I Know The Day My Mum Is Going To Die: Ginni Mansberg's Story

It may have been a little while since you’ve heard co-host Ginni Mansberg’s voice in your ears. If you didn’t know, Ginni is also one of the hosts of our Gen X podcast, Unleashed, where women come together for a laugh, a chat and, occasionally, some of life’s harder conversations. Ginni recently shared something incredibly personal with the Unleashed listeners, the story of her mum’s decision to choose voluntary assisted dying. If you have a teenager, or a child who is now an adult, you may find yourself in a similar stage of life to Ginni: watching your parents age and beginning to face the realities of serious illness, difficult decisions and what it means to care for the people who once cared for you. This is part one of a three-part series following Ginni and her family through the before, the moment itself and what comes after. You can listen to part two and part three here. If this conversation brought up hard feelings and you need some help, please call Lifeline here. In your ears today is Cath Mahoney, Bruna Papandrea and Ginni Mansberg Check out our Unleashed music playlist for some feel good throwbacks! The End Bits:Follow us on Instagram, DM us thoughts, feelings and questions @unleashed.showLove the show? Hit follow on Apple or Spotify — it helps other Gen X women find us. Executive Producer Grace RouvraySenior Producer and Audio Editor is Tina MatolovSocial Media Producer is Annaliese Todd Did you know some of our shows are now in video on the Apple Podcast app? Make sure your phone is up to date and check it out here! Get access to Very Peri, Mamamia's exclusive perimenopause series, for just $59. 25 world-leading experts, over 20 on-demand sessions, available now. We’ve sorted through the noise so you don't have to. Go to veryperi.com.au and join me today. You hot? Same. Become a Mamamia subscriber and get an all-access pass to everything we make, including exclusive podcasts and early listening, subscriber-only articles, monthly giveaways and our home workout app, MOVE.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud.  Parenting can involve big ideas, public debates and the odd festive guilt trip - and this week, we’re tackling all three. The man who created Adolescence has a new idea for how dads can connect with their sons - it’s beautiful, but one of us hates it. Plus, Amelia dives into the kids party photo that’s divided Australia: can you really “bags” a park table? And finally, it’s Elf O’Clock. Monz realises she’s the last mum on earth without a tiny spy living in her house, and wonders aloud if there are some traditions that should just be left alone. Our recommendations:  💄Stacey recommends you treat yourself to a $150 Mecca makeup lesson (redeemable on product) where you learn game-changing tips. ❤️‍🩹 Monz wants you to check out A Year of Healing by Lucy Ormonde on Substack, a brilliant guide to showing up for a friend going through cancer. ⏰ Amelia is recommending Dr Dan Shapiro’s idea of time-ins: five minutes of phone-free, one-on-one time fully led by your child. Support independent women's media Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here.  WHAT TO READ:  So your friend's been diagnosed with breast cancer. Here's how you can help. No Elf on the Shelf or Santa photos: The 6 Christmas traditions I'm cancelling this year. 'My daughter found out the Elf on the Shelf isn't real because of an article I wrote.' There's one question we're all asking since watching Adolescence. An expert just answered it. 'As a mum of teen boys, Adolescence was a sobering watch.' 'I had breast cancer and I'd love for my story to scare the s**t out of you.' THE END BITS:  Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton  GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Senior/Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud.  Spooky season is just about to hit and we’re asking: what’s the point of Halloween, anyway? And are Australians missing one crucial trick about it that could change... everything? Monz unpacks. Then, Amelia makes a bold claim — some nepo babies are better than others. But why do some rise while others flop, even within the same famous family? And in a twist no one saw coming, Hailey Bieber just became our accidental parenting guru. Yep, that wasn't on our bingo card for 2025 either. Stacey has feelings. Big feelings. Grab your headphones and join the conversation.  Our recommendations: 🎨 Stacey is a fan of the Hey Doodle drawing mats for the creative kiddos AND the podcast She Built That. 🌌 Amelia loves the app Stellarium, for all your stargazing needs.  📕 And Monz wants you to read 'the best children's book ever'. Hunwick's Egg by Mem Fox.   Support independent women's media Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here.  