How to Navigate Co-founder Relationships?

In this episode we talk about co-founders. If you start a company, chances are you have a co-founder. How do you maintain a positive relationship? What happens if you start fighting? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:What happens when you never agree with your co-founder?How do you handle a co-founder who lacks commitment?What happens when one co-founder is working harder?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.

Episode 50! We've answered hundreds of your questions and now it's time for us to tell you more about our journeys. In this episode we dive into our own experiences as founders including:What is the worst crisis we faced as founders?What was the highlight of our founder experience?What's the craziest thing that happened to you as a founder?If you could go back in time, what's one piece of advice you would give yourself?Next episode we'll be back to answering your questions! You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1: What is the worst crisis we faced as founders?We kicked things off with true tales of turbulence. Ash faced a startup-ending crisis when a strategic investor pivoted to acquire a competitor. What followed? 50 first meetings with potential acquirers, months of intense hustle, and a personal commitment that went well beyond normal expectations — all to keep the company alive and secure a successful sale.Nic's story featured the pain of losing a major customer and a key team member at the same time. What followed was a period of flailing — chasing ideas without a clear process. The lesson? Without startup fundamentals like customer discovery, you’re just throwing spaghetti at the wall.And finally, Sean explored the dreaded moment when a startup is close to insolvency. Do you push forward or shut it down? In this case, the team pushed through — and landed a huge acquisition. But the lesson: there’s no universal answer. The line between "pivot" and "persevere" is razor thin.Q2: What was the highlight of our founder experience?We featured:The emotional closing dinner after a sale, where team members called it the “best job of their life.” Watching real users find joy in your product — including one user who still keeps the original email from your startup pinned as the only item in her inbox.Celebrating big wins under pressure, like raising $2M in two weeks after a well-prepared YC Demo Day showing.These moments remind us that founder glory is real — if rare and hard-earned.Q3: What's the craziest thing that happened to you as a founder?How about accidentally hiring a real-life con artist who faked her way into the team? That's the infamous Shirley Hornstein saga.What about taking a cold call only to be berated by none other than Steve Jobs?And we discussed moments of serendipity: attending the very first Bitcoin conference, winning its hackathon, landing first customers on the spot, and picking up investors the same day.The lesson? Overcome mistakes. Build resilience. Be in the room. Make luck happen.Lightning Round: If you could go back in time and tell yourself one thing before becoming a founder, what would it be?Obsess over the problem, not the solution.Seek out the smartest people and learn from what they're learning.Don’t split your attention. One great product > two mediocre ones.

In this episode we talk about staying positive. Things constantly go wrong at every startup company. How do you stay positive in the face of bad news? How do you keep your team motivated? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:What if your big product launch flops?What do you do if your competitor announces big news?How can you keep your team focused on the big picture?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1: What if your big product launch flops?Product launches rarely meet sky-high expectations: normalize the disappointment. Then, reframe the launch as a learning milestone. Even if metrics fell short, you’ve gained valuable data on what resonates (or doesn’t) with customers. Highlight those learnings to your team.Adopt an “Always Be Launching” mindset. Shift from high-stakes drops to ongoing micro-launches that build momentum. Celebrate the team’s efforts: recognize execution, creativity, and resilience.Finally, share a clear next step to drive focus and restore confidence. Forward motion beats stagnation when morale dips.Q2: What do you do if your competitor announces big news?Your team may feel shaken, but this is your cue to lead with clarity—not comparison. Fundraising is not a win; strategy is.Remind your team: we’re playing our game. If the strategy is working, there is no need to chase others. Be transparent about your game plan. Explain how you’re building durable advantages, like customer love, product strength, or operational excellence.Reaffirm your long-term edge. If you’re not raising now, frame that as a strength. Perhaps your growth and margins mean you don’t need to. Teams rally behind leaders who bring context, calm, and conviction.Q3: How can you keep your team focused on the big picture?Start with transparency. Let your team know what happened, why it matters, and also how it fits into the bigger picture.Then reframe: one customer is not your whole trajectory. Point to forward-looking metrics like pipeline growth, retention, and new demand.Most importantly: market to your team. Use repetition to reinforce your mission and momentum. When the team believes in the future, they stay focused despite setbacks.

In this episode we talk about getting started. Founding a company means you are constantly learning to do new things, like hiring and selling. How do you handle these new situations where you have no experience? How do you avoid mistakes? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:How is AI changing the nature of work?How do you stay ahead of how fast AI is changing today?Will my data advantage still be an advantage in the future?Can AI really replace employees for me?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1: How is AI changing the nature of work?AI has transformed daily workflows across every part of the startup journey. From first drafts of sales and marketing copy, to deep research using tools like ChatGPT and Perplexity, it's become the first step for many creative processes. Internal tooling has gotten faster with tools like Replit and Cursor, while product discovery now often starts with AI instead of Amazon. Whether it’s coding, devOps, or customer discovery, AI gives founders leverage.Q2: How do you stay ahead of how fast AI is changing today?The key is to stay focused on your customer. While tech shifts rapidly, true customer pain changes slowly. Solve real, urgent problems—and use AI tools along the way to stay nimble. It’s totally fine to use APIs like OpenAI’s or wrap an existing model. The winning strategy? Build something valuable today, and keep evolving it with your users.Q3: Will my data advantage still be an advantage in the future?"Proprietary data" is losing its edge. Even Bloomberg's private GPT underperformed public models. Unless your data is restricted, hyper-niche, or massive, it's probably not a moat. What matters more is how well you deliver value to users—accuracy, speed, experience, and reliability. That’s your real advantage.Q4: Can AI really replace employees for me?It’s not about replacing people—it’s about hiring the right combination of people and AI. Founders need to build the muscle of managing both. The real opportunity is in learning when to hire a human, and when to "hire" an AI tool. Treat AI as an employee that never sleeps, but still needs thoughtful management. We are already seeing plenty of instances where founders are using AI to replace content marketing teams. Furthermore, there is a trend towards smaller engineering teams, with engineers using AI tools to complement and accelerate their efforts.

In this episode we talk about getting started. Founding a company means you are constantly learning to do new things, like hiring and selling. How do you handle these new situations where you have no experience? How do you avoid mistakes? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:How do I find a co-founder?How do I sell my first customers before my product is ready?How do I hire my first salesperson?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1: How do I find a co-founder?Start by joining co-founder matching platforms like YC’s co-founder matching, university mailing lists, and local meetups. Often, friends or friends of friends are the best connections.Talk about what you're building on social media at least three times a week.When you find a promising partner, work on a small project together first to test compatibility.Join hackathons, take on side projects, or participate in school challenges to build experience.Investigate problems that you are uniquely positioned to work on.Develop a durable skill set, especially in building products in emerging markets like AI.Q2: How do I sell my first customers before my product is ready?This is a great opportunity to create a design partnership.Consider offering a mix of services and software to get started.If they truly need your solution, they will be patient—it’s a good test of urgency.Avoid endlessly delaying until you feel "ready"—perfection is a myth.Set a target date for release and keep them engaged along the way.Keep delivering value:Continue discovery—learn more about their specific needs.Provide access to prototypes and early versions.Offer no-cost pilots to keep them involved during final development stages.Q3: How do I hire my first salesperson?Seek advice from people who have hired salespeople before—they can guide you.Even if you don’t fully understand sales, great people can help you hire the right person.Ensure you’re actually ready—do you have a structured sales playbook to guide them?Write a clear sales playbook before hiring. If you can’t, you’re not ready yet.Post the job broadly to attract a wide range of candidates.Ask candidates to produce a sales deck or similar work sample as part of the screening process.Ash underscores how challenging it is to hire your first salesperson with this: hire three people, knowing that only one will likely be the right long-term fit.Tune into the full episode to learn how to navigate these challenging "getting started" moments!

In this episode we talk about process. Big companies have a lot of process, but startups have very little. How much process is enough for your startup? When do you have too little, or too much? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:When is the right time to introduce process?What if an employee refuses to follow our processes?How do I know if we are using too much process?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1: When is the right time to introduce process?Too little process leads to chaos. Too much process slows you down. So how do you strike the right balance? The key is to avoid predictable failures – like running out of money, missing legal obligations, or failing to talk to enough customers. You should introduce process selectively to prevent these known risks.Some processes will naturally emerge as your startup grows. Instead of forcing structure too early, focus on where process adds real value, such as:- Goal setting (weekly, monthly, quarterly).- Standardized specs for software to maintain quality.- Clear rules for custom sales requests to avoid overpromising.The bottom line: don't create process for process's sake. Evolve it intentionally as your startup grows.Q2: What if a sales employee refuses to follow our processes?High performing salespeople often bend the rules. Should you let them? It depends.What really matters: are they selling the right value proposition? If they are delivering strong sales results without misleading customers or breaking pricing rules, flexibility can be beneficial.What's not OK: selling things that don't exist. Overpromising features. Ignoring pricing guidelines.How to handle it: give feedback and set clear boundaries. If you allow flexibility, let them know that you are basing it on performance. If the performance drops, that flexibility disappears.Bonus tip: you might actually learn from this sales employee! Great salespeople often find better ways to sell – listen and refine your processes accordingly.Q3: How do I know if we are using too much process?Warning signs:- Your velocity feels slow and your team struggles to keep up with opportunities.- Customers are moving faster than your product development.- You're spending more time on approvals and red tape than executing.The right amount of process should be invisible – it makes work easier, not harder. If process is slowing you down, cut back.A common trap: founders who hire product managers from large companies often end up with too much process. If your team feels like they are drowning in structure, it's time to simplify.

In this episode we talk about employee problems. If you have employees, some of them will create problems that you will have to solve. How do you solve employee problems without firing someone? When do you have to fire someone? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:How do I handle an underperforming co-founder?What can I do about an employee who is chronically late?What if you suspect an employee has a second job?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1: How do I handle an underperforming co-founder?Here are our actionable tips:Weekly 1-on-1s are essential for resolving conflict and achieving alignment.Establish clear expectations for alignment and performance.Reflect on your own contributions to the problem: ask yourself, “what can I do better?”Seek coaching opportunities for your co-founder or explore if they might be a better fit in a different role.If you cannot achieve alignment with your co-founder, consider parting ways.Q2: What can I do about an employee who is chronically late?There are two distinct perspectives to consider:Flexibility is an advantage for your startup. Amazing talent with unorthodox work habits may unlock immense value for your startup.However, collaboration is key. The ability to collaborate is one of the most important skills someone needs in a startup. If punctuality impacts team dynamics, it is essential to address it.We had to settle this one through a tie-breaker decision! Be firm. Small adjustments are acceptable, but don’t compromise the ability to collaborate. All work is collaborative. Your team has to work together to achieve goals.Q3: What if you suspect an employee has a second job?1: Outcomes matter more than effort. Are they meeting their goals?2: Consider the cost of losing them vs. the value they bring to your startup.3: Reiterate that team meetings and collaborative efforts are non-negotiable.The key takeaway is this: ignoring problems sets a precedent that affects company culture. Company culture matters.

In this episode we talk about giving up. Startup companies are hard, and at some point you need to ask whether it's worth grinding or just moving onto something new. When do you stay the course, and when do you give up? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:Should you keep pursuing a goal that is out of reach?How long should you keep trying if the business is flat?What happens when co-founders can't work together anymore?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1. Should you keep pursuing a goal that is out of reach?We shared varied perspectives on this one!Goals are meant to guide progress. Sometimes it is necessary to adjust them to stay relevant and motivating. Adjusting a goal can ensure that you keep your team’s focus on achievable and impactful results, rather than unattainable targets that may demotivate your team.However, is is important to not create a culture where you habitually lower goals. This can incentivize the wrong behaviors. People will realize that it takes less effort to campaign to reduce the target when compared to the amount of work it takes to reach the goal. Thus, there are plenty of reasons to leave an ambitious goal unchanged – there are benefits to falling short of a goal.If you fall short of a goal, conduct a retrospective on what went wrong and implement changes to avoid repeating the same mistakes.Q2. How long should you keep trying if the business is flat?Deciding to give up on your startup is a personal and often emotional choice, but there are key signals to consider:- Team members or co-founders are leaving.- Customers are disengaged and growth has plateaued.- You feel increasing opportunity costs for staying with the venture.- The company is running out of cash without a clear path to sustainability.- There are no viable options to sell the business.Founders often face the question of whether to persevere or pivot. While icons of persistence may inspire founders to keep going, not all startups are destined to succeed. If critical signals point to insurmountable challenges, it may be time to move on and apply lessons learned to the next venture.Q3. What happens when co-founders can't work together anymore?Disagreements or misalignment with a co-founder can harm the company’s growth and morale. Before making the decisions to separate, attempt to address the root causes of conflict and realign expectations.However, if the relationship has been toxic for an extended period of time and is unresolvable, parting ways may be the best choice for your company’s future. We are not attorneys and this is not legal advice, so please consult your attorneys when parting ways with your co-founder. Ensure the separation process is clean and legal to avoid future disputes. A parting co-founder that retains large amounts of equity or board rights could impede the company’s long-term success, so consult with legal experts to protect the business.

