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Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3U3o8SkSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeI saw this video on YouTube called "The Speech That Made Barack Obama President", so I want to dig in and find out exactly what it was that made this speech so powerful, and what lessons you can learn from it and bring into your own life.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 : Intro.0:25 - #1: Use pauses.0:54 - #2: Use the 3 second rule of eye contact.1:43 - #3: Show your palms.2:06 - #4: React to the audience.3:23 - #5: Know your audience.3:49 - #6: Create mystery.4:50 - #7: Be specific.6:10 - #8: Tell stories.9:10 - #9: Have a common enemy.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BarackObama #ElonMusk #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Trump v Clinton - Who REALLY won the debate?Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2BQv80iThe first Presidential debate is over and everybody is weighing in on who won. Was it Donald Trump? Or Hillary Clinton? But I have a different question:How did each candidate perform during the debate from a charisma perspective?This is critically important. When people don’t know who to trust, we oftentimes just choose the person they “have a better feeling about”. You might not like it, but it’s the truth of how we work. So if you want to know how undecided voters will vote in the 2016 presidential election - you can’t ignore the charisma angle.Link to How to Memorize a Speech - with No Notes video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gaoxXFju6uoLink to Genuine Smile video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxzR4n0OHHkSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2Bimt5J4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your CharismaI often get asked what things people can do on a day to day basis to improve their charisma. There isn't a gym or dojo that you can go to to work on your charisma and confidence. But there are ways for people to take certain types of classes that will indirectly boost their confidence and increase their charisma.The four things that I have see had the most impact on my confidence and charisma were 1. Improv comedy 2. Toastmasters3. Martial Arts4. Mini experiments in normal social environments.Taken together, those four activities account for almost all of the real world practice I was able to get in developing my self-confidence and charisma. So if you're interested in signing up for something that is likely to have a huge positive effect on your charisma, start with this list.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Emotional Mastery with the launch discount here: https://emotionalmaster.samcart.com/products/emotional-mastery-1/Video on motivation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bz0dNt6GpRQSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe Most Powerful Psychological Force In Game Of ThronesWhat would be the most powerful psychological force in Game of Thrones? In this video I want to talk about why his identity as Stark or Greyjoy is so psychologically important for Theon. We’ll discuss how a sense of identity helps Theon recover from his devastation at the hands of Ramsay after he becomes Reek and how we can all think about our own identities so that they serve us in the best and worst times in our lives.First off, in the context of Game of Thrones being a Stark and being a Greyjoy mean two very different things. Starks are honor bound to a fault, morose, and completely without guile. Greyjoys are pillagers who take advantage of the weak, enjoy the hedonistic pleasures in life, and are constantly looking to improve their position. Theons choice to identify as a Greyjoy over a stark changes the entire course of the story. 6:43 Names matter as shown before Game of Thrones season 88:32 Environment and peers affect Theon in HBO Game of Thrones9:36 Habitual environment trumps labels like with ReekConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-DraperThis Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl80:00 - Intro0:14 - The situation1:00 - Where Don shines2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution6:36 - The best way I know to work on thisSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by CharlieEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Debate Analysis on Trump and Hillary Third Presidential DebateDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2nMoIXlThe second and third presidential debates between Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton are in the books and everyone is talking about who won but today, we're not talking about policies or strength of argument. I want to analyze who won strictly from a charisma angle so let's get into it. The first thing to note is that previous presidential debates, especially the primaries, were defined by zingers and there were a handful mostly from Trump. There was a different vibe in this debate though since the audience couldn't laugh out loud at Hillary and there were longer uninterrupted stretches to answer questions. Instead of punchy one-liners, these debates came down to two main principles. This is an analysis on the final debate and the election is getting near the end!0:57 Credibility -- being an authority on the issues (Hillary won)1:08 Use of specific numbers to build authority (tie between Trump and Hillary)2:13 Specificity does not equal truth 2:29 Comfort in answering difficult questions (I'd say Clinton won, though Trump had a rougher go from the moderators)6:25 Conviction and congruency being major contributors to charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join our 5000+ members over at Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3UpWEG9Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe have all had moments in our lives where we were more awkward than we would like to be, and we have all had moments where we surprised ourselves with how charming, charismatic and confident we can be. The questions is: how do we go from one to the other on command? I think that Elon Musk is a great example of someone that represents the best of both worlds. That's why in this video, I want to dive into some clips of Elon to see what you can learn, and how to turn those moments where you are awkward and turn them into ones where you are charming and charismatic.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.1:58 - #1: Elaborate on the question2:33 - #2: Make consistent eye contact.3:47 - #3: Crack an understated joke.5:06 - #4: Embrace the silence.6:08 - #5: Prime yourself.7:22 - #6: Fully commit.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#ElonMusk #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Littlefinger Controls The Game of Throneshttps://goo.gl/uNmVQHSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2FGX6ujLittlefinger Is probably the single best player in the Game of Thrones. He’s indirectly led to the downfall of at least 3 major houses and has advanced his station at every opportunity. In this video we’re going to do an analysis on what it is that he does that makes him win and how deviating from his strategy may lead him to the end of his winning streak.2 caveats. First spoilers through season 6 and some speculation into season 7. And two, don’t do the things little finger does. It’s fun to analyze Littlefinger manipulations and learn how you can avoid them in your own life - Sansa Stark would benefit for certain - just don’t be a liar and backstabber. It’s not cool.Let’s begin - Game of Thrones is all about power. Some people, like Cersei, use their position to command others. Or people like the Mountain who literally just dominate through brute force. But in the long run, it’s those who wield power more subtly who excel at the game. And perhaps no one is more subtle the Petyr Baelish. He is the ultimate power player in the game because he gets other people to do what he wants, without them even knowing he’s influenced them 01:10 Littlefinger got the power subtly and not by force in Game of Thrones07:53 Cersei Lannister is opposite of Petyr Baelish in terms of subtlety08:14 Petyr Baelish in HBO Game of Thrones lets other think they control him09:46 Marriage scene with Tyrion Lannister13:15 Littlefinger talks to Sophie Turner as Sansa StarkConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-MikeThere are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference.0:00 - Intro2:05 - Be Explicit3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why3:56 - Don't Take Full ResponsibilitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Edited by Akash RajpurohitWritten by Charlie HoupertDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As requested! A breakdown analyzing Loki's charm and appeal :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe Marvel Cinematic Universe is pretty much the only thing guaranteed to get me to the movie theater on opening night. I am literally counting down to Thor: Ragnarok! But even though the Marvel movies are amazing, there is popular criticism that their villains are kind of weak. And yet, from Thor to Avengers to Thor The Dark World, Loki is the one villain that everybody seems to adore and root for. While most Marvel villains get killed off or captured after just one film, Loki has now played a major role in 4 films. Loki won MTV's sexiest Avenger. There’s even been petitions for Tom Hiddleston to star in a Loki standalone movie. I believe there are four major reasons why Loki has literally gotten away with murder and become one of the biggest fan favorites in the Marvel universe.And understanding these four things will help so you too can get away with making mistakes or screwing up, without it being something people hold against you. 0:55 Loki is the best villain as he is charming3:38 We understand and relate to Loki 7:32 He is a tortured soul as shown in these Loki best scenes9:50 You can't keep Loki down being the brother of ThorConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices