Casual Dating: The Woman's Choice

The Casual Dating a relationship is usually defined by the female participant in the relationship. Ít's common for these relationships to be considered informal and conditional based on convenience and need more so than a long-term perspective towards establishing a permanent relationship. Jaußan examines this popular phenomenon.

In this episode we take a non-scientic. but intuitive approach at NPD. We look at distinct characteristics. types. and behavior. And we examine the ways these dynamics impact romantic relationships.

llIn this episode. we examine how some women discover themselves and learn from the past without the burden of the control of an ex.

This episode deals with some of the fundamentals of interracial relationships.

Listener aAmy left a message asking the question about why are black men and white women attracted to each other? The episode begins with addressing this question and expounds from that issue to examine the character and perspectives. Join us.

Episode 84: The Invisible Grip – Navigating Controlling RelationshipsIn this week’s episode of The Romantic Truth, we dive deep into one of the most complex and painful dynamics in modern dating: The Controlling Partner.Control rarely shows up overnight. It often starts as "protective" behavior or intense passion, slowly evolving into a cage that limits your freedom, your friendships, and your sense of self. We’re stripping away the excuses and looking at the raw reality of what happens when love is used as a tool for manipulation.What We Cover This Episode: * The "Slow Fade": How controlling behaviors often disguise themselves as care or "high standards" in the early stages of a relationship. * The Red Flag Checklist: Recognizing the difference between healthy boundaries and toxic surveillance (digital tracking, financial gatekeeping, and social isolation). * The Psychology of the Controller: Understanding the deep-seated insecurities and fears that drive the need for dominance. * Reclaiming Your Narrative: Practical steps for safely asserting your autonomy or planning a healthy exit strategy. * Healing After the Grip: How to rebuild your self-esteem and trust your intuition again after being gaslit.> "True love requires a soft place to land, not a tight grip to hold you down. If your partner’s 'love' feels like a leash, it’s time to ask the hard questions."> Resources Mentioned:| Resource | Purpose ||---|---|| The Empowerment Journal | Our free PDF for tracking emotional patterns. || Episode 42: Gaslighting | A companion listen to help identify mental manipulation. || National Hotline Info | Included in the show notes for those needing immediate safety support. |Are you living for yourself, or are you living to keep your partner calm? Join us as we uncover the truth behind the control.

Red Flag Scenarios: The "Useless" DynamicThese are the behaviors that signal a man is being used as emotional labor rather than being seen as a romantic partner. * The 2:00 AM Emotional Dump: She calls you to cry about her problems or her "toxic" ex for hours, but she’s "too busy" to grab a 30-minute coffee with you during the day. * The "Pseudo-Date" Specialist: She lets you take her to nice dinners and events—and even acts flirtatious—but the moment you try to escalate or define the relationship, she hits you with the "I just value our friendship too much to ruin it" line. * The Gatekeeper of Your Dating Life: She gets jealous or critical when you start dating other women, yet refuses to commit to you herself. She wants you available, but only as a backup. * The Indecisive "Maybe": When asked where things are going, she gives vague answers like "I’m just in a weird place right now" or "I need to work on myself before I can be with anyone." > The Romantic Truth: If she’s "working on herself" but still using your time, she’s actually just working on you.Listener Inquiries: From the MailboxUse these scripted questions to structure the Q&A segment of the podcast.1. The "Waiting Room" Dilemma> "I’ve been seeing this girl for six months. We do everything couples do, but she says she isn't 'ready for a label' because of a bad breakup three years ago. She says I'm the best guy she's ever met, but she just needs more time to decide. How long is too long to wait?"> 2. The Relationship "Manager"> "My girlfriend of one year makes every single decision—from what I wear to who I hang out with. Whenever I try to take the lead or plan a trip, she shuts it down or finds a reason why my idea is 'wrong.' How do I get the control back without starting a nuclear war?"> 3. The Transition Trap> "I have a female best friend who I’ve caught feelings for. She knows I like her, and she constantly sends mixed signals—touching my arm, heart emojis, late-night texts—but then she talks to me about other guys she’s interested in. Is she clueless, or is she just keeping me on a leash?"> Key Takeaways for the Episode: * On Decision Making: A "maybe" is a "no" in disguise. High-value people make decisions; low-value people keep options open to avoid responsibility. * On Control: Control is often seized because there is a vacuum of leadership. If you don't lead the relationship, she will—and you might not like where she takes it.

Episode Description: The "Useless" Female FriendIs she a soulmate in waiting, or just a drain on your emotional battery?In this episode of The Romantic Truth, we’re diving into the murky waters of the "just friends" dynamic. We’ve sifted through your listener inquiries to tackle the frustrating reality of the female friend who occupies all the space of a partner without providing any of the commitment or clarity.We’re stripping away the "nice guy" excuses and looking at the cold, hard mechanics of modern dating, prolonged indecision, and the power struggle for control.What We’re Breaking Down Today: * The "Friendship" Trap: Why women often keep men in a holding pattern and how to identify when a friendship has become romantically "useless" to your personal growth. * The Paradox of Choice: Why is she taking so long to choose you? We discuss the psychology behind prolonged decision-making and why "waiting it out" is rarely a winning strategy. * The Power Shift: How to regain control when you feel like you’re being led by the nose. We explore the difference between compromise and losing your frame in a relationship. * Listener Q&A: We review real emails from men stuck in the "friend zone" limbo and provide actionable advice on how to either level up the relationship or walk away with your dignity intact.> "If she isn't choosing you, she's choosing herself—and you're just the audience for the show."> Join us as we navigate the uncomfortable truths about high-value dating and emotional investments. It’s time to stop settling for a placeholder and start demanding the clarity you deserve.

Jaußan & h8s ex Michelle Brinson discuss various topics and respect to dating and also follow up with listener messages and emails.

In this episode of The romantics of the Romantic Truth Podcast, außan addresses a new trend that is taking place where women are repurposing social media as an outlet to meet eligible and single men. Some use this in lieu of dating apps while others use social media as a primary vehicle to meet someone based on connectivity and referrals. Also, some women are using this platform for attention with more provocative affirmations and assertions. We take a look at this new trend and see how it impacts dating in general.