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Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3v7qh3VSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes we know for sure we’ve done something to make people dislike us. But other times it’s less obvious and the slap isn’t the only thing that is causing Will to receive such backlash - there were several more common mistakes that turned people against him. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 3 of the more subtle things Will did so you can avoid these mistakes in your own life. We will also get into the real reason why Will Smith hit Chris Rock, something I have not seen anyone else talk about yet.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:24 - Mistake #1: Triangulating yourself into your significant other's relationships1:40 - Mistake #2: Dodging ownership of bad behavior3:12 - Mistake #3: Carrying emotional baggage to your interactions--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#WillSmith #Oscars2022 #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3U3skkJSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn this video we’ll go through 4 habits you can steal from Chris Evans that will help you to be charming in any conversation.  And because Chris’s charisma is so nice, we’ll also go over a few nuances around flirting so you can create attraction as more than just a friend.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile.2:21 - #2: Own the space around you.5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method.7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#ChrisEvans #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James Corden - How To Be Nice Without Being A PushoverDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EdT6QsPush Pull In Flirting: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8kSelf Deprecating Humor: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07cE9uFJ-SqUHQvmuNbhdRmzJames Corden has the fastest growing Late Night channel on YouTube thanks mostly to the massive success he has had with Carpool Karaoke on the Late Late Show.And while it is certainly fun to watch your favorite singers rock out to their most popular songs, a big contributor to the success of those videos is the dynamic James is able to create in such a short time. He’s able to get people to open up and really enjoy themselves. And if you watch closely, there is a moment where these stars who were previously bored or skeptical, seem to really begin to like James Corden. James Corden’s magnetism comes from the fact that he is able to make people feel good, without losing their respect. That is what we are going to learn how to do in this video. 01:44 Make your compliments more specific and direct02:06 Push-pull compliment to avoid the vibe of butt-kissing02:54 If tension arises when complimenting, follow up with a joke06:01 For certain groups, don't get walked over by dishing it back out07:55 Set boundaries at times too like what James Corden did hereSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjERussell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thanks to our sponsor Dollar Shave Club! http://www.dollarshaveclub.com/charismaNew members get their 1st month of the ‘Sh*t, Shower, Shave’ Starter Set including the Executive Razor and trial-sized versions of their Shave Butter, Body Cleanser and One Wipe Charlies’ Buttock Wipes for ONLY $5 (and free shipping). After that razors are just a few bucks a month. Exclusively at: http://www.dollarshaveclub.com/charismaGraham Norton has what many people would consider their ideal charisma - for two reasons. One, Graham Norton doesn’t need to hog the spotlight in order to shine. And two, Graham Norton seems to have the ability to make ANYONE like him. From rockstars to movie stars to professional athletes, people from all walks of life seem to love being around him.So today we’re going to talk about a 4 step formula that Graham Norton uses to make people love him even while he teases them, and how you can use it to make yourself both funnier and more well liked.0:34 Graham Norton creates a warm and positive connection1:26 Graham Norton compliments especially on Graham Norton Show2:55 How to be funnier and how to make people like you5:33 How to use banter and teasing to get everyone on the same level9:00 Graham Norton does the art of self deprecationSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @IamBenAltmanInstagram: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University:https://bit.ly/026-25There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust.0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Context0:41 - His voice is constricted1:47 - What you should do instead 2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted 4:35 - Want more tips like this?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 12,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/38kih8eSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeNarcissists don’t behave like most people. They take advantage of the social rules we expect people to follow and their manipulations are shockingly effective if you’re unprepared. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 tells that you’re dealing with a narcissist, one who is lying in an attempt to gaslight you. That way you’ll be more able to catch them and defend yourself. We’ll be using Jussie Smollett as our example. For those of you who missed out, in 2019 he claimed to have been a victim of a hate crime. But his story quickly fell apart in ways that are instructive for catching narcissistic liars in your own life.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:30 - Sign #1: Details that only serve to establish a desirable persona1:47 - Sign #2: Other people's motivations relate back to them3:23 - Sign #3: Making skepticism evidence of a character flaw in the disbeliever 5:06 - Sign #4: In the face of overwhelming evidence, they tend to dig in deeper5:52 - Sign #5: A cost/benefit analysis of a narcissist's lies will probably make no sense to you6:44 - Bonus Sign: Narcissists tend to be perpetually unhappy due to their image focused nature--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#Narcissists #JussieSmollett #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join our 5000+ members at Charisma University today:https://bit.ly/3rDv37V6 Psychological Tricks To Command Respect Instantly:https://youtu.be/RgkghUvC6PASubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all had a friend say something we don’t like.  Whether it’s a passive aggressive comment or a playful insult that goes too far, it can be tough to know how to respond.So in this video we’re going to cover three ways to handle it when a friend crosses the line and you want to stand up for yourself without starting a fight.We’ll start by breaking down a few examples with Jonah Hill.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:27 - #1: Fire back an insult yourself.1:45 - #2: Draw a boundary.5:00 - #3: Turn it into friendly banter.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/3VpDBhPSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive.We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation1:59 - #2: Assume good intent3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JackHarlow #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-005-25Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free.0:00 - Intro0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending1:00 - The context3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame6:20 - It can get worse...7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo Editing:SkyeAndre RingkjoebHenry Houpert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices