What Happened When I Started Coaching Men

If you've been feeling off lately—tired before your day begins, zoning out in meetings, or staying up late wired with stress—this episode is your sign. Leadership coach Laura Weldy is pulling back the curtain on burnout: what it really looks like for high-achieving women and why it's so often overlooked or denied. In this vulnerable and practical episode, Laura shares her personal experience with burnout, the patterns she's seen in clients, and the exact steps she takes to reverse the cycle. She introduces the concept of "Future Self Work" and explains how her Personal Power Code framework can help you reconnect with your most powerful, aligned, and well-supported version of leadership. What You'll Learn: The early signs of burnout you may be ignoring Why high-achievers often miss their own warning signs What to audit when you feel like you're burning out Daily habits that help reset your body and mind How to visualize and access your "2.0" self Why your leadership style is the key to recovery How Laura's Personal Power Code framework can guide you out of survival mode Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to the episode 00:31 Understanding burnout as a high achiever 02:37 Laura's personal story of burnout 04:06 The symptoms that often go unrecognized 07:52 How to pause, audit, and take action 10:55 Future Self Work to reconnect with your 2.0 self 13:21 The Personal Power Code and burnout prevention 15:49 Free resource: Invisible to Irreplaceable Masterclass Resources Mentioned: Free Masterclass: Invisible to Irreplaceable Learn how to use your personal brand to reduce burnout and get seen at work: lauraweldy.com/freeclass Connect with Laura on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/laura-weldy Follow Laura on Instagram: @lauraweldy Final Thought: You don't have to wait until you're fully burnt out to make a change. Your burnout light is blinking for a reason—this episode will help you listen to it. If it resonates, share with a friend and let Laura know what part hit home. Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving.

I'm not putting on my "professional podcast voice." I just want to talk—woman to woman—about something that's been bothering me deeply: the quiet erasure of women's identities at work. After almost 10 years of coaching women and partnering with companies, I've noticed a disturbing trend. More and more, corporate leaders are scared to even say the word "woman" out loud. It's like being a woman in leadership is suddenly too controversial to acknowledge—and I won't stay silent about it. You deserve to take up space. You don't need to wait to be invited. This episode is your reminder: you are not too much—you're just getting started. Want to Take the Next Step? I created a free masterclass called Invisible to Irreplaceable to help women like us get seen, valued, and promoted at work. You can watch it on demand here: lauraweldy.com/freeclass Let's Connect: Instagram: @lauraweldy LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/laura-weldy  

Is your corporate job really giving you the stability you think it is? In this bold and timely episode of The Potentialite Podcast, leadership coach Laura Weldy dismantles the myth of job security and challenges the idea that a salaried role offers real safety in today's workplace. Drawing from current economic trends and real-life leadership coaching experiences, Laura unpacks why the traditional idea of "Capital S Stability" is outdated—and what high-performing women should be focusing on instead. She introduces the concept of career architecture, shares her favorite personal branding strategies, and provides actionable steps for taking control of your career in a rapidly evolving market. If you're feeling stuck, undervalued, or are just now realizing your company won't save you—this episode is your wake-up call. What You'll Learn: Why "job security" in corporate roles is often an illusion What career architecture is—and how to start applying it now The role of personal branding in protecting your professional future Why modern workplaces demand self-advocacy and visibility Weekly practices (like a Work Win Doc) to track your value and build confidence Why proactive networking and relationship-building is no longer optional Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to The Potentialite Podcast 00:31 The myth of stability in corporate jobs 03:53 Redefining what stability really means 04:55 Embracing career architecture and personal ownership 06:24 The importance of personal branding 07:10 How modern workplaces have changed—and what it means for you 11:13 Taking ownership and becoming your own career architect 12:21 Final thoughts and call to action Resources Mentioned: Join the Free Masterclass: Invisible to Irreplaceable – Learn how to define your personal brand and make your career unmissable: lauraweldy.com/freeclass Connect with Laura on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/laura-weldy Follow Laura on Instagram: instagram.com/lauraweldy Join the Conversation: The system doesn't owe you stability—and it never did. Now is the time to become the architect of your own career, take ownership of your value, and stop waiting to be "chosen." If this episode helped shift your mindset or sparked a new idea, share it with a friend, leave a review, or message Laura to let her know what landed. Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving.

