Are Dating Apps Bad for Your Mental Health?

Like many of us, Michelle wasn't having much luck finding love on dating apps. So one day, she decided to stop searching for Mr. Right and start looking for Mr. Right Now. After changing her profile to a direct ask for sex… things got weird. In this episode, Jinah and Daniel dive into the wild world of online hookups, unsolicited pics, and honest sexual exploration. Joining guest Michelle is Hily's (Hily.com) resident sexologist, Dr. Mindy DeSeta, who shares expert tips on how to turn awkward sex talk into actual satisfaction.

Jinah's neighbor Rick has had more than his fair share of dating disasters. From a woman who kicked off their evening by shaving the calluses off her feet, to another who couldn't stop dropping F-bombs at a nice restaurant, Rick just can't seem to catch a break. His stories are a snapshot of the cringe, chaos, and comedy we've all come to know from modern dating apps. But no matter how many fails he racks up, there are two things about himself Rick refuses to change.

Rejection is part of dating—but on apps, it can feel relentless. A thousand swipes for a single match, only to get ghosted. What used to be competition with a handful of people at a bar is now competition with everyone in your city (or even your state). In this episode, Daniel and Jinah sit down with mental health therapist @iamthatboyphil and writer @ivyeats to unpack the emotional burnout, self-sabotage, and unrealistic expectations that dating apps so often create.

Everyone swears they've got it the worst on dating apps — men, women, you name it. But who actually takes the crown for the most tragic (and hilarious) experiences? In this episode, Daniel and Jinah sit down with Ryan Lugo and Akosua Mireku (@poem.a.day.project) to swap war stories from the wild world of online dating. Cringe, laugh, and maybe even cry a little as we ask the ultimate question: is anyone actually winning on these apps?

We've all made cringeworthy mistakes in the quest for love (some of us more than others—ahem, Jinah). But according to our guest, there are FIVE big dating missteps that people repeat again and again… and they might just be what's keeping you single. This week, we're joined by dating coach, relationship strategist, and host of the YouTube show Dating Makeover, Lana Ricco (@lana.ricco). She's currently writing a book titled The 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes Keeping You Single (and How to Fix Them)—but lucky for you, she's breaking them all down for us right here. Spoiler: Jinah's guilty of pretty much every single one.

Falling for a scammer posing as a romantic interest? It happens more often than you'd think—and not just to the naïve. Even the most seasoned dating app users can get caught in a web of sweet talk and stolen valor. In this episode, we chat with private investigator Shelley Cain, whose job is all about catching cheaters and unmasking frauds. She shares how scammers often hide behind fake badges, ranks, and uniforms —and how to spot the red flags before your heart (and bank account) takes a hit. Plus, a real-life cautionary tale of a lonely heart.

Think dropping thousands of dollars on a matchmaker guarantees love? Think again. In this juicy episode, a former elite matchmaker to the ultra-wealthy pulls back the velvet curtain on the wild world of high-stakes dating. From ghosted millionaires to clients who refuse second dates with perfect matches, she shares the real drama behind the glam. With over 5,000 love-seeking souls coached, she's seen it all—and she's spilling her most surprising, hilarious, and brutally honest lessons about modern romance.  With @carolynhori

In this episode, we dive into the most common mistakes (and Jinah's pet peeves) that people make when creating their dating app profiles. (Sunglasses in every photo... like WHY??!) Whether you're new to online dating or a seasoned swiper, your profile plays a major role in making a lasting impression. With our guests John DeMato and Nancy Vu - @theboo522 and @dematophoto - we break down the top red flags to watch out for, from questionable bios to photos that don't quite hit the mark. Tune in for expert advice on crafting a profile that attracts the right matches, boosts your confidence, and keeps things authentic. Don't miss out on these essential tips for navigating the world of digital romance!

Let's be honest—Valentine's Day is a commercial holiday designed to sell flowers and overpriced dinners. But even if we know that, it still stirs up emotions, especially for those who are single. For this special Valentine's Week episode, hosts Daniel and Jinah sit down with two top relationship coaches to explore the question: How do you get someone to fall in love with you? If you've met someone you really like, what are the best ways to build attraction and connection? What common mistakes should you avoid? And perhaps most importantly—it is even worth all of the effort? Joining the conversation are dating experts Lisa Copeland(@lisacopelanddatingcoach; https://findaqualityman.com/) and Mike Goldstein(@ezdatingcoach; https://ezdatingcoach.com), who share their insights on attraction, love, and authentic relationship-building. �� Topics Covered: ✔️ The psychology of attraction and emotional connection ✔️ Do's and don'ts when trying to spark romance ✔️ Why forcing love might backfire—and what to do instead Whether you're single, dating, or just curious about love and relationships, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you navigate the modern dating world.

We know dating apps are a shit show for most people, but it's especially true for men who are on them, and statistics validate this.  But when does it get SO BAD that you just need to take a break from them??  In this episode, we talk to two young, smart, good looking men about why they decided to take a break from dating apps.  Guests Bryan (@commonsense150) and Austin (@theaustinkellyshow) echo what so many other men say about modern dating: it's tough out there!  But what's the alternative?