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Unlock your full potential and lead with courage, clarity, and purpose—join the Unbeatable Mastery Tribe and master the Five Mountains to become truly unbeatable in life and leadership.Join for free for 7 days: Unbeatable Mastery TribePodcast Highlights:In this episode of the Mark Divine Show, Dr. Adi Jaffe shares his transformative journey from being a drug dealer and facing incarceration to becoming a nationally recognized expert on addiction, mental health, and personal growth. Dr. Jaffe discusses the limitations of abstinence-only approaches to addiction, emphasizing the importance of understanding underlying trauma and maladaptive coping mechanisms. He introduces the 'SPARO Loop' as a framework for understanding and managing behavior and highlights the significance of transparency and accountability in achieving lasting personal transformation. This conversation provides valuable insights for anyone facing a crisis or feeling stuck, offering actionable strategies for breaking free from destructive patterns and embracing continuous growth.Key Takeaways: Radical Honesty and Transparency Are Essential for HealingFirst with yourself, then with others. The weight of lying and pretending creates disconnection and suffering.Accountability and Ownership Drive TransformationTransformation starts when you accept that you are responsible for your choices and commit to doing the hard work required for change.Growth Requires Facing Discomfort and Doing the Hard WorkThere are no quick fixes or silver bullets in recovery or personal development. Whether difficult conversations, emotional work, or physical tasks–use these as a way to build resilience and move forward. Avoiding discomfort leads to stagnation, while leaning into it creates lasting growth.Inspirational Quote: “The weight of lying, the weight of pretending, the weight of disconnecting from your true self by creating this armor of who you pretend to be, the mask. It kills us.” - Dr. Adi JaffeSponsors and Promotions:200,000+ leaders have become unbeatable with my operating system, will you be the next? Join The Unbeatable Leader Challenge Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comBUBS Naturals: I use BUBS Naturals daily for focus, recovery, and hydration—all built on a mission to honor a fallen Navy SEAL. Use code UNBEATABLE for 20% off any one time purchase or subscription at bubsnaturals.comGuest Links:Website: ​​https://www.adijaffe.com/Unhooked Book: https://a.co/d/iTeEXExInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dradijaffe/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dradijaffe/Mark Links: Website: https://unbeatableleader.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: The Crisis of Addiction02:47 The Impact of Stress and Coping Mechanisms06:10 Dr. Jaffe's Personal Journey: From Privilege to Addiction13:04 The Arrest and Turning Point17:55 Life in Prison: Lessons and Reflections30:51 Rebuilding Life: Education and Purpose33:21 The Abstinence Myth: A New Approach to Addiction36:14 The Abstinence Method and Deep Work36:52 Transparency and Honesty in Recovery38:09 The Importance of a Personal Advisory Board38:51 Introducing the Unhooked Method39:56 Understanding the SPARO Loop43:32 Exploring Negative Outcomes and Acceptance48:43 The Role of Forgiveness in Transformation51:50 The Never-Ending Process of Growth01:01:41 The Power of Perspective and Acceptance01:05:03 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Did you miss the last Unbeatable Leader Challenge?! You can still still register for the next one starting on October 13, 2025Join Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comPodcast Highlights:Most people think that outward success means inner peace, but in this episode I show you that even high achievers can struggle with inner chaos—and more importantly, how to find true peace and clarity from within. Join us as we challenge the assumption that achievement equals fulfillment, and discover practical tools like box breathing, morning rituals, and mindset shifts that can help you lead with both power and peace of mind. Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or anyone seeking more balance, this episode will give you actionable steps to transform your inner state and become truly unbeatable.You'll learn: -Outward success doesn’t guarantee inner peace—true fulfillment comes from mastering your internal state.-Box breathing is a powerful, foundational practice for developing control over your mind, emotions, and reactions.-Shifting from ego-driven leadership to leading from your “witnessing mind” brings greater clarity, purpose, and resilience.-Creating a morning ritual that aligns body, mind, and spirit sets the tone for a focused and peaceful day.-Identifying and decluttering sources of noise, distraction, and overcommitment is essential for sustained performance and well-being.-Stillness and non-attachment are key to finding strength and peace, even in high-pressure environments.-Serving others and surrendering to your authentic self leads to more powerful, purpose-driven leadership.-Practical tools and mindset shifts can help you lead with both power and peace of mind—without sacrificing your soul for success.200,000+ leaders have become unbeatable with my operating system, will you be the next? Join The Unbeatable Leader Challenge Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comMark Links: Website: https://unbeatableleader.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: The Hidden Struggle Behind Success00:14 Understanding Inner Chaos00:52 The Concept of Inner Command01:23 Building Space Between Stimulus and Response02:00 Mastering Box Breathing03:48 Leading Beyond the Ego06:08 Creating a Grounded Morning Ritual07:22 Decluttering and Identifying Noise08:40 Serving and Surrendering for True Peace10:14 Conclusion: Achieving Peace and Power#leadership #mental toughness #mindset #peakperformance #NavySEAL #executivecoaching #resilience #selfimprovement #growthmindset #unbeatablemind #highperformance #mindfulness #personaldevelopment #warriormindset #stoicleadershipSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

200,000+ leaders have become unbeatable with my operating system, will you be the next? Join The Unbeatable Leader Challenge Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comUnlock your next level of strength, clarity, and resilience. Join the Unbeatable Mastery Tribe on Skool and train your mind, body, and spirit with proven tools from the Unbeatable Mind framework. Step into a community committed to growth, service, and mastery.👉 Join for FREE today and start forging your Unbeatable Mind: https://www.skool.com/unbeatable-mastery-tribe/about?ref=1a923afc32cd46168547585c83eea4adIn this episode of The Mark Divine Show, host Mark Divine sits down with Anna Crow, CEO of Crowe PR, to discuss the importance of authentic storytelling in public relations and brand strategy. Anna shares insights on adapting to rapidly changing market dynamics, leveraging AI for PR, and the significance of staying true to your company's values. They also explore the immigrant mindset and the personal challenges that shape authentic leadership. The conversation delves into effective communication strategies, maintaining cultural relevance, and the impact of personal growth on professional success.Here's what you'll learn: Authenticity and Consistency Are Essential: successful PR and branding start with authenticity—genuinely standing for what you believe in as an organization and being true to your values.Adaptability and Relevance Drive Success: Brands must continuously revisit their values, market positioning, and customer engagement strategies to stay relevant. Adapting quickly to new trends, technologies (like AI), and customer behaviors is key to maintaining and growing market share.Leadership Is About Alignment, Vulnerability, and Purpose: Effective leaders align their inner values with their external actions, leading with integrity and authenticity—even when things aren’t perfect.Guest Links:Website: https://www.crowepr.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annacrowe25/Mark Links: Website: https://unbeatableleader.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Timestamps:00:00 The Importance of Authentic Storytelling in PR00:56 Navigating Leadership Challenges with Proven Systems01:59 Introduction to the Mark Divine Show02:16 Interview with Anna Crow: Insights on PR and Branding05:14 The Impact of Cultural Trends on Branding07:10 Strategies for Effective Brand Storytelling23:33 Leveraging AI in PR and Branding29:24 Exploring AI and Agent Coordination30:52 Impact of AI on Human Agency32:15 The Dystopian Future and Human Freedom33:19 The Importance of Mindset and Traditional Practices37:13 Immigrant Experiences and Cultural Assimilation39:56 The Power of Language and Identity47:31 Personal Growth and Overcoming Adversity51:58 Conclusion and Final Thoughts#leadership #mental toughness #mindset #peakperformance #NavySEAL #executivecoaching #resilience #selfimprovement #growthmindset #unbeatablemind #highperformance #mindfulness #personaldevelopment #warriormindset #stoicleadershipSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Did you miss the last Unbeatable Leader Challenge?! You can still still register for the next one starting on October 13, 2025Join Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comYou can also join my Unbeatable Mastery Tribe completely free for 7 days: https://www.skool.com/unbeatable-mastery-tribe/about?ref=1a923afc32cd46168547585c83eea4adMost people spend their lives chasing confidence, clarity, and courage, but falter under pressure. In this episode of The Mark Divine Show, I reveal the key to overcoming life's challenges: mental toughness. Learn the seven steps, including the importance of controlled breathing, visualization, embracing discomfort, mastering inner dialogue, making micro-commitments, building a team, and knowing your 'why'. Join Mark Divine to develop the practices and mindset needed to become unbeatable.Key Takeaways: -Mental Toughness Is the Foundation for Confidence, Clarity, and Courage-Know your “why”—your deep sense of purpose—and build a supportive team.-Use micro-commitments and daily small wins to build confidence and momentum.-Control your breath to control your mind and emotions (Box Breathing).-Visualize success before taking action (“win in your mind before you step foot on the battlefield”).-Embrace discomfort and seek voluntary adversity to grow.-Master your inner dialogue by feeding the “courage wolf” instead of the “fear wolf.”Mark Links: Website: https://unbeatableleader.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: The Pursuit of Mental Toughness00:31 Meet Mark Divine: From CPA to Navy SEAL01:36 Step 1: Breathe First, Act Later02:58 Step 2: Win in Your Mind First03:31 Step 3: Embrace the Suck04:58 Step 4: Master Your Inner Dialogue06:46 Step 5: Micro-Commitments for Macro Confidence08:31 Step 6: The Power of Teamwork09:36 Step 7: Know Your Why10:31 Conclusion: The Journey to Becoming Unbeatable#leadership #mental toughness #mindset #peakperformance #NavySEAL #executivecoaching #resilience #selfimprovement #growthmindset #unbeatablemind #highperformance #mindfulness #personaldevelopment #warriormindset #stoicleadershipSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

200,000+ leaders have become unbeatable with my operating system, will you be the next? Join The Unbeatable Leader Challenge Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comIn this episode of The Mark Divine Show, Mark Divine interviews Nick O'Kelly, a retired Green Beret and former 160th Special Operations Aviation Regiment pilot who shares his journey from military service to dealing with internal struggles. Nick discusses his battle with mental health issues, including depression and anxiety, while maintaining a successful career and family life. He also highlights his upcoming book, 'Stigma,' which explores the internal wars high-performing individuals face. Through candid conversation, Nick emphasizes the importance of seeking help, breaking stigmas, and openly discussing mental health.Key Takeaways: - The Power of Talking: healing through openness - sharing and discussing personal struggles can be a powerful step toward healing.- The Value of Community: You are not alone in your experiences - Breaking the Stigma: The hidden struggles of high performers and the need to break the stigma around mental health.Guest Links:Website: thenickokelly.comBook: thenickokelly.com/stigmaMark Links: Website: https://unbeatableleader.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview01:27 Nick's Military Journey Begins03:09 Special Forces Training Insights06:23 Deployment Experiences07:36 Transition to Aviation11:12 Mental Health Struggles14:34 Path to Recovery: A Long Journey16:31 Facing the Stigma of Mental Health16:59 The Power of Open Conversations17:24 Community Support and Shared Experiences17:56 Mindfulness and Acceptance20:16 Writing as a Healing Process23:00 Addressing Cultural and Technological Changes26:51 Final Thoughts and Farewell#leadership #mental toughness #mindset #peakperformance #NavySEAL #executivecoaching #resilience #selfimprovement #growthmindset #unbeatablemind #highperformance #mindfulness #personaldevelopment #warriormindset #stoicleadershipSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

200,000+ leaders have become unbeatable with my operating system, will you be the next?Join The Unbeatable Leader Challenge Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comMost high performing and elite leaders neglect the essence of sustainability in a VUCA world of hustle culture - I didn't have the option as a SEAL or as a serial entrepreneur. In this video, I sit down with Dr. Greg Kelly, a leading expert in human performance and longevity, for a deep dive into the science of living better, longer. In this episode, you'll discover proven strategies for longevity and anti-aging, including the latest on exercise routines, nutrition, and fasting protocols, cutting-edge insights into senolytics and stem cell activation—what they are, how they work, and their potential to revolutionize healthy aging, the powerful role of purpose, mindset, and holistic health practices in extending not just your lifespan, but your “performance span.”Whether you’re looking to optimize your health, stay ahead of the latest wellness trends, or simply live a more vibrant life, this conversation is packed with actionable takeaways.Key Takeaways:Longevity and anti-aging strategies (including exercise, nutrition, and supplements)The science and application of senolytics and stem cell activationThe role of purpose, mindset, and holistic health practices in healthy agingDr. Greg Kelly Links: Link: www.qualialife.com/markdivine (will be changed to NAD+ soon)Code: MARKDIVINE(listeners get an additional 15% off any Qualia order)Links:Qualia NAD+Qualia NAD+ Second Placebo Controlled Clinical StudyQualia NAD+ Placebo Controlled Clinical StudySocial Media Handleshttps://www.facebook.com/Qualialifehttps://www.instagram.com/qualialife/https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregory-kelly-98b96b138/Mark Links:Website: https://unbeatableleader.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Timestamps:00:00 Introduction to the Mark Divine Show & Dr. Greg Kelly’s background01:40 Dr. Greg’s journey: Navy, naturopathic medicine, and health philosophy03:27 What is naturopathy? Differences with integrative and functional medicine06:15 Personalized medicine, blood type diets, and early longevity interests08:12 Longevity mindset: “Performance span” vs. lifespan, portfolio approach to health09:46 The role of exercise in longevity: types, intensity, and balance13:01 Avoiding overtraining and the importance of rest and nervous system regulation17:23 Biohacking interventions: Sauna, cold exposure, and their science22:45 Nutrition for longevity: fasting, fasting-mimicking diets, and intuitive eating28:13 Hydration, electrolytes, and the importance of salt33:55 Cutting-edge supplements: NAD, senolytics (“zombie cells”), and stem cell activation44:06 The future of longevity: gut microbiome, plant medicines, and holistic health51:15 The power of mindset, purpose, and ancient practices in healthy aging59:36 Closing thoughts, resources, and where to find more#leadership #mental toughness #mindset #peakperformance #NavySEAL #executivecoaching #resilience #selfimprovement #growthmindset #unbeatablemind #highperformance #mindfulness #personaldevelopment #warriormindset #stoicleadershipSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

My biggest announcement of 2025…The Unbeatable Leader Challenge is here! First Live Challenge starts on September 8th!Join Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comPodcast Highlights:In this episode of The Mark Divine Show, host Mark Divine welcomes Melanie Sliwka, a performance and mindset coach at SEALFIT and Unbeatable Mind. They discuss the transformative power of mind control, physical and mental resilience, and how to overcome suffering with the 'Big Four' skills. Melanie shares her journey through personal adversity, her approach to functional medicine, and her innovative program, Kids Food Fight, designed to improve children's nutrition in a fun and engaging way. Tune in to learn how to harness your inner strength and lead with purpose.Key Takeaways: How to eliminate self-imposed suffering with a positive mindset - suffering is optionalThe importance of nutrition and purposeful living starting for adults and childrenDevelop resilience by detaching yourself, embracing the suck, and having a unique offerEngaging in fun, challenging activities fosters resilience and personal growth.Guest Links:Websites: KFF- https://www.kidsfoodfight.com/ MS Fuel and Fitness-  https://www.medmel.com/Book: 6 Weeks To Cleaner Eating https://a.co/d/cLlanuXInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kidsfoodfight https://www.instagram.com/6weekstocleanereatingTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kidsfoodfightSign Up For Her Challenge: Next 1 week Kids Food Fight Challenge starts October 19thhttps://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf_WAah8BPcExmdRLlDbC4btaswR1zd21MHvp6r9KUFeNuJ9g/viewformMark Links: Website: https://unbeatableleader.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Timestamps:00:00 Overcoming Self-Imposed Suffering00:50 Introduction to the Mark Divine Show01:05 Meet Melanie Sliwka: Performance and Wellness Architect02:38 The Power of Teamwork and Resilience03:47 The Importance of Physical and Mental Training09:12 The Role of Humor in Overcoming Challenges11:17 The Connection Between Physical Health and Mental Toughness18:11 The Importance of Sleep, Exercise, and Nutrition22:02 Stress and Overcompensation22:26 The Life-Changing Power of Breath Practices23:05 Box Breathing Techniques25:03 Attention and Arousal Control27:04 Witnessing the Mind32:00 Personal Transformation Journey33:41 Addressing Childhood Trauma38:15 Kids Food Fight Program43:36 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

My biggest announcement of 2025…The Unbeatable Leader Challenge is here! First Live Challenge starts on September 8th!Join Today: https://www.unbeatableleader.comIn this episode of the Mark Divine Show, host Mark Divine discusses the intersection of running, breath work, biomechanics, and mindfulness with guest Sam Stowe, founder of Pop Running and author of 'Pop Running: Engineering Flow State.' Sam shares insights into his Functional Step Method, which helps runners run pain-free and with purpose.The conversation covers the importance of glute activation, posture, and proper biomechanics in running. Mark and Sam also delve into the mental aspects of running, including the use of breath control, mantras, and maintaining a positive mindset.Key Takeaways:1. The importance of breathwork, biomechanics, and mindfulness in transforming running2. Functional movement, glute activation, and tactical breathing are key to enhance performance and prevent injuries3. The beginners mind - you practice each time as if it’s your first timeInspirational Quote:“We need to connect to our whole body to move properly” - Sam StowSponsors and Promotions:Guest Links:Website: https://www.poprunning.com.auInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sam.poprunning/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@PopRunning/videosMark Links:Website: https://markdivine.com/coachingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Timestamps:00:00 