Why Being Popular Is Easier Than You Think

The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:https://bit.ly/003-26Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.0:00 - Intro1:11 - Find out what people respond to1:58 - Join the chaos3:37 - Make the agreement explicit6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it8:12 - Take them somewhere new11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Visko MatichEdited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on CommandSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3zIG9glSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeDavid Dobrik is a popular guy, not only with his massive audience, but also with very different types of friends including his vlog squad buddies, Jason Nash who is 20 years older and the one and only John Stamos.In this video we’ll dive into how you can be insanely popular without being an inauthentic try hard. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:21 - #1: David Dobrik makes you laugh.3:55 - #2: He uses a lot of high impact words.7:32 - #3: He's very comfortable with self-deprecating humor.8:58 - #4: He puts the spotlight on other people.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#DavidDobrik #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-FriendshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem.Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are.So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People0:42 - Proximity1:06 - Join A Flock1:41 - Become A Beacon2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends2:40 - Focus On The Process3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class4:36 - A Shared North Star6:04 - Being A Lifeline7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades9:37 - Constructive Conflict11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change15:02 - Do you want great new friendships?How To Be Happier For The Rest Of Your Life:https://youtu.be/VTOO_9_ECA8?si=U_G6rMULINOQcEd_How To Make A Great Impression:https://youtu.be/NzVrmGjsGWo?si=qCLL0JRa4gT_MMjb https://youtu.be/zDEfjg6ylFA?si=-y5NNf_CskVrS4ZCConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Try AudiblePlus for just $4.95/month for your first 6 months! http://audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIt seems to be harder than ever to get through to people logically.In fact, some of the smartest people have the most sophisticated psychological booby traps when it comes to heated subjects. So in this video, we're going to break down why sometimes people won’t listen to reason even when they’re smart, and what techniques you can use to finally get through to someone who can’t listen to reason.Our video on Steven Crowder:https://youtu.be/IGACRHlzwx8Our video on Trevor Noahhttps://youtu.be/lgXqaS08ZqM⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.2:12 - #1: Being stunned by new information.3:01 - #2: Inaccurately summarizing the other's perspective.4:01 - #3: Misreading nefarious intent.4:41 - #4: Regularly moving goalposts.5:35 - #5: Yelling or getting angry.6:12 - #6: Attacking someone's character.6:34 - #7: Retreating Without Concession8:05 - 3 Key Mindsets To Change Their Mind9:05 - The Most Dangerous Cognitive DissonanceConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why Mark Zuckerberg Seems EvilDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2H6fGAgWe're hiring! Find out more about the position: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/brilliant-operations-digital-marketing-manager/Mark Zuckerberg is having a rough time. Not only does he have to deal with congressional hearings but it seems like a good portion of the internet hates him or at least doubts his humanity and it isn't because of the Cambridge Analytica scandal; it's because of the way that he presents himself. So in this video, I'm going to show you the kind of sad reason why some people are just harder to trust than others and it's easier to write them off as potentially evil and it's why negative reputation is just seem to stick to them no matter what they do. I'm also gonna help you find out if you are losing trust without even realizing it plus teach you what to do to get it back. So first off, as a principal, we humans like and trust people who show us that they have nothing to hide. And this isn't just metaphorical. Seeing the inside of someone's hand — seeing their palms tends to put people at ease. The handshake actually originated as a way to show that neither person was carrying a weapon. But Zuckerberg almost never shows us his palms when he speaks which winds up feeling unsettling. First, let me say this — I care deeply about the democratic process and protecting its integrity. Facebook's mission is all about giving people a voice and bringing people closer together.0:33 We trust people who show that they have nothing to hide 1:09 Your smile is key to improve your charisma2:42 Congruence is another key that Mark Zuckerberg lacksConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-00325Malcolm Gladwell’s debate missteps offer valuable lessons in handling arguments and conflict. This video breaks down key mistakes like passive aggression, straw-manning, and defensiveness—and shows you how to avoid them while staying calm and persuasive.Learn how to respond when others twist your words or act rude, and recognize when you’re shutting down so you can stay in control and confident in any situation.0:00 - Intro0:46 - #1: Covert Sniping2:30 - How To Reverse Rudeness 3:03 - #2: Straw-Manning5:34 - Refuse Burdens6:17 - Use The "That's Exactly Why" Response6:40 - Can you pass this test?8:14 - #4: Projecting Bad Faith9:33 - How To Avoid This In Your Own Life10:42 - Notice When You Lose Your Capacity To Listen12:16 - Want To Build That Unshakable Confidence?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandWritten by:Charlie HoupertVideo editing by:Io AnastasakiAndre RingkjøbChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3FL8h6uSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we are reacting to cringe, and we will try to find out how you can save an awkward situation and turn it into a fun interaction! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:54 - #1: Crack an understated joke.2:01 - #2: Lower the filter.4:16 - #3: Acknowledge the situation.4:52 - #4: See yourself out and never come back.8:01 - #5: Go first.Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University today: https://bit.ly/016-25Give me seven minutes and I will teach you five psychological tricks that you can use to command respect instantly.🕒Timestamps🕒0:00 – Intro0:24 – Fill Your Calendar1:18 – Move Like a Predator2:34 - The Friendly Extension3:51 – Remove filler words5:00 – Embrace SilenceSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BEST FRIEND BRAINDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EaYfJoSo this is going to be one of those times where I share something I am just getting started on. In fact, I stumbled across this idea this week.I was reading this book recommended by a friend and one of the lines stuck out to me, it was “I’m trying to be a best friend to myself”And I thought hmmmm - so many of the times when i have been upset in my life come from times when I’ve not been a best friend to myself. I want to invite you to spend one week changing your thinking to be more of a best friend towards yourself. I'll be trying the same thing :-)2:49 Feel isolated mentally3:56 Your best friend brain is solution-oriented5:13 Best friend brain has high standards and gives you tough love 6:03 Your best friend brain is flattering Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices