Dating a Stranger Safely

Pilar is 47 and 27 year-old co-worker has eyes for her. She rejected him and now she's reconsidering her options after going out on a date with him recently. Her message to the show sparked an interest in the topic of younger men dating older women. These relationships are commonly called December- May Romance.

Ever swiped right on a familiar face? Maybe it's a friend of a friend, a regular at your favorite coffee shop, or someone you've seen around town. It feels comfortable, safe, almost like you're not really dating a stranger. But are you?This week on The Romantic Truth, we dive into the tricky territory of dating someone you think you know. Just because you recognize their smile or share mutual acquaintances doesn't automatically grant them access to the vault of your heart (or your Venmo account!). We unpack the dangerous assumptions we make based on familiarity, and explore how different environments and circumstances can reveal unexpected sides of a person's personality.Join us as we discuss: * The allure of "low-stakes" dating with familiar faces – and why it can be anything but. * The crucial difference between knowing of someone and truly knowing them. * Red flags that can be easily missed when comfort blurs your vision. * Practical tips for navigating the vulnerability of dating, even when the person feels like an open book.Don't let familiarity fool you. This episode will help you take off the blinders and approach even the most "familiar" dates with a healthy dose of awareness and a commitment to protecting your emotional and personal resources. Tune in and discover the romantic truth about dating someone who isn't quite who you thought they were.

**Podcast Episode Title:** *"Love, Faith, and Unseen Struggles: Dating, Church Agendas, and Body Shaming"* **Episode Description:** In this raw and revelatory episode of *The Romantic Truth*, we dive into three layered conversations about modern love’s hidden challenges. First, we unpack the **unspoken realities of dating as a mature woman** whose adult children still live at home. What happens when your "empty nest" never empties, and how does it impact your romantic life? From logistical hurdles to emotional guilt, we explore why society often overlooks these women’s needs—and what it means to reclaim autonomy in midlife. Next, we pull back the curtain on **premarital counseling in religious institutions**. While churches frame these sessions as “God’s blueprint for marriage,” what unspoken agendas lie beneath? We dissect the fine print of doctrine, gender roles, and societal expectations, questioning whether these programs prioritize spiritual harmony—or quietly enforce outdated norms. Finally, we share an intimate story of **public humiliation and resilience**: A woman’s first date takes a cruel turn when her partner body-shames her in front of a crowded restaurant. Hear her journey from shame to empowerment, and why this moment became a catalyst for radical self-love. Tune in for candid interviews, expert insights, and hard truths about love’s complexities—when faith, family, and self-worth collide. Whether you’re navigating dating later in life, questioning tradition, or healing from judgment, this episode invites you to rethink what it means to love (and be loved) authentically. *The Romantic Truth*—where we don’t just talk about love… we unravel it. --- **Key Themes:** Dating After 50, Family Dynamics, Church & Marriage, Body Positivity, Self-Worth **Trigger Warnings:** Discussions of body shaming, religious critique

**Episode Description:** In this eye-opening episode of *The Romantic Truth*, we delve into the unsettling world of emotional usury—where relationships become transactional, and empathy is replaced by exploitation. Just like financial usury, emotional "debtors" drain their partners of time, energy, and compassion, offering little in return. We’ll unpack how people are used for emotional labor, validation, or status, often leaving them feeling hollow and unvalued. **What You’ll Learn:** - **Red Flags of a Usurious Relationship:** Spot one-sided dynamics, chronic emotional exhaustion, and manipulative tactics like gaslighting or guilt-tripping. - **The Empathy Deficit:** Explore why some partners prioritize their needs over yours, and how to discern intentional exploitation from unintentional neglect. - **Self-Protection Strategies:** Practical tips on setting boundaries, cultivating self-worth, and trusting your gut when something feels "off." - **Choosing the Right Partner:** How to identify traits of empathy, reciprocity, and respect early on—plus questions to ask yourself (and potential partners) to avoid emotional lenders. Join us as we empower you to break free from toxic cycles and invest in relationships built on mutual care. Whether you’re healing from emotional debt or seeking a love that nourishes, this episode offers actionable insights to help you reclaim your emotional currency. **Tune in** to *The Romantic Truth* for candid conversations, expert advice, and the tools to transform your love life. Available on all major podcast platforms. *(Note: If "Sol" refers to a host or guest, insert their commentary here, e.g., "Special guest Sol Rivera, relationship therapist, shares groundbreaking strategies for spotting emotional exploitation.")* --- Let me know if you'd like adjustments to tone, structure, or specific details!

