42 lessons learned on my healing journey for healthy lasting love (part two) that will awaken you!

You know you're a cycle breaker if you see something in your family system that is unhealthy and you want to shift that dynamic in your own life. This episode talks to the millennials who I believe are the first CONSCIOUS generation that is leading the way to new waves of healing, loving ourselves and showing up in the world as their true self. So lets dig into the 3 biggest healing practices that US millennials were never taught and are learning now.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives into three powerful healing practices millennials are mastering—and how they’re helping us break the emotional cycles we inherited. 🌿 From learning to regulate our emotions to embracing conflict as a doorway to deeper connection, Sasha unpacks how this generation is shifting from survival mode to self-awareness. You’ll hear how to stop avoiding your feelings, stay calm in hard conversations, and repair relationships with compassion and accountability. By the end, you’ll see that emotional safety doesn’t come from a perfect partner or a conflict-free home—it starts within you. 💛In this episode, you’ll discover:Emotional regulation is the foundation of self-trust and inner safety. Conflict isn’t dangerous—it’s a doorway to deeper connection. Repair and ownership are what make relationships last. Healing your emotions teaches your children how to do the same. You don’t need to be fully healed to love—you heal through loving.💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha talks about two big mistakes many women make in love—and how they quietly leave us feeling unseen and disconnected. 💔 From relying on our partners for emotional safety to trying to “fix” them, she unpacks how these patterns come from generations of self-abandonment—and what it looks like to start meeting your own needs for acknowledgment, connection, pleasure, and sovereignty. You’ll hear how to stop expecting your partner to fill your empty cup, inspire change without control, and replace resentment with compassion. By the end, you’ll see that love deepens not by changing your partner, but by coming home to the version of you that already feels whole. ✨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What is one emotional need you can meet today, this weekend, this week?How are you going to meet that need?What is one thing you can accept about a partner or loved one today?In this episode, you’ll discover:Emotional safety starts with you, not your partner.Love patterns often stem from ancestral and childhood wounds.You can’t fix your partner—change begins within.Compassion grows when you embrace your partner’s humanity.Love deepens when you release control and trust your healing.💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Power of your mind to heal and create the version of who you want to be Description: Reflecting on who I was and how my healing journey released lifetime patterns such as not enough time, not enough money, not enough of you. Change your mind, dissolve the beliefs limiting you and causing you anxiety and watch your life expands into a new version of yourself that you are amazed by.Show Notes:This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives into the hidden thoughts that quietly shape our lives—the ones that whisper “I’m not enough,” “I don’t have time,” or “love never works out for me.” 💔 What starts as a passing thought often reveals a deeper wound—an old belief our subconscious still clings to for safety. Through her own journey of shifting these patterns, Sasha shows how to spot the stories that hold you back and gently rewire them into truth. With warmth and real-life examples, she shares how to “ladder up” your thoughts, use small proofs to rebuild self-trust, and retrain your mind toward calm and possibility. This isn’t about pretending to be positive—it’s about learning to believe something new, one step at a time. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that healing doesn’t begin with fixing yourself—it begins with changing what you choose to believe about who you already are. ✨💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you believe your partner isn't doing enough, it feels unbalanced and you are pulling more weight for the family and household to function. I know this exact feeling and how much resent and overwhelm it can create, listen to uncover what is truly behind "my partner isn't doing enough," and how to overcome the desire to nag, control and pick at your partners flaws.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha unpacks a feeling so many of us know too well—the thought that our partner isn’t “doing enough.” 💔What starts as frustration over chores, parenting, or communication often runs much deeper. Sasha gently reveals how these moments of nitpicking or resentment usually trace back to old wounds—abandonment, rejection, betrayal, or unworthiness—and how our nervous system tries to protect us by controlling or withdrawing. With compassion and honesty, she shares how to break free from this cycle by creating safety within yourself. You’ll learn how to calm your nervous system when triggered, build self-trust through small promises, reparent your inner child, and set boundaries that are both firm and kind.By the end of this episode, you’ll discover that lasting love isn’t built on keeping score, but on the security you cultivate inside—the kind that allows you to show up with presence, patience, and peace. ✨In this episode, you’ll discover:“Not enough” often reflects old wounds, not your partner.Nitpicking and control are fear-based safety strategies.True safety in love starts within, not outside.Self-trust grows by keeping promises to yourself.💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sasha interviews Jeri (Parenting & Mindful Expert) supporting leaders through emotional intelligence and mindfulness. Cultivating resilience, preventing burnout, and creating sustainable well-being. With nearly 20 years of experience, she brings a trauma-informed, research-backed approach to emotional and psychological health across schools, nonprofits, and mission-driven workplaces.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha sits down with mindful leadership coach Jeri Ashley to explore healing burnout, re-parenting yourself, and creating boundaries that protect your peace. 🌿Jeri shares her story of becoming a mother during the pandemic and how it awakened patterns of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the belief of “never enough.” Together, she and Sasha unpack how to shift these cycles through self-compassion, emotional intelligence, and joyful practices that nurture your inner child. By the end of this episode, you’ll leave with practical tools to soften your inner voice, raise emotionally aware kids, and honor your well-being with boundaries that last. ✨💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini trainingHeal You Heal Your Relationship – the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Jeri Ashley:Website: https://www.themindfulnessco.com/soft-success Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerithemindfulmama LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeri-ashley/  Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here is part two of the 42 lessons learned on my healing journey that will spark awareness and wake you up to how far you've come and how to notice when healing is calling your name to better your relationships and how to build healthy lasting love with your partner.