In this episode we dive into annual planning. All companies need annual plans, but most companies don't know how to build great plans. What does a great plan look like? How do you make sure your team believes in your plan? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:What should be part of an annual plan?How do I get my team bought into my plan?How aggressive should our annual goals be?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1: What should be part of an annual plan?Revenue is the centerpiece of startup annual planning. Goals that directly tie to revenue include: Distribution, Engagement, and Churn.Other goals that correspond to revenue include:- Product milestones, particularly those that correspond to features customers want.- Launch dates.- Runway and budget.- Hiring.Most importantly – all these lower level goals should clearly impact the higher level goals like revenue – so don’t agree on a launch date for a new feature if you do not also expect it to drive a meaningful increase in revenue.Before you start your annual planning, make sure to align your goals with the reality facing your startup.- For a pre-revenue startup: the goal is to start growing.- For a startup that has validated demand: the goal is to accelerate growth.- For a startup that recognizes that something critical is not working: the goal is to validate that next major hypothesis.Q2: How do I get my team bought into my plan?Ambitious goals require better performance across multiple teams. You need them to work together instead of pointing fingers.Start with an objective evaluation of your metrics. How’s your pipeline? How are your conversions? Anything that is not performing well enough needs to improve, regardless of function.This is where great communication and leadership ability really shines. An ambitious goal requires that you convince others to do great work. Telling people to do the work is easy. However, motivating people to want to do the work is a different story entirely. You need to galvanize all teams around a big goal.Consider different ways to deliver your motivating message. For example, if both teams need to improve performance in order to achieve your goal (which is likely), then craft a plan that focuses on ambitious targets where you are going to “test assumptions” about ways you can unlock even greater performance. Testing an assumption can unify folks around a common goal instead of pointing fingers.Q3: How aggressive should our annual goals be?Investors invest in growth. 3x growth is an accurate benchmark for what investors expect for a startup. However, the business needs to grow on its own; you can’t always push it. If that growth is not possible, you might just not be a venture-backable company. Depending on your industry, you might have different goals. Talk to your investors!As an alternative, set a realistic goal: get profitable.- Cut costs.- Raise prices.- Focus on your most engaged customers.That way, you don’t need to raise or at least you won’t need to raise urgently.

In this episode we dive into competitive advantages. Everyone knows they need them, but what are they? How can you have competitive advantages when you are just starting out? What happens if you lose them? We are here to help! In this episode we answer questions including:What competitive advantages can you have when you first start?What happens if we lose our competitive advantage?How can we turn one advantage into many?All of these questions were submitted by listeners just like you. You can submit questions for us to answer on our website TheStartupHelpdesk.com or on X/Twitter @thestartuphd - we'd love to hear from you!Your hosts:Sean Byrnes: General Partner, Near Horizon www.nearhorizon.vcAsh Rust: Managing Partner, Sterling Road www.sterlingroad.comNic Meliones: CEO, Navi www.heynavi.comReminder: this is not legal advice or investment advice.Q1: What competitive advantages can you have when you first start?Competitive advantages evolve over time. However, some may appear on day 1. For example, a founder with deep technical expertise can offer a unique product. Furthermore, a founder with an established brand can bring an existing audience to sell to. Having an existing distribution channel – and brand name early customers to provide social proof – helps fortify an early distribution advantage.While these advantages are helpful, the key is to continuously understand your customers and validate their needs.Q2: What happens if we lose our competitive advantage?Advantages are often short-lived, especially as your competition learns from you and copies your advantage.A competitive advantage offers a head start, but the goal is to transform that head start into ongoing customer engagement and product development that solve your customers' problems and exceeds their expectations. Thus, an enduring advantage comes from constantly "talking to users" and building products they love.Building a talented and committed team is also key. If you can keep talented folks working at your company longer than the competition, that is an advantage.Q3: How can we turn one advantage into many?Your product being the "best" is rarely enough. Founders must stay tuned into their customers' needs while understanding why prospects choose the competition. If people are buying solutions to address their problems, that's already good news! Now you need to understand how to assure that customers consider your startup during the buying decision.Test new approaches to better communicate the value that your product provides prospective customers. At the same time, complete "postmortems" with lost prospects to understand why they chose your competitor.The more time you spend talking to customers (prospective buyers, existing buyers, and those that you lost to the competition), the faster you can unlock new advantages.