Sometimes the moments that break us are the ones that reveal who we really are—and what we're meant to do. In this episode of The Potentialite Podcast, leadership coach Laura Weldy shares a deeply personal story about the job interview that didn't go as planned—and how the disappointing feedback she received became the spark for a major turning point in her career. Laura dives into the contradictory messaging women often face in corporate environments, the frustration of feeling invisible despite high performance, and the dangerous trap of waiting to be "picked." She introduces the foundations of her Personal Power Code and Invisible to Irreplaceable frameworks—powerful tools designed to help high-achieving women stop being overlooked and start owning their presence. If you've ever felt stuck between being "too much" and "not enough," this episode will show you how to reclaim your identity, advocate for your career goals, and build a personal brand that speaks for itself. What You'll Learn: How one job interview changed the way Laura viewed career advancement Why women are often trapped in a double bind when it comes to leadership perception How to stop playing by someone else's rules and start controlling your own narrative What it means to build a leadership brand that's rooted in who you actually are How the Personal Power Code and Invisible to Irreplaceable frameworks can help you get visible and stay visible Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:05 The conversation that changed everything 02:13 Contradictory feedback and corporate jargon 04:08 The realization of a gendered double bind 05:37 Taking control of your career narrative 07:55 Empowering women to lead with authenticity 11:19 Introducing the Personal Power Code 11:44 Join the free masterclass 12:02 Reflective exercise: What would change if every room remembered you? Resources Mentioned: Join the Free Masterclass: Invisible to Irreplaceable – Define your personal brand, boost your visibility, and show up with confidence: lauraweldy.com/freeclass Explore the Personal Power Code – Laura's framework to help women lead without losing themselves Connect with Laura on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/laura-weldy Follow Laura on Instagram: instagram.com/lauraweldy Join the Conversation: If you've ever been told you were too quiet, too confident, or just not "quite right" for a leadership role—this episode will help you shift the narrative. Visibility isn't about being louder—it's about being unforgettable. Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving.

In this reflective and motivating episode of The Potentialite Podcast, leadership coach Laura Weldy opens up about her journey leaving the corporate world before achieving a high-ranking title, and why that choice made her a better coach. Laura challenges the traditional definition of success and explains how walking away from the corporate ladder helped her create a new leadership model designed to empower women. Through her candid story, Laura reveals the hidden flaws in the corporate system, why so many brilliant women feel stuck, and how we can redefine leadership on our own terms. If you've ever questioned whether the next promotion is really worth the cost—or wondered what an authentic career path could look like—this episode will give you the clarity and encouragement you need. What You'll Learn: Why Laura left her corporate job before hitting the top How the corporate ladder isn't broken—it's rigged The risks of copying someone else's career path What it means to be "corporate fluent" without losing yourself The real reason your company won't promote you for being competent How to start designing a career path that actually fits you Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: My Personal Journey 01:02 Why I Left Corporate Early 03:33 The Flaws in the Corporate Ladder 07:27 Building a New Framework 07:55 Dual Fluency: Corporate and Entrepreneurial Insights 09:32 The Reluctant Entrepreneur 11:41 A New Path Forward 12:55 Join the Masterclass Resources Mentioned: Join the Free Masterclass: Invisible to Irreplaceable – Learn how to define your personal brand and take up space at work on your own terms: lauraweldy.com/freeclass Connect with Laura on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-weldy/ Connect with Laura on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauraweldy/  Join the Conversation: If you've ever felt disconnected from traditional success or struggled to make leadership feel like you, this episode will help you trust your instincts and reclaim your path. Authentic leadership doesn't start with a title—it starts with a decision to bet on yourself. Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving.

In this empowering episode of The Potentialite Podcast, leadership coach Laura Weldy uncovers the frustrating reality of why high-performing women are often overlooked for promotions and recognition—despite doing everything "right." Laura dives deep into the systemic and strategic reasons behind this dynamic, including visibility gaps, outdated corporate rules, and the hidden misalignment between company and individual goals. You'll learn why being a strong performer isn't enough, how to rethink your role as a disruptor, and the exact steps to start positioning yourself as a visible, influential leader in your workplace. If you've ever felt stuck in your role despite being the go-to person on your team, this episode is for you. What You'll Learn: The surprising reason high performers get passed over at work. How playing by the rules can actually keep you stuck. Why visibility, clarity, and presence matter more than productivity. How to create a personal brand that positions you as irreplaceable. A behind-the-scenes look at corporate incentives and your true leverage. Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome and intro [00:31] The frustrating truth for high-performing women [01:13] The visibility problem: why hard work isn't enough [03:11] Playing by the rules vs. writing your own [05:29] Becoming a disruptor in the workplace [07:21] Company interests vs. your career growth [09:20] Taking control of your career narrative [12:18] Final thoughts and an invitation to the free training Resources Mentioned: Watch Invisible to Irreplaceable – a free, on-demand class, where you'll learn the exact framework I use with high-performing women to help them go from under-recognized to undeniable.  Research cited: Women in the Workplace 2023 & studies on gendered leadership experiences Connect with Laura on Instagram or LinkedIn and share which insight from Laura's leadership experiment resonated most with you Join the Conversation: This episode is a reminder that coaching is powerful, not just for the individual, but for reshaping how we understand leadership at large. Whether you're a woman navigating leadership challenges or a man ready to reflect more deeply, intentional coaching creates room for lasting change. Leadership is not about being perfect, it's about being present, self-aware, and adaptable. Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving.

What happens when a women's leadership coach starts working with male leaders? In this eye-opening episode of The Potentialite Podcast, Laura Weldy shares behind-the-scenes insights from her recent shift into coaching men after eight years of exclusively coaching women. Laura explores the fascinating differences she's observed in coaching styles, emotional processing, and self-perception between men and women in leadership—and how those differences reflect deeper systemic dynamics. She unpacks the "emotional labor gap," the competence confidence gap, and why gender-aware coaching spaces are still critical in 2025. Whether you're a woman seeking validation in your workplace experiences or a leader curious about how coaching impacts development, this episode offers a refreshing, vulnerable look at what happens when we challenge our norms and evolve our approach. What You'll Learn: How coaching male leaders shifted Laura's perspective on workplace dynamics Key gender-based differences in how people approach leadership and self-awareness Why women often integrate life and work more deeply than men The "competence gap" and how it affects confidence and overthinking How coaching styles vary—and why neither is "better" Why women still need dedicated spaces for support and leadership growth Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to The Potentialite Podcast 00:00:31 Laura's behind-the-scenes leadership experiment 00:01:29 What changed when men started seeking coaching 00:03:41 Coaching style differences: Women vs. Men 00:05:00 The "emotional labor gap" and integrative thinking 00:06:17 The competence vs. confidence dynamic 00:07:16 Coaching men: Strategy-focused vs. narrative-focused 00:09:16 The ideal coaching mindset: Combine reflection with direct action 00:11:04 Why women still benefit from gender-specific coaching spaces 00:12:08 Research-backed reasons women's careers differ from men's 00:13:35 Final takeaways and what this experiment revealed Resources Mentioned: Download the High Potential Pack – A free career guide packed with tools to boost your visibility and develop your leadership strengths: lauraweldy.com/free Research cited: Women in the Workplace 2023 & studies on gendered leadership experiences Connect with Laura on Instagram or LinkedIn and share which insight from Laura's leadership experiment resonated most with you Join the Conversation: This episode is a reminder that coaching is powerful—not just for the individual, but for reshaping how we understand leadership at large. Whether you're a woman navigating leadership challenges or a man ready to reflect more deeply, intentional coaching creates room for lasting change. Leadership is not about being perfect—it's about being present, self-aware, and adaptable. Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving.

  In this episode, Laura dives into the real challenges women face when moving from management into true leadership positions. She sheds light on why the old one-on-one support model doesn't scale, and what it takes to create a leadership style that's not only effective, but sustainable, strategic, and soul-aligned. Expect honest insights, practical takeaways, and a fresh perspective on what it really means to lead in today's workplace. Whether you're eyeing your next promotion or already leading a team, this episode will help you clarify your leadership identity and step confidently into your next chapter. In this episode, you'll learn: Why leadership requires a shift in mindset—not just skillset How to stop micromanaging and start scaling your influence What support systems female leaders really need (and often don't get) Laura's go-to framework for building authority without burnout Timestamps: 01:42 The Common Leadership Mistake 04:13 The Double Bind for Women Leaders 07:54 Overcoming People Pleasing and Perfectionism 12:13 Strengthening Your Leadership Reputation 15:17 Final Thoughts and Resources Resources Mentioned: 📘 Download the High Potential Pack – A free guide to help you boost your visibility, clarify your leadership strengths, and build a career that actually works for you: lauraweldy.com/free 📲 Connect with Laura on Instagram or LinkedIn and share: Which career phase are you in—and what are you ready to shift? Join the Conversation: If you've been feeling disconnected from your work, this is your reminder: you don't have to burn everything down to feel fulfilled again. Small shifts, realigned values, and bold decisions make all the difference. Reinvention doesn't always mean starting over—it means coming home to what matters now.  Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving. 

If your Sunday nights are filled with dread instead of excitement, you're not alone—and you're not ungrateful. In this episode of The Potentialite Podcast, leadership coach Laura Weldy unpacks the quiet build-up of career resentment and the powerful process of realignment and reinvention. Laura explores why so many high-achieving women feel stuck in roles they once dreamed of, and how ignoring your evolving values, boundaries, or bandwidth can lead to disconnection and burnout. You'll learn how to identify whether it's your mindset—or your workplace—that needs a change, and gain practical tools to reorient your career toward what lights you up now. Whether you're in a season of endurance or longing for reinvention, this episode will help you reimagine your career in a way that supports your current priorities and potential. What You'll Learn: What career resentment really looks like—and why it sneaks up on high performers How women's career needs shift across life phases (idealism, endurance, and reinvention) The role of boundaries, burnout, and clarity in career satisfaction How to do a career values alignment exercise to get back on track When it's time to leave a toxic culture and find a new environment that fits Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome and introduction [00:01:19] Career resentment and why it creeps in quietly [00:02:31] Laura's personal story: boundaries and burnout [00:04:00] Waiting to be seen vs. asking for what you need [00:05:38] The three phases of women's career development: Idealism, Endurance, Reinvention [00:09:05] Resentment beyond parenthood: workplace disillusionment [00:10:24] Redefining what reinvention means [00:12:26] The values-mapping exercise for clarity and fulfillment [00:14:33] When the issue isn't just you—it's the system [00:16:06] Knowing when it's time to leave and try something new Resources Mentioned: 🧠 Career Development Phases Study: Women's career development phases: Idealism, endurance, and reinvention (Career Development International) 📘 Download the High Potential Pack – A free guide to help you boost your visibility, clarify your leadership strengths, and build a career that actually works for you: lauraweldy.com/free 📲 Connect with Laura on Instagram or LinkedIn and share: Which career phase are you in—and what are you ready to shift? Join the Conversation: If you've been feeling disconnected from your work, this is your reminder: you don't have to burn everything down to feel fulfilled again. Small shifts, realigned values, and bold decisions make all the difference. Reinvention doesn't always mean starting over—it means coming home to what matters now.  Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving. 

Are you the one everyone turns to for advice—but somehow still feel stagnant in your own career growth? You're not alone. In this episode of The Potentialite Podcast, Laura Weldy breaks down one of the sneakiest blocks to leadership advancement: over-mentoring. While mentoring can feel fulfilling, when it takes over your calendar and your energy, it often comes at the expense of your own visibility, strategy, and next big opportunity. Laura shares how pouring too much into others without investing in your own network can be a trap—especially for high-achieving women. Tune in as Laura explores three major reasons why women avoid networking, why that mindset is costing you momentum, and what to do instead to build authentic, strategic relationships that actually move your career forward. What You'll Learn: Why being the "go-to mentor" might be stalling your growth The difference between proactive vs. reactive leadership actions How top leaders approach networking (and why it matters more than you think) New ways to make networking feel energizing and aligned How to build a bridge between where you are and where you want to go Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome + the mentorship trap [00:01:28] How mentoring can block your own growth [00:03:19] The difference between reactive support and strategic action [00:04:38] Misalignment between your goals and your calendar [00:05:04] What the data says about women and networking [00:07:02] Mentoring feels safe—networking feels vulnerable [00:08:56] Reason #1: Avoiding discomfort [00:09:46] Reason #2: You believe networking has to suck [00:10:48] Ideas for authentic, aligned networking [00:12:18] How mastermind communities build real connection [00:13:53] Reason #3: You don't know what you want yet [00:14:42] Why taking action brings clarity [00:16:00] Reminder: your development deserves space [00:17:00] Commit to three months of consistent networking [00:17:47] Join the Personal Power Code Mastermind Resources Mentioned: 📘 Download the High Potential Pack – A free guide to help you define your leadership strengths, boost visibility, and build your career plan: lauraweldy.com/free 💡 Join the Personal Power Code Mastermind – A curated community for ambitious women redefining their personal brand and career path (reopening in April 2025!). Want to get started with Laura and the Mastermind? Book a call with her to get started. 📲 Connect with Laura on Instagram or LinkedIn and share: How are you creating space for your own development this month?   Join the Conversation: If this episode hits home, share it with a fellow leader who's ready to shift from over-functioning to forward movement. And remember: mentoring others is beautiful, but your growth matters too. Stop waiting for permission. Build the connections that carry you forward.  Until next time, keep showing up and keep thriving.