"I NEED YOU TO NEED ME." | Ep.14

Yeah, we get it! The wilderness sucks!Every great and powerful biblical figure from Adam right through to your future self thought so. So why do we go through them? What happens to us in them? How do we win the trials and tribulations that come against us in the wilderness?If you’re feeling dry, lonely, or like you’re gonna explode with the pressure of the battles you’re facing, this episode of Disentangle may just be what you need to shift your stinking-thinking, dust yourself off, pick up your sword and charge into your promised land!You won’t get any unreal talk with us.If you need any support, remember, we are also here to help support and stand with you.Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow @xoutloudofficialDrop us a dm any time!

In this episode of Disentangle, we hear the powerful story of Wayne Blakely and his journey of leaving LGBT identity behind and discovering a new direction for his life.After 40 years living in the LGBT lifestyle, Wayne shares honestly about his past, the turning points along the way, and what it means to revisit the destiny God has for you.A story of transformation, hope, and finding freedom.🎙️ Disentangle Podcast | X-Out-Loud

What if same-sex desire is only part of a much deeper story? This episode looks beyond attraction and behaviour to explore the person behind the desire: their experiences, wounds, longings, relationships, and search for belonging

Sometimes emotional dependency isn't just “I need you.” It's “I need to know that you need me.” This episode explores the craving for reassurance, validation and significance, and how our need to feel needed can create unhealthy relational patterns.

Emotional dependency can make one relationship feel essential for survival, identity, and security. This episode explores how unhealthy attachment develops and how to build relationships rooted in freedom rather than fear.

The past can teach you, but it was never meant to imprison you. In this episode of Disentangle we explore how repeatedly revisiting old wounds can keep pain alive, and how Jesus brings healing, freedom and the power to move forward.

In this episode, we discuss one of the most difficult conversations a parent may ever face: when a son says, "I'm gay." How should parents respond in that moment? What does it look like to balance truth with love, conviction with compassion, and grace with wisdom? Join us as we explore this topic from a Christian perspective, offering biblical insight, practical guidance, and hope for families seeking to navigate this journey with faith and love.

In this episode, we walk through the New Testament texts related to homosexuality and discuss their meaning in context, with a commitment to truth, grace, and biblical integrity.

This episode looks at how we should respond to moral failures (and the accusations of moral failures) to come to a place of understanding how and why these take place. We discuss what it means to live faithfully with unresolved desires, how secrecy can develop in Christian leadership, and what healthier, more honest discipleship could look like for the church today.

In this episode of Disentangle, we discuss the recent European Commission call for EU member states to ban so-called “conversion practices” and what this could mean for biblical views on sexuality, gender, freedom of belief, prayer, pastoral care, and Christian expression across Europe.