#597 - The #1 Thing Women Desire In Men (Lessons From John Gottman)

Gentlemen. If you want to drive your woman WILD in the bedroom, then it’s crucial that you not only learn how to date well, but also how to actually please a woman and be fun while getting freaky. In this video, you’ll learn 5 tactics that have helped me to supercharge my own bedroom game. Impress her, drive her wild, and make her fall in love with these sexy bedroom tactics. She’ll truly believe that you’re God’s gift to women!  Start with confidence—confidence, and leading the way. Confidence is everything. When you are unabashedly confident and comfortable, that energy will rub off on her. So that’s really the foundational part of everything. So I want you to confidently orchestrate these tactics—and most importantly, be brave enough to be your true freaky self–because that’s when you’re going to be at your most seductive and attractive.  Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

What is the ‘vulturing’ dating trend, and what should you know to protect yourself from it? In this episode, I go in depth to describe what this is, and give some valuable words of warning for men to help you avoid it. As a man, you want to improve your dating life and choose other good men to include in your circle. Do not fall prey to this gross dating trend!  Vulturing Article: https://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/vulturing-the-latest-dating-term-you-must-know-about-8622656/  Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

Do you ever feel like, as a man, you struggle to make conversation on dates? Do you ever feel like you just struggle to keep it going and keep it interesting—much less to make it romantic? In this episode, I read an excerpt from the book “The Noble Art Of Seducing Women” by Kezia Noble, and talk about a 5 step strategy that I’ve used in my dating life to master the art of romantic conversation—to make women want to keep engaging with me, enjoying the date, and craving a deeper level of intimacy.  Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

In this episode, I read an excerpt from the book “Why Women Have Sex” by Cindy Meston and David Buss, and talk about the mechanism that makes women care so much about commitment in relationships. The truth is that women DO want to commit to the men they date and mate with—and they desire commitment from their mates. And the real, scientific, evolutionary reason may shock here. Here’s everything you need to know. These are 3 things that MUST be present before a high-value woman would consider committing to you for the long run as a man. These dating tips will help you to improve your dating retention game to a massive degree.  Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

In this episode, I read an excerpt from the book “Mating In Captivity” by Esther Perel, and talk about boredom in dating and in relationships. Here’s the thing—a lot of men struggle with being ‘boring’ to women. It’s tough to hold a woman’s attention and to keep her engaged when you don’t know how to do it. Well, in this video, I’m going to explain why women tend to get bored while dating—and I’m also going to give you my 4-step prescription for how to fix the problem, thus creating an amazing dating life as a man in the process.  Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

In this episode, I read an excerpt from the book “Why We Love” by Helen Fisher, and talk about a factor that’ll actually keep women from wanting to cheat, leave, or even desire other men. See, a lot of men mistakenly believe that it’s hopeless with women—that in your dating life as a man, you’re doomed to be cheated on and monkey-branched from. But the truth of the matter is that if this single characteristic is present in your relationship, it’ll literally be ‘cheat proof.’ Here’s what you need to know.   Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

In this episode, I read an excerpt from the book “The Man’s Guide To Women” by John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Douglas Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams, and talk about the number one thing that women look for and desire in the men they date, mate, and pair bond with. Here’s a hint—it’s not about six-pack abs, money, or being tall (though those are all things that can help). It’s actually a lot more fundamental than that. You won’t want to miss this crucial episode.  Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

In this episode, I read an excerpt from the book “Why Women Have Sex” by David Buss and Cindy Meston, and talk about what women actually see as attractive when it comes to a man’s body. This is crucial—because if you want to increase your dating success as a man, you’ll need to make sure that you’re optimizing your body for maximum attraction. If you want women to notice you, and if you want more first-impression interest from women, Here’s what you need to know.  Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

In this episode of the podcast, I read an excerpt from Kezia Noble’s book: The Noble Art of Seducing Women, and I talk about a concept that a lot of men overlook when it comes to dating success—knowledge is power! The more you know about how to succeed at dating, the better off you’re going to be. A lot of people underestimate this—but it’s super true. It has proven to be true in my life, and it continues to be true in all of my observations and in all of my research and studying.  Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message

Men, it isn’t always easy to find real love in this world. But in this episode, you’re going to learn that it’s not only possible—but also completely doable—if you’re willing to apply yourself to the journey and just get started. Transforming your dating life and finding true love in an amazing woman and partner is as simple getting started with these 4 steps: 1. Learn to love yourself 2. Learn to invest in yourself 3. Learn to be comfortable with yourself 4. Begin applying these amazing qualities to other people Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call  Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/  Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild  Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/  My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/  YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/  Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus  Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message