Flirting With Yourself - How to Bring Back Playfulness, Confidence, and Fun Into Your Life

The most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself - so it's time to actually put time into you, show up for you, and give yourself the love that you deserve! With it being the month of love, I wanted to kick it off with talking about how to flirt and have fun with ourselves. & this is how you're going to do it.....💖putting in effort to impress yourself💖bringing back playfulness💖speaking kindly to yourself💖using your love languages on yourselfTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Cozy Earth - Go to cozyearth.com/TNTCBOGO for an exclusive deal only available Jan 25th - Feb 8th!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Treat your Palentine with Ollie! Go to ollie.com/tntc and use code tntc to get 60% off your first box!WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected] health podcast, self help podcast, self improvement podcast, self help, growth mindset, self love journey, glow up tips, glow up guide, navigating your 20s, healing journey, how to get over a breakup, how to be alone, valentines day, galentines day, how to love yourself, solo date ideas

Maybe you’re not actually healed….maybe you’re just isolated with nothing to trigger you Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Hungryroot: get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life at hungryroot.com slash TNTC and use code TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shippingWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected] health podcast, self help podcast, self improvement podcast, self help, growth mindset, self love journey, glow up tips, glow up guide, navigating your 20s, healing journey, how to get over a breakup, how to be alone, alone but not lonely 

If you find yourself glued to your phone, scrolling social media for hours and wasting the day away… this episode is for you! It’s honestly embarrassing how high my average screen time is, so this year I’m making it a goal to spend less time in the digital world and be more present in my real life. It’s time to break the habit of doomscrolling — and here’s how to ACTUALLY do it…WHAT WE’LL TALK ABOUT ↓🤍 Why were addicted to social media 🤍 Breaking down why you can’t stop scrolling 🤍 Getting clear on how you want your day to look 🤍 Making a schedule to help productivity 🤍 Things that are better for you than scrolling 🤍 Creating your own personal curriculum Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp: visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first monthTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie:Cozy up with your pup this season! Go to ollie.com/tntc and use code tntc to get 60% off your first box!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Hungryroot: get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life at hungryroot.com slash TNTC and use code TNTCWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected] health podcast, self help podcast, self improvement podcast, self help, growth mindset, self love journey, glow up tips, glow up guide, navigating your 20s, how to stop doom scrolling, how to stop being addicted to your phone, things to do instead of being on your phone 

2026 is the year we stop playing it safe and we allow ourselves to take up space and be the person we want to be! 1. Stop walking on eggshells to make others feel more comfortable2. Saying no doesn't make you mean3. Be BOLD! Be the main character!3. Become confident AND assertive Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Cozy up with your pup this season! Go to ollie.com/tntc and use code tntc to get 60% off your first box!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by IQBAR - Text TTC to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus FREE shipping. Message and data rates may apply.WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected] health podcast, self help podcast, self improvement podcast, self help, growth mindset, self love journey, glow up tips, glow up guide, navigating your 20s, friendship breakups, how to get over a friendship breakup, how to love yourself 

THE LAST EPISODE OF 2025 AHHHHHHH!!!!! Of course we're closing out the year with a self improvement episode that's going to get you ready for 2026. In this episode, you'll learn how to uncover your true self by pulling inspiration from others, envision and create a list of how your highest self looks, change the way you think and act, and shift your mindset to be more positive and productive. WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]

Before we move into a new year and start working on our 2026 goals, it's time to let go of the people and things that don't align with us anymore. By releasing what no longer serves us, we can make room for everything we want to call in for the new year. What I'm saying goodbye to in 2025 🪄1. Starting but not finishing projects/not being dedicated to my goals 2. Environments that slow me down3. Forcing things that aren't meant to be/no longer begging for someones time or attention 4. Trying to understand someone who is unwilling to communicate how they feel 5. Being afraid to show up as my most authentic self 6. Being afraid to fail/letting "failure" decide my future What are you letting go of for the new year???👀Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shippingTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - Go to fabletics.com/TNTC and sign up as a VIP and get eighty percent off everythingWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]

As much as I love the holiday season, it can be extremely overwhelming - especially if you struggle with social anxiety. If you're someone who has a hard time bringing yourself to go out and socialize, this episode is for you 💌 In this episode I talk about.... - the fear of going back to your hometown and seeing people you went to high school with - how to not be so intimated by small talk - how to navigate eating around others - shutting down conversations regarding your body - tips to deal with overstimulating environments and triggers  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by FUM - Head to https://www.tryfum.com/TNTC and use promo code TNTC to get your free gift with purchase, and start The Good Habit today! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by MicroPerfumes -  Find your scent soulmate today and get up to 60% off at MicroPerfumes.com/TNTC WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]

Everything I'm currently loving digitally! My recommendations for holiday movies, binge worthy shows, music, podcast episodes and favorite online creators 🎄🎥🍿🎶❄️🎤✨Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp: visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first monthTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Revolve - Shop at REVOLVE.com/TNTC and use code TNTC for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartnerSHOP MY REVOLVE FAVORITES: HEREPodcast episodes recommendationsMindset Magic & ManifestationSelf ObsessedHot Girl Energy PodcastFavorite creatorsBonitravoSophiaamarrenBella.daneEliralloWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]

Happy December!!!! As the year come to an end, a lot of us may be realizing we’re not exactly where we thought we’d be. Maybe you didn’t hit your resolutions. Maybe you feel like you should be “further along.” Maybe you’re disappointed in your own lack of progress and don’t know why things aren’t changing… even though you want them to. In today’s episode, I talk about the truth behind why you know better but still don’t do better. Why you keep repeating the same patterns, ending up in the same situations, attracting the same friendships or relationships, or feeling stuck in the same habits. Today's ep covers....• Knowing the problem but not actually solving it• Repeating patterns you haven’t named yet• Ignoring the lessons life is trying to teach you• The difference between “protecting your peace” and avoiding accountabilityJournal prompts - How does this make me feel…. Why did this happen? Did I play a part in this happening? Does this align with who I want to be? Am I able to change the outcome or do I need to remove myself from the situation? “What’s one pattern I’ve been repeating that I haven’t named yet? What is it and is it negatively impacting me or my goals?”“Are my actions aligned with my goals? What are 3 things I can do right now to change my behavior and make a change?”Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - Go to fabletics.com/TNTC and sign up as a VIP and get eighty percent off everythingTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/tntcWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google formJOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereAmazon Storefront and more: LTXPodcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Media Inquiries - [email protected]

It's that time of year again...shorter days, colder nights, and seasonal depression looming around the corner. But it doesn't have to ruin your whole winter! In this episode, I give you easy ways to romanticize your life to actually enjoy the winter, not just survive it. These are a few things I'm doing this season to make winter feel softer and more magical. 🧦❄️🌨️🧣☕️ Grab a hot chocolate or a Christmas flavored coffee, get cozy, and let's get rid of the winter blues together 🤍  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Fabletics - Go to fabletics.com/TNTC and sign up as a VIP and get eighty percent off everything WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - [email protected] Social Media Inquiries - [email protected]