WHAT TO READ:  From Double Nepo to Semi-Nepo: The nepo baby universe has expanded. The rise of the nepo babies 2.0. Victoria Beckham shared her makeup 'rules' for Harper. Here's what 7 mums had to say about theirs. 13 whimsical and spooky Halloween movies for cowards. The Hailey Bieber 'documentary' everyone’s talking about, and everything that happened since. THE END BITS:  Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton  GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Senior/Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud.  Are you feeling ‘The Squeeze’?  The daily chaos of modern parenting is real. We unpack why you’re feeling maxed out and overwhelmed and talk about whether there’s actually anything you can do about it. Plus, are you raising readers or just scrollers? And in today’s digital world, is it even important? We discuss whether it’s possible to get over your scrolling addiction and get you (and your kids) back into books. And, the dads are in their feelings this week, and we’re here for it. George Clooney reflects on the sacrifices he’s made for success, while Prince William reveals how even Royal dads can feel overwhelmed when it comes to raising tiny humans. Our recommendations: 💄 Stacey is recommending the Nyx Fat Oil Lip Drip in the shade Newsfeed to achieve her iconic lip look.  🪨 Amelia is recommending Rock Painting, and now we all know what we're getting in the office Kris Kringle this year. 🎧 And Monz wants you to listen to the Paul Field episode of the podcast Conversations, for his deeply moving, heartfelt story. A trigger warning for anyone who has experienced the loss of a child. Support independent women's media Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here.  WHAT TO READ:  Prince William just gave his most candid interview. One comment lands like a message to his brother. 'My life changed.' A look into George Clooney's family life with 7-year-old twins. 'I'm a new mum who read 60 books last year. This is how I actually did it.' 'I was reading bedtime stories with a glass of wine. A question from my son stopped me in my tracks.' 'No one is reading bedtime stories to their kids anymore and I know exactly why.' THE END BITS:  Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton  GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Senior/Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud.  The kids are at home, the holiday activities are seemingly endless and you probably need a break. So welcome back to the podcast that's not just any parenting podcast.  On the show today:  You're officially excused from ever attending your child's sport practice. Don't believe us? Just ask the professional soccer player Abby Wambach.  Plus, are you an eldest daughter? Well, so is Taylor Swift and the birth order theory might explain a lot. And, magicians are having a moment. But this time it's not just for the kids. So get the girls  over, put the kids to bed and enjoy some whimsy.   And our recommendations: 🗞️ Stacey wants you to check out this great opinion piece on the Australian divorce story to end all Australian divorce stories.  📺 Amelia is recommending The Assembly on ABC IVIEW. 🎄 And Monz (in true eldest daughter fashion) is recommending the Christmas Mums Facebook page for Chrissy inspiration, wholesomeness and some early planning. Support independent women's media Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here.  WHAT TO READ:  OPINION: 'Everyone's saying the same thing about Nicole and Keith's divorce. They're wrong.' Forget attachment styles, Birth Order Theory is the new personality reading trend. Someone check on the eldest daughters this Christmas. 'As the eldest daughter, I felt the most pressure.' 'I have a sibling age gap of almost 5 years. Here's why it's so much better.' THE END BITS:  Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton  GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Senior/Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud.  The school holidays are upon us and Monz, Amelia & Stacey are back to distract you with some Millennial core memories, a flashback to Shania Twain and a playlist that will lift your mood. On the show this week: Genius or completely unhinged? Do our kids need ‘Social Media Prep School’? We've got thoughts. And, are you holding onto a room full of stuff to hand down to your kids? How A$AP Rocky & Rihanna and Sarah Jessica Parker are rebranding your clutter or as we like to call it 'love junk'.  