Defining Kinks 12: What's in Your Toy Box?

Here it is, an episode I've been dying to discuss and share ... TERATOPHILIA!! Whew!  SO please tune in! Don't know what that is, well to put it lightly it's all about monster - lovin!! There are so many different definitions for what one might consider 'monsterous' and me and my AMAZING return guest, Audio O'Harlot discuss them all! I hope you will come along for this creature feature where we discuss the kink, its appeal, its non appeal, and we dish on the hottest monsters we know!!  Speaking of, My Guest!! Audi O'Harlot is a queen, as you heard and if you don't know here you need to check her out-- a couple of her links: Everything  &  Twitter ! As always, you can check out everything else I am up to in and out of the kink world just with a click -- @theRenRuthie on Twitter! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

As for the episode, we delve into ROLEPLAY ...   if you don't know what Roleplay is, then you need to really tune in -- put this on and listen as we explore the ins & outs, the sexy things that make it amazing & unsexy habits or misinformed dialogues about it that hold us back from more positive experiences! Roleplay at its very base gives you the opportunity to shed your normal self and slip into fantasy, allowing for true relaxing release & self discovery -- it can be a great resource and bridge for you and your sexual partners! This episode is 2 hours of enlightening & entertaining views surrounding the topic, accommodating for my two awesome guests! GO CHECK THEM OUT and if you are new here? There is nearly 2 dozen past episodes - go have a dig; without further ado, an introduction...  Two supportive, sweet, and sickening creatives, oh I pick the best guests!! SnakeySmut is an industry powerhouse and great friend in this world of audio drama, sexy sound scaping, and gorgeous photography! There isn't anything this woman can't do. She is an activist for self sexual discovery & kink positivity. If you aren't following this dreadfully wonderful darling PLEASE do so immediately!! Her patreon chalk full of goodies, her twitter for news, & her everywhere. And I got double the smut for you folks -- my second guest is the daring and dastardly charming, TalkingSmut. Also a great friend and innovative voice porn volumist with a penchant for theatrics that give chills, this British gent is always one to show great support & uphold pillars of sex positive dialogues. Check out exclusives on his patreon, updates on twitter, & finally his reddit! Enjoy the conversation, share it with friends to get your own going, and if you ever have suggestions for future topics or guests - reach out!  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

Well after that SPICY last episode where the amazing LittleMistressBoots discussed CNC, I figured it was time to dial it back and hit on a very necessary, and a bit gentler topic. SO please tune in! Aftercare is that not-to-be-taken-for-granted time that follows all the sexy things we might have discussed in previous episodes. What you do for aftercare, is up to you -- but as you will learn from me and my guest, it's something you should absolutely do, and why!!  Speaking of, My Guest!! Crimson_Songbird is just that, a thing of beauty, red fire, and graceful voice! -- If you don't know here, check her out here! Reddit If you have Topics, Ideas, guest suggestions/want to be a guest, or ways in which I could grow or enhance the show in some way -- reach out! As always, you can check out everything else I am up to in and out of the kink world just with a click -- @RenRuthie on Twitter! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

Here it is, one of my spiciest kink topics yet ... CNC. Unf!  SO please tune in! Today Bootsy and myself discuss what it is, the unrealized nuances that people don't consider, and how liberating this kink can be. We talk about why we find it sexy, how it has helped us with living out sexual desires we wouldn't otherwise, our bodies and primal needs that supercede our minds, and so much else! We really tried to trim it down, but this is a MEATY kink topic and I hope that you will love all of it!!  Speaking of, My Guest!! LittleMistressBoots is a rockstar, as you heard and if you don't know here you need to check her out-- a couple of her links: Everything  &  Reddit If you have Topics, Ideas, guest suggestions/want to be a guest, or ways in which I could grow or enhance the show in some way -- reach out! As always, you can check out everything else I am up to in and out of the kink world just with a click -- @RenRuthie on Twitter! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

Hello 2021 Decided to start the year off with a popular one... SUBMISSION. Unf!  SO please tune in! We talk about the definitions, the appeal from each perspective, as well as hit up favorite pet names! We also go over some quotes to get a small dialogue going on submission in terms of a gift or expectations. It's 2 hours long, a bit over the usual -- but pace yourself, you don't want to miss the discussion or the thoughts of my two guests! Speaking of, My Guests!!  SnakeySmut is listed just about everywhere, as you heard -- but a couple of her links: Twitter  &  Reddit TalkingSmut was charming as ever and he is branching out everywhere, please check him out too: Twitter & Reddit If you have Topics, Ideas, guest suggestions/want to be a guest, or ways in which I could grow or enhance the show in some way -- reach out!  As always, you can check out everything else I am up to in and out of the kink world just with a click -- @RenRuthie on Twitter!  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

In probably what might be my most 'interesting', 'blunt', or 'controversial' topic to-date, all around MAJOR comic nerd and sex positive enthusiast the Evil-Scotsman himself and I discuss anal. Our experiences with it, what we've heard, what we don't understand, and what frustrates us with the stigmas surrounding this sexual avenue as it were. Tune in and hear our thoughts, we might just change yours - for better or worse- on the subject.  If you want more of the raucous scot, check him out!  He has a Twitter or you can find some of his work via Reddit !  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

Oh come on, we've all got a toy or 2 yes? Or I mean, we should all have one with all the lock ins and stress that has been this year, am I right? Or maybe not-- but I bet you've at least considered one, or 100! In this chat, me and the sweet and eye-for-flare, SomewhatImmoral, discuss pleasure aids, toys, our shopping experiences and plans for our next buys.  You should definitely check him out -->  here on his Reddit !! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

Defining Kinks is back and I can't think of a better way to start it off than talking about bodies! Well Erogenous Zones to be exact -- Do you know your bodies peak zones? Have you ever considered you may be neglecting an area of your body on yourself or your partner that might be a very exciting one? ! Tune in to hear me and the bubbly, fun glimmerandgold -- erotic voice actress and pizza connoisseur -- as we chat about what parts of the body do it for us, and discuss erogenous zones we never even considered!  Where you can find my guest:  @glimmerandgold1 of Twitter  or  on Reddit --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

Conservative layers. Flirty sun dresses. Lingerie. Full nude. Where is the sexy for you? Come listen to my guest and myself discuss the 'sex' degrees of separation between different situations of 'dress' and how they can appeal to anyone as sexy!  I had soo much fun on this one-- Clothing in and out of the bedroom is easily a tool for exploring any amount of scenes and kinks, so we could of easily talked more in depth on it and the degrees of more or less! What do you think? How do you kink?  Check out my lovely guest, TheHuntsman1880 -- who is a foodie and all about ripping bodices and I'm a fan, check him out: His Reddit or he shares those food photos on the Twitter! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support

Just a sweet and spicy skit to warm you up for the discussion in my next episode -- 'Clothing Optional' .. where we talk about everything from natural and nude sex, all the way to high costume play!  Check out my sweet voice talent while you're at it:  Wife: https://www.reddit.com/user/midnightlemons/ Husband: https://www.reddit.com/user/TheHuntsman1880/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/definingkinks/support