149. A Poem: What it Actually Feels like to Start Over

This is a special episode on a human to human level. It is a poem I created about what it actually feels like starting over your life, but not the big inciting incidences nor the moment you get your spark back... what it feels like to be in the midst of it, in transition, evolving, in the middle.I hope you enjoy this short & sweet episode to give you a brain break from learning and 5 tips & tricks, and just give you "a moment" where you can listen, tune in, tune out from everything around you, and feel seen!If you've had a rough season or simply a big season of change, I get you, I see you, and I have many things coming to support us all navigating real life and thriving in every season!LinksInstagramTik TokWebsiteSubstackYoutube

It's been... a while.After a 2 year break/sabbatical, I'm finally back and ready to share the crazy personal journey I've been on as well as start this new chapter of life and business with you/In this episode we cover:Why my "break" has been so complex & longLife updates from the past year (that you haven't heard yet) from the end of a 10 year relationship, new boyfriend, health chronicles and finally starting to rebuild my lifeHigh level overview of whats REALLY been going on BTS all these yearsWhat my new "transition" business is that I just launched casually on Instagram AND what my 2 new businesses are that Ive been teasing for months now (coming in 2026)Amanda Kolbye's Links:InstagramWebsite

It's been... a while. After a 2 year break/sabbatical, I'm finally back and ready to share the crazy personal journey I've been on as well as start this new chapter of life and business with you.In this episode were going over:Why my "break" has been so complex & longLife updates from the past year (that you havent heard yet)Themes & takeaways from this personal evolution journeyHigh level overview of whats REALLY been going on BTS all these yearsWhat my new "transition" business is that I just launched AND what my two new businesses are that Ive been teasing (coming in 2026)Amanda Kolbye's Links:Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

This is the final episode in the sabbatical mini series, and to wrap it all up I am sharing 10 lessons I learned from my time away. I've broken the lessons down as business lessons and life lessons, and something in here is sure to be the takeaway you need at this very moment. I've loved sharing about my sabbatical and healing journey with you, and truly believe that we can all learn something from my experience! In this episode, we cover…Why we have to set realistic expectationsThe reality that you get to make the rulesPlaying the long game in businessHow hitting rock bottom can be a good thingMindsets and mantras that have shifted my perspective Quotes "You make the freaking rules. And this is simultaneously - at least for me - a fact that is really hard and really freeing at the same time." "Never actually hitting rock bottom might be One of the worst things that can ever happen to you." "Taking a break is not weak. In fact, it is one of the bravest, strongest things you can do for yourself. You are the only one that has to be you, who has to live your life every day. And it's time, if you're not already, to start living for you and doing what you need." Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel Other Links Mentioned: Instagram Post

One of the biggest questions I've gotten about my sabbatical is how I made it work financially. So I am pulling back the curtains and exposing how I funded my time away. This isn't just a vague explanation - I'm getting into the nitty-gritty and sharing the actual numbers. I'm covering everything from what my personal finances looked like prior to the sabbatical, to how much we spent in the business each month I was away. Plus, I'm giving you my best money management tips that helped set me up for success in this endeavor! In this episode, we cover…How I funded the seven month sabbaticalWhat my personal spending looked like during the break7 money management tips that helped me prepareMy business income and expenses during the sabbaticalQuotes "Ultimately at the end of the day how I funded this was accepting that there was no other option but to take this break. And I had to do whatever it took, whatever I could do to make it work." "I track all of the numbers in our life... And so that's really important because I'm never surprised. I always know what's going on, which gives me power. Power of choice and power to do something about my situation if I don't like it." "Plan for this. Even if you think you don't need it, plan for the extended break or the maternity leave or the sabbatical or whatever it is. And if you don't ever need it, you just got the bank, right?" Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

Ever thought about taking a break from business yourself? Or maybe you didn't even realize it was a possibility? In this episode I am breaking down the three types of breaks you can take in your business, and the business and personal prep needed to make each type work. I'm giving you a framework that you can take and apply to your own situation to make sure that your time away is exactly what you need, and that the business is ready for you when you come back. In this episode, we cover…Three types of breaks: extended breaks, maternity leave, and sabbaticalsHow to determine what kind of break you want or needSix steps to prepping your business for a breakWhat personal prep and planning you need to consider Quotes "The hardest part is actually deciding to take the break." "No matter what your purpose is for taking a break, everyone within that break needs space. And space is probably uncomfortable for a lot of us, so don't get stuck in filling it with a lot of things, even if it's really uncomfortable." Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

I have gotten so many questions in my DMs since announcing my return from a seven month sabbatical, and this episode is dedicated to answering those questions for you! I'm covering everything from what my business looked like while I was away to how my physical health has improved over the last few months. Whether you are planning an extended break in your future or just curious about my sabbatical experience, this episode is full of honest reflections and juicy takeaways that will get you thinking! In this episode, we cover…Why I took a sabbatical and how I knew when it was time to come backHow I adjusted to having less structure and routineThe phases of my sabbaticalMy take on why other entrepreneurs have taken breaksWhat my business looked like during the sabbaticalThe physical health struggles I've dealt with and how things have improved. Quotes "It wasn't nourishing because I didn't have stability. I didn't have support. I didn't have community. The work for me to heal was facing every skeleton in my closet and stripping myself of my entire identity and everything I'd ever known." "It was very challenging in terms of going from 100 miles an hour to zero miles an hour." "You know what you have now. You know what's in front of you. And if you know that what's in front of you is not it, then you have no other choice but to try new and rest assured knowing you can always go back to what currently is. But something tells me you won't." Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Episode 140 - I'm Taking a Sabbatical: Why I've Decided to Take an Extended Break & How I'm Making It Happen Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

A lot has changed over the last seven months, both in my personal life and for the state of the business! And the biggest question I’ve been getting is: What’s next? In this episode I’m sharing the options I’ve considered moving forward, and filling you in on what the near future looks like. Chances are it’s not what you think!In this episode, we cover…Why I’m letting go of decisions I made prior to my sabbaticalMaking decisions without financial pressureWhy my previous business direction felt unalignedOptions I’ve considered for my business moving forwardMy current decision for what’s nextShowing up as a work in progress and an authority Quotes"I'm no longer willing to do whatever it takes. I'm no longer willing to sacrifice a lot of different things or to let the pressure be the determining factor to check off those milestones or influence me to race to the finish line." "I'm excited to let you get to know the new/maybe more real, me as I get to know that version as well." "We're always in progress."Links & Resources Mentioned in this EpisodeEpisode 140 - I'm Taking a Sabbatical: Why I've Decided to Take an Extended Break & How I'm Making It HappenAmanda Kolbye's Links:Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

I’m back!! It’s been about seven months since we’ve released a new episode, so there is a lot to catch up on. In this first episode back from my sabbatical, I’m giving an inside look at what went down in my life during the months away, including an overview of my transformative healing journey and why I’m grateful my life crumbled when it did. Consider this the start of a new era, both for me personally, and the business!In this episode, we cover…The backstory of why I took a sabbaticalHow things got worse before it got betterMy experience with ketamine therapy and a healing retreatOur decision to settle down in SpainHow this period has transformed my life Quotes“Entrepreneurship is like the biggest personal development journey you'll ever go on, whether you intended to or not, because it's going to bring up the shit. It's going to bring up the skeletons in the closet. It's going to make you face all your fears, and just expand constantly." "You finally have a chance to explore yourself without being tied to a specific outcome." “This has been the biggest awakening journey of my entire life. I am a different person to my core, to every cellular level, and I've had a lot of changes, shifts, evolutions in life - nothing, nothing like this.” Links & Resources Mentioned in this EpisodeEpisode 140 - I'm Taking a Sabbatical: Why I've Decided to Take an Extended Break & How I'm Making It HappenAmanda Kolbye's Links:Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel

This is a replay of a top downloaded and raved-about favorite episode from the past few years! This episode was chosen very intentionally as an episode that I know everyone needs to hear right now whether for the first or second time, so tune in and enjoy!   Many of you in my audience have been expressing feeling stuck in one way or another. All of us in this entrepreneur online space have also been experiencing many changes within the industry. Even if it's not that, this is a natural season of entrepreneurship, and sometimes it's a day, sometimes it's a week, sometimes it's months.     In this episode, we will talk about what it means to be stuck, what's happening with us in those times, and why and how many of us end up stuck. There are many different ways, so one of them will relate to you. And then lastly, we're going to talk about how to move out of being stuck. So if you're someone who's feeling pretty stuck in your business or just in one area of your business, you need to hear this episode.   In this episode, we cover… • What does it mean to feel stuck • Letting go of situations, we have no control over • Setting up your business for growth • How overwhelm and burnout play into feeling stuck • Recognizing underlying contradictory beliefs • Navigating this stuckness    "Sometimes, this is just a label for a period where not much is happening. It doesn't necessarily mean something is wrong or you're not capable of doing what you could do before."   "Many of us tend to freak out and feel like, " Oh my gosh, okay, I don't have the same momentum or sales as I was before, you know, so I must be stuck. And that almost creates the reality that didn't exist for you."   "The definition of stagnation is continuing to do the same things. And being very hesitant to change and essentially adapt as you go right."   "Comparison makes you feel stuck. It doesn't mean you are stuck."    "The mentality of being stuck is almost always what is fueling 99% of your stuckness. Right?"   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Laptop Lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel