Trying to Get Respect Doesn’t Work, This Does

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3aaGRFaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeJamie Foxx is insanely charismatic. Some people mistakenly think that he's just an over the top comedian. While Jamie sometimes uses physical comedy, he's a magnetic storyteller and an amazing conversationalist. He can even lead a conversation just by listening and asking the right questions.Today we're going to break down a few of Jamie's habits, and how you can use these habits to become funnier, more magnetic, and a more likeable listener.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start.2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat.4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices.6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause.7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JamieFoxx #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is contains the most important thing I have learned in the last year. https://goo.gl/QL2tCL For some of you, I’m sure it will be the most important video I have ever done. In order to do it justice I need to tell you some personal stuff about what has been going on in my life.It occurred as much of life biggest learnings do, when things went wrong. Specifically, I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half. We loved each other and still do, but we had very very different ideas of how we wanted to live our liveAt first, I felt like a zombie. And then I felt sad. And then I bawled my eyes out.I started looking for ways to feel better after the breakup with my girlfriend and I came across something I hadn't expected: love and self-love. In short, this video is about self love, what it is, and why you need to work on it. Here are the three actions steps as discussed in the video1. Interrupt the negative pattern with eye scrambling2. Feed yourself self love3. Extend that love to the person you least want to extend it toSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupertSnapchat: @charliehoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Stop ProcrastinationWhat do you want to do that you keep procrastinating?https://goo.gl/X1QoIAMaybe you’re even putting it off right now by watching this video. Keep it in mind, because by the end of this video - my goal is to get you doing that thing.Because if you’re like me, you’ve found it comparatively hard to hit the gym, write a thesis, make a sales call, and most recently making these YouTube videos. And comparatively easy to playing video games, browsing reddit, and watching old episodes of Supernanny.But if you understand why procrastination happens, you’ll realize there are three levers you can use to trick yourself and train your brain to stop procrastinating. So let’s do it.0:26 Three psychological triggers for procrastination0:35 Lack of clarity is the first trigger for procrastination, overcome by setting daily deadlines1:48 Overwhelm is the second trigger for procrastination, overcome by creating Tiny Habits2:58 Delayed gratification is the third trigger for procrastination, overcome by rewarding yourself immediately after the fact4:14 An extra procrastination tip to make everything work betterSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thanks to GoDaddy for sponsoring this video. For more information on how to create a website in under an hour, click here: http://go2l.ink/CoCSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe https://goo.gl/8UoLyKAlso if you are specifically interested in starting a YouTube channel, check out our friend Sean and Benji with their video “How to Start a YouTube Channel — 7 Tips for Beginners”. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ya6zybrxczE- - - - -Today’s video is going to be a little bit different then what we normally do, but at the end of the day Charisma On Command is here to make your life better, and that can mean happier, more successful, or better at creating and maintaining different types of relationships.For me, one of the best things I ever did was start an online business. It has been super fulfilling and has made me really happy. THAT is what I want to do for you as well.So whether you work at a job you don’t like, or have always wanted to start your own thing, or just want to make extra money on the side, this video is going to help you to do that. We'll show you how to come up with a great business idea, how to test your business idea so that you know it will make money, and how to grow your online business once it's up and running :-)1:26 How To Come Up With A Great Business Idea3:48 How To Validate Your Business Idea So That You KNOW It Is Going To Work (Before You Invest A Lot Of Time And Money Into The Business)5:55 How To Scale Your Business By Going To Where People Already AreConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Subscribe To Our Russian Channel: http://bit.ly/2fjsTGXSubscribe To Our Spanish Channel: http://bit.ly/2fIzB6jSubscribe To Our Portuguese Channel: http://bit.ly/2fX6yAUInterested in managing a foreign language channel? Email me at charlie@charismaoncommand with1) The subject line in this layout, with the language first and "language channel" after (ex: German Language Channel)2) **A sample of you dubbing any of our videos** - I did not mention this in the video, but I realize it's necessary to find people with both the drive and the equipment to do this. One minute is enough.Just a note, not everyone who applies can manage a channel :-)Interested in animating for us? Email me at charlie@charismaoncommand with:1) The subject line "Animator" (no quotes, just the word)2) A sample of you animating 1 minute of any of our videos so that I can see your style. 3) The rate you would charge and your estimate for the cost of animating a 10 minute videoHere are a few samples of animations that I think do an excellent job of enhancing the audio. Obviously the styles are very different. The most important thing is that the visuals aid in watchability.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ig_qpNfXHIUhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbaRgEnF3Sghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZsaaturR6EThanks! I'm really excited about this!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way to level up your confidence and charisma: http://bit.ly/3J5ixuiWhen it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators. 0:00 - Intro0:11 - Reveal your vitals2:01 - Verbally own your experience 3:01 - Develop strong eye contact 4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3FKiCjgSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeNot feeling attractive enough can be a source of insecurity.  But luckily being attractive is less dependent on genetics than many people think.So in this video we’re not going to touch on things outside of your control.  Although genes do have an impact, you can make yourself more attractive with the way you dress, your attitude, and your actions. And for fun since season 5 of Lucifer comes out this week, we’ll use his character to show these attractive habits.  That said, we’re only going to include what will actually make you more attractive in real life, leaving out any scenes where his devil powers magically make women want him.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:48 - #1: Lucifer has great style.2:06 - #2: Flirting is about having fun.4:46 - #3: Lucifer has an unshakeable confidence.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#Lucifer #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build real confidence and strong social skills:https://bit.ly/005-26Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire.In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect.0:00 - Intro0:20 - The 3 respect killing moves0:40 - Respect killer #11:22 - The body language that earns respect2:07 - Why fake confidence backfires2:51 - Respect killer #23:40 - How Tommy Shelby stays calm4:01 - The 3 to 5 second pause5:03 - The Joffrey Rule5:51 - Respect Killer #36:51 - How to handle underhanded comments7:31 - When to walk away8:30 - The deeper reason people lose respect9:41 - How to build self-respect11:17 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: [http://www.charismaoncommand.com](http://www.charismaoncommand.com)Facebook: [http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand](http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand)Instagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Joe CordleEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: https://goo.gl/2pFTj7How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way)This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh. You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing. You don't funny or complicated jokes. In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating. But hey, it works. Even Ellen can't contain her laughter.So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you. You're more likely to make a friend. So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke. It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling! (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Upgrade Your Social Skills With Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Check out my favorite books: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/best-personal-development-books/Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeHow To Make Yourself Immune To Social Pressure https://goo.gl/yTfcKJ We have another video up that touches on how to deal with social pressure and will help with the improvement of your social skills. One of the unfortunate things about living in the world is that when you have goals, there will be obstacles and those obstacles can often come in the form of other human beings — the doubters, the haters, and sometimes the friends and the family that just don't want you to get hurt or don't want you to change which is why in this video, I want to help immunize you against that peer and social pressure.The holidays are coming up so you’re going to get a healthy dose of social pressure when you go home (about your job, your dating status, whatever), so I want to help you to handle it, especially when that social pressure and doubt is coming from people you love. 0:55 Write down your values 2:30 Build a core group of positive influences4:56 Find a way to build conviction in yourselfConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices