Having a Boyfriend is "Embarassing" Now? Unpacking Partnership | with Emily Duncan and Chris Beal

In this episode, I sat down with Thais Gibson, the founder of The Personal Development School and a true pioneer in attachment healing. We broke down the science behind anxious, avoidant, fearful, and secure attachment — what each one looks like, how it's formed, and how to heal and reprogram those patterns using neuroplasticity. We talked about how your attachment style is actually your relationship to yourself first, not just how you show up in love — and how to finally meet your own needs instead of chasing people to meet them for you. This is one of those episodes you'll want to take notes on — it's loaded with practical tools, from how to stop refeeding old wounds to how to build emotional safety within your nervous system. You'll hear us dive into: What attachment theory really means and why you aren't born with a style — it's conditioned. The six pillars of Integrated Attachment Theory. How to identify and rewire your core wounds through repetition and emotion. The real difference between self-soothing and self-numbing. The unique "superpowers" of each insecure attachment style. Tangible 21-day practices to start creating security from the inside out. Take the Attachment Style Quiz Thais' Instagram   Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). LMNT is LMNT is a DELICIOUS, science-based electrolyte drink mix with everything you need and nothing you don't. No sugar. No coloring. No artificial ingredients. No gluten. No fillers. No BS. Head to drinklmnt.com/emdunc to get a FREE variety pack with your purchase! Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram

In this tandem episode, I'm unpacking a question posed by the viral Vogue article: "Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?"   We'll talk about the cultural shift that's made women feel like being in a healthy relationship somehow makes you weaker, less independent, or less "girlboss." I share how I've seen internet feminism swing too far into performative man-hating, why that still feels like centering men, and how to reclaim power, partnership, and sovereignty at the same time. I also open up about what it's looked like in my own life — from losing myself in unhealthy relationships, to re-rootingwho I am, and now finding myself in a relationship that's healthy, supportive, and expansive. This is a conversation about nuance, leadership, and emotional maturity, and about learning to build a life that's self-led and open to love if you want to pursue partnership. You'll hear: Why "decentering men" still secretly centers them How social media's "soft hate" toward partnership keeps women disconnected The difference between self-abandonment and healthy interdependence What true feminine sovereignty looks like inside a relationship How to build your identity so partnership is additive, not definitive For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram

In this solo, I dig into the real difference between looking hot and "being her": the woman whose inner world and outer world actually match.   I share why "aesthetic integrity" matters, how to spot performative confidence vs. the grounded kind, and what energetic congruence looks like in everyday choices (fitness, relationships, business, faith).   You'll hear the three pillars I use to build embodied confidence, and practical prompts you can steal this week to move from performing to becoming.   We dive into: The unpopular truth of living in a visual (and yes, aesthetic) world, and how to make that work for you (not against you). Aesthetic Integrity vs. "costumes": aligning how you present with who you really are. Energetic Congruence: why confidence = energy meeting your standards (not just your feed). Embodied Identity: acting like the woman you say you are before the world sees it. Simple prompts to collapse the gap between pretending and becoming, starting today.   If this lands, share it with a bestie and tell me one thing you're doing this week from embodied confidence, not performance.   For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram

It's been a while since we had a good, old-fashioned, heart to heart. Today I'm sitting down and sharing an unfiltered list of things I struggle with day-to-day as a high performing women who genuinely wants to do, be, and have everything she can in life. From professional struggles to questioning my own femininity amidst ever-changing cultural narratives, I hope that in me ripping the lid off my own challenges, it gives you some grace and company in your own. Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). LMNT is LMNT is a DELICIOUS, science-based electrolyte drink mix with everything you need and nothing you don't. No sugar. No coloring. No artificial ingredients. No gluten. No fillers. No BS. Head to drinklmnt.com/emdunc to get a FREE variety pack with your purchase! Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram

In this solo, I tell the real story behind my burnout and the pendulum swing that followed… girlbossing too close to the sun, soft-girling too close to the moon, and the grounded way I came back. I walk through the exact moments that broke me open (ADHD meds, record revenue paired with a personal low point, getting blindsided in business), why the spiritual detour didn't actually make my life better, and the simple, non-sexy habits that rebuilt my fire, my voice, and my results.   You'll hear about my DRC formula (Drive, Recovery, Clarity) for managing energy, how I'm integrating softness without losing ambition, and the 14-day return-to-drive protocol you can start today. If you're a high-performer who lost her spark, or you're scared success = burnout, this episode is your bridge back.   Topics: The 2022 scale-up that led to record revenue…and a deeper personal crash Why I define burnout as misallocated energy (and how to rebalance with DRC) The spiritual season I had to question, detach from, and redefine Returning to intensity through fitness and focused work Boundaries that actually protect your ambition (Slack hours, one day offline) The 14-day protocol: training, protein/fiber, sleep, focus blocks, spiritual stillness Narrowing my message to increase impact and income • • Rebuilding with A-players at work and at home   For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram

In this solo, I get real about the gap between who we say we want to be and how we're actually showing up. I walk you through my "mirror test" to evaluate your career, relationships, and self-leadership with radical honesty. We dig into what makes a woman truly promotable (before anyone gives her the title), why doing only what's in your job description won't move you up, and how to stop begging for outcomes you haven't built the habits to earn. If you're ready to become the woman you would hire, promote, date, and follow… this one will light a fire and give you a framework to act on it today. You'll learn: The exact questions I use to audit my professional standards, and why leadership begins long before the title. Why "doing your job" isn't grounds for elevation, and how initiatives and outcomes set you apart. The relationship litmus test: Would you date you? and how self-talk shapes who you attract. The mindset shift from "deserving" to earning, and why worthiness ≠ entitlement. How to visualize, then micro-act like your next-level self without burning your life down. Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). LMNT is LMNT is a DELICIOUS, science-based electrolyte drink mix with everything you need and nothing you don't. No sugar. No coloring. No artificial ingredients. No gluten. No fillers. No BS. Head to drinklmnt.com/emdunc to get a FREE variety pack with your purchase! Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram  

In this solo episode, I'm sharing the six subtle habits that I've seen across every high performer I've ever met — the people who not only rise to the top, but stay there. These aren't the big, flashy routines or five-figure mastermind secrets; they're the micro behaviors that create massive separation over time.   These are the daily moves that make you magnetic, respected, and unstoppable. I'm also breaking down how to increase your risk tolerance, why structure equals freedom, and how your energy can influence every space you walk into.   If you're serious about embodying excellence in your career, your fitness, or your relationships , this one's a masterclass in becoming the kind of person who simply wins differently.   We dig into Six subtle habits shared by the world's top performers Why "structure is freedom" and how to create it in your day The link between discomfort and growth (and how to train it) Closing the gap between idea and action, and why overthinking kills momentum The power of personal presentation and energetic influence Why risk tolerance builds self-trust, and how to cultivate it • • The difference between high performance that lasts and high performance that burns out

In this solo episode, I'm breaking down the micro shifts that have created the biggest changes in my fitness, beauty, and lifestyle over the last few years. These are the small, sustainable upgrades that make your life feel more intentional, more aligned, and more you, no massive overhaul required.   If you've been craving a reset without burning your entire life down to start over…this one's for you.   What You'll Hear in This Episode: My top "micro shifts" in fitness, health, beauty, fashion, organization, scheduling, and productivity that changed everything How a daily morning walk became my most sacred practice The shift from training fasted to fueling smarter for performance and recovery Why I'm spending more time at maintenance (and what that's done for my physique + hormones) The gut protocol that changed my digestion, skin, and energy How breathwork replaced meditation in my morning routine My favorite beauty rituals right now — from hair oiling to brow lamination and cream products My top productivity and scheduling hacks as an ADHD entrepreneur   Great news, all of these are SUPER simple and can be incorporated into any routine, any time Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month   Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out).   LMNT is LMNT is a DELICIOUS, science-based electrolyte drink mix with everything you need and nothing you don't. No sugar. No coloring. No artificial ingredients. No gluten. No fillers. No BS. Head to drinklmnt.com/emdunc to get a FREE variety pack with your purchase!   Follow me on Instagram   Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram   Shop CURED NUTRITION CBD/Hemp wellness products with code EMILY.

In today's episode of EMBody Radio, I sit down with Scarlett Leung — a powerhouse operator and entrepreneur who has scaled businesses from scratch to over $600 million in revenue. Scarlett brings a rare balance of creative vision and business logic, and in this conversation we break down the real skills and mindset shifts required to build at the highest levels. We dig into what it actually takes to grow a company beyond the startup phase, the realities of leadership, and why blending creativity with discipline is the ultimate entrepreneurial advantage. Whether you're just starting your journey or scaling past 7+ figures, this episode will light a fire under you. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Scarlett's journey from CPA to scaling businesses to $600M+ in revenue The hardest transitions in growth: why the leap from $500M to $1B is the steepest The essential business/logical skills every entrepreneur should cultivate (finance, ops, HR, ecom) Why creative intuition is equally critical, and how Scarlett balances both sides The danger of staying loyal to team members who can't scale with the business How to hire and assess talent at each stage of growth The role of grit, adaptability, and willingness to learn in long-term success Cross-functional leadership: why marketing, supply chain, and finance must all communicate Scarlett's reflections on community, connection, and creating opportunities for collaboration Why You Should Listen Think like a $600M operator — learn what separates hobbyist entrepreneurs from leaders who scale into the hundreds of millions. Spot your own ceiling — understand when you might be the bottleneck, and how to bring in the right people to take your business higher. Balance logic with creativity — discover why finance, ops, and HR matter just as much as vision, innovation, and connection. Pretty Tasty IG Scarlett's IG For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram

In this solo episode, I get real about mediocrity… why it's sneaky, why it sounds like a "reasonable compromise," and how it steals your future. I break down the Excellence Spectrum (below average → average/baseline → excellence), show you how to spot self-negotiation in real time, and give you practical tools to "negotiate up," set standards and boundaries, and run the Excellence Equation: (standards + consistency + integrity), over time. We'll rate core life areas (fitness, career/finances, relationships, spiritual health), pick one standard to raise this week, and use micro-upgrades to create macro transformation. If you're ready to stop tolerating average and become magnetic to excellence, this one's for you. Download, share, and let's raise the bar today.   For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). For the high-achieving hot girls that want to recover better, support glowier skin, and promote longevity through better cellular health, get 20% off your first order of Mitopure and make wellness easier than ever. Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram