, we are discussing triggers that have happened to fellow survivors after we lost our babies. This is to help other survivors armor themselves when out in public but also for their support system to understand how to better comfort them in those moments. We discuss different coping methods and tools used that helped us when those overwhelming emotions and feelings came flooding in when we least expected it. Please tune in, follow and subscribe to our podcast to help us reach more survivors. For daily support, to volunteer and/or donate, please visit https://CryitOutLoudPodcast.com Follow and subscribe to help reach more survivors. For daily free support services or get involved uniting fertility, pregnancy and infant loss survivors, please visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠ChasingTheRainbows.org.⁠⁠⁠⁠ #babylosssurvivor #infertility #fertilityloss #miscarriage #stillbirth #infantloss #pregnancyloss #babyloss #unitingbabylosssurvivors #grief #trauma #wearebabylosssurvivors #crackthesilence #honoringoutloud