The Afterparty of Desire: Who Are We When the Performance Ends? EP 709

Do you think we all have a little exhibitionist in us? We discuss The hosts share stories of what exhibitionism looks like to them The underlying psychology: validation, control, vulnerability, and arousal through attention. Host Stevie V shares working with both exhibitionism as a go-go dancer and assisting in Will Tantra's class at a recent VACAYA resort trip What is Tantra? Using the techniques of Tantra to experience longer solo sessions and for connected sex Hot Topic: A recent inquiry asks the questions what is the secret sauce to making a relationship work... Hot Topic: Is same sex marriage going to be heard in the Supreme Court...? Hot Topic: John Waters on why "queer" can be so controversial... Hot Topics: Jonathan Van Ness says he is no longer body positive after losing over 70lbs.... Advice: Feeling alone after a fun filled sex vacation.... Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Lincoln on IG: @madlincoln Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The “comedown” from sexual or emotional performance — when you’re lying next to someone after sex and the roles drop. What it’s like to be seen without the persona you used to seduce someone. The post-sex vulnerability hangover — do we crave closeness or distance? Why authentic intimacy can feel scarier than the sexual performance itself. Hot Topic: Brent Corrigan reveals the medical emergency that kept him off the internet for 3 years Hot Topic: King Charles reveals memorial to gay military veterans Hot Topic: Homophobic is you're against Bad Bunny performing at the Super Bowl... Hot Topic: What's a slutty 'chat' bottom? Advice: Breaking down over work stress and family was unsupportive... Advice: Two young friends hookup and have a situationship but now one has a boyfriend... Follow Teddy on IG: @teddyalexis Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Gay sexuality is often described in terms of roles — top, bottom, dom, sub, masc, femme — but what happens when those labels feel more like performances than authentic expression? In this episode, the hosts unpack how desire, attraction, and identity get tangled up with performance — from the bedroom to the bar to the apps. Where do our sexual performances come from? How much of our sexual role is natural vs. narrative? The “masc4masc” phenomenon and its roots in performance and insecurity. Lukas Gage says he killed off the flamboyant sides of his life for years....can we relate? The crazy things people say on Grindr...we share Advice: Bottoms: How long do you want a top to last? Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Learn about Scrotex for your balls and how to actually increase size - it's possible! Learn the difference between a little touch up for your appearance and more dramatic procedures you can try to look your best Matchmaker Cheryl Maida talks about Matchmaking.com from the client perspective and how she helps men find love that lasts Tips on dating for gay men that work Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

“Grindr’s CEO Slams the Monetization of Love — Is Gen Z the Real Victim?” Gen Z is looking outside of the box to meet dates like queer meetups, billboard ads and more Are we monetizing love? Do the apps really work or do you have too many pay walls? Dua Lipa and many other queer stars turned up at the Abbey for the first ever National PrEP day... ChatGPT Erotica will be coming soon Advice: "I have a Dad bod and fit men don't give me any attention... Advice: Dating younger guys Thirst Trap: Which NSFW pic was the best of the week? Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Hosts breakdown a Tik Toker that talks about the tale of two roommates and two bunk beds which prompts the hosts to tell their juicy stories of two roommates... Hosts breakdown another story of Catfishing and a threesome where only one shows up.... Living situations and roommate dynamics are discussed Looking for red flags when hooking up... Ethics, consent and secrecy are discussed... Can you feel the RU5H??? The new sex progressive travel company is launching, RU5H is here to explore all of your sexual fantasies with other gay men •  Hot Topic: Oct. 10 will be National PrEP Day started by Mistr to educate, offer PrEP for all with many Queer celebrities spreading the message... Hot Topic: The 250 Best Songs of the 21st Century by Rolling Stone.... Hot Topic: Henry Cavill life size doll?? Hot Topic: Is Gen Z shaming age stating that 30 is too old for the apps?? Advice: Should you divulge to your family that your new beau is Trans? Advice: Not Ready for a threesome... Thirst Trap: Who took the best NSFW pic of the week? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

 The best sex or relationship stories often start outside apps—at a party, through friends, at a queer event Where have you met your most meaningful connections? Do apps isolate us, or can they still connect us to community? The hosts discuss some of the spaces we have met and developed our Queer peers... Mixing sex and friendships...can it work? We discuss... Hot Topic: Bad Bunny is hot and we're here for it especially as he claps back for hosting the upcoming Super Bowl! Hot Topic: The case of 2 Eagle's in Chicago...is there room for both?? Hot Topic: Are LGBTQ meccas becoming too gentrified and too expensive for our community or do they still represent who we are...? Advice: When a couple is too attached to their threesome hookup.... Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Jeremy on IG: @jrosslopez Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Last time we defined exhibitionism and voyeurism… but now, we’re spilling our own tea. We’ve both had moments of being the star and moments of lurking in the shadows—so let’s talk about them. We're sharing our stories of the first time we enjoyed being looked at... We're sharing stories of the first time we enjoyed watching... Exhibitionism in practice Voyeurism in practice Comparing the feelings we felt from both Voyeurism and Exhibitionism... What did exploring both exhibitionism and voyeurism do to us from a growth factor...did we grow? Hosts play a fun game with the topic: Would you rather... Final word: Which one are you more an exhibitionist or a voyeur? Hot Topic: Austin Wolf is sentenced to 19 years...is it enough we discuss... Hot Topic: STI rates are lowering and it's because of the gay community not necessarily the CDC which is taking down a lot of information for our community.. Hot Topic: Crumbl owner Sawyer Hemsley just hard launched his boyfriend after just being outed as gay a month ago...how long has this been going on...? Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The hosts have an in depth conversation on Exhibitionism vs Voyeurism. All of this stems from two of the hosts, Stevie V and Lincoln attending the recent and iconic Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco At what points have the hosts experienced exhibitionism in their lives and what is the psychology around being on display personally and when they are at play... We also breakdown the psychology of watching and voyeurism and what is happening in our minds when we watch someone having sex or focusing on body parts... Can we experience both exhibitionism and voyeurism? Can we be both and do they appear at different points in our lives...we discuss The hosts share special moments from the Folsom Street Fair We're talking about the pros and cons of being single...what are the best parts... Hot Topic: There is a recent crackdown on cruising at the infamous Penn Station in New York...find out why numbers of arrests have occurred since June....Pride Month... Hot Topic: New music from Robyn is slated for 2026 and we are here for it... Hot Topic: Madonna speaks out about suicide and forgiving your enemy...we discuss Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Lincoln on IG: @madlincoln Follow The Protein Bakery on IG: @proteinbakery Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Sex Talk: We're talking authenticity in our dating, relationships and in the bedroom both online and in person versus performing who we think we should be... Hot Topic: Jonathan Groff tells us why he loves wearing a harness and what it does to him. The hosts talk about the first time they put on leather and a harness and how it feels to them... Hot Topic: Jerry of Ben & Jerry steps down due to be silenced on issues like LGBTQ... Hot Topic: Charlie Kirk's memorial seems to shut down Grindr and show that several accounts on Sniffies are located at the memorial site... Hot Topic: Khalid's upcoming new single and video is causing controversy by Black Twitter for unapologetically showing his sexuality... Advice: When your partner has a fetish that may not be yours what do you do? Advice: Guys in long term open relationships do you allow sleep overs.... Thirst Trap: Who took the best NSFW photo of the week? Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.