Plus, the childcare conversation we need to have & one woman's controversial solution. And our recommendations: 🎵 Stacey wants you to listen to her playlist Girly Pop Songs That Make Me Wanna Break A Door Down on Spotify 🎧 Amelia is recommending Greeking Out by National Geographic 🍪 And Monz has an iconic hack for parents of hungry goblin children: The Offering  You can read the TGA's statement on pregnancy and paracetamol here. Support independent women's media Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here.  What to read:  The moment this mum knew something wasn't right at her daughter's childcare. 'I'm a male childcare worker and I know what you think of me.' 'I got a small pay rise at work. Our childcare fees are now crippling us.' 'After 25 years of working in childcare, this is the one thing I wish every parent knew.' VIRGINIA TAPSCOTT: People think stay-at-home parents must be wealthy. But this is the true cost. ASK HOLLY: 'How do I stop helicoptering my son when he seems so hopeless?' An open letter to other women with split families on Christmas. 'My child is a 'Deep Feelings Kid'. As a parenting expert, here's what I wish I knew 7 years ago.' GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Senior Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Coco Lavigne Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud.  On Parenting Out Loud this episode:  The rise of the stealth mum. From Margot Robbie's press tour to your work colleague who's never mentioned having kids, we're exploring why hiding motherhood has become the new cultural currency. Plus, praising your child is a fraught business. Do you compliment their efforts, their appearance, their creations? Perhaps millennial parents are overthinking things... again. We discuss.  And, there's a tiny internet feud happening on Facebook that we need to talk about.  Plus, our recommendations: 📺 Stacey wants you to watch Unknown Number: The High School Catfish on Netflix 🗞️ Amelia recommends getting back into reading an oldschool newspaper. 🍽️ And Monz has got a viral two ingredient recipe she needs you to try. Just some beef bolar blade (a cut of beef), some char siu sauce. Turn on the slow cooker and chuck it all in there-the entire jar and everything. Put the lid on, turn it on low for 8-10 hours and you've got a succulent Chinese meal. Support independent women's media Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here What To Listen To Next:  Don't miss an episode of Parenting Out Loud Unpacking The KPop Demon Hunters Obsession & A Tracking Tool Controversy The 'Normal' We Need To Interrogate & The Father's Day Rethink The Third Kid Dessert Analogy & FFS, Stop With The Texts Sleep Divorce, 'Hopeless' Dads & Goodnight To The Bedtime Story Dr Becky's DFK Theory & The Great Trampoline Debate MMOL: A Breast Pump, An Airport Lounge & The Detail You Probably Missed MMOL: Every Thought We Had After Watching Netflix's 'Unknown Number' Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts  What to read:  MADELEINE WEST: 'I speak to kids in schools every week. There's one thing they all keep from their parents.' Worried about what your kids see online? These 5 tips make digital parenting easier. ‘I thought I was protecting my daughter online. This was the day I was proven wrong.' Margot Robbie has welcomed her first baby with husband Tom Ackerley. Netflix's Catfish doco shocked the world. Here's where the Licari family are now. 'How could someone do that?': Why everyone's talking about Netflix's new doco, The High School Catfish. THE END BITS:  Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton  GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Senior Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud. Welcome to Parenting Out Loud where you can be sure you're kicking off your weekend right. Monz, Amelia and Stacey are here to unpack the week once more — through the wild, wonderful lens of parenthood. On the show this week: KPop Demon Hunters is smashing records. Kids love it, parents ADORE it so, what’s behind all the hype? Tracking apps: a non-negotiable today, or are we just spying on the ones we love? The evidence that says having kids young is a good idea. We’re not completely sold, but we are talking about it. And Anne Hathaway: the quiet queen of gentle parenting who put the paps in their place. Settle in — it’s the group chat you won’t want to mute. Plus, it’s our recommendations: 🎁 Stacey recommends a 'shit bits box' to save your sanity. 🛏️ Amelia has discovered the first kids' bedtime book that she’s actually enjoyed herself. 🧇 And Monz has got a heartwarming TV show for the family to enjoy. Support independent women's media Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here.  What To Listen To Next:  Don't miss an episode of Parenting Out Loud The 'Normal' We Need To Interrogate & The Father's Day Rethink The Third Kid Dessert Analogy & FFS, Stop With The Texts Dr Becky's DFK Theory & The Great Trampoline Debate The Ms Rachel Controversy & The Great Kids Vs Friendships Debate A New Co-Parenting Rule & The 100% Work Dilemma The Death Of The Dining Table & 'Outdated' Schooling Grandparents — It's Time For Your Performance Review Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts  What to read:  'K-Pop Demon Hunters is breaking records on Netflix. Here's why I'm obsessed with it.' The one thing that made me question using a tracking app on my kids. 'I lost my mum before I had kids. Here are the hard truths about becoming a mother without her.' From 18 to 44: 13 women on the age they had a baby - and whether it mattered. 'I'm disappointed my daughter wants to have a baby. She's too young.' Anne Hathaway, Drew Barrymore and 15 other celebrities on why they quit drinking. Queen Mary was 28 when she met King Frederik in a Sydney pub. This is their family life now. THE END BITS:  Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton  GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Senior/Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.  Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud.  Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here.  In this episode of Parenting Out Loud:  We reflect on Father’s Day and the distinct shift in its marketing. Amelia unpacks what’s changed and why. Bluey: adorable? Absolutely. But is this the kids' TV show that's also making us feel… bad? Welcome to the Bluey Inadequacy Complex. Monz explains all. Plus, ❤️💜 Two emojis, very different vibes. And yes, we all need to know the difference. Welcome to your emoji decoder. And, the 'one and done' debate that has Stacey riled.  Plus, our recommendations: 🛏️ Stacey recommends a sleep story. 👩‍🎨 Amelia has a new play date hack.  📺 Monz has an old fashioned screen test. Want to make Parenting Out Loud part of your Saturday ritual? OF COURSE YOU DO. To make it official, just tap '+ follow' so you never miss an episode.  Support independent women's media What To Listen To Next:  Don't miss an episode of Parenting Out Loud  The Third Kid Dessert Analogy & FFS, Stop With The Texts Dr Becky's DFK Theory & The Great Trampoline Debate The Ms Rachel Controversy & The Great Kids Vs Friendships Debate A New Co-Parenting Rule & The 100% Work Dilemma The Death Of The Dining Table & 'Outdated' Schooling Grandparents — It's Time For Your Performance Review Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts  What to read:  'Mum, that means ejaculate.' These emojis aren't as innocent as they look. You're not imagining it. There's a reason everyone really is sicker this winter. Every moment from Bluey that has horrified Americans. 'The 'boring' parent is the unsung hero': 5 things Bluey has taught me about parenting. 14 dads told us what they actually want for Father's Day. 'We've decided we're only having one child... it doesn't stop the comments.' THE END BITS:  Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton  GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Senior/Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This summer we've curated your Help I Have A Teenager playlist with a healthy dose of culture-savvy conversation parents actually want - Parenting Out Loud.  This week: Gen Z’s latest reason for giving parenthood the side-eye The guilt trip of not loving every second with your kids  Amelia’s campaign to stop parental group texts (bold move) Stacey’s epic analogy for baby number three (you’ll never see tricycles the same way again) Hit play and welcome to the group chat you won't want to mute. Plus, it’s our recommendations: 🪩 Stacey recommends a boogie with your friends at a disco club. 🛏️ Amelia is bringing back the tried and tested *checks notes* hot water bottle. 🧇 Monz is a fan of this fool-proof snack: Take 8 Weet-Bix, 1/4 cup cocoa, 1 cup of desiccated coconut and a can of condensed milk. Stir all ingredients together, roll it into balls, roll in coconut and store in a bag in the freezer.  Support independent women's media Want more Parenting Out Loud? Click here.  What to read:  'Why a third child is like ordering dessert.' 'Dear kindy mums who've judged me for being "the other mum", here's what I want you to know.' 10 women on the moment they realised their mother was a narcissist. Gentle parenting is all over Instagram. But it's not always gentle on parents. 'I felt like I was the perfect mother. Until I had my third child.' THE END BITS:  Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton  GET IN TOUCH: Share your feedback! Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected]  Join our Facebook group Mamamia Family to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamia_family CREDITS: Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Senior/Audio Producer: Leah Porges Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.