More Than Sex: Ashley Del Toro on Bonds, Couples ,& His Next Evolution

In this episode of Ofacez, Mr. Mocha sits down with Ashley Del Toro, a longtime lifestyle single male whose journey has taken him from active participation, through personal challenges, and now into a brand-new chapter. Ashley shares how his approach to the lifestyle has shifted over the years—why genuine bonds with couples always mattered to him, how stepping back gave him a clearer sense of purpose, and what he’s excited to experience as he begins exploring the lifestyle from within a new relationship.He opens up about the lessons that shaped him, the connections that guided him, and the growth that keeps him evolving. Whether you’re a single male in the lifestyle or someone navigating your own transition, Ashley’s perspective is honest, grounded, and filled with insight.

Welcome back to The Dirty Corner — where women get loud, get real, and give zero f*cks about anyone’s expectations.In Episode 2, Mrs. Mocha and Sonya are still feeling each other out… but not holding anything back. The vibe is chaotic in the best way — funny, filthy, honest, and full of the kind of unfiltered energy that makes every woman listening feel a little braver and a lot more seen.This episode is messy, sexy, and wildly authentic — because The Dirty Corner isn’t just about talking nasty…It’s about giving women permission to be exactly who they are.Mrs. Mocha and Sonya share lifestyle stories, poke fun at themselves (and each other), and open the door for women to explore their sexuality without shame, without fake personas, and without the pressure to fit anyone’s idea of what a “good girl” or “empowered woman” should be.If you want comedy, chaos, and real talk that liberates your inner freak — you’re right where you belong.Press play, laugh with us, learn with us, and let yourself be free.

On this episode , Mr. Mocha sits down with lifestyle single male Don James—a tall, attractive, highly sought-after, financially established, and unapologetically confident man navigating both the lifestyle and the vanilla world.What starts as a conversation turns into a raw, hilarious, and brutally honest deep-dive into what it really means to be a high-value single male in the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha and Don James break down:What truly makes a single male “high-value”The differences between lifestyle vs. vanilla options for menWhat attracts (and instantly turns off) a top-tier single maleWhy certain couples succeed and others get overlookedThe truth about male behavior when no one’s watchingReal-time reactions as they review & critique an actual lifestyle profileAnd the wild stories and confessions that slip out when two men forget they’re being recordedThis episode is funny, educational, brutally candid, and borderline offensive in the best possible way. If you ever wondered what men really say behind closed doors, this is your front-row seat—a true “fly on the wall” experience inside the male mind of the lifestyle.⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains explicit language, adult themes, unfiltered male perspectives, and candid sexual discussion intended for mature audiences only. Listener discretion is strongly advised.

This special episode of Ofacez: On the Cutting Board was recorded LIVE on Twitter Spaces and brings together a powerhouse panel of lifestyle veterans to break down the truth about bull behavior, boundaries, and realistic expectations.Featuring:Brian Morgan — The Sigma MaleDimitriVCThat’s FixMr. Mocha- Xavier BlackingWhat started as a spontaneous conversation quickly turned into one of the most important educational discussions for bulls and couples in the lifestyle. The episode begins with a few live technical hiccups, but once the dialogue gets going, it becomes unfiltered, honest, funny, and incredibly insightful.Together, the group dives into essential topics such as:What the bull role truly meansUnderstanding boundaries vs. fantasy dynamicsWhy some bulls develop a false sense of “ownership”What couples mean when they request a “boyfriend experience”Red flags and inappropriate behavior bulls must avoidHow experienced bulls build trust, respect, and longevityHow to participate ethically, confidently, and responsiblyThis episode is raw, unedited, and full of authentic wisdom from men who have lived in the lifestyle for years. Their combined experience, humor, and real-world insight make this one of the most educational and entertaining conversations we’ve ever hosted.Unscripted. Unfiltered. Real education for bulls, couples, and anyone navigating ethical non-monogamy.

The mics are on, the nerves are buzzing, and the lingerie might still be on under the jeans. Mrs. Mocha is back — and she’s bringing a brand-new partner-in-crime, Sonya, for her very first podcast! Both a little nervous and very excited, these two dive straight into the deep end of the lifestyle pool: how they got started, what turned them on to it, and why it’s made their marriages hotter than ever.Expect giggles, goosebumps, and a few moments that’ll make you blush as they swap stories about connection, confidence, and what happens when curiosity turns into passion. Whether you’re in the lifestyle or just peeking over the fence, this spicy, unscripted episode will leave you turned on, tuned in, and wanting more.

Mr. and Mrs. Mocha turn the tables in this wild, unfiltered episode as they sit down with Norman and Tammy — an interracial couple and both therapists, with Tammy specializing in sex therapy. Norman, a former military man with a sharp edge, and Tammy, a seasoned therapist with an open mind, join the Mochas for a raw, hilarious, and surprisingly vulnerable deep dive into relationships, sex, and the lifestyle.What starts as “therapy” quickly turns into a four-way exchange full of laughter, flirtation, and brutally honest truths. Norman and Tammy pull back the curtain on their own relationship dynamics — even revealing a few surprises to each other — while Mr. and Mrs. Mocha share real moments from their own journey, giving their guests a chance to dissect the spicy, complicated, and beautiful sides of love and lust.It’s candid, sexy, funny, and deeply real — part therapy session, part confession, and all chemistry.Trigger Warning: Expect unfiltered talk about sex, relationships, and lifestyle dynamics — this one gets real.

March 2025’s Splash Mocha was filthy, fabulous, and full of unforgettable nights—and now it’s time for the debrief you’ve been dying for.In this long-overdue episode, Mr. and Mrs. Mocha finally sit down to relive all the steamy, sweaty, and downright scandalous moments from their time at the nation’s hottest interracial swinger event. From late-night playrooms to flirt-heavy pool parties, nothing’s off limits as Mrs. Mocha opens up about reconnecting with old friends, making sexy new ones, and fully stepping back into her seductive, untamed groove.💦 Wild room parties.💦 Spontaneous threesomes.💦 Fans who turned into unforgettable flings.💦 And that one moment that left even Mr. Mocha speechless...This isn’t just a recap—it’s a full-body confession. Whether you were at Splash or just dreamed of being there, this episode brings the heat straight to your headphones.Real stories from real swingersBold, confident wives owning their sexualityA front-row seat to the wildest event in the lifestyleUnfiltered talk that feels like your sexiest group chat

In this no-holds-barred episode of O-Facez, Mr. and Mrs. Mocha answer the steamiest, most vulnerable, and most asked questions from listeners deep in—or just getting curious about—the swinger lifestyle.From managing emotions and setting boundaries to the wild stories.What’s it really like to open your bedroom—and your relationship—to others?Expect real answers, intimate moments, and plenty of laughter as the Mochas mix honesty, heat, and humor in a conversation that speaks directly to couples—and inspiration for the bolder women who are ready to explore connection, chemistry, and sexual freedom together.

In this explosive episode of Ofacez, Mr. Mocha hosts a no-filter, no-apologies debate that dives straight into one of the most talked-about questions in the lifestyle world:👉 Who truly holds the power in cuckolding and hotwifing—the couple or the bull?Joining the table:🎙 Michael C., one of the most recognizable and respected voices in the cuckold and hotwife lifestyle from the Keys and Anklets podcast, and🎙 Socrates, a bold new voice and emerging personality from the Bulls Brotherhood podcast.Moderated by The Sigma Male (also from Bulls Brotherhood), this debate goes way beyond surface-level lifestyle talk. Mr. Mocha (firmly Team Couple) and Michael C. (Team Bull) reignite their long-standing disagreement—but this time, Socrates steps in with his own fire, challenging both sides with a raw and unfiltered perspective.This episode is funny, intense, honest, and long—but worth every second for anyone serious about the lifestyle.🔞 Topics Include:Cuckolding vs. Bull power dynamicsWho’s really in control during play: the bull or the couple?Bull psychology, dominance, and expectationsWould you rather have to many or to few optionsReal male experiences inside the lifestyleWhether you're in the swinger lifestyle, exploring cuckold/hotwife dynamics, or just want unfiltered conversations with real men who live it—this is essential listening.🎧 Press play on this long ass, uncut, and unforgettable lifestyle podcast episode .

Mr. Mocha and Manicorn Q are day drinking and saying whatever the hell they want in this unfiltered, boys-only edition of Ofacez: The Cutting Board. They rope in Stag Rizza, who kicks things off with a wild question: Why do so many Black men leave their socks on during sex? From there, it spirals—in the best way possible.This episode dives into the swinger lifestyle from a male perspective, mixing real sex talk, cultural truths, and politically incorrect laughs. If you're into hotwife dynamics, stag/vixen play, open marriage, or just raw, unedited lifestyle conversations with no sugarcoating—this one’s for you.🎙️ Topics include:Swinger culture & male performanceStag life & hotwife perspectivesBlack men in the lifestyleFunny sex habits and taboosDrinking, honesty, and everything in betweenWarning: This is a locker-room-level, drink-in-hand episode. No filters, no fluff—just straight-up real talk from real men living the lifestyle.