Cutting Ties With The Past

Send us Fan MailThe fastest way to lose an audience is to make them wait for the point. That’s why we brought on Dhara Singh—a former financial journalist who has helped 200+ entrepreneurs turn lived experience into magnetic brands—to show exactly how to craft a hook, shape a plot twist, and guide listeners toward action without feeling salesy. Dhara’s gift is part newsroom rigor, part human intuition: she listens like a reporter, then distills your story into repeatable assets that sell, heal, and connect.We dig into the moments that matter most: the first 60 seconds that tell people why they should care; the emotional turning points that travel beyond biography; and the difference between a viral reel and a story that actually builds a business. Dhara breaks down her storytelling intensive—from a no-prep interview to a detective-style analysis that becomes a keynote outline, website copy, and a plug-and-play content plan. She also opens the black box on media pitching, with practical ways to land quotes in major outlets using HARO and similar platforms, even if you don’t have a big following.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance multiple parts of your brand—author, speaker, founder, service pro—Dhara explains why people can track a multidimensional path when the narrative thread is clear. We talk borrowed stages, podcast swaps, and why the quiet power tool is your email list. Most of all, we spotlight the missing link in so much content: a strong call to action that shows people how to experience the transformation you share on stage or in a story.Subscribe for more candid, practical conversations with builders who lead with story. If this episode gave you a new hook or a braver headline for your life, share it with a friend, leave a review, and tell us the one moment you’d use to open your next talk.Follow Dhara on IGhttps://www.instagram.com/itsdharasingh/Get connected with Dharahttps://www.storybydhara.com/workwithme?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGn7CSpb9DEvLKQ-DKTQaaQ7IHBbFDISG7_JzRkNNfAjNi11UphNjW5urTrR7M_aem_veqqkvNNCDrGqvxsBvfozQLove what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailEver wondered what it feels like to communicate with those who've passed on? In this captivating conversation, we're joined by Nikki Blair, a gifted Coast Salish medium who's amassed nearly 20,000 followers on TikTok through her authentic and powerful readings.Nikki shares her extraordinary journey, beginning with her first spirit encounter at age five. Born into three indigenous tribes—Lummi, Nooksack, and LaCamel—she was raised in a culture where spiritual connections were embraced rather than feared. This cultural foundation allowed her natural abilities to flourish, though her gifts didn't fully emerge professionally until 2020.What makes Nikki's approach refreshingly different is her emphasis on boundaries and control in mediumship. "You are in control of your gift," she reassures listeners who might be discovering their own intuitive abilities. She walks us through how she protects her energy, works with her spirit guides (including her main guide Jonathan), and uses meditation to strengthen her connection to the spirit world.The conversation takes a fascinating turn when Nikki demonstrates a real-time clairvoyance exercise, offering a glimpse into how she trains aspiring mediums in her mentorship program. As both a professional medium and spiritual mentor, she tailors her teaching approach to each student's natural abilities, whether they're complete beginners or practicing intuitives looking to refine specific skills.Nikki's authenticity shines through as she candidly discusses the challenges of professional readings, from skeptical clients to the occasional difficult session. Her approach combines clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, and claircognizance, creating a multi-dimensional channel for spirits to communicate through signs, symbols, and direct messages.Whether you're curious about connecting with loved ones who've passed, exploring your own intuitive gifts, or simply fascinated by the mysterious world of mediumship, this episode offers illuminating insights from someone walking the path with grace, power, and indigenous wisdom. Follow Nikki on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@nickoleblair32?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc or Instagram as https://www.instagram.com/thecoastsalishmedium/ to witness her remarkable abilities firsthand.Website for readings, mentorships and more! https://www.thecoastsalishmedium.com/Love what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailAllison Kindelspire, founder and CEO of WealthWalks and Wealth Collective, shares her journey from medical device industry veteran to creator of two global brands connecting female entrepreneurs through intentional networking. After realizing traditional networking events were merely sales pitches in disguise, she created a revolutionary system for forging meaningful business connections.• Founded WealthWalks, connecting female founders monthly for intentional walks across six Australian cities and three US cities, with London coming soon• Built a global networking brand based on the science that walking increases creativity by 60%• Created a scalable model by matching women so they can meet without the founder being present• Developed Wealth Collective, an application-only community for ambitious female entrepreneurs making at least $5,000/month• Explains how delusion about success is sometimes necessary – "You have to have a sense of delusion that it will absolutely not fail"• Shares how bringing in co-founders was crucial to scaling – "I would never have been able to do this if I would have just kept doing my own thing"• Demonstrates how entrepreneurs can build AI-proof businesses through authentic connection and community• Advises aspiring entrepreneurs to curate their social media feeds with inspirational figures who lift them up• Emphasizes the importance of saying no to opportunities that don't align with your vision – "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a fuck no"Follow Allison on IG!https://www.instagram.com/allisonkindelspire/WLTH WLKS PAGE!https://welcome.wlthwlks.com/Love what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailCould your entire life be happening inside a sophisticated computer simulation? This provocative question isn't just science fiction anymore—it's a serious hypothesis being explored by leading physicists, philosophers, and even tech visionaries like Elon Musk.In this mind-expanding conversation, Stephanie Keith returns to unpack the fascinating world of simulation theory and its profound implications for manifestation, consciousness, and reality itself. We dive deep into the compelling scientific evidence that suggests our reality might be programmed: from the discovery of error-correcting codes embedded in string theory equations (the same types of codes used in computer software) to the bizarre findings of quantum physics showing that particles don't actually exist until they're observed.The parallels to video game design are uncanny—just as games only render the environments players are currently experiencing to conserve processing power, our reality might operate the same way. This explains why visualization and manifestation techniques work so effectively; when you visualize something clearly, you're essentially "observing" it with your mind's eye, helping to render it into your experience.What's particularly fascinating is how this theory connects seemingly disparate phenomena: near-death experiences where people report entering "more real than real" environments; ancient civilizations possessing knowledge we're only now rediscovering; and the increasingly consciousness-like behaviors of today's AI systems that perplex even their creators.Far from being a frightening concept, understanding life as a simulation can be incredibly liberating. When you view challenges as game levels rather than serious problems, manifestation becomes more effortless and playful. The universe responds to this lightness of being in remarkable ways.Whether you're a science enthusiast, spirituality seeker, or simply curious about the nature of reality, this conversation will transform how you perceive your daily experiences. Listen now to discover why treating life as the ultimate cosmic video game might be the key to unlocking your manifestation potential.Follow Stephanie Keith on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/lawofattractiontribe/Listen to her podcast!https://www.thelawofattractiontribe.com/podcastGet her app!https://www.thelawofattractiontribe.com/manifestitnowLove what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailWhat does it truly mean to go "all in" on the dream that's been tapping you on the shoulder? It's not the Instagram-worthy, quit-your-job-tomorrow recklessness that we often imagine, but rather a profound commitment to choosing alignment over approval, consistency over comfort, and your vision over your fears.Drawing from my own transformative journey leaving law enforcement to pursue entrepreneurship, I explore why so many of us live at just 60% of our potential—surviving but not thriving, paying bills but not feeling fulfilled. That nagging voice saying "this can't be it" isn't just discontent; it's wisdom. Your soul recognizes when you're settling for "fine" instead of pursuing fire.The fear of failing keeps so many dreams on permanent hold, but failure only happens when you completely give up. What's truly terrifying isn't taking the risk—it's looking back after decades of identical days and wondering what might have been. Building small, consistent habits (like writing for just 25 minutes daily instead of occasional marathon sessions) creates sustainable progress and builds the resilience you need for the journey.Remember, if your calling isn't understood by everyone around you, that's actually confirmation you're on the right track. They weren't on the call. The universe gave you that intuition for a reason. So start where you are—messy, scared, unsure—and take one small action today. Because half-living will never satisfy a whole soul, and the life you want isn't going to magically appear. You have to go all in to create it.What dream have you been keeping on the back burner? Share it with me on Instagram and let me be your cheerleader as you take those first brave steps. You were born for more than average—now get up and do the thing you've always wanted to do.Love what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailWhen life delivers its heaviest blows, how do we find the strength to keep going? Sylvia Morbeck's answer will leave you speechless.From the moment Sylvia awakened in a German hospital in 1992 to learn her husband and daughter had been killed in the car accident she survived, her path forward was forever altered. What followed was a journey through grief, alcohol dependency, and eventually a terminal diagnosis that would bring her to hospice care. Yet sitting across from me today, Sylvia radiates a peace that defies her circumstances."Don't build a house with somebody who's not willing to carry the bricks," she advises, displaying the raw wisdom that comes only from walking through fire. After losing her loved ones, Sylvia admits she stopped speaking to God for an entire decade, carrying anger that many who've experienced loss will recognize. The turning point came not in a dramatic revelation but through gradual surrender—a lesson in how healing often happens in the quiet spaces we create when we finally stop fighting.Perhaps the most extraordinary moment in our conversation comes when Sylvia describes her near-death experience two years ago. After a blood vessel burst in her stomach and doctors placed her in a medically-induced coma, she believes she visited heaven—describing marble streets, gold mansions, and complete freedom from pain. When she unexpectedly recovered and was walking the next day, doctors were baffled. "I believe our angels can take us out of here for a second, heal our bodies while we're out of it, and then when we come back, you're healed," she reflects.Today, Sylvia approaches hospice care with remarkable grace, taking each day as it comes while finding joy in family connections and even the simple companionship of her emotional support rabbit. Her message for those facing similar circumstances? "Take it a day at a time. Sometimes when you start projecting stuff ahead of time, things happen quicker."Listen to this episode if you've ever questioned how to find meaning in suffering, wondered what lies beyond this life, or simply needed a reminder of the incredible human capacity for resilience. Share with someone who needs to hear that even in our darkest moments, healing and peace remain possible.Love what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailWhen talk therapy stalls and trauma remains locked in your body, where do you turn? Lisa Kelly returns to the podcast to introduce us to the transformative power of Kundalini energy healing—a modality that works directly with the life force energy we all carry within.This eye-opening conversation explores how trauma becomes physically stored in our bodies, creating patterns and limitations that conscious awareness alone can't always address. Lisa expertly breaks down how Kundalini works as a "cellular massage," helping release blocked energy through spontaneous movements, vocalizations, and emotional releases. The results can be life-changing—from newfound clarity and authenticity to natural shifts in relationships, habits, and self-perception.You'll discover the fascinating connection between energetic and physical well-being, including why post-session practices like grounding, proper nutrition, and energetic hygiene are crucial for integration. Lisa shares powerful personal stories of transformation, including how Kundalini helped her process grief, anger, and past traumas when traditional approaches reached their limits.Whether you're new to energy work or looking to deepen your healing journey, this conversation offers practical insights on finding a trustworthy facilitator, preparing for sessions, and integrating the experience. The episode particularly resonates for empaths, those with trauma history, and anyone feeling stuck in their healing despite years of talk therapy.Ready to discover if this path of surrender might be the missing piece in your healing journey? Connect with Lisa on Instagram @LisaKellyLifeCoaching to learn about upcoming sessions or to find trusted Kundalini facilitators in your area.Love what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailWhat parts of your life feel like a familiar hell - painful but too comfortable to leave behind? In this deeply personal episode, I share a powerful passage from the fourth chapter of my upcoming book "Invisible" (formerly titled "Subject to Change"), revealing how we're hardwired to choose familiar pain over unfamiliar possibilities.The concept resonates deeply through my own story - from law enforcement to military service to PTSD therapy. That familiar hell manifests differently for each of us: toxic relationships that mirror childhood dynamics, habits that numb our pain, or careers that no longer align with our authentic selves. We stay because the predictable pain feels safer than stepping into unknown territory.My journey required a radical shift to break these patterns, forcing me into unfamiliar territory where I could rebuild according to my true desires rather than programmed responses. What about you? What dreams are you postponing because pursuing them feels too unpredictable? What changes are you avoiding because your current discomfort at least feels knowable? That very discomfort might be your bridge to everything you want.Join me as I navigate not just my book journey (currently in the editing and beta reader phase), but the beautiful chaos of rescuing two puppies and pursuing self-publishing with the help of bestselling mentors. The familiar might feel safe, but real transformation awaits just beyond your comfort zone. Follow along on Instagram at TX_realestate_doll or UpdatedAFCollective - I'd love to connect and hear your stories of breaking free from your own familiar hell.N9REDKWMsXX6dT1JqjJPLove what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailUnlock the secrets to becoming genuinely magnetic with the incredible Emily Shurmer, host of the new podcast "Secrets of a Soulpreneur." Emily joins us to explore how magnetism is a game-changer in manifesting desires like love, wealth, and health. She candidly shares her inspiring journey of launching her podcast and the magic that happens when you surround yourself with creativity-boosting individuals. We dive into how cultivating magnetism can make your dreams effortlessly achievable and how Emily's approach can energize and inspire anyone on their manifestation journey.We also tackle the tricky business of attracting the wrong energy and how a negative mindset can be a magnet for the very things we don't want. Emily and I emphasize self-love and self-awareness as crucial tools for aligning with your true desires. Through engaging stories and experiences, we discuss how gratitude and letting go of control can shift your vibrational state, making life both more magnetic and fulfilling. Emily imparts her wisdom on letting the universe lead the way and how small yet significant wins can reinforce your belief in the manifestation process.As we wrap up, Emily shares her insights on manifestation and the importance of maintaining high vibrational energy even on the tough days. We explore how practices like gratitude lists and embracing our emotions can keep us aligned with our desires. Emily also introduces a special offer for those seeking to manifest love in February, inviting listeners to reach out for expert guidance. Her approachable coaching style and dedication to helping others are at the heart of this episode, providing invaluable support for anyone eager to enhance their manifestation journey.Follow Emily On IG!https://www.instagram.com/radiant.soul.living/Listen To Her New Podcast On Apple!https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secrets-of-a-soulpreneur/id1786998592?i=1000692294536Love what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM

Send us Fan MailThis episode focuses on the necessity of letting go of past attachments to embrace personal growth and transformation. We discuss the value of community support, the harmfulness of having a “Plan B,” and the power of self-empowerment in realizing our dreams. • Exploring the role of masterminds for entrepreneurs • Sharing life stories for deeper connections • The struggle of transitioning states and identities • The insight that others aren’t as concerned as we believe • The danger of maintaining a backup plan • Embracing all-in commitment for success • Understanding that failure is part of the growth process • Celebrating the journey of self-discovery and empowerment • Inviting listeners for engagement in writing projectsLove what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!IG: Tx_Realestatedoll OrIG: UpdatedAFCollective_PodcastPlease don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review! Email: [email protected],MegCheck out the new site! UPDATEDAF.COM