The Third Entity in Every Relationship | Podcast 611

Explore Your Personality: https://PersonalityHacker.com In this episode, Joel and Antonia celebrate 15 years together and explore “coupledom” as a living third identity in relationships. They discuss how personality type, Enneagram subtypes, and the balance between freedom and sovereignty shape lasting connection. From naming their relationship “Silphium” to navigating conflict with intention, they share insights on building a resilient, purpose-driven partnership.

Explore Your Personality: https://PersonalityHacker.com   In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore the complex relationship between energy, motivation, and personality type. They unpack the hidden “dirty” motivators like anxiety and the desire for credit, discuss what truly drives us at a deeper level, and examine how uncertainty can drain motivation. Using Enneagram instincts and cognitive functions, they reveal how understanding your own energetic patterns can lead to more authentic and sustainable motivation.  

Explore Your Personality: https://personalityhacker.com In this episode, Joel and Antonia dive deep into the process of discovering your best-fit personality type. They walk through the four essential protocols used in professional profiling sessions (rapport, interview, verification, and mapping) and explain how anyone can apply these steps in self-assessment. Along the way, they debunk common MBTI myths, share personal insights, and highlight why thoughtful self-inquiry matters more than just taking a test. Whether you're new to typology or still unsure of your type, this episode offers a grounded, practical path to finding clarity.    

In this episode, Joel and Antonia examine the often overlooked costs of personal development. They explore why growth isn't always rewarded, what we have to sacrifice as we evolve, and how maturity can sometimes leave us feeling more isolated than empowered. Through stories, Jungian insights, and real-life reflections, they unpack the emotional, social, and motivational shifts that come with long-term growth and what it truly asks of us.   https://personalityhacker.com 

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore the idea that the “true self” might not be something we discover, but something we invent. They dive into the psychology of identity, authenticity, and choice, weaving in insights from Jungian theory, cognitive functions, and their own experiences with personal growth.   https://personalityhacker.com   

In this episode, Joel and Antonia unpack a key insight from Rick Rubin: “Just because something is out of your control doesn’t mean it’s opposed to you.” They explore how this mindset shift impacts creativity, relationships, and personal growth, through the lens of personality type, the Enneagram, and Jungian functions.    https://personalityhacker.com 

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore life transitions (cultural, biological, and personal) and how personality type can guide us through change. They discuss vertical vs. horizontal transitions, the fear of uncertainty, and using the eight Jungian functions to build a more aligned life path.   https://personalityhacker.com

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore the hidden “labor” we do for each other (physical, emotional, cognitive and intuitive) through the lens of Jungian cognitive functions. They share personal stories and examples of how unspoken expectations, lack of recognition, and type differences shape relationships and create unseen burdens.   https://personalityhacker.com 

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore how unconscious parts of the psyche influence our thoughts, behaviors, and relationships—sharing personal stories, relationship patterns, and the weighty reality of shadow work through the lens of Jungian typology and the 8-function model.   https://personalityhacker.com 

In this episode, Joel and Antonia discuss intuitive dysregulation and how tarot, combined with Ai, helped Antonia reconnect to her intuition. They explore tarot’s Jungian connection, do a live reading for their next topic, and uncover themes of vulnerability, legacy, and the enduring self.   https://personalityhacker.com