Intro01:52 Sam's Running Journey and Triathlons04:47 Mark's Running and Breathwork Insights06:31 The Power of Breathwork and Mindset in Training09:52 Sam's Evolution in Running Techniques15:19 Functional Movement and Running Form18:09 The Importance of Glute Activation and Posture20:53 Advanced Running Techniques and Training25:44 Staying Calm and Present During Races26:41 Decluttering and Radical Focus32:39 Flow States and Peak Performance37:06 Integrating Movement into Daily Life45:58 Coaching and Client Success Stories51:34 ConclusionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of the Mark Divine Show, former news anchor and CEO coach Lynn Smith discusses the power of overcoming fear, shifting from an inner critic to an inner coach, and becoming a magnetic communicator.Take The Unbeatable Leader Challenge: www.unbeatableleader.comKey takeaways:̇1. The importance of perseverance and resilience in overcoming challenges2. Strategies for facing fears and developing self-confidence in both personal and professional life3. Embracing authenticity and vulnerability as strengths that foster connection and growthGuest Links:Website: https://www.lynnsmith.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynnsmithtv/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LynnSmithTVLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lynnsmithtv/X: https://x.com/LynnSmithTVMark Links:Website: https://markdivine.com/coachingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@markdivineleadershipYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction00:19 Guest Introduction: Lynn Smith03:27 Developing Communication Skills06:58 Overcoming Fear and Building Confidence16:13 The Power of Vulnerability in Leadership24:46 Mindfulness and Mental Toughness27:14 Creating a Game Day Routine28:07 Rituals for Success30:07 Executives and Meditation34:07 The Importance of Teamwork37:42 Redefining Success and Failure38:32 Teaching Resilience to Children41:15 The Power of Positive Energy45:42 FITS: Decision-Making Frameworks51:25 Just Keep Going: A Mantra for Life55:07 ConclusionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join Mark Divine as he sits down with Elliott Connie, internationally recognized as the "Friend of Solutions" and co-author of "Change Your Questions, Change Your Future." In this powerful episode, Elliott shares his journey from a turbulent childhood to becoming a leading psychotherapist and trainer, and reveals how asking better questions can transform your life, career, and sense of purpose.Discover the mindset shifts and daily practices that helped Mark become a Navy SEAL and Elliott to find meaning and resilience.Whether you're feeling stuck, seeking more fulfillment, or want to lead with courage and clarity, this conversation is packed with actionable wisdom.Key Takeaways:•The power of intentional questions•Overcoming limiting beliefs and societal expectations•Building resilience through micro-goals and positive self-talk•Redefining success and happiness•Applying solution-focused thinking in everyday lifeSubscribe for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and living with purpose!Elliott's Links:Website: https://elliottconnie.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elliottspeaks/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliott-connie-852b787/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elliottspeaksMark's Links:Website: https://markdivine.com/coachingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@markdivineleadership/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!Sponsors and Promotions:Qualia:Qualia Life's supplements help eliminate senescent cells—zombie cells that accumulate with age and contribute to aging issues like slow recovery and low energy. The supplement, combining nine natural ingredients discovered by scientists in 2015, has significantly improved vitality Visit qualialife.com/divine15 for 15% off using the code 'Divine15' at checkout.Indeed:Indeed's sponsored job posts help job listings stand out by pushing them to the top, attracting 45% more applications compared to non-sponsored jobs. The service does not require monthly subscriptions or long-term contracts, and users only pay for results. Visit indeed.com/divine for a $75 sponsored job credit.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: The Power of Asking Better Questions03:45 Early hardships, family dynamics, and the search for peace10:52 Redefining happiness and success17:26 Breaking free from societal expectations and finding purpose22:01 The importance of asking "Who am I?" and "Who am I not?"27:11 Mindset, micro-goals, and building resilience (Navy SEAL lessons)34:01 The four skills for overcoming adversity38:00 Applying solution-focused thinking to daily life43:00 Navigating change, identity, and life transitions50:00 The role of service, adaptability, and redefining riches55:00 About Elliott’s book: "Change Your Questions, Change Your Future"58:00 How to stay optimistic and agile in a changing world1:05:00 Closing thoughts, resources, and where to find moreSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.