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#499 Dr. Sean Pastuch - Live More, Hurt Less

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Dr. Sean Pastuch returns to share lessons from his career and his new book, Live More, Hurt Less.


Sean joins me to discuss:


• How he defines “Live More, Hurt Less”

• What that philosophy looks like in real life

• Why helping people feel heard can be such an important part of navigating pain and movement limitations

• The three identities Sean believes are relevant to meaningful change

• The “Be, Do, Have” framework

• The difference between confidence and self-esteem

• Why identity work does not need to become vague or “woo”

• What Sean means when he says, “Discipline is not the cause; it’s the effect”

• Why pain itself is not always the biggest problem

• What Sean means by, “Pain is not the problem. The problem is the compromises pain forces you to make”

• The difference between sacrifice and compromise

• Why accepting a smaller life can become normalized

• What Sean means by, “Compromise is the acceptance that living less is reasonable”

• How social permission can make quitting feel acceptable

• Sean’s own turning point with neck pain

• The role of anchors and action in changing behaviour

• How conflicting identities can interfere with progress

• Why analytical people can sometimes think their way into inaction

• Reconciling “It’s never about you and it’s always your responsibility”

• Why commitment can matter more than endlessly trying

• Why meaningful change is supposed to be difficult

• Coaching people who actually fit your philosophy and process

• Sean’s thoughts on influencers, virtue signalling, and online behaviour

• Lessons from marriage, relationships, and communication

• And much more


Follow Sean on Instagram:


@drseanpastuch


CHAPTERS


00:51 Why Sean Wrote Live More, Hurt Less

02:27 The Identity Model for Change

03:36 The Be, Do, Have Framework

06:11 Confidence Versus Self-Esteem

10:11 Why Identity Work Isn’t “Woo”

13:12 Discipline Is the Result

16:43 Pain, Restriction, and Compromise

21:18 Sacrifice Versus Compromise

24:46 When Society Gives You Permission to Quit

29:04 Sean’s Neck Pain Turning Point

31:34 Anchors, Identity, and Taking Action

36:03 Identity Conflict and Behaviour Change

38:18 The Analytical Mindset Trap

40:28 “It’s Not About You” and Personal Responsibility

44:57 Love Languages, Marriage, and Communication

49:53 Stop Trying and Start Committing

56:40 Coaching the Right Clients

58:51 Influencers and Virtue Signalling

01:03:14 Final Thoughts, Resources, and Gratitude


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