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha continues her heartfelt journey through the 42 lessons that transformed her love life—sharing the second half of the powerful insights that helped her break cycles, heal abandonment wounds, and step into secure attachment. 🌸Through honest stories and hard-earned insights, Sasha explores what it takes to break cycles for good: learning how attachment styles shape our conflicts, discovering that repair—not perfection—keeps love alive, and realizing that forgiveness frees you most of all. You’ll also hear why rest is not something you earn, how softening into your feminine makes you stronger, and why every step of healing ripples into the generations before and after you.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with 21 lessons to ground you in love, guide you through uncertainty, and remind you that the greatest gift you can give your partner, your family, and the world is a healing you. ✨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:Out of these 21 shared today, which one do you feel you’re embodying?Which one illuminated for you?Who are you going to share this episode with?💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We think healing moves in a straight line, but it doesn’t. In this episode, I reveal 42 lessons learned from two decades of healing in love. Be ready to feel seen, supported and illuminate your own path with compassion and awareness.This week on Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha takes you inside her 20-year journey of healing in love—and the 42 powerful lessons it revealed. 🌿 From breaking toxic cycles to learning how to truly feel her emotions, she shares what it really looks like to navigate the twists, turns, and spirals of growth with compassion and awareness.Through vulnerable stories, client breakthroughs, and insights from her own healing path, Sasha reminds us that healing isn’t linear—and that every trigger, conflict, and boundary crossed holds wisdom. You’ll learn why self-compassion is more effective than self-criticism, how to transform anxiety by uncovering the fear beneath it, and why trusting yourself is the ultimate freedom in love.By the end of this episode, you’ll not only walk away with 21 soul-deep lessons—you’ll also be invited to pause, reflect, and celebrate just how far you’ve already come. ✨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:Which one of these really felt true to your current journey right now.What is a boundary that you know needs to be set either for yourself in life this week or with someone elseWhat is something that you can just be really proud of?💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sasha shares her triggering moments over summer holidays and debunks the questions she gets asked so much: how do I not get triggered by my partner?In this solo episode of Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha reflects on her summer travels and the surprising ways triggers showed up with her partner—even during magical moments in Prague. She shares how old patterns of control and frustration surfaced, what those moments revealed about her needs, and the lesson she learned about letting go and trusting the flow.Through personal stories and client insights, Sasha shows why the goal isn’t to avoid being triggered but to learn how to support yourself when it happens. From regulating your nervous system, to checking the stories you tell yourself, to clearly communicating your needs without blame, this episode offers practical tools and gentle reminders that triggers can become powerful teachers for deeper connection and growth.Soulful Trio: When was the last time you felt triggered by your partner or in a relationship? What story did you tell yourself in that moment? How did you respond in that moment to that trigger? What might have shifted if you had paused and regulated yourself before your response?What need of yours was underneath the trigger?💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationshipWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The question you and I have both asked ourselves debriefed here. Can we truly change our partners? Do they change for us? When you feel stuck in your relationship dynamic you wonder if there is something you can do to inspire change in your partner, here is the real truth!This week on Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha unpacks one of the most common myths in love: Can our partners really change? ✨ For years, she believed her relationship would only improve if her husband changed—but what she discovered was far more powerful.Through personal stories, client breakthroughs, and lessons from her own healing journey, Sasha reveals how true transformation in a relationship begins with the changes we make within ourselves. You’ll learn how the Law of Reflections plays out in love, why trying to control or “fix” a partner only leads to exhaustion, and how reclaiming your inner power can naturally inspire change around you.By the end of this episode, you’ll see why shifting your own patterns, tending to your unmet needs, and setting boundaries with self-worth at the core can spark the very relationship changes you’ve been longing for. 💖Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What did you learn about changing your partner? Where is one place you can focus on creating your own change right now in your life?Who do you believe needs to hear this and would most benefit from hearing it?💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationshipWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this solo episode of Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha explores the question: can our partner really change? She shares her personal journey of letting go of control, turning inward, and discovering the power of self-trust. If you’ve ever felt stuck doing it all and still feeling unseen, this episode is a reminder that true change starts with you.Soulful Trio: What did you learn about changing your partner? Where is one place you can focus on creating your own change right now in your life? Who do you believe needs to hear this and would most benefit from hearing it?In this episode, you’ll learn:Change your relationship by healing yourself, not trying to fix your partner.Overgiving comes from unworthiness and leads to burnout.A regulated nervous system creates emotional safety and connection.Your partner’s emotional unavailability often mirrors your own.Boundaries require clarity, follow-through, and self-worth.Self-validation is more empowering than seeking it from others.Shifting your energy can inspire change in your partner.Healing isn’t linear, but you won’t go backward.Real power comes from meeting your own needs first.💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationshipWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.