Matchmaking Secrets: Navigating the Modern Dating Scene with Blaine Anderson

In this episode, Lindsie sits down with Dr. Nicole McNichols (@nicole_thesexprofessor), a renowned human sexuality professor at the University of Washington and author of You Could Be Having Better Sex. Dr. Nicole describes her journey into the field and discusses her mission to replace sexual shame and purity culture with evidence-based information and empowerment.Follow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more! Join our Facebook group and follow us on TikTok!Thank you to our sponsors!Kindred Bravely: Get 20% off your first order when you go to KindredBravely.com/SOUTHERNTEAMomentous: Head to livemomentous.com and use code SOUTHERNTEA for up to 35% off your first orderSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lindsie and Becky catch up on a chaotic week filled with technology fails, home maintenance disasters, and relationship revelations. Lindsay shares a disastrous attempt to power wash her garage walls, while Becky recounts her "adult spring break" in Florida. Lindsie vents about scheduling frustrations with Will, Becky attempts to explain the comparison between straight and lesbian dating cultures, including the U-Haul stereotype. The ladies react to voicemails about hooking up in a 2006 Volvo and the unexpected strength found in single parenthood.Follow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more! Join our Facebook group and follow us on TikTok!Thank you to our sponsors!Brodo: Head to Brodo.com/TEA for 20% off your first subscription order and use code TEA for an additional $10 offHers: Visit forhers.com/SOUTHERNTEA to get a personalized, affordable plan. Restrictions apply.Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/SOUTHERNTEAHomeServe: Go to HomeServe.com to find the plan that’s right for you.Progressive: Visit Progressive.com to learn more!Tempo: Visit TempoMeals.com/SouthernTea for 60% off your first box! Rules and restrictions may apply.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lindsie breaks down the crash out of the past week courtesy of 13-year-old Jackson—morning antics that include sleeping on the shower floor and a pencil "nub" mystery. Madison joins the show to also discuss the latest drama from Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, and the reality of "recycling" exes during a divorce. Plus, they tackle listener voicemails about difficult stepmoms and a bizarre roleplaying relationship story.Follow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more! Join our Facebook group and follow us on TikTok!Thank you to our sponsors!Aqua True: Go to AquaTru.com now for 20% off using promo code SouthernteaHers: Visit forhers.com/SOUTHERNTEA to get a personalized, affordable plan. Restrictions apply.Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and use code SOUTHERNTEAProgressive: Visit Progressive.com to learn more!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, we sit down with Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star Miranda Hope for an unfiltered conversation about her journey from "MomTok" hobbyist to reality TV standout. Miranda opens up about the viral swinging scandal that rocked her community, the faith crisis that led her to step away from the Mormon Church, and how she navigated a public divorce to find a healthy co-parenting rhythm.Follow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more!Thank you to our sponsors!Branch Basics: Get 15% off with code Southerntea at https://branchbasics.com/Southerntea #branchbasicspodIQBar: Text TEA to 64000 for 20% off all IQBar products, plus FREE shipping. By Texting 64000, you agree to receive recurring automated marketing messages from IQBAR. Message and data rates may apply. No purchase required. Terms apply, available at IQBAR.com. Reply "STOP" to stop, "HELP" for helpProgressive: Visit Progressive.com to learn moreWillies: Order at drinkwillies.com and use code TEA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lindsie is joined by assistant Madison for a Q&A session from Dallas. Lindsie opens up about her journey through home design, the reality of "bed rotting" during a breakup, and why she’s putting her Pilates instructor certification on hold. Lindsie also talks about adjusting to Jackson’s newfound independence as a thirteen-year-old and reflects on her split from Will. She emphasizes the importance of trusting your gut, and navigating the lifelong connection of co-parenting.Follow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more!Thank you to our sponsors!Clearstem: Go to Clearstem.com/SOUTHERNTEA and use code SOUTHERNTEA at checkout for 15% off your first orderJones Road Beauty: Use code Southerntea at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Shimmer Face Oil with your first purchase!Progressive: Visit Progressive.com to learn more!Quince: Go to Quince.com/tea for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Becky is back with Lindsie to discuss major life transitions. Lindsie briefly opens up about her recent breakup and her commitment to a healing era. Lindsie shares her excitement over hiring a new personal assistant and Becky shares her newfound obsession with Gilmore Girls, and a very unpopular opinion. Lindsie and Becky for an honest talk about relationships, self-care, and moving forward with a little help from your friends. Time for a more healed version of Lindsie! For more Becky, follow her @Hayter25 and visit her at beckyhayter.comFollow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more!Thank you to our sponsors!Cashapp: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/e2o0vzbq #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement. Direct deposit and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.Hers: Visit forhers.com/SOUTHERNTEA to get a personalized, affordable plan. Restrictions apply.Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/SOUTHERNTEAHomeServe: Go to HomeServe.com to find the plan that’s right for you.Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and use code SOUTHERNTEATempo: Visit TempoMeals.com/SouthernTea for 60% off your first box! Rules and restrictions may apply.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's revisit an episode from 2025!Alessandra from Vibin' & Kinda Thrivin' is back on the show! Her and Lindsie peel back the layers on modern relationships and parenting, from dating after divorce to the dangers lurking in children's online games. They react to the crazy story of a man who accidentally hires his own wife as a prostitute, and another man who secretly married three women. It truly never ends ladies! Plus, a "bring back bullying" debate, the complexities of mother-son relationships, and their take on "grandparent baby showers" that turned the topic into the psychology of complex family dynamics.Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabgFollow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more!Thank you to our sponsors!Brooklyn Bedding: Visit BrooklynBedding.com and promo code SOUTHERNTEA for 30% off sitewideFirst Day: Our listeners get up to 57% Off AND a Free Gift with code southerntea at FirstDay.comPerelel: New customers get 20% off their first order with code TEA by visiting perelelhealth.comWillies: Order at drinkwillies.com and use code TEA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Lindsie sits down with Blaine Anderson, a dating coach and matchmaker, to discuss the complexities of modern dating. Blaine shares her journey from helping college friends to appearing on Shark Tank, offering her "no-BS" advice for men and women alike.Check out datingbyblaine.comFollow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more!Thank you to our sponsors!Branch Basics: Get 15% off with code Southerntea at https://branchbasics.com/Southerntea #branchbasicspodClearstem: Go to Clearstem.com/SOUTHERNTEA and use code SOUTHERNTEA at checkout for 15% off your first orderJones Road Beauty: Use code Southerntea at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Shimmer Face Oil with your first purchase!Momentous: Head to livemomentous.com and use code SOUTHERNTEA for up to 35% off your first orderSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lindsie welcomes Tyler Baltierra (of 16 and Pregnant and Teen Mom) to discuss the impact of his open adoption journey with his first daughter. Tyler shares his changed perspective on the adoption industry, advocating for reform and revealing lesser known details of open adoptions. The two also get candid about the dark side of reality TV, discussing the lack of legal and financial guidance they received when signing their first major contracts. Tyler also explains how their adoption served as a powerful catalyst for positive change in his marriage and parenting.Check out Tyler and Cate's podcast @cateandtybreakitdown Follow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more!Thank you to our sponsors!Cashapp: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/e2o0vzbq #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement. Direct deposit and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.Hers: Visit forhers.com/SOUTHERNTEA to get a personalized, affordable plan. Restrictions apply.IQBar: Text TEA to 64000 for 20% off all IQBar products, plus FREE shipping. By Texting 64000, you agree to receive recurring automated marketing messages from IQBAR. Message and data rates may apply. No purchase required. Terms apply, available at IQBAR.com. Reply "STOP" to stop, "HELP" for helpNutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and use code SOUTHERNTEAQuince: Go to Quince.com/tea for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns.Tempo: Visit TempoMeals.com/SouthernTea for 60% off your first box! Rules and restrictions may apply.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lindsie welcomes Becky Hayter to the podcast! Becky gets deeply personal about the reality of her first few months as a non-birthing mother, the lack of an immediate bond with her son, and the difficult but intentional process of building their family through IVF and a known donor. Lindsie addresses her two most recent public mishaps: a troll used her photo to attack another influencer, and the very poorly timed "happy ice days" IG stories. Plus, they discuss their biggest adult "icks", possibly going to their 20th Highschool reunion, and Becky explains that scissoring is indeed a sex act that exists.For more Becky, follow her @Hayter25 and visit her at beckyhayter.comFollow us @TheSouthernTeaPodcast for more!Thank you to our sponsors!Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/SOUTHERNTEAPerelel: New customers get 20% off their first order with code TEA by visiting perelelhealth.comProgressive: Visit Progressive.com to learn moreWillies: Order at drinkwillies.com and use code TEA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.