DR VINCENT HURLEY: Domestic Violence Is A Male Problem

Actress and artist Ione Skye sits down with Abbie to chat about her intimate memoir 'Say Everything'. Ione and Abbie talk about how having an absent father has impacted them both in similar ways, including the search for validation through relationships. Ione shares her experiences with early fame and navigating relationships with older partners like Anthony Kiedis of the Red Hot Chili Peppers, to her relationship now with husband Ben Lee.  LINKS Buy Ione's book 'Say Everything' Follow Ione Skye on IG @ioneskyelee Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Ione Skye @ioneskyeleeExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's a classic deadsh*t boyfriend NMF, complete with red flags, lovebombing, and lies. Then things get even weirder... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Time for another AMA! Topics covered include Abbie's holiday, European sex clubs, why she doesn't worry about cheating in her relationship with Adam, why AI is the new asbestos, and the tired critiques of women like Pamela Anderson. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

NOTE: The advice in this podcast is general, and is not a substitute for professional legal advice. If this content raises any issues, help is availablie via Lifeline https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14, and via 1800Respect at https://www.1800respect.org.au/ or by calling 1800 737 732. In this conversation, Abbie shares the story of a mutual friend, and with the help of Dr Vincent, delves into the complexities of domestic violence, particularly the challenges faced by victims when navigating the family law system. Dr Vincent applies his years of experience in both the police force and as a professor in criminology to give insight into the situation. LINKS Learn more about Dr Vincent Hurley https://researchers.mq.edu.au/en/persons/vincent-hurley Follow Dr Vincent Hurley on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-vincent-hurley-7748a531/?originalSubdomain=au  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Dr Vincent HurleyExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaRecording Engineer & Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

CW: This episode contains discussions of gender-based violence. If this content raises any issues, help is availablie via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14, and via 1800Respect at https://www.1800respect.org.au/ or by calling 1800 737 732. As of publishing, 33 women have been killed in Australia since January 1 2025 (source: Sherele Moody/Femicide Watch). While there has been a lot of talk from both sides of the political divide about the issue over the last few tears, there has been little action to combat the current femicide epidemic in Australia. Dr Vincent Hurley made waves with his appearance on Q&A lecturing politicians on this very inaction, as a criminology lecturer and a former cop he has seen the firsthand the brutal reality of violence against women and children. Dr Hurley sits down with Abbie to talk about why we need to change the way we look at violence against women, the problems victims face in the police and legal systems, and how community support can help vicitms. LINKS Learn more about Dr Vincent Hurley https://researchers.mq.edu.au/en/persons/vincent-hurley Follow Dr Vincent Hurley on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-vincent-hurley-7748a531/?originalSubdomain=au  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Dr Vincent HurleyExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaRecording Engineer & Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The first date was full of red flags, the second date is unspeakably bad... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Thanks to TikTok, there is a lot of oversimplification happening of what being a stay-at-home mum is like as well as, on the more extreme side, what being a 'tradwife' is actually like. Abbie gets stuck into the criticisms from 'choice feminists', the financial risks, and importance of financial independence. Plus, Abbie was asked to react to a video from one of those Manosphere Lite dudes... LINKS Follow the Freedom Flotilla Coalition @gazafreedomflotilla Follow Greta Thunberg @gretathunberg Follow the latest news from Al Jazeera English @aljazeeraenglish  Listen to Up First https://www.npr.org/podcasts/510318/up-first  Listen to Behind the Bastards https://www.instagram.com/bastardspod/?hl=en  Listen to Laura Henshaw's new series "Am I Equal?" https://play.listnr.com/podcast/kicpod  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram. Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A strong argument against communal living... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander listeners are warned that this episode contains discussion of a deceased person. Right now in Victoria, a landmark commission is preparing to deliver it's final reform report on historical and ongoing injustices experienced by the state's First Peoples. The Yoorrook Justice Commission's Deputy Commissioner, Travis Lovett, has not only heard from people all across Victoria, but has experienced first-hand how systems discriminate against and endanger the lives of First Nations peoples. He and Abbie chat about the importance of truth-telling, the ongoing effects of colonisation, resilience versus resistance, and the Walk For Truth. If you, or someone you know, are feeling worried or no good, we encourage you to connect with 13YARN on 13 92 76 (24 hours/7 days) and talk with an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander Crisis Supporter. LINKS Sign up for the Walk for Truth https://www.eventbrite.com/e/walk-for-truth-public-walk-sections-tickets-1351267189539 Learn more about the Walk for Truth https://yoorrookjusticecommission.org.au/events/walkfortruth/  Follow the Yoorrook Justice Commission on Instagram @yoorrook  Learn more about the Yoorrook Justice Commission https://yoorrookjusticecommission.org.au/  Follow Travis on Instagram @travis__lovett  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Travis Lovett @travis__lovett Executive Producer: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You think there's enough to worry about when you're dating a man, and then you hear this NMF... Props to this chook for coming ready with the screenshots!! LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.