In this episode, the question is asked of women about having sex on the first date.

The Romantic Truth: Why Are You Single? - An Introspective Journey Episode Description: Ever wonder why the relationship you desire seems just out of reach? This week on The Romantic Truth, we're turning the lens inward and asking the tough question: Why are you single? Join us for a deeply introspective exploration as we delve into the key internal factors that can significantly impact your romantic life. We'll unpack the power of self-perception and how your view of yourself influences the connections you make. Could your self-esteem be unknowingly creating roadblocks? We'll discuss practical ways to cultivate a stronger sense of self-worth and attract healthier relationships. Dating in the modern world is constantly evolving. Are you effectively navigating adaptation to change in dating trends and technologies? We'll explore how resistance to change might be hindering your progress. Relationships thrive on give-and-take. We'll examine the art of compromise and whether your expectations are realistic and allowing for mutual growth. Finally, we'll emphasize the crucial role of personal growth in attracting and maintaining a fulfilling partnership. Are you actively working on yourself to become the best version of you? This isn't about assigning blame; it's about fostering self-awareness and empowering you to identify potential internal barriers to finding love. Get ready for an honest and insightful conversation that could be the key to unlocking your romantic future. Tune in to The Romantic Truth and embark on a journey of self-discovery!

Join Us as we do a deep dive on the topic of Romance Scammers and this episode of the Romantic Truth Podcast. Romance scams account for 3.3 billion dollars annually in lost wealth for individuals, especially women. These emotional vultures feed this is not a victim listoff of the carcasses of lonely people seeking love and partnerships. For many adult children of these victims, it may be a hard conversation to have. However, not only do seniors get taken advantage of by these individuals, so do men and younger people including young women.The biggest mistake is that a overconfidence in some that think they are a lie detector machine and can ferret out a scam. In fact, these are the very people that usually wind up as victims because they take their eye off the ball when they're being manipulated. In this episode we will discuss some of the things to be mindful of and how to protect yourself when it comes down to dealing with these unethical individuals.

In this episode we examine a unique situation where a woman is told by her husband that he would be divorcing her by Friday unless he was allowed to have his girlfriend move in with them. We examine the situation and also look at how she comes to the conclusion she did. Also, we explore the situation that a popular tiktok creator shared about an experience she had while dating involving a man and that catfished his way into her interest and another woman enjoying the same evening together.er

in this episode we discuss the Dynamics of a breakup, denial, bargaining, anxiety, honesty, and change. we also take a look at that some of the other components that may have an impact on a breakup such as the methodology of it. a lack of intimacy, a lack of access, and finally the cut off of communications. we also will examine the concept of a relationship sabbatical which is the red flag that most people ignore when the relationship is in serious trouble. we will go through the steps of this process which includes the reasoning for it, the duration of it, the expectations throughout that sabbatical period, the results, and the planning to either go forward or to terminate the relationship. as you can see we have a lot to cover in this particular episode so stay tuned and thank you for your listenership.

In this episode we will examine a single woman that is 48 years old that has never been married and finds her true happiness within herself and the lifestyle that she has chosen We will also cover the concept of Vapping that was not covered in the last episode. The naive nature of a man and the company of his wife on vacation in Africa encounters a warthog. And finally a woman shares about her experience believing a guy's house after anal sex.